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essentialone:
Bro, once you ask a w00man out and she rejects you, the next thing that will happen is that she will lose her respect for you. This happened for most w00men.

The moment a w00man rejects you, she starts seeing herself as your equal or as superior.

Understand that w00men boost their ego through rejection.
The most f00lish thing you can ever do in that situation is to keep begging her, f0rcing her or trying so hard to convince her so she can accept you.

There is something you need to know about female attraction.

The moment a w00man say NO to you, know that she means it and there is nothing you can do to change her mind for the real w00men.

But if you go ahead and start seeking for validation, sending data, airtime and gifts to win her over — most of them will pretend to love you because of the benefits and that's all fake.

If a w00man does not see you worthy of a relationship, she will never accept you. In this situation — don't go ahead trying to prove yourself.

Talk to the next w00man — she's not special.

If and only if she will accept you is base on the two conditions:👇

If she can not find another man:
That point where she has being piped, used and dumped by the men she want who doesn't want her and then due to the lack of men and age passing her, she will fall back to you as her available option.

Next one is — She will accept you out of pity : this is the worst position a man can ever be, the truth is any w00man who accept you out of pity will always have a void in her heart painting to be filled by the man she genuinely loves.
She accepted you out of pity base on what you have spent and invested.

And it's the truth she will always be in a look for better man.

So when you ask a w00man out and she declines, walk away and never look back. Talk to the next w00man. Don't walk out of anger or pain but walk out of self respect and value.

The moment you do that, she will by herself respect you more, she will even feel you did her a favour for asking her out. Out of fear she'll be thinking if she didn't make a mistake by rejecting you
She will be monitoring your progress to know if she actually made a wrong decision by rejecting you. She will be comparing you with the man she accepted.
That is why you have to focus on your grind and become better person.

But if you keep trying hard to get her, you just avail yourself for more disrespect.
Must of them will take advantage of that and accept you knowing you can provide their needs.
But believe me bro — she will pun!sh you financially, and still cheat on you with the man she's into.

So bro, if she said no to you or you discovered she's not into you, next her — she's not special.

Control your emotions bro.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.f

Fiscus105:
I have married for decade and still counting, not only that, I have taught thousands of people (single, married and even mother/father in law's) about marriage institution.

I repeat, if you ask a woman out ONCE and she jump to you to take her to registry, I give you five years maximum to see the outcome.

Every decent and virtue lady, will first reluctant/ turning you down to watch your seriousness, if indeed you worth it, but if you are looking for immediately-immediately, sorry is your name, perhaps, you are reason like people here on nairaland who are most teens or even frustrated grown up men.

essentialone:
Bro, once you ask a w00man out and she rejects you, the next thing that will happen is that she will lose her respect for you. This happened for most w00men.

The moment a w00man rejects you, she starts seeing herself as your equal or as superior.

Understand that w00men boost their ego through rejection.
The most f00lish thing you can ever do in that situation is to keep begging her, f0rcing her or trying so hard to convince her so she can accept you.

There is something you need to know about female attraction.

The moment a w00man say NO to you, know that she means it and there is nothing you can do to change her mind for the real w00men.

But if you go ahead and start seeking for validation, sending data, airtime and gifts to win her over — most of them will pretend to love you because of the benefits and that's all fake.

If a w00man does not see you worthy of a relationship, she will never accept you. In this situation — don't go ahead trying to prove yourself.

Talk to the next w00man — she's not special.

If and only if she will accept you is base on the two conditions:👇

If she can not find another man:
That point where she has being piped, used and dumped by the men she want who doesn't want her and then due to the lack of men and age passing her, she will fall back to you as her available option.

Next one is — She will accept you out of pity : this is the worst position a man can ever be, the truth is any w00man who accept you out of pity will always have a void in her heart painting to be filled by the man she genuinely loves.
She accepted you out of pity base on what you have spent and invested.

And it's the truth she will always be in a look for better man.

So when you ask a w00man out and she declines, walk away and never look back. Talk to the next w00man. Don't walk out of anger or pain but walk out of self respect and value.

The moment you do that, she will by herself respect you more, she will even feel you did her a favour for asking her out. Out of fear she'll be thinking if she didn't make a mistake by rejecting you
She will be monitoring your progress to know if she actually made a wrong decision by rejecting you. She will be comparing you with the man she accepted.
That is why you have to focus on your grind and become better person.

But if you keep trying hard to get her, you just avail yourself for more disrespect.
Must of them will take advantage of that and accept you knowing you can provide their needs.
But believe me bro — she will pun!sh you financially, and still cheat on you with the man she's into.

So bro, if she said no to you or you discovered she's not into you, next her — she's not special.

Control your emotions bro.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.f

franchasofficia:
Who is talking about asking a woman out for marriage? That's a different topic. It's from clap dance de take start na



The op is talking about asking a girl out for dating or relationship not marriage. Who wakes up to ask a lady he doesn't know and not dating to marry him?

IyaTola:
I get where this is coming from — rejection stings, and it’s easy to build a whole theory around it. But a lot of what you wrote turns normal human behavior into something one-sided and cynical, and that’ll hurt you more than help you.

First, rejection doesn’t automatically mean “she lost respect for you.” In many cases, it’s the opposite. If you ask someone out directly and handle a “no” calmly, that usually signals confidence and self-respect. What does reduce respect is begging, pressuring, or trying to “buy” affection — not because she’s a woman, but because that behavior shows insecurity.

Also, the idea that women only say yes if they “can’t find someone better” or out of pity is just not grounded in reality. People (men and women) choose partners for all kinds of reasons — attraction, compatibility, timing, shared values, emotional connection. Reducing it to ego games and “fallback options” oversimplifies human relationships and can make you approach dating with distrust from the start.

You’re right about a few important things though:

If someone says no, take it seriously.

Don’t try to force or negotiate attraction.

Keep your dignity and move on.


That part is solid.

But here’s the healthier way to frame it: Rejection isn’t a power move or an ego boost — it’s just a mismatch. Not everyone will be into you, just like you’re not into everyone. It doesn’t make you less valuable, and it doesn’t make them manipulative.

And moving on shouldn’t be about “she’s not special” — it’s better to think: “we’re not a fit.” That keeps you grounded without turning bitter.

If you go into dating believing most women are out to use or disrespect you, you’ll either push good people away or attract the exact situations you’re trying to avoid.

Focus on:
-Being someone you respect
-Choosing people who show genuine interest
-Walking away when it’s not mutual

That’s not about “winning” or proving anything — it’s just how healthy relationships actually work.

ojuu4u:
I guess the way you asked ladies out for marriage is different from how u ask her for relationship? Is it not gf that become wife? No wonder many of you ended up with wrong woman. You want to date and not married, before you know she becomes wife and marital problems start.

Even for relationship, if indeed you truly loves a girl, you will still go for her 2nd or 3rd term.

If you instant yes, you go for OS or brothels that full everywhere.

Fiscus105:
THE MOMENT WOMAN SAYS NO TO YOU THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO CHANGE HER? I laugh in Op's dialect.

Your persistence will pave way for you one day, so, you expect to woo a girl and the second moment, she opens pant for you and you don't know you are dealing with confirm OS, but calling it maturity? What an irrational way of reasoning! More reasons many of you married woman that hasn't fallen for you.
You ask a woman out once and the next week, you walk her down the isle. You think the woman has fallen for you? I doubt. She only falls for your money or time is running out on her biological time.
In such marriage, thre is tendency it ends in toxic if not separation. Churchill and Meurer as case study.

In as much I don't advocate for man to turn to mumu because he wants to date/marry, turning away after a woman say no for once is not the way to woman's heart. Except if you want to wife everybody property

walozanga:
Ask yourself
1) Some women might love u but decide to play hard to get a lil.

2) if a woman really mean she doesn't want it is not always about dislike, she might have something very serious going on in her life

3) you wey them reject are you serious abi u wan knack and count census

4) Nobe everybody go like you

5) consider levels

6) are you the chochocho niggarz

Finally if you are rejected, be matured and move on still carry yours as a real man because if you are well to do and responsible some of them will still regret saying no especially when what they have or what they are into goes total wrong and your a still doing your thing.

Israel5:
I can't relate. I have never been rejected, instead I reject. I have rejected woomen and men before...

essentialone:
What do you do as a Guy, when she says No?

Bendeco02:
Well spoken

Just that some men don't understand women.

Begging a woman for love will make you lose more value in her eyes.

essentialone:
Bro, once you ask a w00man out and she rejects you, the next thing that will happen is that she will lose her respect for you. This happened for most w00men.

The moment a w00man rejects you, she starts seeing herself as your equal or as superior.

Understand that w00men boost their ego through rejection.
The most f00lish thing you can ever do in that situation is to keep begging her, f0rcing her or trying so hard to convince her so she can accept you.

There is something you need to know about female attraction.

The moment a w00man say NO to you, know that she means it and there is nothing you can do to change her mind for the real w00men.

But if you go ahead and start seeking for validation, sending data, airtime and gifts to win her over — most of them will pretend to love you because of the benefits and that's all fake.

If a w00man does not see you worthy of a relationship, she will never accept you. In this situation — don't go ahead trying to prove yourself.

Talk to the next w00man — she's not special.

If and only if she will accept you is base on the two conditions:👇

If she can not find another man:
That point where she has being piped, used and dumped by the men she want who doesn't want her and then due to the lack of men and age passing her, she will fall back to you as her available option.

Next one is — She will accept you out of pity : this is the worst position a man can ever be, the truth is any w00man who accept you out of pity will always have a void in her heart painting to be filled by the man she genuinely loves.
She accepted you out of pity base on what you have spent and invested.

And it's the truth she will always be in a look for better man.

So when you ask a w00man out and she declines, walk away and never look back. Talk to the next w00man. Don't walk out of anger or pain but walk out of self respect and value.

The moment you do that, she will by herself respect you more, she will even feel you did her a favour for asking her out. Out of fear she'll be thinking if she didn't make a mistake by rejecting you
She will be monitoring your progress to know if she actually made a wrong decision by rejecting you. She will be comparing you with the man she accepted.
That is why you have to focus on your grind and become better person.

But if you keep trying hard to get her, you just avail yourself for more disrespect.
Must of them will take advantage of that and accept you knowing you can provide their needs.
But believe me bro — she will pun!sh you financially, and still cheat on you with the man she's into.

So bro, if she said no to you or you discovered she's not into you, next her — she's not special.

Control your emotions bro.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.f

essentialone:
Bro, once you ask a w00man out and she rejects you, the next thing that will happen is that she will lose her respect for you. This happened for most w00men.

The moment a w00man rejects you, she starts seeing herself as your equal or as superior.

Understand that w00men boost their ego through rejection.
The most f00lish thing you can ever do in that situation is to keep begging her, f0rcing her or trying so hard to convince her so she can accept you.

There is something you need to know about female attraction.

The moment a w00man say NO to you, know that she means it and there is nothing you can do to change her mind for the real w00men.

But if you go ahead and start seeking for validation, sending data, airtime and gifts to win her over — most of them will pretend to love you because of the benefits and that's all fake.

If a w00man does not see you worthy of a relationship, she will never accept you. In this situation — don't go ahead trying to prove yourself.

Talk to the next w00man — she's not special.

If and only if she will accept you is base on the two conditions:👇

If she can not find another man:
That point where she has being piped, used and dumped by the men she want who doesn't want her and then due to the lack of men and age passing her, she will fall back to you as her available option.

Next one is — She will accept you out of pity : this is the worst position a man can ever be, the truth is any w00man who accept you out of pity will always have a void in her heart painting to be filled by the man she genuinely loves.
She accepted you out of pity base on what you have spent and invested.

And it's the truth she will always be in a look for better man.

So when you ask a w00man out and she declines, walk away and never look back. Talk to the next w00man. Don't walk out of anger or pain but walk out of self respect and value.

The moment you do that, she will by herself respect you more, she will even feel you did her a favour for asking her out. Out of fear she'll be thinking if she didn't make a mistake by rejecting you
She will be monitoring your progress to know if she actually made a wrong decision by rejecting you. She will be comparing you with the man she accepted.
That is why you have to focus on your grind and become better person.

But if you keep trying hard to get her, you just avail yourself for more disrespect.
Must of them will take advantage of that and accept you knowing you can provide their needs.
But believe me bro — she will pun!sh you financially, and still cheat on you with the man she's into.

So bro, if she said no to you or you discovered she's not into you, next her — she's not special.

Control your emotions bro.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.f

ojuu4u:
I guess the way you asked ladies out for marriage is different from how u ask her for relationship? Is it not gf that become wife? No wonder many of you ended up with wrong woman. You want to date and not married, before you know she becomes wife and marital problems start.

Even for relationship, if indeed you truly loves a girl, you will still go for her 2nd or 3rd time.

If you want instant yes, you go for OS or brothels that full everywhere.

essentialone:
Bro, once you ask a w00man out and she rejects you, the next thing that will happen is that she will lose her respect for you. This happened for most w00men.

The moment a w00man rejects you, she starts seeing herself as your equal or as superior.

Understand that w00men boost their ego through rejection.
The most f00lish thing you can ever do in that situation is to keep begging her, f0rcing her or trying so hard to convince her so she can accept you.

There is something you need to know about female attraction.

The moment a w00man say NO to you, know that she means it and there is nothing you can do to change her mind for the real w00men.

But if you go ahead and start seeking for validation, sending data, airtime and gifts to win her over — most of them will pretend to love you because of the benefits and that's all fake.

If a w00man does not see you worthy of a relationship, she will never accept you. In this situation — don't go ahead trying to prove yourself.

Talk to the next w00man — she's not special.

If and only if she will accept you is base on the two conditions:👇

If she can not find another man:
That point where she has being piped, used and dumped by the men she want who doesn't want her and then due to the lack of men and age passing her, she will fall back to you as her available option.

Next one is — She will accept you out of pity : this is the worst position a man can ever be, the truth is any w00man who accept you out of pity will always have a void in her heart painting to be filled by the man she genuinely loves.
She accepted you out of pity base on what you have spent and invested.

And it's the truth she will always be in a look for better man.

So when you ask a w00man out and she declines, walk away and never look back. Talk to the next w00man. Don't walk out of anger or pain but walk out of self respect and value.

The moment you do that, she will by herself respect you more, she will even feel you did her a favour for asking her out. Out of fear she'll be thinking if she didn't make a mistake by rejecting you
She will be monitoring your progress to know if she actually made a wrong decision by rejecting you. She will be comparing you with the man she accepted.
That is why you have to focus on your grind and become better person.

But if you keep trying hard to get her, you just avail yourself for more disrespect.
Must of them will take advantage of that and accept you knowing you can provide their needs.
But believe me bro — she will pun!sh you financially, and still cheat on you with the man she's into.

So bro, if she said no to you or you discovered she's not into you, next her — she's not special.

Control your emotions bro.

Class dismissed.
Till I come your way again.
Keep following for more.f

Bendeco02:
Well spoken

Just that some men don't understand women.

Begging a woman for love will make you lose more value in her eyes.