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Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

lovediehatelive:
Has anyone ever experienced such?

No, no one has ever experienced such. You are the first person on earth to experience such. And it's such a huge experience to experience too!

Who can imagine Arsenal losing to Man City like that!

Move on bro, you haven't done anything wrong. If she is giving you attitude, then she isn't meant for you.

Don't try to force yourself on her, it will back tire.

You are a man!!!!!!!!

Never in life allow any woman except your biological mother to use her time and your time together.

Learn to open the door for anyone that want to leave your life without chasing.

Don't ever call nor text her again.

Women plenty for your dm, use another one patch the weekend.

You did nothing wrong.
Schedule don't change suddenly except you are not confident of yourself.

budaatum:
No, no one has ever experienced such. You are the first person on earth to experience such. And it's such a huge experience to experience too!

Who can you imagine Arsenal losing to Man City like that!

Llmmmmaaaaa

It seems you don't value yourself and your time as an individual for you to even have a thought of being wrong just shows the type of person you are.🥱🥱

CosmeticChemist:
Move on bro, you haven't done anything wrong. If she is giving you attitude, then she isn't meant for you.

Don't try to force yourself on her, it will back tire.

The best option you just stated there.

However make we no lie, e no easy just like that, person wey I don plan different styles to give am.

And again let it not look like I didn't press harder.

ManknowThyself:
You are a man!!!!!!!!

Never in life allow any woman except your biological mother to use her time and your time together.

Learn to open the door for anyone that want to leave your life without chasing.

Don't ever call nor text her again.

Women plenty for your dm, use another one patch the weekend.

Myself 10 years ago would have been all over her.

Thank God for the internet, the Redpill and people's experiences I read online have taught me more about female psychology more than I ever imagined.


Though it's not easy, but I try all I can to use head follow these ladies instead of feelings.


I've seen some guys abandoned a hot match just to go be with a girl.


It was a tough one for me because things had been flowing well just until that moment.

I no go lie, I'm thinking of trying again but don't want to appear desperate or get disrespected because she might want to do me back

favour32:
You did nothing wrong.
Schedule don't change suddenly except you are not confident of yourself.

True.

Just that our third leg no dey allow us think straight sometimes especially when e don full dey find escape route.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
It seems you don't value yourself and your time as an individual for you to even have a thought of being wrong just shows the type of person you are.🥱🥱

Lol...

Every human has weak point. No matter how strong defense dey for match one mistake or weak point dey cause goal.

I be human being abeg, I evaluate things.

Again one has to act a fool sometimes in dealing with women if not eh...

lovediehatelive:
The best option you just stated there.

However make we no lie, e no easy just like that, person wey I don plan different styles to give am.

And again let it not look like I didn't press harder.

Go and collect anything in my name, I will pay.

You passed her sh*t test bro. She'll forever respect and fear you greatly.

For those who don't understand. Let me explain.

The girl tested the op by checking if she could easily gain access to him whenever she wishes, and the OP acted like a strong masculine man! Don't ever dump whatever you're doing for a woman just because she wants to come, esp when she didn't Inform you ahead. If you do that she'll instantly lose respect for you and your value decreases before her.

Understand this, Women love men who ignores them, plays hard to get and are busy with their lives. A girl called me yesterday morning being Saturday and I didn't even answer the call because I was already in my business venue. Of course she wanted to come over to my place but my business and money is extremely important to me more than a girl.

Op, leave her alone, continue living and enjoying your life, if she's interested she'll reach out and when she finally reaches out, don't be over excited, don't rush the response. Match her energy! Take your time and respond and tell her when you'll be chanced.

Delete her contact and block her on all social network, no time for any prima Donna -dramaqueen.

Women and their controlling attitude. You did the right thing and you should not feel bad.
I have noticed women loves strange men, the less she can predict you, the more she wants to be with you

You just told her football is more important than her... Hahaha

budaatum:
No, no one has ever experienced such. You are the first person on earth to experience such. And it's such a huge experience to experience too!

Who can imagine Arsenal losing to Man City like that!

Bro you're not nice

Gbadugbakun:
Bro you're not nice

I am going to hell.

It's like you didn't graduated with 2nd second class upper from Gheghe university.

Interesting

It boils down to interest, and how much you really wanted to see her.

There will always be other matches to watch later, if you truly wanted to see her.

If you miss a second match half today because of her, it doesn't stop you from watching other matches later.

Besides, you can watch the match on ur phone sef.

I dont know why it's mostly broke guys that have this attitude most.

No be everytime una go dey form gragra.

I don't think you handled it maturely, irrespective of the fact that she may have overreacted a little.

A lady you're interested in calls you to tell you she's coming to visit, and you tell her straight up that you're watching a match you'll call her back. Even most of your guy freinds would not be happy with you if you told them you couldn't answer their call properly because you're watching a match. I am assuming you didn't ask her when she'd be coming, you could even have finished the match before she eventually reached your place. Would it have killed you to tell her okay no problem, but I'm a bit busy (or not in the house) now, but you can come in 1hr time?
What you told her in essence was, "I love you but I love football more" Even someone who already loves you would not want to hear that not to talk of the one you're still trying to get.

Goo0dHardDick:
Go and collect anything in my name, I will pay.

You passed her sh*t test bro. She'll forever respect and fear you greatly.

For those who don't understand. Let me explain.

The girl tested the op by checking if she could easily gain access to him whenever she wishes, and the OP acted like a strong masculine man! Don't ever dump whatever you're doing for a woman just because she wants to come, esp when she didn't Inform you ahead. If you do that she'll instantly lose respect for you and your value decreases before her.

Understand this, Women love men who ignores them, plays hard to get and are busy with their lives. A girl called me yesterday morning being Saturday and I didn't even answer the call because I was already in my business venue. Of course she wanted to come over to my place but my business and money is extremely important to me more than a girl.

Op, leave her alone, continue living and enjoying your life, if she's interested she'll reach out and when she finally reaches out, don't be over excited, don't rush the response. Match her energy! Take your time and respond and tell her when you'll be chanced.

My Gee


I used to joke with TRP but after I started seeing people's stories that touch, I noticed most of them got a similar pattern which TRP has been preaching against.

Na once I give myself brain o.

Sometimes when I come online I go straight to look for TRP post or they even suggests them to me on algorithm based social media (YouTube, FB, X) because I've been consuming them a lot lately.

On nairaland your post amongst many others helps me to always remind myself to reduce emotions when dealing with ladies.


Reading about TRP online and applying it in real life hasn't been easy but it has always saved me from headaches and regrets.

That particular day I almost gave in but the core message of The Redpill kept ringing and holding me back.

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

You're not a serious person bro

Person call you say she wan come, you dey talk say you dey watch match

If nah me b the lady, I will just block and delete your number

Even if a male friend do this kin thing to me, nah the end of our friendship b that

Not every story should appear on social media.

Omo is like girls don finish for your end abi.

She no pick calls.

Snubbing your messages on WhatsApp and you dey here dey complain?

E get any red flag wey pass this one?
This kind girl can never respect you as a man

The girl is no longer interested

The ways/manner u answered angered her.Sorry/apologies won't be too costly. If after this,she still snub u..... FREE HER

stan4b:
It boils down to interest, and how much you really wanted to see her.

There will always be other matches to watch later, if you truly wanted to see her.

If you miss a second match half today because of her, it doesn't stop you from watching other matches later.

Besides, you can watch the match on ur phone sef.

I dont know why it's mostly broke guys that have this attitude most.

No be everytime una go dey form gragra.

So for your mind now, you get money pass am?
Not all men are SIMPs, bro