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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifeofDream:
SpencerForbes:
New redpillers will miss your gems 💎 I also missed a lot too but the little I learnt was golden.
It was indeed golden..
Women are very brutal, ruthless and manipulative. Don't be deceived by their innocent look and don't hate them..

Just master their game and win them.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PETUK(m): 5:46pm On Apr 23
MetalJigsaw:
4. If you can't change her, change her. 😡
My boss told me this last year
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 3:59pm On Apr 24
PETUK:
My boss told me this last year
That's it bro
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 4:23pm On Apr 24
Redpill is life
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dreamxhaser: 12:22pm On Apr 25
Hello everyone!

I need an advice on something.

Sorry if it has been explained here before and i missed it.

So i realized there is a thine line between setting boundaries/calling women out, and not being emotional (nonchalant) as a man.

Most times when i have something to do with women, and they start their shit test, i am often stuck in between calling her out (warning) or just ignoring so it won’t be like i am triggered. So she doesn’t use any against me.

Recently i was vibing with a girl, and started shit testing me by behaving distant. Ignored her and continued my life until she came to start using some manipulation like i don’t love her bla bla bla

After a while, she started behaving abnormal again, at that moment i was left to decide if i should call her out or just ignore her again.

I have read several at times that calling a woman out and putting her in her place works. I have also reading that ignoring her, and not showing you were triggered by her actions works.

Now i have applied both with different women in different scenarios , and they both work. But at one point, i think man has to use one of the 2 tactics more.

I mean they both have thier disadvantages, like

1. acting nonchalant can make her grow wings and continue to do the bad things in the future because after all, “you will just ignore and not give a F”

2. Calling her out and setting boundaries can make her understand your triggers and might want to use it against you in the future.

I hope y’all understand where i am heading at.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 2:17pm On Apr 25
dreamxhaser:
Hello everyone!

I need an advice on something.

Sorry if it has been explained here before and i missed it.

So i realized there is a thine line between setting boundaries/calling women out, and not being emotional (nonchalant) as a man.

Most times when i have something to do with women, and they start their shit test, i am often stuck in between calling her out (warning) or just ignoring so it won’t be like i am triggered. So she doesn’t use any against me.

Recently i was vibing with a girl, and started shit testing me by behaving distant. Ignored her and continued my life until she came to start using some manipulation like i don’t love her bla bla bla

After a while, she started behaving abnormal again, at that moment i was left to decide if i should call her out or just ignore her again.

I have read several at times that calling a woman out and putting her in her place works. I have also reading that ignoring her, and not showing you were triggered by her actions works.

Now i have applied both with different women in different scenarios , and they both work. But at one point, i think man has to use one of the 2 tactics more.

I mean they both have thier disadvantages, like

1. acting nonchalant can make her grow wings and continue to do the bad things in the future because after all, “you will just ignore and not give a F”

2. Calling her out and setting boundaries can make her understand your triggers and might want to use it against you in the future.

I hope y’all understand where i am heading at.
What did you reply when she said you don't love her?
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dreamxhaser: 4:16pm On Apr 25
COOL10:
What did you reply when she said you don't love her?
Told her had to focus on other things because she was behaving like shiit
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 5:31pm On Apr 25
dreamxhaser:
Told her had to focus on other things because she was behaving like shiit
It's important to set boundaries for women and when they cross those boundaries, it's even more important to pack them one side.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 12:02am On Apr 27
7. Women won't run the race with you. They only wait at the finish line.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 12:13am On Apr 27
8. Their loyalty is highly transactional.. Nine out of every ten relationships are flourishing mainly because of the man's financial efforts, not his personality.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m):
9. If men channel the same energy they use in chasing women towards chasing their dreams, we would have more successful men in the society than the unsuccessful ones.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Akinbahm(m): 10:12pm On Apr 27
dreamxhaser:
Hello everyone!

I need an advice on something.

Sorry if it has been explained here before and i missed it.

So i realized there is a thine line between setting boundaries/calling women out, and not being emotional (nonchalant) as a man.

Most times when i have something to do with women, and they start their shit test, i am often stuck in between calling her out (warning) or just ignoring so it won’t be like i am triggered. So she doesn’t use any against me.

Recently i was vibing with a girl, and started shit testing me by behaving distant. Ignored her and continued my life until she came to start using some manipulation like i don’t love her bla bla bla

After a while, she started behaving abnormal again, at that moment i was left to decide if i should call her out or just ignore her again.

I have read several at times that calling a woman out and putting her in her place works. I have also reading that ignoring her, and not showing you were triggered by her actions works.

Now i have applied both with different women in different scenarios , and they both work. But at one point, i think man has to use one of the 2 tactics more.

I mean they both have thier disadvantages, like

1. acting nonchalant can make her grow wings and continue to do the bad things in the future because after all, “you will just ignore and not give a F”

2. Calling her out and setting boundaries can make her understand your triggers and might want to use it against you in the future.

I hope y’all understand where i am heading at.
Learn to be balanced.. that gender loves mystery, once she figured out one tactics switch to another.

Don't be too static that's why you act simp today act playboy tomorrow, act loverboy next tomorrow and put alpha face next next tomorrow.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Darkraul01(m): 9:13am On Apr 29
Never trust a woman who tries to tell men how to be men.
They can't stare at their own nature in the mirror.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 7:35pm On Apr 29
" no matter how pretty a woman is... A guy somewhere is tired of slamming that p*ssy"

Martin Corridon, 467 BC
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m):
10. Relationships where the man is at peace with little or no financial burden are the ones where he has already communicated his subpar financial capabilities from the start.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m):
11. When You flash money on a woman's face, i.e trying to show her that you're a rich nice man, you're only communicating one thing: You're just another beta bucks man; A fund raiser, money dispenser A.K.A. ATM 😂
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m):
Happy new month fellas! 💥💥💥
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m):
12. If you're a financially unstable young man, an athletic or masculine body shape, enhanced personality and sublime bedroom capabilities is your way out in the dating world. In fact, such men, with a decent bank account figures are far up in the hierarchy.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 9:43am On May 03
dreamxhaser:
Hello everyone!

I need an advice on something.

Sorry if it has been explained here before and i missed it.

So i realized there is a thine line between setting boundaries/calling women out, and not being emotional (nonchalant) as a man.

Most times when i have something to do with women, and they start their shit test, i am often stuck in between calling her out (warning) or just ignoring so it won’t be like i am triggered. So she doesn’t use any against me.

Recently i was vibing with a girl, and started shit testing me by behaving distant. Ignored her and continued my life until she came to start using some manipulation like i don’t love her bla bla bla

After a while, she started behaving abnormal again, at that moment i was left to decide if i should call her out or just ignore her again.

I have read several at times that calling a woman out and putting her in her place works. I have also reading that ignoring her, and not showing you were triggered by her actions works.

Now i have applied both with different women in different scenarios , and they both work. But at one point, i think man has to use one of the 2 tactics more.

I mean they both have thier disadvantages, like

1. acting nonchalant can make her grow wings and continue to do the bad things in the future because after all, “you will just ignore and not give a F”

2. Calling her out and setting boundaries can make her understand your triggers and might want to use it against you in the future.

I hope y’all understand where i am heading at.
Before I respond to this, could you specify in details about the manipulation you're talking about.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 9:53am On May 03
13. Chasing women often leaves you with no reward... even costing a significant amount money and energy in the long run.

Chasing wealth offers you multiple rewards and benefits in the end, female admirers included.

...Make your choice
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ballzproblemm: 1:54pm On May 03
dreamxhaser:
At this point….no matter how good looking you are and how good your game is. Women will always cheat.

I don’t think there is a woman out there that doesn’t cheat. They can love you and still cheat.

This why, i think how they feel about you should never be your problem, as long as you get the pusxy without investing your time and resources.

As For the married men who think their wives are different. I promise you they just haven’t got the right chance. If that 25 year old young man in her work place or street makes a move, she is most likely going down.


Married men are just lucky most young men don’t eye married women. Especially those aged 40 and above.
I find it funny how men think that good sex ,money ,looks etc. Can prevent a woman from cheating.

Bruh everyday I'm seeing newsof white female teachers sleeping with students,the only that can make a woman not to cheat on you depends on her morals and her level of interest into you.

Men should know this and know peace ,best get yourself a virgin ,it doesn't guarantee anything but it's your best bet.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by lovediehatelive(m): 4:30pm On May 03
Once you find yourself scared to lose here, you've lost her already.


Because you'll always want to do things to please her which dulls the attraction she has for you.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by lovediehatelive(m): 4:34pm On May 03
Learn to say no to her demands. This turns her on more than you can imagine.




I'm taking about all those her fairytale demands:
Expensive wig,
Vacation,
Outing,
Change her phone,
And similar.


The more you give her what she asks for the less attractive you are to her
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by lovediehatelive(m): 4:48pm On May 03
dreamxhaser:
Hello everyone!

I need an advice on something.

Sorry if it has been explained here before and i missed it.

So i realized there is a thine line between setting boundaries/calling women out, and not being emotional (nonchalant) as a man.

Most times when i have something to do with women, and they start their shit test, i am often stuck in between calling her out (warning) or just ignoring so it won’t be like i am triggered. So she doesn’t use any against me.

Recently i was vibing with a girl, and started shit testing me by behaving distant. Ignored her and continued my life until she came to start using some manipulation like i don’t love her bla bla bla

After a while, she started behaving abnormal again, at that moment i was left to decide if i should call her out or just ignore her again.

I have read several at times that calling a woman out and putting her in her place works. I have also reading that ignoring her, and not showing you were triggered by her actions works.

Now i have applied both with different women in different scenarios , and they both work. But at one point, i think man has to use one of the 2 tactics more.

I mean they both have thier disadvantages, like

1. acting nonchalant can make her grow wings and continue to do the bad things in the future because after all, “you will just ignore and not give a F”

2. Calling her out and setting boundaries can make her understand your triggers and might want to use it against you in the future.

I hope y’all understand where i am heading at.
What I can say is that it depends on the situation.


This is the difference between reading the book and living it out. Sometimes you overlook it, other times you call her out.


For instance if you tell her you don't like her placing an object on the Fridge, she'll definitely do it over and over to test you.

In such kind of situation you can overlook it at times or lightly call her out.



Then there are some things you don't overlook and always call her out. Let's say you let her know that you don't like her dancing seductively on the internet for likes and all. If she does that you shouldn't overlook it. Or something like she starts putting leg chains knowing that you don't like such.

These are just examples, the main thing is about what she's testing you on. If it's not a major deal breaker you can overlook it and sometimes act enraged over it. This way you become unpredictable.


However if it's a major deal breaker, call her out immediately you find out. If she still instist don't even argue with her, just cut off.

Just my opinion though
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by lovediehatelive(m): 5:00pm On May 03
The Redpill isn't about hating women or insulting them.

It's not about hitting her or running abuses on her.

It's not about trying to live a tough or rugged lifestyle while naturally you are a calm dude.


The Redpill is about understanding female psychology and be steps ahead of her in the games she's playing.

It's about studying patterns and drawing logical conclusions based on thousands of ways they've acted in the past.


It's about understanding that your sacrifices and efforts doesn't matter if she finds better options.

It's about understanding that you need to prioritize yourself and growth over her desires.

It's about understanding thier manipulation tactics and know where it is headed to.

It's about understanding that you can never satify her, you only do what you can let go easily and what you think is necessary at the moment.

It's about keeping your frame as a man with logic as your weapon against her numerous manipulative tactics.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by lovediehatelive(m): 5:07pm On May 03
Nothing is new under the sun.

If you are faced with a tough situation, don't let feelings or emotions overide your sense of reasoning.


Any issues or tough relationship decision that arises, take your time to tackle it.


Take a walk. Go out. Try detach feelings.
Let logic be your trusted companion.

Don't rush and make impulsive decisions.

Search for cases similar to yours and check the pattern. That there is where your answer is.

It's better to learn from the experience of others than to learn the hard way.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 7:37pm On May 04
don’t ever check her phone.. leave the moment your guts starts telling you to.

real life lesson, what i saw in her dms is enough to cause a life time trauma to a weak mind.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:43pm On May 04
I don't know if anyone here read about the Argentina Casting scandal going on right now. Just find time and research on that and let some shock run through your system.

A pill a day keeps simping away.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PinkNature(m): 7:30am On May 05
part 1

guys reading the redpill isn’t enough. you’ve got to go into the real world and practice.

i drowned myself in the redpill throughout covid but got severely burned 2x in relationships. i got brutally heart broken after a girl i fell in love dumped me like i didn’t even worth a naira to her (i was 23) and i fell in love for the first time. i remained single for a long time (tho i was having sex because 😌)

so i kept asking girls out for the sake of sex, which i did get. so on this day, i went to sch while being high and i asked a lot of girls out but one showed a bit of interest while texting so we got talking she was really beautiful and i noticed we’ve got chemistry.

but she never wanted to come to my place but loved whenever we spoke on the phone.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tenrack: 7:59am On May 05
luminouz:
I don't know if anyone here read about the Argentina Casting scandal going on right now. Just find time and research on that and let some shock run through your system.

A pill a day keeps simping away.
boss you for leave link na.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tenrack: 8:06am On May 05
PinkNature:
part 1

guys reading the redpill isn’t enough. you’ve got to go into the real world and practice.

i drowned myself in the redpill throughout covid but got severely burned 2x in relationships. i got brutally heart broken after a girl i fell in love dumped me like i didn’t even worth a naira to her (i was 23) and i fell in love for the first time. i remained single for a long time (tho i was having sex because 😌)

so i kept asking girls out for the sake of sex, which i did get. so on this day, i went to sch while being high and i asked a lot of girls out but one showed a bit of interest while texting so we got talking she was really beautiful and i noticed we’ve got chemistry.

but she never wanted to come to my place but loved whenever we spoke on the phone.
your story Neva complete o.
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