Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? - Romance (3)

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Gotocourt: 11:25am On May 04

Start behaving like a rockstar

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Xpol: 11:30am On May 04

It'll even surprise you that this hard to get thing is mostly from Nigerian girls.
An average Nigerian girl will be interested in you but can never make the first move but when you make the move will still be telling you "I'm still thinking about it" even after two months.

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Britishcoins(m): 11:33am On May 04

few years ago before I married, girls are the ones pushing me, even 18 years beautiful damsels and their mother's are aware of the maybe because I was virgin then... I could remember one women who loved me so much.. infact she is the one that later find wife for me.. today we have become family friends.. it is more spiritual... just be careful

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by nurudeen181(m): 11:34am On May 04

Do you have money, or let me mind my business

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Lovit(m): 11:35am On May 04

Bro, every girl will not like you, even if you are Davido

keep searching and try to press small money join your fine look, one will stay eventually

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by RillJ(m): 11:37am On May 04

Note: Not every one you like will like you back on same level!
Everyone has his fair share of 'Yes' and 'No' when it comes to babe tinz
You are probably expending your 'Nos' now and may soon hit the 'Yes' I do gree before you know it grin

Seriously, you have nothing to worry about except that you have no serious issues to deal with.
Yesteryears Reminiscence:
We go write love letters (often sprayed with perfumes)
Arrange greeting Cards!
Speak all the grammars while 'toasting' and the babe still fit no gree or just dey shakara person. But if you are persistent and 'hold your side', e go be with time.

Anyways, hope you not a kid that is supposed to be focused on some other productive things for now!

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by gigabyte13: 11:42am On May 04

You wey no like yourself
How people wan take like you....
You no even rate yourself at all
Just because people say you are handsome, does not really mean you are attractive

There are more to physical look
Your communication skills
Your posture
Your intelligence level
Your confidence level all count alot.

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Afobaba33(m): 11:45am On May 04

That's my own experience too

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by ufotunang: 11:46am On May 04

..there are some guys that do not have much money but still dating and sleeping with girls because they know how to sweet mouth a girl

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by zeyt: 11:48am On May 04

This women thought you are already taken by other woman and not want to get into competion with others they dont know about.

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by ufotunang: 11:49am On May 04

Since secondary school....It's not ordinary..can be spiritual problems

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by concho(m): 11:51am On May 04

Bro is about to be ripped

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by qtx(m): 11:51am On May 04

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Tendd: 11:52am On May 04

Stop telling women that you love nor like them.This might seem ideal on romantic movies but they are a turn off in real life.Rather talk and figure out of what you share in common like your goals, values, aspirations etc.

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by qtx(m): 11:53am On May 04

One key attribute you seem to lack that I see is you lack self-confidence. Most ladies like guys who have self-confidence. Think about this thing

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by tiswell(m): 11:57am On May 04

Baba which one come be a technical walking dry wood🤣
Show mercy,mbok

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by naijaboy756: 12:01pm On May 04

Omor I share same fate ooo... na only knacking, single mum and people wives wan dey close to me oooooo

I have been prophesied to by several persons not to tell a lady I will marry her. I was now wondering if i wont marry. And as soon as i tell a lady about marriage, relationship otilo

Na just temptation them dey carry full my side

God abeg oo

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Kdon2: 12:13pm On May 04

Spiritual

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by gulfer: 12:16pm On May 04

The sugar attracts the ants and not the other way round, you need to give more attention to how you coordinate and communicate around girls, you might be an awkward one or are just too conscious of people's behavior (gestures etc) around you that is now affecting your self confidence with approaching ladies of your choice. Try and surmount the self-consciousness and you'll be fine cool

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by CorperKola: 12:17pm On May 04

That exactly is your mistake
You dont need to tell any girl you like her
Just give her attention enough
Hang out alone a few times in your crib and then make a move on her

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by ElevationD: 12:19pm On May 04

Shishi no dey your pocket. Women go where the money is.

By the way, if older women are attracted to you, it means that you always make yourself available to provide them the pleasure that they need. Your name to them therefore is Mr. Nackson. Dem go use you until nothing remain for your destiny again.

If men are attracted to you, it means that you get big yansh and dem want to help your life for your backside.

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Firstcitizen: 12:20pm On May 04

Na money you no get. That is the only language the present day girls in Nigeria understand

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by AfahaAbia(m): 12:27pm On May 04

It's really weird that this things happen. I'm 43 years old yet girls between 21 to 26 find me attractive. They never let me rest. It has been happening to me right from my 20s it was mostly teenagers then who liked me. I find it hard attracting women in their 30s

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Emdi1914: 12:32pm On May 04

Kai.One man's meat is another man's stone..
One brother is looking for female acceptance, other brothers are running away from women...Life no balance

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by zoedew: 12:34pm On May 04

You probably are too sweet-tongued for comfort.

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by eepeepook: 12:37pm On May 04

Focus on making money so you can afford oloshos. If that doesn’t work, face soapy. Johnson’s baby oil is effective. One drop will send you to heaven every time. Leave confused women and expend all your energy on improving yourself.

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by femi4: 1:11pm On May 04

Stop telling them early, start acting it

When you see the return of same vibe n energy...you can now talk to her

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by arimahoseloka(m): 1:17pm On May 04

women hate neediness. Don't tell them you like them, let them notice it. If they flow with you, get along, if they don't, pull away fast. There are many many options out there.

Maintain your frame as a man and don't act emotional to any woman. Let your body language do the talking, if she reciprocates then fine, if she doesn't, get out fast.

Level up in life and get your money flowing. Women smell success and money like a blood hound. Don't chase them, I repeat, don't chase them. Don't seek validation from them.

They can never be and should never be your source of joy or completeness or peace. You are your own source of joy peace and completeness .

Note that you can never satisfy a woman. Never try to elevate her or please her beyond yourself

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Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by Nduka172: 1:39pm On May 04

You're a simp man up nigga

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by ijayalolo: 2:00pm On May 04

Then tell her you hate her. I mean, how difficult can that be?

Thank you for your attention to this matter

Re: Why Is It That Once I Tell A Lady I Like Her She Instantly Starts Pulling Away? by AFONJACOW(m): 2:07pm On May 04

Every year I Date like 10 different girls nah curse be this o undecided

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