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IT MEANS SHE WANTS YOU TO DOBO HER

Sonnobax15:

She's a good customer and dashing you extra money is her own way of encouraging your hustle. No be everything una suppose to dey look from a relationship point of view.

God bless you.
I for share my story but Nairalanders too get bad mouth

No be every banny wey dash you money want relationship o

Tenrack:
a strong woman in love? Mba na

I don't get you. Explain your "love" bit, please.

Goodmarlian:
I run a food delivery business in campus and there is this lady that always order food from me and I deliver it to her in class,she is my very loyal customer but I notice I did something one day that I believe made her attitude towards me change.

One day she ordered from me but because I had other deliveries to do I didn't get to her class on time,when it was finally her turn I got to her class three was a lecturer in the class, a mean looking male lecturer I could see his face from the window so I chatted her up that I am with her food that she should come have it, she said she can't come out because of lecturer in the class, the food was getting cold plus because I have other deliveries to do, I summoned courage and entered the class, knelt down and greeted the lecturer with a smile on my face I showed him food I was carrying then headed them I head straight to the girl and gave her the food then I left.

She text me on WhatsApp immediately and said she admired my courage, ever since then each time I deliver food she always dash me extra 1k to my delivery fee, this has being running for a month now, plus she urges her other friends to add more money to my delivery fee anytime they order food.

I've seen this play out too many times. Foolish young men losing their business and clients because they cannot do without thinking with their joysticks.

Your egungun (masquerade) should be careful because nah express you dey go with this your thinking so that you will not lose a generous customer.

Even if she likes you, don’t make any moves otherwise she go change am for you. You can only hope she expresses herself if she is likes you.

E no see any wife o. Make him no reason am go there if not na big disappointment dey wait for am

Gbadugbakun:
You don see wife be that. Congratulations am so happy for you.

Better concentrate with your business and stop reading useless meaning to her gesture else you will lose a loyal customer

Goodmarlian:
I run a food delivery business in campus and there is this lady that always order food from me and I deliver it to her in class,she is my very loyal customer but I notice I did something one day that I believe made her attitude towards me change.

One day she ordered from me but because I had other deliveries to do I didn't get to her class on time,when it was finally her turn I got to her class three was a lecturer in the class, a mean looking male lecturer I could see his face from the window so I chatted her up that I am with her food that she should come have it, she said she can't come out because of lecturer in the class, the food was getting cold plus because I have other deliveries to do, I summoned courage and entered the class, knelt down and greeted the lecturer with a smile on my face I showed him food I was carrying then headed them I head straight to the girl and gave her the food then I left.

She text me on WhatsApp immediately and said she admired my courage, ever since then each time I deliver food she always dash me extra 1k to my delivery fee, this has being running for a month now, plus she urges her other friends to add more money to my delivery fee anytime they order food.

Intresting

To feed the multitude don dey hungry you.

budaatum:
I don't get you. Explain your "love" bit, please.

don't worry. You'll get it with time.

The moment you start mixing biz with pleasure you start to derail. Stay focused on track which is why the lady appreciates you in the first case. Carry water clean your mind abeg!

You will think she's interested in you until you shot yourself in the foot stop assuming things collect your 1k and face your hustle

Sonnobax15:

She's a good customer and dashing you extra money is her own way of encouraging your hustle. No be everything una suppose to dey look from a relationship point of view.

Lol..... relationship point of view is in the blood don't blame us.

Abee79:
Don't think too deeply about this kind gesture. Maintain status quo, if not, you'll start feeding her and her friends for free. Don't say you weren't warned . . .

You make a valid point 👉👉👉☝️☝️

She’s just being nice to you and nothing more, if you like go toast her because she dey dash you extra 1k. Your eyes will peel

My brother be enjoying the extra money

so what is the big deal if a gal tips you

Goodmarlian:
I run a food delivery business in campus and there is this lady that always order food from me and I deliver it to her in class,she is my very loyal customer but I notice I did something one day that I believe made her attitude towards me change.

One day she ordered from me but because I had other deliveries to do I didn't get to her class on time,when it was finally her turn I got to her class three was a lecturer in the class, a mean looking male lecturer I could see his face from the window so I chatted her up that I am with her food that she should come have it, she said she can't come out because of lecturer in the class, the food was getting cold plus because I have other deliveries to do, I summoned courage and entered the class, knelt down and greeted the lecturer with a smile on my face I showed him food I was carrying then headed them I head straight to the girl and gave her the food then I left.

She text me on WhatsApp immediately and said she admired my courage, ever since then each time I deliver food she always dash me extra 1k to my delivery fee, this has being running for a month now, plus she urges her other friends to add more money to my delivery fee anytime they order food.

Its a green light...act now before its too late

It is just a tip and no need attaching any meaning to it. It is for a job well done.

Goodmarlian:
I run a food delivery business in campus and there is this lady that always order food from me and I deliver it to her in class,she is my very loyal customer but I notice I did something one day that I believe made her attitude towards me change.

One day she ordered from me but because I had other deliveries to do I didn't get to her class on time,when it was finally her turn I got to her class three was a lecturer in the class, a mean looking male lecturer I could see his face from the window so I chatted her up that I am with her food that she should come have it, she said she can't come out because of lecturer in the class, the food was getting cold plus because I have other deliveries to do, I summoned courage and entered the class, knelt down and greeted the lecturer with a smile on my face I showed him food I was carrying then headed them I head straight to the girl and gave her the food then I left.

She text me on WhatsApp immediately and said she admired my courage, ever since then each time I deliver food she always dash me extra 1k to my delivery fee, this has being running for a month now, plus she urges her other friends to add more money to my delivery fee anytime they order food.

Don't date her. Don't even think of having a romantic relationship with her. I believe she will be a million times more profitable to you, if you stay that way. You will loose her completely when you go too close, except she is the one that physically initiates the idea of having a closer bond with you. 😎

Goodmarlian:
I run a food delivery business in campus and there is this lady that always order food from me and I deliver it to her in class,she is my very loyal customer but I notice I did something one day that I believe made her attitude towards me change.

One day she ordered from me but because I had other deliveries to do I didn't get to her class on time,when it was finally her turn I got to her class three was a lecturer in the class, a mean looking male lecturer I could see his face from the window so I chatted her up that I am with her food that she should come have it, she said she can't come out because of lecturer in the class, the food was getting cold plus because I have other deliveries to do, I summoned courage and entered the class, knelt down and greeted the lecturer with a smile on my face I showed him food I was carrying then headed them I head straight to the girl and gave her the food then I left.

She text me on WhatsApp immediately and said she admired my courage, ever since then each time I deliver food she always dash me extra 1k to my delivery fee, this has being running for a month now, plus she urges her other friends to add more money to my delivery fee anytime they order food.

Don't ever make a mistake of gisting her.
Elso you will lose those extra tips and the girl.
Except she presents herself to you

Sonnobax15:

She's a good customer and dashing you extra money is her own way of encouraging your hustle. No be everything una suppose to dey look from a relationship point of view.

Men always take kindness, politeness and support from women as invitation for relationship and an opportunity to sleep with her.

spiceadole:
Men always take kindness, politeness and support from women as invitation for relationship and an opportunity to sleep with her.

Not all men tho,cuz personally, majority of my friends are females and I do get a lot of help of them,and had never for once fantasied going into relationship with them or sleeping with them. So it all depends on the personality of the male werey in question.

Sonnobax15:
Not all me tho,cuz personally, majority of my friends are females and I do get a lot of help of them,and had never for once fantasied going into relationship with them or sleeping with them. So it all depends on the personality of the male werey in question.

It's not nice.
I remember when I relocated newly, I was living alone.
I got the services of a painter , a Nigerian brother.
He did a great job, I was impressed.He was on a student visa and I felt giving him a tip wasn't a bad idea. I also made him lunch.
I had nothing in mind.
After that, I started receiving unnecessary late night messages from him.
And on two occasions, he came to the house at odd hour, claiming he came to greet me.
As how? For what?
Simply because I was kind enough to give him food and tip.
One day, I gave him a piece of mind and told him he should respect my space especially as I am married(though my husband was yet to join me). This guy looked at me and boldy said "It does matter.I am married too. my wife still dey Naija".

spiceadole:
It's not nice.
I remember when I relocated newly, I was living alone.
I got the services of a painter , a Nigerian brother.
He did a great job, I was impressed.He was on a student visa and I felt giving him a tip wasn't a bad idea. I also made him lunch.
I had nothing in mind.
After that, I started receiving unnecessary late night messages from him.
And on two occasions, he came to the house at odd hour, claiming he came to greet me.
As how? For what?
Simply because I was kind enough to give him food and tip.
One day, I gave him a piece of mind and told him he should respect my space especially as I am married(though my husband was yet to join me). This guy looked at me and boldy said "It does matter.I am married too. my wife still dey Naija".

. Na werey you jam auntie. Same thing also happened to my ex. There was this roofer introduced to her to help her changer her roof that had leakage problem. I don't know who told aunty to prepare meal for him . After that the day,the guy started calling her on the phone and was forming a talking stage on her. She called me and asked me if I didn't tell him she was my GF. I couldn't help it but only laughed it out and told her,"No be you go cook for person wey come work for you". Why not just let the man do his work,pay him and let him go. No be every guyman get sense for this naija I swear.

You're a M*MU boy ...You dey find wetin u no lost .Who told you she's in love with you ? , she's just being appreciative, that's her way of saying thank You.

You better dey your lane , b4 she go give you knock for head

His name is Michael. And today, I bought him a large bottle of Evian Water because of you lot.

I have never bought such expensive water for myself! I drink cheap Thames Water from the tap.

And no, I do not want to love him!

budaatum:
She sees something worthy and admirable in you.

There's a hairdresser on my street who opens early and closes very late. I always greet him when I walk past his shop, and give him Malt too when I buy in the market and money every Christmas. And one day he met me in the off-license next to his shop and paid for my Guinness. He has never done my hair before, and I don't even know his name. (I must ask him next time I pass).

I admire him for his hard work, and for being the very nice respectful man that he is.

Goodmarlian:
I run a food delivery business in campus and there is this lady that always order food from me and I deliver it to her in class,she is my very loyal customer but I notice I did something one day that I believe made her attitude towards me change.

One day she ordered from me but because I had other deliveries to do I didn't get to her class on time,when it was finally her turn I got to her class three was a lecturer in the class, a mean looking male lecturer I could see his face from the window so I chatted her up that I am with her food that she should come have it, she said she can't come out because of lecturer in the class, the food was getting cold plus because I have other deliveries to do, I summoned courage and entered the class, knelt down and greeted the lecturer with a smile on my face I showed him food I was carrying then headed them I head straight to the girl and gave her the food then I left.

She text me on WhatsApp immediately and said she admired my courage, ever since then each time I deliver food she always dash me extra 1k to my delivery fee, this has being running for a month now, plus she urges her other friends to add more money to my delivery fee anytime they order food.

On today's episode of things that never happened, just continue, keep cooking up stories, mr chef.

if you like go toast her, na end of your 1k be that

Hope our young guys of these days knows how to separate pleasure from businesses.
The moment he start getting close to the girl, if it's a girl that's smart , na free lunch she go dey eat, it will start from paying him half payment.
No matter the tips, just do your business diligently and expect nothing in return, hope that sink it.