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Poll: Did I do right to ignore her and continue watching Arsenal Vs man city?

Yes 73% (79 votes)

No 26% (28 votes)

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Ten06(m): 5:45pm On May 04

Please, try to discern when God is helping you.

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by infogenius(m): 5:45pm On May 04

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.

I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!

Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.

Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.

It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

Wisdom demands u stop calling her if she continues to ignore ur calls.

Who she think she be sef?
Probably another arrogant and prideful person.

This is a red flag please kindly move on.
Na this kain person go ask u to drop ur mama if u want her.

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Decryptor(m): 5:47pm On May 04

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.

I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!

Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.

Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.

It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

She was probably itchy down there and needed a guy to scratch it (you know what I mean) but her guy was watching the same match and unavailable so she decided to resort calling you up and you were unavailable. She must have moved on to the next person.
That's how they always behave. Self-employment

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Emdi1914: 5:48pm On May 04

You ask her to come to your place?
A woman should be the one asking to come to your place and not the other way round.
All these boys won't learn... You have just given her power now.

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by boxypane: 5:55pm On May 04

You didn't do bad. Make she great...🤣🤣

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Exceed15: 5:58pm On May 04

Don't over explain. Say ur reason once and ignore her. Giving her much attention kills attraction.

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Emeka71(m): 6:01pm On May 04

budaatum:
No, no one has ever experienced such. You are the first person on earth to experience such. And it's such a huge experience to experience too!

Who can imagine Arsenal losing to Man City like that!

Were you expecting Arsenal to win that match?

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Fekumzi123: 6:02pm On May 04

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.

I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!

Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.

Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.

It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

The guy she planned to be with messed her up. She had to fall back to you as alternative and you messed her up too.
She's a toto shearer.
You will still nack her but sooner or later infection will visit. So keep money for your treatment.

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by gigabyte13: 6:09pm On May 04

Two adults children behaving actually like children....
Make una two get out of here.

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by lezz(m): 6:10pm On May 04

Dex

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.

I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!

Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.

Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.

It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

you need to figure out your life and path first.

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by geoworldedu: 6:12pm On May 04

LIVINGICONREBOR:
It seems you don't value yourself and your time as an individual for you to even have a thought of being wrong just shows the type of person you are.🥱🥱

If he doesn't put it that way, how will a topic like this appear here so we can discuss it and feel good? Learn to appreciate topics on frontpage that are fun to relate with, rather than condemning the writers.

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by koladata(m): 6:12pm On May 04

You don't really love her, except football is your job, I see no reason why you couldn't not have left the ball.

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.

I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!

Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.

Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.

It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by seanery: 6:13pm On May 04

SIMPish ACT FROM BOTH END.

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Neoteny(m): 6:14pm On May 04

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.

I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!

Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.

Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.

It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

🫪

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Neoteny(m): 6:15pm On May 04

budaatum:
No, no one has ever experienced such. You are the first person on earth to experience such. And it's such a huge experience to experience too!

Who can imagine Arsenal losing to Man City like that!

😂

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by yemre: 6:15pm On May 04

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.

I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!

Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.

Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.

It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

It's their way! wanting to pay you an unscheduled visit and expecting you to oblige.....as if the reason you were chasing how was because you had nothing doing. Just ghost her. If and when she wants to see you again, she would learn to give you an advance notice and not just an impromptu visit.

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Mraaz88: 6:17pm On May 04

It shows that the girl will only need your attention when she's Hot because that's what she thinks about you also
The match time she need someone and you day busy
She go find wetin she want for another person side
No bother before self na olosho

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by koladata(m): 6:19pm On May 04

This is my point exactly, you don't love her, I've been a man for over a decade, and I know when a man truly loves a woman. Even the footballer on the pitch playing that match you were watching could fake an injury just to be with a woman they truly love.

You would have told her something else is keeping you busy and not football. Women don't value football that much so you will have to ease them into believing how important football is to you.

lovediehatelive:
The best option you just stated there.

However make we no lie, e no easy just like that, person wey I don plan different styles to give am.

And again let it not look like I didn't press harder.

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by BewareOf419: 6:19pm On May 04

Na send me data ladies full Nigeria now

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Haydens: 6:19pm On May 04

Parachoko:
You're not a serious person bro

Person call you say she wan come, you dey talk say you dey watch match

If nah me b the lady, I will just block and delete your number

Even if a male friend do this kin thing to me, nah the end of our friendship b that

A wise and senile human will remind you 3-4 days before he visits you including your relatives. How will you feel if someone gives you an impromptu visit ? If you are easily accessible then you are common.

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by bentenny(m): 6:22pm On May 04*

Firstly,you should never have asked a lady to come to your place more than once.
Once you ask a second time,it makes you look desperate!

Secondly,what you just did is to show her how much you value your time and priorities which gave you control over her!

She felt you were like other guys who would abandon whatever they were doing and attend to her!
She felt entitled and you just crushed her ego by your response!

Ladies respect men that prioritize themselves not guys who put them on a pedestal!
This is why most ladies easily get attracted to a bad guy with an abundance mindset!

Now this is the part where most guy mess everything up by going to beg!

My advise is don't call or text her!
Even after she has done her usual 'shakara' and decide to start calling or texting,don't be in a hurry to answer or reply!

At this stage,you are in full control!
If you play your cards well,she will never need a second invitation to visit you!

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Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Parizz: 6:27pm On May 04

Emdi1914:
You ask her to come to your place?
A woman should be the one asking to come to your place and not the other way round.
All these boys won't learn... You have just given her power now.

how do you feel about girls with chin hairs?

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Berankis: 6:28pm On May 04

It actually depends on what you make your priorities. Are you seeking a relationship for sex, just companionship/friendship or marriage. If it's something serious then you have to show some seriousness too.
Eventhough, you haven't done much wrong but telling her, you are watching a football match and would get back to her later shows you care less about her.
Sometimes as man you just have to be wise. And know how you handle women. You have to show they are important to you except you are rich then you can be careless, she might still stick around.
She might never get back to you again, she was contemplating dating you but you showed you are less concerned about her.

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Parizz: 6:31pm On May 04

Mraaz88:
It shows that the girl will only need your attention when she's Hot because that's what she thinks about you also
The match time she need someone and you day busy
She go find wetin she want for another person side
No bother before self na olosho

how do you feel about girls with chin hairs

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by PeterObash(m): 6:31pm On May 04

If you think some of this ladies are not smart then you must be joking. You see ehn, she isn't the only one behaving like that, some do that for security reasons especially if they are not yet safe with you, lemme tell you the reason why they do that sometimes some guys on knowing she's coming over prepare themselves by drinking man power or will get something else to put in their drink. Buh Be rest assured by the time she's used to you, she won't try such attitude or maybe she's having double doubt either she should come or not. cheesy

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by callmetade: 6:35pm On May 04

How do you people even meet new people huh

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Blacksavage(m): 6:37pm On May 04

Let her go jare

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Parachoko: 6:38pm On May 04

Haydens:
A wise and senile human will remind you 3-4 days before he visits you including your relatives. How will you feel if someone gives you an impromptu visit ? If you are easily accessible then you are common.

Well, your personal opinion

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by Ishilove: 6:39pm On May 04

ManknowThyself:
You are a man!!!!!!!!

Never in life allow any woman except your biological mother to use her time and your time together.

Learn to open the door for anyone that want to leave your life without chasing.

Don't ever call nor text her again.

Women plenty for your dm, use another one patch the weekend.

Na your type dey wash woman pant

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by AZControversial: 6:48pm On May 04

thesicilian:
I don't think you handled it maturely, irrespective of the fact that she may have overreacted a little.

A lady you're interested in calls you to tell you she's coming to visit, and you tell her straight up that you're watching a match you'll call her back. Even most of your guy freinds would not be happy with you if you told them you couldn't answer their call properly because you're watching a match. I am assuming you didn't ask her when she'd be coming, you could even have finished the match before she eventually reached your place. Would it have killed you to tell her okay no problem, but I'm a bit busy (or not in the house) now, but you can come in 1hr time?
What you told her in essence was, "I love you but I love football more" Even someone who already loves you would not any yo hear that not to talk of the one you're still trying to get.

So, what if he said he was watching football?
It's ok to turn him down at will but wrong for him refusing to be at her beck and call?

It's not like she had made the move to start coming. It wouldn't bite her to wait a little over an hour for the match to end before coming.

Long and short of the matter is that she wasn't really into him in the first place.

Re: She Stopped Picking My Calls After This by correctguy101(m): 6:51pm On May 04

budaatum:
No, no one has ever experienced such. You are the first person on earth to experience such. And it's such a huge experience to experience too!

Who can imagine Arsenal losing to Man City like that!

Especially when you're an Arsenal fan... 😁😂

Abegi, try again somewhere else... 🤧

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