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lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

This one na small pikin package na, still de beg woman, can't beg for love anymore.

Perhaps u don't have something that will encourage her to come.. Woman na interest. No stress urself.

She wanted to come when she had misunderstandings or little queries with her boyfriend and u were not ready, they are settled now.

He just day pain ham the pussy girl not coming

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

You did well. Men should learn to take charge. Na you dey invite her not the other way round. So the invitation should be on your terms. Don't allow women to manipulate you.

If she gives you attitude, you too ghost her

And this is what is disturbing you? No let me open mouth for you o

Why are some people’s English so poor?

lovediehatelive:
The best option you just stated there.

However make we no lie, e no easy just like that, person wey I don plan different styles to give am.

And again let it not look like I didn't press harder.

u for go knack first to secure her in ur court.. then later watch match highlights .. I think u miss an opportunity . ..in all na rich men girls dey loyal to

iLoveYouToo:
Why are some people’s English so poor?

English hard o 🙄

They can reject men without a hint of remorse — the uglier the male, the worse the rejection. Give them a slight hint of perceived rejection and they’ll buy rope to hang themselves.

eepeepook:
They can reject men without a hint of remorse — the uglier, the worse the rejection. Give them a slight hint of perceived rejection and they’ll buy rope to hang themselves.

lol oga u dey vex oo

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

Discernment is far from you o. See dish you just throway

I basically don't value a girl base on looks
Most of them are the same
So I don't pick by look

Parizz:
how do you feel about girls with chin hairs

She probably wanted to sleep over considering the timing of her call but you chose 45 minutes soccer. I've been watching soccer for the last 28 minutes and I already know that there will always be another soccer match.

I prioritise people/relationships over entertainment

budaatum:
No, no one has ever experienced such. You are the first person on earth to experience such. And it's such a huge experience to experience too!

Who can imagine Arsenal losing to Man City like that!

This man is ment🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Another day to tell all man that who likes you no go stress you.🥱

Don't worry she will come along but you have to stop calling her.

What most guy don't know is that ladies hate yes men. Ladies only follow yes men for survival but not cos they have any feelings for them.

That is why you will see more ladies falling heads over heels for that strict and principled guy than for a nice guy.

She wanted to come but despite her availability you wouldn't sacrifice your match over her unscheduled visit

She is taking note to see how you handle it. If you keep calling and appearing weak she will completely ghost you but since you've called like twice and she didn't pick. Ghost her and stand on your principle, she will come along and when she comes she will try to guilt trip you.

When she tries to put the blame on you, tell her that things don't work that way that you already planned your day because of her response towards coming to visit and you were surprised that she changed her mind suddenly.

After everything apologize to her and say no vex, just to appear as that soft, nice guy but she will get the message that you apologized for peace to reign

lovediehatelive:
The best option you just stated there.

However make we no lie, e no easy just like that, person wey I don plan different styles to give am.

And again let it not look like I didn't press harder.

guy even if you did back her it wouldn't change anything it's just a mindset.

Another thing is pride. She have pride. She thinks she is not important. And the arsenal match is more important to you. Another thought is that she might think you are with another girl at that time.

Trust me that type of girl is not good for you. Except you just want to nack her.

Nairaland has really dealt with so many of us.... How can a secondary school pupil will just put up stories that we left over decades ago and we'll be listening

Good riddance.

Me wey girl come visit I comot leave am for house go watch Man U vs Tottenham match.
As I come back I just escort am small make she dey go her house.

Girl wey I don dey plan to work on wella as e be say I never see am for months until that day.

Both of them are correct. But since a man is the head of the relationship, dont let any woman's thoughts, emotions or feelings overshsdow what you want

CONTINUE TO DEY TAKE FOK PLAY

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ManknowThyself:
You are a man!!!!!!!!

Never in life allow any woman except your biological mother to use her time and your time together.

Learn to open the door for anyone that want to leave your life without chasing.

Don't ever call nor text her again.

Women plenty for your dm, use another one patch the weekend.

You must have graduated from Geh Geh University,

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lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.
E better as you say no....after all na sin una won sin and Allah put asunder between you two!
Imagine say she come and in the middle of doing the do...she come cut ticket to the other side beyond...you for dey regret not watching the match and saying no to her visit.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

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lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.




It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

E better as you say no....after all na sin una won sin and Allah put asunder between you two!
Imagine say she come and in the middle of doing the do...she come cut ticket to the other side beyond...you for dey regret not watching the match and saying no to her visit.

iLoveYouToo:
Why are some people’s English so poor?

Why some people think, everybody must be at same level with them?
Because they are not intelligent the way they think they are.

If they reasoning rationally, they would have known, in any society.
Not everyone will be educated.
Will be rich.
Will be handsome/beautiful. Etc.

Fiscus105:
Why some people think, everybody must be at same level with him?
Because they are not intelligent the way they think they are.

If they can reasoning rationally, they would have known, in society.
Not everyone will be educated.
Will be rich.
Will be handsome/beautiful. Etc.

I think you’re right

As someone with i don't care attitude, you've messed up.
Calling her back after the match should at most be 2 calls, followed by a follow up text on Whatsapp. Nothing more.
It's a mind game. She wants you to chase after her so much that you'd do anything when she finally agrees to talk to you.

Show women you value your own time too.
They respect that.
No lady takes a guy who blows up her phone with calls and texts. It's giving simp energy. They'll just use your head

That's how women think,she believes you prioritize match over her which normal and what I can do too...

Do not chase when it's time she'll message you herself

Parachoko:
You're not a serious person bro

Person call you say she wan come, you dey talk say you dey watch match

If nah me b the lady, I will just block and delete your number

Even if a male friend do this kin thing to me, nah the end of our friendship b that

No be it you jam person way sabi lick a** as per demigod way you be or wetin. .

Mattswaggz:
No be it you jam person way sabi lick a** as per demigod way you be or wetin. .

Wetin you dey talk?

Parachoko:
Wetin you dey talk?

You were talking as it you gave anyone time or the air they breath.......if not people that do worship you, what gave you the audacity to be talking like this?. .