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thesicilian:
I don't think you handled it maturely, irrespective of the fact that she may have overreacted a little.

A lady you're interested in calls you to tell you she's coming to visit, and you tell her straight up that you're watching a match you'll call her back. Even most of your guy freinds would not be happy with you if you told them you couldn't answer their call properly because you're watching a match. I am assuming you didn't ask her when she'd be coming, you could even have finished the match before she eventually reached your place. Would it have killed you to tell her okay no problem, but I'm a bit busy (or not in the house) now, but you can come in 1hr time?
What you told her in essence was, "I love you but I love football more" Even someone who already loves you would not want to hear that not to talk of the one you're still trying to get.

Chief SIMPle man...park go one side?.

Since na her give am time way she go fit just pop up expect am make him day run helter skelter to catch up na. .

stan4b:
It boils down to interest, and how much you really wanted to see her.

There will always be other matches to watch later, if you truly wanted to see her.

If you miss a second match half today because of her, it doesn't stop you from watching other matches later.

Besides, you can watch the match on ur phone sef.

I dont know why it's mostly broke guys that have this attitude most.

No be everytime una go dey form gragra.

This is the easiest way to know low quality humans, broke shaming others pathetic.

thesicilian:
I don't think you handled it maturely, irrespective of the fact that she may have overreacted a little.

A lady you're interested in calls you to tell you she's coming to visit, and you tell her straight up that you're watching a match you'll call her back. Even most of your guy freinds would not be happy with you if you told them you couldn't answer their call properly because you're watching a match. I am assuming you didn't ask her when she'd be coming, you could even have finished the match before she eventually reached your place. Would it have killed you to tell her okay no problem, but I'm a bit busy (or not in the house) now, but you can come in 1hr time?
What you told her in essence was, "I love you but I love football more" Even someone who already loves you would not want to hear that not to talk of the one you're still trying to get.

Let's assume everything you wrote here is true can you call a lady you are trying to know from the blues that you are coming to her house? There are shitty behaviours we condone which shouldn't be. Humans should do better.

PeterObash:
If you think some of this ladies are not smart then you must be joking. You see ehn, she isn't the only one behaving like that, some do that for security reasons especially if they are not yet safe with you, lemme tell you the reason why they do that sometimes some guys on knowing she's coming over prepare themselves by drinking man power or will get something else to put in their drink. Buh Be rest assured by the time she's used to you, she won't try such attitude or maybe she's having double doubt either she should come or not.

This escues is cheap and baseless. How much time do you need to have to do what you wrote above? Keep giving excuses for bad behaviours.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Let's assume everything you wrote here is true can you call a lady you are trying to know from the blues that you are coming to her house? There are shitty behaviours we condone which shouldn't be. Humans should do better.

Lol. That's another perspective.
I once asked to meet a lady and she specifically said "no problem, but in a very open place." When she said that I laughed and she was like, why did you laugh? And I told her, Before nko, where would I want to meet you, in my house? You think it's only you ladies that value safety, or you think I'll just want anybody to come to my house when I don't know if the person is a witch, thief, sick or even crazy person?

Mattswaggz:
Chief SIMPle man...park go one side?.

Since na her give am time way she go fit just pop up expect am make him day run helter skelter to catch up na. .

We know all of you that form hard men online but will be kneeling down offline with 90% of your meagre salaries to beg women that are even subpar in the first place.

You're probably too young to know the difference between a simpleton and a well bred human being.

AZControversial:
So, what if he said he was watching football?
It's ok to turn him down at will but wrong for him refusing to be at her beck and call?

It's not like she had made the move to start coming. It wouldn't bite her to wait a little over an hour for the match to end before coming.

Long and short of the matter is that she wasn't really into him in the first place.

I believe my write up needs no further explanation.

thesicilian:
We know all of you that form hard men online but will be kneeling down offline with 90% of your meagre salaries to beg women that are even subpar in the first place.

You're probably too young to know the difference between a simpleton and a well bred human being.

Kneel down to beg who?.....is she carrying gold between her legs or what?....stop thinking everyone is you okay. .

Every well bred human being would know to respect people's time and engagements..... should alert them of new developments early enough and understand when they weren't able to attend to something they weren't aware of in time...... except for SIMPle men of course who worship pvssy(as in this case).

correctguy101:
Especially when you're an Arsenal fan... 😁😂

Abegi, try again somewhere else... 🤧

E pain you

What rubbish letting Man City catch up so easy!
Makes me wonder if you no come second this year.

I swear, even me will become City if that happened!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdB2WBtzUDg?si=d40MwIcJ0gSdP4BZ

My eyes wet hearing us from my living room window.

#Millwall #Nairaland #budaatum

lovediehatelive:
Myself 10 years ago would have been all over her.

Thank God for the internet, the Redpill and people's experiences I read online have taught me more about female psychology more than I ever imagined.

Though it's not easy, but I try all I can to use head follow these ladies instead of feelings.

I've seen some guys abandoned a hot match just to go be with a girl.

It was a tough one for me because things had been flowing well just until that moment.

I no go lie, I'm thinking of trying again but don't want to appear desperate or get disrespected because she might want to do me back

Tell the truth, lovediehatelive, you would have been all over her because she roped you in.

Fishing, it's called. We go fishing for you with bait. Like put little wormy things at the end of a hook and dangle it till we catch you. Ten years ago, that is.

Now? Like ten years later?

We chew on you if you worth it, dump you if not and go dangle our hook in a bigger pond with a juicier wormy at the end and catch better than you.

I mean, it's not like we don't know redpill psychology. And there's lots out there who've been relating with redhands, who are now trying again to relate with their head.

Goodluck bro. Let us know your success.

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

She is a hook up girl that has been booked down for the weekend, but her appointment was denied, na the reason she called you back.

lovediehatelive:
Few weeks ago I met a girl and kept contact with her.

Everything was going on smoothly until I asked her to come to my place.


I already prepared my mind for 'NO', and that's what I actually got. I felt it's the usual not wanting to appear cheap so I tried again, she said she was busy.

It was on a Saturday. I lock up and continued with my life. The next day (Sunday) Mancity and Arsenal had match and I wasn't missing it for anything.

If she had accepted to come over, I would have planned my schedules so as to watch the game after that be with her or so.

But since she wasn't positive after second trial I assumed she won't be coming again.

Lo and behold just before the end of 1st half, (after Dounaruma mistake that Harvertz scored) her call came in, and she wanted to come!


Told her I was watching match I'll call her when I'm done.

That was it.

After the game I called but she didn't pick up. Messaged her on WhatsApp but she's not replying.


Since then she's been giving me attitude.

She's supposed to let me know on time, at least a day before, so that I plan my day, not towards evening by 5PM of the same day.



It's not as if I rejected her, I just can't leave my match for her even though I later called.

Has anyone ever experienced such?

with all this story now....what do we gain in this?