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....... by christygenius(op): 8:38am On Jan 21, 2013*

A sure

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Re: ....... by Nobody: 8:50am On Jan 21, 2013

It goes both ways. Being difficult to please is not limited to any gender...and please,quit the generalization.

Re: ....... by christygenius(op): 9:05am On Jan 21, 2013*

Forget this

Re: ....... by Nobody: 9:31am On Jan 21, 2013

^^Okay,i get u dear...but what is the point of this thread? To rub it in our face that we're difficult species? Cos u didn't provide us with any solution to quit being difficult...

Re: ....... by hrmkz: 9:32am On Jan 21, 2013

please yourself and forget about what the other person thinks of you.

Re: ....... by seunfly: 9:51am On Jan 21, 2013

This implies that you should be moderate in everything.
Girl please learn to be youself, real and you to any man in your relationship.
With this any man that will be yours will appreciate and stay with you.

Re: ....... by aaliyaSA(f): 10:13am On Jan 21, 2013

christygenius: [color=#000099][/color]Men are so complicated, So much like
children, so confusing & so hard to please.
If you try to please them, you are cheap.
If you make love to them wholeheartedly,
you are a LovePeddler.
If you don't, you are playing hard to get. If you listen when they talk, you are daft.

If you don?t, you are too difficult to handle.
If you give in to their Ideas, they call you
loyalist & take you for granted.
If you bring your own ideas, they call you
domineering. If you show them that you love them, you
are too emotional.
If you don?t, they will complain that you
don?t love them.
If you give them attention, you are bugging
them. If you don't, you are with another Man.
If you demand for attention, you are a
nagging woman.
If you don't, you are difficult to understand.
If you dress sexy, you are attracting other
men. If you don?t, you are awkward & local.
If you cook & wash their clothes, you are
desperate.
If you don't, you are not a wife material.
If you to club/party, you are too exposed. If
you don't, you are naive. If you are beautiful, you can't stay with ONE
man.
If you are ugly, you are not up to standard.
If you are Independent, you are chasing
men away.
If you are dependent, you are a liability.
If ure fair in complexion, they'll call u ''Yellow Pawpaw. If ure dark, ure too blackky.
If u huge, ure an Orobo. If ure skinny, ure lepacious/lepashandi.
If you try to satisfy them in bed, you are a sex addict.
If you don't, you are making sex boring.
If you are pregnant, you want to trap them.
If you are not pregnant, It's either you are not a woman or you a witch. If you ask men for money, you are too
demanding.
If you don't, they will take you for a fool or even say you collect from other Men.
What do men really want? How can we ladies ever please them? They can be sooooooooo.......... Annoying, Disturbing & Hurting.

Guys, please try and make things more easier for us and appreciate us for who we are, as well as our little efforts to make u guys happy.

...no one said love was easy. U needd to strike a balance with al the points u mentioned above. This balance won't necessarily be the same for everyone...u would have to get to know your partner In order figure when its too much, when its too little and what works for both of you......this advice coming from a single person Lol!!!!

Re: ....... by Mr1234(m): 10:33am On Jan 21, 2013

I'll tell you what. Men that are so hard to please are...

NIGERIAN men!

Re: ....... by Mr1234(m): 10:39am On Jan 21, 2013

christygenius: If you ask men for money, you are too
demanding.
If you don't, they will take you for a fool or even say you collect from other Men

.

I beg to differ ma'am

Which NIGERIAN man says that??

Re: ....... by thorpido(m): 11:38am On Jan 21, 2013

Generalising tongue

By the way where do u shop for your men?

Re: ....... by christygenius(op): 3:29pm On Jan 21, 2013*

Love u

Re: ....... by christygenius(op): 3:33pm On Jan 21, 2013*

Merry xmass

Re: ....... by Mynd44(mod): 6:12pm On Jan 21, 2013

It goes both ways. Human being generally are difficult to please not just men

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Re: ....... by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jan 21, 2013*

I beg to differ maam', Maybe the kind of men u just described are ur cousins or the boys u mingle with.

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Re: ....... by Joliecoco: 6:53am On Jan 22, 2013

Don't ever try to please a man , let him please you . wink

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Re: ....... by DigitalSignal(m): 8:25am On Jan 22, 2013

lrguru: I beg to duffer maam', Maybe the kind of men u just described are ur cousins or the boys u mingle with.

Sir, are you sure you do not feel the way she described above? It's hard not to have those kinds of thoughts, especially when you both are not married, though they may be suppressed in some people and not felt by quite a few! In the majority people feel this way either consciously or unconsciously and it goes both ways; ladies feel the same if a guy behaves in a similar manner!
OP -> Try to strike a balance somewhere for there is a price for everything given in excess of demand!

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Re: ....... by olumaxi(m): 8:50am On Jan 22, 2013

MEN in dis context means male n female

Re: ....... by paix(m): 10:25am On Oct 14, 2013

There's nothing difficult there. Husband should LOVE his wife as himself; and the wife should RESPECT her husband, period. But if the wife now loves the husband and the husband respects the wife, it is completely out of context.

Re: ....... by Frustrated007: 12:44am On Dec 24, 2020

Re: ....... by Nobody: 2:26am On Dec 24, 2020

christygenius:
[color=#000099][/color]Men are so complicated, So much like
children, so confusing & so hard to please.
If you try to please them, you are cheap.
If you make love to them wholeheartedly,
you are a LovePeddler.
If you don't, you are playing hard to get. If you listen when they talk, you are daft.
If you don?t, you are too difficult to handle.
If you give in to their Ideas, they call you
loyalist & take you for granted.
If you bring your own ideas, they call you
domineering. If you show them that you love them, you
are too emotional.
If you don?t, they will complain that you
don?t love them.
If you give them attention, you are bugging
them. If you don't, you are with another Man.
If you demand for attention, you are a
nagging woman.
If you don't, you are difficult to understand.
If you dress sexy, you are attracting other
men. If you don?t, you are awkward & local.
If you cook & wash their clothes, you are
desperate.
If you don't, you are not a wife material.
If you to club/party, you are too exposed. If
you don't, you are naive. If you are beautiful, you can't stay with ONE
man.
If you are ugly, you are not up to standard.
If you are Independent, you are chasing
men away.
If you are dependent, you are a liability.
If ure fair in complexion, they'll call u ''Yellow Pawpaw. If ure dark, ure too blackky.
If u huge, ure an Orobo. If ure skinny, ure lepacious/lepashandi.
If you try to satisfy them in bed, you are a sex addict.
If you don't, you are making sex boring.
If you are pregnant, you want to trap them.
If you are not pregnant, It's either you are not a w[s][/s]oman or you a witch. If you ask men for money, you are too
demanding.
If you don't, they will take you for a fool or even ~~say you collect fro~~m other Men.
What do men really want? How can we ladies ever please them? They can be sooooooooo.......... Annoying, Disturbing & Hurting.

Guys, please try and make things more easier for us and appreciate us for who we are, as well as our little efforts to make u guys happy.

Crappy piece

Re: ....... by dammyz101(m): 7:14am On Dec 24, 2020

christygenius:
[color=#000099][/color]Men are so complicated, So much like
children, so confusing & so hard to please.
If you try to please them, you are cheap.
If you make love to them wholeheartedly,
you are a LovePeddler.
If you don't, you are playing hard to get. If you listen when they talk, you are daft.
If you don?t, you are too difficult to handle.
If you give in to their Ideas, they call you
loyalist & take you for granted.
If you bring your own ideas, they call you
domineering. If you show them that you love them, you
are too emotional.
If you don?t, they will complain that you
don?t love them.
If you give them attention, you are bugging
them. If you don't, you are with another Man.
If you demand for attention, you are a
nagging woman.
If you don't, you are difficult to understand.
If you dress sexy, you are attracting other
men. If you don?t, you are awkward & local.
If you cook & wash their clothes, you are
desperate.
If you don't, you are not a wife material.
If you to club/party, you are too exposed. If
you don't, you are naive. If you are beautiful, you can't stay with ONE
man.
If you are ugly, you are not up to standard.
If you are Independent, you are chasing
men away.
If you are dependent, you are a liability.
If ure fair in complexion, they'll call u ''Yellow Pawpaw. If ure dark, ure too blackky.
If u huge, ure an Orobo. If ure skinny, ure lepacious/lepashandi.
If you try to satisfy them in bed, you are a sex addict.
If you don't, you are making sex boring.
If you are pregnant, you want to trap them.
If you are not pregnant, It's either you are not a woman or you a witch. If you ask men for money, you are too
demanding.
If you don't, they will take you for a fool or even say you collect from other Men.
What do men really want? How can we ladies ever please them? They can be sooooooooo.......... Annoying, Disturbing & Hurting.

Guys, please try and make things more easier for us and appreciate us for who we are, as well as our little efforts to make u guys happy.

Men want women to b who they are. Dont cross the line to impress any man just b who u are and u wil find ur mr perfect that luvs ur perfect inperfection.

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