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Dear men,

If the cost of loving a girl is higher than your cost of living, be wise and leave her for someone who can afford her cost of living, or she may be your cost of dying. If you must maintain anything as a man, let it be your money, not your honey, and your business, not your sweetness, or it may lead to your weakness.

Yes, eating out once a month is romantic. But when you have to eat out everyday, it becomes problematic and could make you erratic. You only owe a duty of financial care to your wife. Any woman who demands that of you may affect how far you go in life.

With all these daily preaching, men are still making mistakes with hungry selfish women

Op u never see love u go even steal or sell ur phone just to make it up to ur gf or wife ajeh

Goo0dHardDick:
Dear men,

If the cost of loving a girl is higher than your cost of living, be wise and leave her for someone who can afford her cost of living, or she may be your cost of dying. If you must maintain anything as a man, let it be your money, not your honey, and your business, not your sweetness, or it may lead to your weakness.

Yes, eating out once a month is romantic. But when you have to eat out everyday, it becomes problematic and could make you erratic. You only owe a duty of financial care to your wife. Any woman who demands that of you may affect how far you go in life.

Ogbeni, your mates dey prepare for a new work week. See wetin you siddon dey post. Tomorrow you go talk say na Tilumbu fault. Na wa o. Anyway, just continue with your misplaced priorities. Hunger is on the way

It is better to listen now or regret later

This is ignorant statement.

Even your sisters demands money from you.

The Bleep up is dating a jobless girl. Where do you expect her to get money if not you?

Every girl will demand money from you especially when she have no job but the difference is the rate of which she keep asking or over billing.

Love doesn't stop women from demanding money. Just that a girl that love you can't leave you because you fail to give her.

Even the rich dont spend money on poor girls...thats why the rich marry within their circle....If a girl is poor she has no right to depend on you to fight her poverty...You are no Jesus christ.

Aswear na true.. all the like is your money no you

Protect your finances, avoid unhealthy pressure, and don’t lose yourself trying to impress someone. That part is valid. But the message becomes unfair when it turns relationships into a battle between “money” and “women.”

Dear men,

Love should not feel like a financial survival test. A healthy relationship is built on mutual care, effort, respect, and understanding — not constant pressure to prove your worth through spending.

It’s okay to set financial boundaries. It’s okay to say, “I can’t afford this right now.” The right partner won’t measure your value only by what you provide materially.

At the same time, not every woman is demanding, materialistic, or trying to drain a man. Many women also work hard, support their partners emotionally and financially, and sacrifice for the relationship too.

Romance is not the problem. Lack of balance is.

If dating someone leaves you constantly anxious, broke, resentful, or unable to focus on your future, then the issue may not be love itself, but incompatibility, poor communication, unrealistic expectations, or trying to maintain a lifestyle beyond your capacity.

Choose a partner who values partnership over performance. Someone you can grow with, not compete with financially.

And remember: maintaining your peace, purpose, character, health, and finances all matter — not just your money.

Goo0dHardDick:
Dear men,

If the cost of loving a girl is higher than your cost of living, be wise and leave her for someone who can afford her cost of living, or she may be your cost of dying. If you must maintain anything as a man, let it be your money, not your honey, and your business, not your sweetness, or it may lead to your weakness.

Yes, eating out once a month is romantic. But when you have to eat out everyday, it becomes problematic and could make you erratic. You only owe a duty of financial care to your wife. Any woman who demands that of you may affect how far you go in life.

A Real G knows this, omorr survival dey hard ladies this days.

Dont allow ur self to be gaslighted , once they ''begin you are wasting my time'' , shes for the street.

This rhyme should be added to Songs of Solomon in the Bible.

Some Girls are truly industrious and creative,money wise, only few out many can actually be good wives material,and be truly supportive in building a relationship only if some of the guys are truly sensible in building with her, imagine a girl supporting you with some funds,all you could think of is how to go and play sporty bet and Baba ijebu games..not minding the pressure from the society, the only challenges some of them face is peer pressure,

Absollllllutelllllllly correct

IyaTola:
Protect your finances, avoid unhealthy pressure, and don’t lose yourself trying to impress someone. That part is valid. But the message becomes unfair when it turns relationships into a battle between “money” and “women.”

Dear men,

Love should not feel like a financial survival test. A healthy relationship is built on mutual care, effort, respect, and understanding — not constant pressure to prove your worth through spending.

It’s okay to set financial boundaries. It’s okay to say, “I can’t afford this right now.” The right partner won’t measure your value only by what you provide materially.

At the same time, not every woman is demanding, materialistic, or trying to drain a man. Many women also work hard, support their partners emotionally and financially, and sacrifice for the relationship too.

Romance is not the problem. Lack of balance is.

If dating someone leaves you constantly anxious, broke, resentful, or unable to focus on your future, then the issue may not be love itself, but incompatibility, poor communication, unrealistic expectations, or trying to maintain a lifestyle beyond your capacity.

Choose a partner who values partnership over performance. Someone you can grow with, not compete with financially.

And remember: maintaining your peace, purpose, character, health, and finances all matter — not just your money.

This copy and paste man 👆don come again. How person papa can be so idle at this age dey always wonder me walahi

That is the bitter truth

There is a lady I met back then.Some years back I gift her stuffs and some money I can actually do away with though just because I like her.
This lady is older than me.The first time I gifted her, she gifted me back until she stopped at the third time and I stopped giving the fifth time as well.She never asked me for anything during these times and I could remember she even rejected the fourth I gifted her something
Well I moved on with my life but she still comes around anytime I come to her area

I didn't date her because she is an older lady but I liked her

Goo0dHardDick:
Dear men,

If the cost of loving a girl is higher than your cost of living, be wise and leave her for someone who can afford her cost of living, or she may be your cost of dying. If you must maintain anything as a man, let it be your money, not your honey, and your business, not your sweetness, or it may lead to your weakness.

Yes, eating out once a month is romantic. But when you have to eat out everyday, it becomes problematic and could make you erratic. You only owe a duty of financial care to your wife. Any woman who demands that of you may affect how far you go in life.

Not true
Any woman who leaves you cos you cannot pay her bills does not love you

If she did not appreciate the little you can afford...let her go

Wealthyonos:
This rhyme should be added to Songs of Solomon in the Bible.

Am I the only one who noticed this? Exactly how Reno Omokri writes

garriAndsugar:
With all these daily preaching, men are still making mistakes with hungry selfish women

Mistakes ke?!! What mistake?!! Lol!

There is no "Mistake" about weak men thinking only money can buy them true love and faithfulness.

Obviously that is the biggest red flag.

Always be stingy with your woman. If she likes you, she will admire your stingyness.

A lady can never love you for the things you did for her. She only stay on how she felt dat moment she is with you.

This is not where I want to comment, how did I even land here?

Men know this. But the thing about men is that for many, all the rules go out the window if she's a baddie. Women aren't that different because some women will play dumb if a dude is fine and has "swag."

Most people aren't fooled or manipulated. It's like romance "scams." There's very little scamming going on there. Just a bunch of people who refuse to make mature decisions in their love life.

Very true
Like one banny I wanted to take out one time
Her response was day she dey look for money to fix her hair
My reply
Let me know when u see d money and finish fixing her hair
Till date she no Hala me again

Wotowotoman:
This copy and paste man 👆don come again. How person papa can be so idle at this age dey always wonder me walahi

Lol.... "@the copy and paste man."

Wetin be your personal beef with this man? Wetin dey really vex you about am?

Scammers on the loose. But there are good one's sha. Just pray.

Goo0dHardDick:
Dear men,

If the cost of loving a girl is higher than your cost of living, be wise and leave her for someone who can afford her cost of living, or she may be your cost of dying. If you must maintain anything as a man, let it be your money, not your honey, and your business, not your sweetness, or it may lead to your weakness.

Yes, eating out once a month is romantic. But when you have to eat out everyday, it becomes problematic and could make you erratic. You only owe a duty of financial care to your wife. Any woman who demands that of you may affect how far you go in life.

Oga, give credit to Reno Omokri.
This was his post!

Wotowotoman:
This copy and paste man 👆don come again. How person papa can be so idle at this age dey always wonder me walahi

The guy dey make me laugh with him copy and paste.

Goo0dHardDick:
Dear men,

If the cost of loving a girl is higher than your cost of living, be wise and leave her for someone who can afford her cost of living, or she may be your cost of dying. If you must maintain anything as a man, let it be your money, not your honey, and your business, not your sweetness, or it may lead to your weakness.

Yes, eating out once a month is romantic. But when you have to eat out everyday, it becomes problematic and could make you erratic. You only owe a duty of financial care to your wife. Any woman who demands that of you may affect how far you go in life.

Society had created so many feminine spineless men, hence masculinity is endangered. A woman that truly loves you won't ask you for money for her basic up keep.

That one na for your pocket o... Ask me money jorr, .. shey you dey whyne

Your first mistake be say naija girls no dey love again. Nah money dem love.
For this side of the world. Money dey open legs. Doors and do signs and wonders.