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Sideguy helped my own sha
The thing is be smart about it
Both gender become tired of d same soup at some point

MarkNsukkaBread:
That is not a strong enough basis

Guy,see this world that we are,there is little time left.
I can't waste my time and energy on someone that doesn't value my time and energy.
Life is too short to settle for garbage

Oga when e reach your turn, divorce the cheating spouse. Una no fit live una lives silently; constantly dishing out unsolicited advice.

It is not about ending the marriage. Men and women should pay attention to who they want to marry.

Listen to the signs. Whatever you forgive in a relationship, expect it to crop up during marriage.

Hezmatosky210:
Redhanded might not be forgiven. But I don't work nor listen to 'your wife is sleeping with one man' or 'your wife is going out with a certain man' whether it's true or false, I don't want to know. Nothing concern me. Na only jobless men monitors their wives upandan

whether you monitor or not, just pray say your wife no be Kasarachi type

If you cheat, the sidechick has to come inside. While I step out. She must come inside and give you that peace of mind well. Let me see if the relationship go still sweet una two.

Oil dey your head 👍[color=#000099][/color]

900warriorz:
Just dey play Dey play

I believe a man can do that if his wife cheats; it takes a woman to have an emotional connection to sleep with you...except she'[s promiscuous by default

But for a man, it's simply pleasure...Call it double standards, it is what it is and I didn't make the rules

DeltaBachelor:
Exactly o. END IT ASAP !!!!!!. It is dangerously dangerous !

. Truth is Bitter ,Those that Does It would Definitely Encourage such Relationships To Continue for one Selfish Reasons .


Life is More Significant....Than Anything.

When a Man or Woman Leaves His Or her Partner to Have Sexual Relationship with another Person ..

No Excuse ,No Explanation..Morally ,Spiritually and Otherwise No Basis to Continue in Such ...Leave that Union Immediately.

Stop Pampering Evil.

While I believe no gender should be given free tickets to commit adultery, an adultrous woman is more dangerous than an adultrous man because, a man can cheat without loving or being emotional involved with the woman but the woman on the other hand must be emotionally connected to a man to allow him have her.

This temporarily or permanent shifts her commitment, loyalty, support etc to the man she's cheating with. Until that relationship ends, she is more attached to the man she's cheating with and will do anything to hide her shameful act. Sometimes, she may even need to eliminate any threat

NOT TO SUPPORT ADULTERY BUT STRANGELY THERE IS NO SINGLE SCRIPTURE IN THE BIBLE THAT SUPPORTS DIVORCE BASED ON ADULTERY. OUR LORD JESUS PERMITTED DIVORCE ONLY FOR THE CAUSE OF FORNICATION, NOT ADULTERY AND THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO AS A MARRIED PERSON CANT COMIT FORNICATION BUT ADULTERY. IN THE OLD TESTAMENT,WHERE MOSES PERMITTED DIVORCE, IT WAS FOR THE HARDNESS OF THE HEARTS OF PEOPLE WHO COULD NOT FORGIVE. JESUS PREACHED FORGIVENESS 70 × 7 IN MATTHEW 18 BEFORE PREACHING MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE IN MATTHEW 19. GOD EXPECTS U TO FORGIVE BECAUSE IF U DONT, U WILL SEND THAT SOUL TO HELL. IF U FORGIVE THE PERSON AND IT KEEPS REPEATING, U CAN ONLY SEPARATE FROM THE PERSON AND LIVE SINGLE ALL THROUGH YOUR LIFE. WHERE U CAN DIVORCE AND REMARRY IS UNDER FORNICATION AND HERE IS THE MEANING. WE ARE ALL SUPPOSED TO MARRY VIRGINS BY GOD'S WORD. IF YOU APPROACH SOMEONE FOR MARRIAGE AND THE PERSON CLAIMS TO BE A VIRGIN AND THE MARRIAGE GOES AHEAD. AFTER WEDDING, IF YOU DISCOVER THAT, SHE WASNT, YOU CAN SCRIPTURALLY PUT HER AWAY AND REMARRY BECAUSE SHE PLAY THE LovePeddler IN HER MOTHER'S HOUSE. OUTSIDE THIS, NO BODY CAN AND EVEN MEN OF GOD DONT KNOW THIS HARD BIBLE TRUTH. WHEN CHRIST TOLD THEM THIS BITTER TRUTH IN MATTHEW 19, THEIR REPLY WAS, " IF THAT BE SO, IT IS NOT GOOD FOR A MAN TO MARRY " THE SIMPLE MEANING IS THAT THEY WERENT READY TO FORGIVE AND IF YOU CANT FORGIVE AND SEND SOMEONE TO HELL, HOW DO YOU EXPECT GOD TO FORGIVE YOUR OWN SINS AND ALLOW YOU INTO HEAVEN ?

Adultery don tey o....it's not a recent problem.

Thou shalt not commit adultery.
— Exodus 20:14

As you are marrying your wife/husband just have in mind that adultery is a possibility and be ready for it with either forgiveness or separation!

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repogirl:
It's like the moderator is still half asleep.

. Very Much Awake..It's Such a Very Very Bitter Truth.

There is need for such thread for People to Share their Views



So Many Men / Women have lost their Lives Keeping an Adulterous Husband or Wife .

Lots of Life Would be saved if This Frank Action is Taken .

A Guy in Lekki Discovered his Wife is Sleeping Arround ,People Told Him ,He Disagreed.

He Later Caught her Red Handed ..

Wife Pleaded ,He Accepted .

She Refused to Stop .

Next time he Caught Her ,He sent her six Feet under the Ground .

Murdered Her .

He Carried enough Annoyance in his Heart Already .If He had done the needful to have sent her Packing ,The Mayhem would have been Averted .

Stop Supporting Evil.

Don't Continue a Relationship With an Adulterer,To leave is Better than Loosing of Lives.

Jorussia:
Oga Adultery is the same for both genders.

Is a man with 4 wives committing Adultery?

QuinQ:
So if your rich husband you depend on 100% go get one unserious side girl so, dovorce him immediately? Okay o, me I no understand this "spirituality"

Will you accept a cheating wife back?

Any woman who cheat on you can kill you. Why risk your life for one woman when there are billions of women in the world?

No discussion on that .. simple as ABC

QuinQ:
So if your rich husband you depend on 100% go get one unserious side girl so, dovorce him immediately? Okay o, me I no understand this "spirituality"

In as much as we demand loyalty from women, men should also do the same. Enough of men has the right shenanigans.

Discuss your promiscuity ability to the lady before marriage so she will know what she's going into. Or tell her you're not a one woman person, if she agree to marry you fine. Men hypocrisy is too much abeg

Jorussia:
Oga Adultery is the same for both genders.

No it is not

BioData45:
In as much as we demand loyalty from women, men should also do the same. Enough of men has the right shenanigans.

Discuss your promiscuity ability to the lady before marriage so she will know what she's going into. Or tell her you're not a one woman person, if she agree to marry you fine. Men hypocrisy is too much abeg

They want to be fucking around, then start crying when they discover another man is fcking their wives. The one they are sleeping with, no be person babe/wife?

They will cry and divorce more in the coming years. 😂😂😂

fykes:
Imagine the stress of making the bag, supporting the family and now join it with a woman wahala? I no fit. Make anybody do ad they want. My life is way too big to carry another person's decision and actions as my consequence.

Just imagine naw. All these old traditional beliefs. Throughout last week comeout this week I dey under engine inside ship they sweat it out, for how much?. Then I will come and die for my wife's infidelity? If I hear. There's consequences for every sin you commit. God does not transfer sin of one person to another. The day I catches her, that's the end. No begging will bring her back

QuinQ:
So if your rich husband you depend on 100% go get one unserious side girl so, dovorce him immediately? Okay o, me I no understand this "spirituality"

A man and a woman are not the same there's a reason why a bride price is paid on the head of a woman.

repogirl:
It's like the moderator is still half asleep.

Look who came out of the shadows and graced this unhallowed place with her presence

Long time. How have you been?

Jorussia:
Oga Adultery is the same for both genders.

You can only call it adultery when the man doesn't marry the other lady officially.

pocohantas:
If you cheat, the sidechick has to come inside. While I step out. She must come inside and give you that peace of mind well. Let me see if the relationship go still sweet una two.

I truly don't know why people stress so much over a cheating spouse.

By the grace of God, I'll NEVER cheat. Never done it.

But if my husband cheats tomorrow, it's really on him. I wonder why people cry over someone else's actions. What's that possessiveness about?

Someone is cutting their body with razor and I'm the one crying?

Yes, it'll hurt to see it. But the bigger consequence is on him.

I won't make it easy for him by confronting him or getting wimpy. That will be too much of a relief. Keep sneaking around because you can never do it boldfaced.

Keep dealing with the guilt. I won't sleep with you AGAIN. Sex isn't that much of a big deal to me. I'd lived years without it before getting married.

He's searing his own conscience.

I won't leave esp because of my children. And so he never has a justification to say he's divorced and now dating freely.

They'll never know their father's a cheat. But he'll roast in his guilt.

His maker & God will judge him. Not me.

All I can do is pray for mercy for him... and that he repents.

But nothing will shake my peace. My sense of worth & understanding of justice is too high to lose sleep over a cheating man.

kaywon:
Not that I support extra marital affairs, but not everybody wants to end their marriage because of infidelity.

The situation in your marriage differ from theirs.

For some people, it's wiser to forgive and fight for your marriage

It depends on where you come from in some cultures here in nigeria the man will definitely die if he knows his wife is cheating on him and forgives her without taking the necessary actions.

PrimadonnaO:
I truly don't know why people stress so much over a cheating spouse.

I feel it is an open and shut case, and he knows this. It is the constant hypocrisy of the males I enjoy calling out and taunting them with😂. How have you been, nne?

MarkNsukkaBread:
This is just a myth and has never been proven

Come here in delta state and see for yourself this is no joke men from isoko and some parts of uhrobo do die in reality till today u don't joke with ancestral covenants.

pocohantas:
I feel it is an open and shut case, and he knows this. It is the constant hypocrisy of the males I enjoy calling out and taunting them with😂. How have you been, nne?

I've been hale and hearty o. Logging in here for the first time in months and such am interesting gist. 🤣

I've also expanded the post.

Trust you've been well, too.

IsraeliAIRFORCE:
Forgive, even as our Lord God, gives you.

Matthew 6:14 KJV
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:

Same bible commanded Christians to divorce their cheating wives.

pocohantas:
They want to be fucking around, then start crying when they discover another man is fcking their wives. The one they are sleeping with, no be person babe/wife?

They will cry and divorce more in the coming years. 😂😂😂

New generation women are dealing with
them already.
Them go train another man pikin tire, cry, lament... Divorce, remarry.. rinse and repeat.
They are busy bragging how they are polygamous in nature, sleeping around with numerous women... As if no be another man woman dem dey fvck.
Their healing go long

Ishilove:
Look who came out of the shadows and graced this unhallowed place with her presence

Long time. How have you been?

Hiiiii Ishi!!! You're one to talk when you’ve been almost as scarce as I have been.

But I’ve been good. I recently resumed posting one of my stories that I left dormant for years, Forever and for always. So you might see me around a bit more.

It’s really nice seeing you around again and knowing you’re fine.