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Proserpina:
Gimme 3 types of women to marry, e be like say I don ready

OlaOfLagos:
1. The feminist
2. The single mother
3. The party girl

I guess this information helps

keemsleek:
What about the single girl thay has done 20 abortion.


The single girl who is an OS.

The single girl who is a retired olosho

The single girl who is a serial cheat

There are single mothers who have become better wives than una single girls.

OlaOfLagos:
Dey play who starts a football match with 1-0? No one says the single girls out there are saints. Do you know what it means to be a single mother? The trauma that comes with it (either by a broken home, Divorce or death of partner) Large numbers of these single mothers are damaged. I can only get married to a single mother on a condition whereby the woman in question lost her husband. When it time for you to get a wife, please go for single mothers who are damaged. There are some advise you don’t give people you just have to let them learn it all yourself then you will learn it the hardest way

Thank you for adding to the list

Peace

OlaOfLagos:
Number 1 on the list of the woman you should never marry.

1. The feminist.She talks about "equality" but really wants control. Every decision becomes a debate. She shames your masculinity, calls it toxic, and turns the home into a constant power struggle.
Sex becomes negotiation instead of passion. Peace is impossible when she sees your natural leadership as oppression. Never marry a woman who fights your role as a man

2. The Single Mother
You will never be her number one priority. The kids and the baby daddy drama will always come first.
You become the financial provider, babysitter, and the bad guy when you try to enforce rules.
Raising another man's children while getting disrespected in your own home is a trap that destroys many good men.

3. The Party Girl
She's fun and exciting in the beginning, but marriage kills her lifestyle. The club nights, attention from other men, and constant craving for validation don't disappear.
Once the honeymoon phase ends, she resents the "boring" home life and starts looking for excitement outside. High body count and zero discipline for building a stable family.

OlaOfLagos:
Number 1 on the list of the woman you should never marry.

1. The feminist.She talks about "equality" but really wants control. Every decision becomes a debate. She shames your masculinity, calls it toxic, and turns the home into a constant power struggle.
Sex becomes negotiation instead of passion. Peace is impossible when she sees your natural leadership as oppression. Never marry a woman who fights your role as a man

2. The Single Mother
You will never be her number one priority. The kids and the baby daddy drama will always come first.
You become the financial provider, babysitter, and the bad guy when you try to enforce rules.
Raising another man's children while getting disrespected in your own home is a trap that destroys many good men.

3. The Party Girl
She's fun and exciting in the beginning, but marriage kills her lifestyle. The club nights, attention from other men, and constant craving for validation don't disappear.
Once the honeymoon phase ends, she resents the "boring" home life and starts looking for excitement outside. High body count and zero discipline for building a stable family.

SixSeven:
You get it! I know it's not easy but women have thought that emancipation is about financial independence and that women were abused back then because men had more money and that's why he could take a second, third or fourth wife. Women always want to wear the same trousers like men until they find out the reality. Again, it's only a well brought up woman that can honor her man and know his importance in her home. These days, a lot of women are doing better than men, but women are finding late in their 40s to 50s that financial independence is good but that's not what it takes to be a man. The way women react to women is not the same as men, that's why I will advise me that don't depend on them as much as possible if you can. It sounds harsh but these were things old men taught us but we didn't understand. Tell women today, they will say it's misogyny but I don't care. The harsh reality for men is that given the same authority and financial means men have, women will treat men in a way that he will prefer to be a gateman to being her husband. Men must learn this right now. Women are hypergamous. Even if she was not doing well as you before you get married, if you slack and don't improve yourself, she will get tired of you.

A woman is a man who doesn't have to be a man. A man is a woman who is not allowed to be a woman.

If you listen to what Obey says here, it's golden advice for men (and maybe women):

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eX6KC7KP0BM

I have seen how women behave in relationships and marriage and when I try to resolve the differences, you will see these small things. Women don't like the hard truth but these things repeat themselves. Men who refuse to learn will learn the hard way. Experience is always the best teacher.

All the best in your manhood

“I’ve divorced four times and each time I’ve had a party.”

In Mauritania it’s thought half of all women get divorced at least once with some remarrying multiple times. Many choose to celebrate their divorces but for the poorest there are serious consequences. pic.twitter.com/TC7il1ottH

— Unreported World (@UnreportedWorld) May 10, 2024

While he was struggling financially he found out is wife had $280,000 in her bank account pic.twitter.com/CVdqSdxrwm

— Abdulkabir (@olawale__01) May 14, 2026

Urgent1Million:
Once you get big black cucumber and fit knack for up to 1 hour straight, come get money join, all their madness go evaporate.
Any woman who cannot shop in your wallet or/and boxers will always be disrespectful.

While he was struggling financially he found out is wife had $280,000 in her bank account pic.twitter.com/CVdqSdxrwm

— Abdulkabir (@olawale__01) May 14, 2026

keemsleek:
Who is more damaged, a single lady that has done 20 abortion or coded OS and a lady or a lady know has a child and you know her history? You marry a single and you later find out u married an expired olosho or someone who can't give birth again, and for ur info a widow ir a divorcee cos of domestic violence or one like u people impregnat and dump cat be compare to olosho single mothers or wayward single mothers.

Maybe the types of dingle mother you guys meets say alot about you. There are lot of hardworking, self dignified single mothers. The same way there are useless single women is the same way there are useless single mothers and vice versa. Just pray you meet a good and vicious woman.

2mch:
Oga focus on your life and stop advising rubbish. Na your type God de make him daughters single mother. Then all these boys you have advised will do exactly as you advised to them tomorrow. Make your own choices let others make their own. We didnt come to this life together and we no go die together.

Your personality and the women you choose will be different from another person. So you nor reach to give generalizing advice that lack sense.

tiswell:
And who told you single mothers hasn't done several abortions before deciding to have the last one for medical implications or for a failed trapping a guy with pregnancy?

Paige001:
What is you people’s problem with feminist? Feminism is not a crime someone can be a feminist and still respect and submit to her husband, Chimamanda for example is a feminist but she stills respect her husband, Beyoncé too and the list goes on.