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| My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Melmo: 5:25pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
I recently found out that my man has a son. So I surprised him and visited him at his home and I found pictures of his ex on his walls. He says its for his son so that when he comes to visit him he can have pictures of his mom around. How do I deal with this situation? 1 Like |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Yvete(f): 5:29pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
Melmo: I recently found out that my man has a son. So I surprised him and visited him at his home and I found pictures of his ex on his walls. He says its for his son so that when he comes to visit him he can have pictures of his mom around. How do I deal with this situation? Wow!! That's messed up. Seems like its a new relationship, but as time goes on, he may take it down. He should put those pictures in a folder. Like a personal album for the son to see pictures of his parents together if he wants to. Honestly, I think its wrong to keep old pictures on the walls  now that you're in his life. The earlier the son gets the memo that his parents are no longer together, the better.Goodluck! 5 Likes |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by sistajay(f): 5:35pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
Exuse me while I have a scream ARRGGGHHH Ok I feel better now. @op you are the 'the other woman' this guy is still in a relationship with his baby mama. 11 Likes |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by djeezy(m): 5:37pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
@op, he's not yet married to you, so I suggest you wait, if he marries you then you can decide whatever to do with the picture. It depends on the area of the wall where it was hung. If sitting room, totally not cool. An album would be more preferable. 8 Likes |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Yvete(f): 5:37pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
sista-jay: Hmnnn ... that was too direct for me to say. I hope the truth won't hurt. |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by djeezy(m): 5:38pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
sista-jay:Feasibly. |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Idowuogbo(f): 6:20pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
sista-jay:Exactly! Say no more... Thread closed#### |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
If i recall correctly,u are the S.A lady dating a Nigerian...maam,for the last time,dump that man and move on. You deserve better. 1 Like |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Goldieluks: 6:37pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
djeezy: @op, he's not yet married to you, so I suggest you wait, if he marries you then you can decide whatever to do with the picture. It depends on the area of the wall where it was hung. If sitting room, totally not cool. An album would be more preferable. Gbam! 1 Like |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Akainzo(m): 6:48pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
Melmo: I recently found out that my man has a son. So I surprised him and visited him at his home and I found pictures of his ex on his walls. He says its for his son so that when he comes to visit him he can have pictures of his mom around. How do I deal with this situation? You mean all this while, you hadn't been going to his house? How exactly was he your man?? 3 Likes |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
Try he is married to the baby mama and u are the other chick  1 Like |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Melmo: 7:38pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
Yeah I. Gonna ask him to take them down. |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
Melmo: Yeah I. Gonna ask him to take them down.you remind me of a sheep...no offense intended. |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Melmo: 7:56pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
What you mean a sheep? |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
sista-jay: You said it all. I just hope that relationship isn't marriage. Poster, are you sure that man isn't married and his wife is somewhere far away. Sorry about my negative sentiment but please be very careful. Not sure how you found out he had a son. If he told you himself, then you may want to believe him. But if you "found out yourself", then he may have something more to hide. Just tell him to be truthful with you! 3 Likes |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
Melmo: What you mean a sheep?A sheep represents calm & gullibility. |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Melmo: 8:24pm On Jan 15, 2013 |
He told me himself but I think he is hiding more. But he wants me to meet his mom which I don't understand. |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Lolaabokoku(f): 12:26am On Jan 16, 2013 |
Melmo: He told me himself but I think he is hiding more. But he wants me to meet his mom which I don't understand.u beta scramm!!! Let me share dis short story wid u; in 2010 i met a 29 yrs old guy, he's cute, brilliant infact he has all d quality evry lady wanted in a man, in a very short time we got along well wit eachoda.. One tin i noticed was that he rarely invites me to his house but when i insisted & threatened 2 break up with him so one day, he invited me 2 his place on getting there, he switched off the lights & we were able 2 see through the reflection of his television. It happened the second time but on my third visit, i never told him i was coming.. It was still afternoon, i knocked and entered straight then the lights were on i just looked straight at the wall & i saw a toddlers picture on the wall which looks exactly like him,, it was then i asked who the baby in the pic is, dat was when he confessed 2 me dat he had children... Not just 1 child, two children, he has 3 children but wants 2 remarry.. So my dear u can see how dangerous a man can be.. So i think he is still hiding somethings for u but if really u think u can go ahead with the relationship no problem but if not take 2 ur heels.. 6 Likes |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Mynd44: 5:36am On Jan 16, 2013 |
Tell him you are not comfy with it and he should take it down if he does not, you have your answer |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Melmo: 7:16am On Jan 16, 2013 |
I will see him next week. Thing is he didn't hide anything which is really weird. |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Melmo: 7:16am On Jan 16, 2013 |
And he wants me to meet his parents. |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Mynd44: 8:28am On Jan 16, 2013 |
Melmo: And he wants me to meet his parents.So? If he will get serious with you then you need to lay down some rules. Flup this a bit, woul he take it if it were you having pictures of your ex? |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by DukeNija(m): 8:55am On Jan 16, 2013 |
binger: you remind me of a sheep...no offense intended.Are you Ok? D@s insulting. You remind me of a Mule. 1 Like |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by heed101(m): 9:35am On Jan 16, 2013 |
 you wanna overthrow the baby mama. #God is watching u in Matrix1 Like |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by sexybash(f): 9:37am On Jan 16, 2013 |
some men are just not cool  |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Fklin(m): 9:38am On Jan 16, 2013 |
Melmo: Yeah I. Gonna ask him to take them down.taking it down is not the issue, u v 2 b sure dat he has notn 2 do wt d so called ex, cos he myt tk d pix down and still shack up wt her... 1 Like |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by dridowu: 9:40am On Jan 16, 2013 |
Accept him or Leave |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by omiobo: 9:42am On Jan 16, 2013 |
OP,hope you are pregnant for him? If you are,the decision is yours but if you are not,then dialogue with legs. |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Born2beRich1(m): 9:43am On Jan 16, 2013 |
Melmo: And he wants me to meet his parents. I would advise you to leave this guy and pray for a better guy..... The guy is just using you to keep himsef warm when his baby mama isnt around |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by Okijajuju1(m): 9:50am On Jan 16, 2013 |
AND SO WHAT?! Thats his baby mama... 1 Like |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by bigfat: 9:51am On Jan 16, 2013 |
[size=15pt]some skeleton in my cupboard ... [/size] |
| Re: My Man Has Pictures Of His Baby Mama In His House by omanifrank(m): 9:51am On Jan 16, 2013 |
just with time.... Maturity will take its place 2 Likes |
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