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Once you get big black cucumber and fit knack for up to 1 hour straight, come get money join, all their madness go evaporate.
Any woman who cannot shop in your wallet or/and boxers will always be disrespectful.

Proserpina:
Gimme 3 types of women to marry, e be like say I don ready

If you need advise form a stranger on the internet then you are not ready. Grow up

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There is only 1 type of lady you should really avoid:

Ladies who have Selective Morality.

Omoo! Single mothers don suffer for Nigeria, chai!

lenghtinny:
That’s the problem

The feminism practiced in Nigeria is not on the same level as developed nations

Most feminists got their orientation and knowledge of feminism from the toxic contents they consume on the internet

That’s another angle and you could be right .
Understanding the concept will help women in Nigeria . Toxicity ain’t feminism.

Paige001:
What is you people’s problem with feminist? Feminism is not a crime someone can be a feminist and still respect and submit to her husband, Chimamanda for example is a feminist but she stills respect her husband, Beyoncé too and the list goes on.

Many misandrists call themselves feminists, and the label is dominated by them, hence the association of feminism with toxicity.

OlaOfLagos:
Number 1 on the list of the woman you should never marry.

1. The feminist.She talks about "equality" but really wants control. Every decision becomes a debate. She shames your masculinity, calls it toxic, and turns the home into a constant power struggle.
Sex becomes negotiation instead of passion. Peace is impossible when she sees your natural leadership as oppression. Never marry a woman who fights your role as a man

2. The Single Mother
You will never be her number one priority. The kids and the baby daddy drama will always come first.
You become the financial provider, babysitter, and the bad guy when you try to enforce rules.
Raising another man's children while getting disrespected in your own home is a trap that destroys many good men.

3. The Party Girl
She's fun and exciting in the beginning, but marriage kills her lifestyle. The club nights, attention from other men, and constant craving for validation don't disappear.
Once the honeymoon phase ends, she resents the "boring" home life and starts looking for excitement outside. High body count and zero discipline for building a stable family.

I agree with all your points.. while they are generalized, 80% in those categories are as you said. The list is even longer than this.

And to be honest, we guys have our own too. I expect the ladies to create a thread on types of men to avoid... instead of creating male monikers to tackle OP.

keemsleek:
What about the single girl thay has done 20 abortion.


The single girl who is an OS.

The single girl who is a retired olosho

The single girl who is a serial cheat

There are single mothers who have become better wives than una single girls.

All these can be categorised under PARTY GIRL.. The constant need for validation like has said

Paige001:
What is you people’s problem with feminist? Feminism is not a crime someone can be a feminist and still respect and submit to her husband, Chimamanda for example is a feminist but she stills respect her husband, Beyoncé too and the list goes on.

Just like okrika, feminism has grades. Chimamanda Adichie and Beyoncé do not think like the majority of Nigerian feminists with low IQs.
Their interpretation of feminism is that women's voices should be heard and that women should also be given equal opportunities to lead, instead of being pushed aside as though they are worthless.


Many Nigerian feminists, however, interpret it differently. They believe that a man who paid their bride price should also share responsibilities such as cooking, washing plates and other household chores with them.

Kingozymandias:
If you need advise form a stranger on the internet then you are not ready. Grow up

Wise one
Why is your blood so hot this early morning

Paige001:
What is you people’s problem with feminist? Feminism is not a crime someone can be a feminist and still respect and submit to her husband, Chimamanda for example is a feminist but she stills respect her husband, Beyoncé too and the list goes on.

The Broke Feminist are loudest. And they give the "movement" a bad name that people now associate with feminism.

hegelian:
All these can be categorised under PARTY GIRL.. The constant need for validation like has said

How many single women don't fall under this categories?

joebeckz:
That’s a very generalized way to look at people. Relationships aren’t based on labels like that, they’re based on character and how two people treat each other.

About your feminist point, I don’t agree with that description. Wanting equality doesn’t automatically mean wanting control or fighting a man’s role. In healthy relationships, leadership and decisions are shared through respect, not competition. If there’s constant conflict, that’s more about the specific relationship, not a whole group of women or all women.

On single mothers, I understand the responsibility angle, yes the children will always be part of her life, but that doesn’t automatically mean you are “second place” or disrespected. A mature relationship is about accepting someone’s reality, including kids, and building something together if you choose that path. It’s not a trap, it’s a choice.

About party girl. I get that lifestyle differences can cause issues long-term, especially if someone doesn’t want to change. But again, that depends on the individual. Some people naturally grow out of that phase, others don’t. You can’t assume everyone stays the same forever or lacks discipline.

At the end of the day, I think judging people by categories like this ignores the real issue, which is compatibility, values, and maturity on both sides.

I live in a first world country and my ideology changed from the traditional views since I left Nigeria . Equality is big here and that has thought me to respect a spouse even more and earn equal respect. Life is even sweeter with equality, feminism doesn’t take the place of respect and love. It only asks for consideration , respect and to be acknowledged.

Firstly most of the point are based of ratio....after all in every rule there should be exceptions.

Secondly come and try an average Nigerian feminist and you'll understand what op is talking about.

Very TRUE........ he who has hears...