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So my friend proposed to his longtime girlfriend of 3 years this month.

They are already planning to go and see her parents later next month and to also get a date for the wedding sometime in December this year.

They don't always have issues, and anytime they do, they will resolve it within a day or so.

So, my friend saw his fiancée's comment on Instagram validating Frank Edoho's ex-wife opening her legs to Chike (another man) while married to Mr. Edoho.

In her argument, she said that she was right to open her legs to another man because Frank confessed that he keeps malice as a form of punishment.

For the sake of anonymity, I can't share the screenshot here.

He (my guy) has already made up his mind to quit the relationship because he sees her comment as a red flag that should not be ignored.

I tried to talk him out of it, but it seems his mind is made up.

What can I do to help?

Stay clear, will you help marry the girl? It's his call whether good or bad allow him make his decisions.

FreeNaijaII:
So my friend proposed to his longtime girlfriend of 3 years this month.

They are already planning to go and see her parents later next month and to also get a date for the wedding sometime in December this year.

They don't always have issues, and anytime they do, they will resolve it within a day or so.

So, my friend saw his fiancée's comment on Instagram validating Frank Edoho's ex-wife opening her legs to Chike (another man) while married to Mr. Edoho.

In her argument, she said that she was right to open her legs to another man because Frank confessed that he keeps malice as a form of punishment.

For the sake of anonymity, I can't share the screenshot here.

He (my guy) has already made up his mind to quit the relationship because he sees her comment as a red flag that should not be ignored.

I tried to talk him out of it, but it seems his mind is made up.

What can I do to help?

God go punish you if you no let that guy do him mind. If you really care about the girl, make you go marry her.

Let him choose his poison himself. There are many things in people's life you shouldn't interfere or your interference should be very minimal.

Fake story

Make him japaaaa oOoOO. Fear who know fear that gender

Your friend is smart.

Cum4me:
Tinubu is the most incompetent president in the history of Nigeria.

Where did you wake up from?

All these simps sef, using intenet to get validation for everything

Like how do you guys do it every time. Are your lives bereft of purpose that you waste your time conjuring phantom tales from nowhere? It's really appalling to say the least.🥱🥱

Cum4me:
Tinubu is the most incompetent president in the history of Nigeria.

How does this relate to the topic under discussion?

That's a good plan....u can't sleep with both eyes close , knowing fully well that the other person on the other side of the bed is capable of harming you....

Note:
If u're sleeping with a married woman... U're putting urself in harms way...

If ur wife is cheating on u... U're also putting urself in harms way because she or her lover is capable of killing u

Sometimes you guy think we're all dumb with these fabricated stories

You nogo mind your business? Advicer

I don't know what to even say

Red pill.........take your leave bro. She is telling you she can do the same.

If you want to help, stop spreading lies.

Nigerians have to massively unfollow this Chike. All streaming apps need to blacklist his songs. Stupidity must have consequences. I've already unfollowed him.

As for your friend, he should end that charade he's about to get into. That's not a union.

I find this strange. He should pray for her and send her back to the streets.

Op, why would you try to talk him out of it? Will you bear the pain with him when she opens her leg for Chike the Chuker later?

The mistake many young men make is that they make marriage decisions with emotions. You can take a woman out of the streets, you can't take the streets out of her.

In the whole Frank Edoho/Sandra/Chike matter, I exonerate Chike the Chuker of Sandra. If Sandra had not opened legs wide for Chike the Chuker, Chike the Chuker could not have watered Sandra's garden piorioorrr-phuuuu ifukufukufuku. I also exonerate Frank Edoho as he was not the one who made her cheat, but I blame him for forgiving her the first time. First time should tell you she has mentally disengaged from the marriage. Why are you forcing marriage with someone who doesn't want you?

By forgiving Sandra, he tacitly endorsed her chuking career with Chike the Chuker who chucked Sandra to a climatic state of chuku-chuku.

For any aspiring man or woman wanting marriage, avoid emotional trauma by leaving street properties for street landords. Anyone who compares you to his or her ex, wish him or her well and find your own.

Make una leave this Chike matter abeg. Frank wey no respect his old age desPite being fed by that woman. He was even bringing women to knack om his matrimonial bed. Make Frank go find farm work. These people don divorce. Make we move on.

They want to use this chicken saga to thread ...is always my friend this ,my friend that....

Carry the girl go marry nah. Over sabi, he say he no want u wan push am inside.
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God is about to safe him. The signs are there if he ignores it you will come here to tell us later. Goodluck to him

That's a real man right there. He should call it off. That's a huge red flag.

Marriage today is very different from what it used to be. Having been married for 15 years, I often reflect on how much society and relationships have changed. If I were still single in this era, I honestly might reconsider the idea of marriage entirely.

It’s no longer about whether someone is a virgin or not; the deeper concern is the noticeable decline in traditional values, commitment, loyalty, and the qualities that once defined true partnership. In many cases, it feels like we still have women, but fewer people who genuinely embrace the responsibilities and mindset of being a wife.

Civilization and Western influence have significantly changed the traditional structure of marriage in many African societies. In the past, marriage was deeply rooted in culture, family values, endurance, and communal responsibility. Men could marry multiple wives depending on their capacity to provide and manage their households, and marriages were often built to last despite challenges.

With the adoption of Western ideals such as monogamy and modern legal systems, the institution of marriage has evolved dramatically. Today, “one man, one wife” has become the dominant standard, while divorce cases have become increasingly common and visible in courts everywhere.

Many people believe these cultural shifts have weakened some of the traditional principles that once sustained marriages and family stability in earlier generations.

Your friend get sense sha

Stop giving us Fake story alaye

He should quit. The earlier the better abeg.

FreeNaijaII:
So my friend proposed to his longtime girlfriend of 3 years this month.

They are already planning to go and see her parents later next month and to also get a date for the wedding sometime in December this year.

They don't always have issues, and anytime they do, they will resolve it within a day or so.

So, my friend saw his fiancée's comment on Instagram validating Frank Edoho's ex-wife opening her legs to Chike (another man) while married to Mr. Edoho.

In her argument, she said that she was right to open her legs to another man because Frank confessed that he keeps malice as a form of punishment.

For the sake of anonymity, I can't share the screenshot here.

He (my guy) has already made up his mind to quit the relationship because he sees her comment as a red flag that should not be ignored.

I tried to talk him out of it, but it seems his mind is made up.

What can I do to help?

FreeNaijaII:
So my friend proposed to his longtime girlfriend of 3 years this month.

They are already planning to go and see her parents later next month and to also get a date for the wedding sometime in December this year.

They don't always have issues, and anytime they do, they will resolve it within a day or so.

So, my friend saw his fiancée's comment on Instagram validating Frank Edoho's ex-wife opening her legs to Chike (another man) while married to Mr. Edoho.

In her argument, she said that she was right to open her legs to another man because Frank confessed that he keeps malice as a form of punishment.

For the sake of anonymity, I can't share the screenshot here.

He (my guy) has already made up his mind to quit the relationship because he sees her comment as a red flag that should not be ignored.

I tried to talk him out of it, but it seems his mind is made up.

What can I do to help?

Your friend made the right choice to cancel....she would do worse than Franks wife.