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How women have chosen to ignore the woman in the picture who has agreed to the offense still surprises me. Chike who I have never heard from regarding whether he was involved in this is now being dragged and some stupid men are not asking questions

AZControversial:


It's the women cheering him on that's worrying

What surprises me is how you are suddenly surprised about the women's reaction.

They're known to detest the truth and accountability.

Hezmatosky210:
To me eh, sometimes i don't blame women on infidelity stuffs. Men are evil to their fellow men. Of all the best foods in this life, na person wife hungry you fuaaaah

Blame them cos if it were a man , they will massively come for his head

How I wish this Chike saga happened in one of Sharia State, and proved to be true.

R I P

I just laugh, when women and men and praising Chike.

God will not allow us to throw away our lives.

Even the bible say it is vey likely to cost you your life (Proverbs 7:1-23)

I have understood human to an extent, i would advise Chike and his people following in his footsteps to desist, cuz I know people in Frank’s shoes that will let it be for a long while. Allow Mr Chike to continue until one day they surely cancel Christmas on his ass. Very painful exit will be the words on his poster, cuz it would be painful indeed.

AZControversial:


It's the women cheering him on that's worrying

Any guy that his girlfriend celebrates this, should know what to do.

All the signs are there, let him not say he didn’t see the signs

Rapmoney:
For some days, the internet has been on fire over the alleged affair between the wife of Nigerian TV personality, Frank Edoho and singer, Chike.

I am not the type of person that spends much time online following trending stories, and all that, but one thing I noticed is that each time the story pops up, and I view the comments, I feel so ashamed at some of our young Nigerian mothers. What are you teaching your sons and daughters when you openly support a cheating wife? Would you openly showcase such support if the victim happens to be your brother or son?

Now, to the young men out there, let me give you a candid advice, and this is the gospel truth. Not every man out there is as meek as Frank Edoho. Some men out there are tigers and lions that belong to various cult groups. If you sleep with their wives, they will spend their time and money to make sure that you either leave the surface of the Earth, or you lose your hands and legs, and become useless in life.

My secondary school classmate had his head butchered with a matchet, and his right leg cut off at Isolo, Lagos for romancing with another man's wife. Unfortunately, he could not make it, as he died in the hospital after four days.

Whether a man is taking care of his wife or not, leave them alone. It is a family affair. God did not create you to be providing comfort or romance for women who lack such in their marriage. Please, it is not your duty to provide succour to a woman who lacks romance or care in her home. Just because you have six packs and a handsome face. Many men have gone. Be wise!

This is not a bro code. It is a warning. There is something Warri people call 'To die kamala'. It means to die for something that is not worth it.

📌

I have said it that any guy that tries such rubbish with me will join his ancestors ASAP. I'll chase the woman away but the man would pay the ultimate price for such affront. I no be gentleman at all o

A word is enough for the wise

rowland545:
Y would any guy b turned on by another man's wife....that a red line

It's just that secrecy, danger, and the pursuit of forbidden fruit. For many, the forbidden nature creates a dopamine rush, and the deception required adds an illicit edge that heightens physical arousal.

Others see it as conquest as a man's wife is supposed to be his haven, his territory and once she falls for another she not only let herself down but everything the husband holds dear. It's a sick game some guys love to play.

No man can furk any woman in this world unless that woman wants to be furked by the mentioned man.If Chike did not want to furk Frank Edoho's wife,she would have sought out another male to furk her.

These sort of issues occurred before we were all born and it shall continue to happen when we are all dead and gone.

manuelkel:
My grandma fit still guide pass the werey. 😂

He dey form busy inside the Nigeria all of us just dey barely survive

Nothing (as much as my SM research could fetch me) proofs that chike is sleeping with franks wife. Yes, chike may not deny it but he hasn't confirmed it too. I will rather take it to be a publicity stunt until their are stronger submissions beyond rumors.

obeegee:
Thou shall not commit adultery.

Grave sin

Chike no dey read bible. Him no go understand wetin rapmoney talk.
Wetin rapmoney talk dey related to wetin the book of proverb talk about sleeping with married women.

Make chike no listen to those wey dey praise am o!
The next one, him fit no dey lucky o!

Men dey we fit kpai somebody just because the person dey near their wives.

I no dey crucify chike, but make him use wetin happen learn lesson.

If Chike had done this to "some men," he would have been six feet under. This is not to say that he will escape the repercussions of this one—no, he won't. For his mother's sake, I sincerely hope that "some guys" do not take it upon themselves to avenge Frank Edoho. Chike has a big target painted on his back.

Chike and his supporters need to go and watch Troy and see the destruction a married pussy can cause.

Christlike01:
If Chike had done this to "some men," he would have been six feet under. This is not to say that he will escape the repercussions of this one—no, he won't. For his mother's sake, I sincerely hope that "some guys" do not take it upon themselves to avenge Frank Edoho. Chike has a big target painted on his back.

I swear, even his enemies can capitalize on it.
The world is a dangerous place.

Chike need to man up and tell his side of the story and it he actually did it, he needs to go and apologize to edoho in private and in public cos it has gone public.
That way, he will save himself from any consequence.

I am neither on anyone's side..
We all sin differently, different stains, different outcomes.
Sin is sin..🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️
May God be their judge.
Peace!!!

McLizbae:
Nothing proofs that chike is sleep with frank wife. Yes, chike may not deny it but he hasn't confirmed it too. I will rather take it to be a publicity stunt until their are stronger submissions beyond rumors.

Exactly 💯

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Didijiji:
One of the hardest sexual temptation to flee from is that of a married woman

You go dey run she go Dey pursue you

The temptation to test it is soooooooo high

Ha! abeg ooo

😂😂😂😂😂

iichidodo:
Even though adultery is not a crime ...Chike must count himself very lucky....Not everyman is redpilled enough to take this trespassing very calm like Edoho.

Just pray make temptation no come for you..
😂😂😂
You fit quiet pass Frank.
It's such a shameful thing to say, that's why he kept mute 😩😩😩

I really pity Chike. He has screwed away his destiny and career. This will surely affect him for a long time to come.

fyneboi79:
you wey dey hustle for money wetin you dey do here? Abi how much you don make? Una go just dey lie lie to unaself say una dey useful ..dey whine yourself ontop that dirty mat you are lying on

I dey use company free wifi dey chat you😂😂😂

Dey look chike.....

I see say life don frustrate you

Rapmoney:
For some days, the internet has been on fire over the alleged affair between the wife of Nigerian TV personality, Frank Edoho and singer, Chike.

I am not the type of person that spends much time online following trending stories, and all that, but one thing I noticed is that each time the story pops up, and I view the comments, I feel so ashamed at some of our young Nigerian mothers. What are you teaching your sons and daughters when you openly support a cheating wife? Would you openly showcase such support if the victim happens to be your brother or son?

Now, to the young men out there, let me give you a candid advice, and this is the gospel truth. Not every man out there is as meek as Frank Edoho. Some men out there are tigers and lions that belong to various cult groups. If you sleep with their wives, they will spend their time and money to make sure that you either leave the surface of the Earth, or you lose your hands and legs, and become useless in life.

My secondary school classmate had his head butchered with a matchet, and his right leg cut off at Isolo, Lagos for romancing with another man's wife. Unfortunately, he could not make it, as he died in the hospital after four days.

Whether a man is taking care of his wife or not, leave them alone. It is a family affair. God did not create you to be providing comfort or romance for women who lack such in their marriage. Please, it is not your duty to provide succour to a woman who lacks romance or care in her home. Just because you have six packs and a handsome face. Many men have gone. Be wise!

This is not a bro code. It is a warning. There is something Warri people call 'To die kamala'. It means to die for something that is not worth it.

Kudos to you. The best advice of the century. Even as it is, that Chike dude is a goner, whether Edoho does something or not. He just doesn't know it yet.

bobogogo:
Chike no dey read bible. Him no go understand wetin rapmoney talk.
Wetin rapmoney talk dey related to wetin the book of proverb talk about sleeping with married women.

Make chike no listen to those wey dey praise am o!
The next one, him fit no dey lucky o!

Men dey we fit kpai somebody just because the person dey near their wives.

I no dey crucify chike, but make him use wetin happen learn lesson.

I doubt if there's gonna be a next time. The dude is a goner. Even as I dey, I fit personally avenge on behalf of Edoho as the thing de annoy me. You have to be completely senseless to go and sleep with an adulterous woman. It's a death trap.

Chinny024:
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😂😂😂😂😂

you dey laugh

Enough with this dumb news. This is how you recognize that this forum is littered with children of the 14 - 22 year range. Any man above 26 would not expect his peers to be virgins. By then, you’d’ve gotten experience between women’s thighs and known there is nothing special about it. Younger folks are the ones yet to see women’s buttons and believe there is mystery shrouding the eight-minute act.

This Chike saga has produced many hot takes from men. I don't see this kind of energy when married men cheat with both single and married women.
Una go cry blood sha because if you cheat, you'll be cheated on.
Shikena

kpankpangolo:
Enough with this dumb news. This is how you recognize that this forum is littered with children of the 14 - 22 year range. Any man above 26 would not expect his peers to be virgins. By then, you’d’ve gotten experience between women’s thighs and known there is nothing special about it. Younger folks are the ones yet to see women’s buttons and believe there is mystery shrouding the eight-minute act.

Some of the assumed children of the 14 - 22 age range are older than you.

Nairaland is a public space, and it is not suppose to be tailored to fit your personal wishes. If you are not comfortable, you can create your own media platform. After all, Donald Trump did it with Truth.

donleo92:
I dey use company free wifi dey chat you😂😂😂

Dey look chike.....

I see say life don frustrate you

silly boy!!

dragunov:
I doubt if there's gonna be a next time. The dude is a goner. Even as I dey, I fit personally avenge on behalf of Edoho as the thing de annoy me. You have to be completely senseless to go and sleep with an adulterous woman. It's a death trap.

The public must not crucify chike.
It takes the grace of GOD to resist the temptation of a sexy married woman.
Only by His grace.

Some people are angry with chike cos they were not given the same opportunity and pussy and not cos they genuinly condemn the act.

Bros! A lot of married women are sleeping around.

Go to hotels and you will see wonders.

Na who dem catch na him be thief.

Rubyjade:
It’s hard not to feel a bit of whiplash when looking at social media commentary these days. One minute a platform is a space for lighthearted memes, and the next, it’s a battleground of intense, sometimes shocking opinions. It makes complete sense why you’d feel frustrated and deeply concerned by what you’re seeing online. When public commentary seems to normalize betrayal or overlook real-world consequences, it can feel like a complete breakdown of basic empathy and common sense.

The internet has a strange way of dehumanizing situations. People typing behind screens often treat real lives like fictional soap operas, rooting for "drama" without stopping to think about the actual families involved, or the values they are projecting to the next generation. It’s entirely valid to look at that and worry about the example being set for young people.

However, when we look at the other side of this conversation, the focus shifts from online commentary to the very real, very dangerous reality of street violence.

The story you shared about your classmate is tragic, and it highlights a grim reality: we live in a world where some people react to betrayal with devastating, unlawful violence. Cautioning young men to avoid meddling in marriages isn't just about "bro code"—it is, at its core, a plea for self-preservation and respect for boundaries. Marital issues are deeply personal and incredibly complex; entering that space as an outsider is always a massive gamble with high stakes.

At the same time, framing this strictly around the fear of violent retaliation—likening men to "lions and tigers" in cults—creates a tense dynamic. While it's vital to warn people about the extreme dangers that exist out there, relying purely on the threat of brutal consequences can sometimes obscure the fundamental moral reason to stay away: respecting commitments and avoiding the destruction of a family unit.

Ultimately, your frustration stems from a desire to see more accountability, better values, and fewer senseless tragedies. Whether the goal is protecting one's life or protecting one's integrity, the takeaway remains clear: entering into a marriage that isn't yours is a boundary that shouldn't be crossed.

What do you think is the biggest driver behind why online commentary has become so disconnected from these real-world consequences?

Forget battleground, wetin Chike do no good.

rowland545:
Y would any guy b turned on by another man's wife....that a red line

E tire me, my high school girlfriend since she got married i start treating her as married woman, no chat aside greetings. Even when she said she misses me i just had to jump over it and ask her of her kids. When she visited her family, she initiated a sit out, but bro why would i hang out with a married woman even though her intentions are pure. Chike should be ashamed of himself, there are lots of single ladies yet he chooses to have an affair with a married woman.

edogu:
VDM: For this act, Chike will miss out on juicy invitations like marriage ceremonies.

Women: We won't allow that to happen.

Men to women: Let’s see. Una don sponsor any marriage before?

No man will be happy to invite anyone whose stories are all over the social media for sleeping with a married woman. The only way for him is to organise a tour for his teeming female supporters.

So, any woman that request for chikke as a surprise gift on her wedding day or birthday means what?