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A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Toks2008(m): 9:17pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Date only when you are ready for marriage,abstain from premarital sex and if you date a guy for a year and he is not discussing marriage with you...LEAVE HIM. To a great extent,this is a good way for wise unmarried young ladies to avoid guys who are just out to damage them. 117 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Toks2008(m): 9:20pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
I guess this makes sense. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by mrakeeno: 9:21pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Dump him my foot. This op must be high on something 48 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by mrakeeno: 9:21pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Toks2008:no it doesn't 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 9:26pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
lol @dump him, as if the guy na trash, you think it's easy to let go of someone you deeply love?Okay about the premarital sex, you're right, but dumping a guy because he refused to say anything about marriage doesn't make sense to me sha, what if he's trying to know you more?you think it's easy to plan the future with someone you hardly know, even people that has been dating over 3yrs are not planning to get married talkless of 1yr,a lady must be patient with her man instead of rushing him, apart from trying to know her better... What if the guy is not financially stable, even mentally too, you think marriage would be the first thing on his mind, na marriage go put food on his table?Marriage is not for kids, it's for people who are ready in every aspect,, So dumping a guy does not make any sense to me, patience is golden 251 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by GuyWise101(m): 9:26pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
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Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by samysmoothfresh: 9:30pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Mr man, can you please take that nice little piece of "candid advice" and shove it up your old gay ass. Thank you!! 64 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 9:38pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Wrong advice if you ask me. Do you think it's so easy to dump someone after a year? So after they've tested the water for a year, they should move on to another one and the circle will continue 'till they get the right one? 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by ojun50(m): 9:45pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Mumu advice 12 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Betakeshi: 9:46pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Toks2008(m): 9:49pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
LaCruzz: Jesu..which aspect is hard for you to grasp? Discussing marriage may not be outright proposal but at least he is making his interest known to you. A year is too much for a real man who knows what he wants to know if he wants you as a wife except you are dating a boy. 84 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Toks2008(m): 9:53pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
kimbraa: Which water are you testing? This indomie generation wont kee me with laughter. Biko explain.. If a lady falls in love with a man and the guy is ready to start sleeping with you then he should as well be ready to marry you as long as he has a roof over his head and struggling and the girls parent should encourage both parties to do a wedding they are capable of and whenever the money comes they can do a bigger and more expensive wedding. I know this advise will not make sense to some ladies who just want to fool themselves playing their lives away with randy guys in the name of dating. The advise will make sense to ladies who understand the idea of sexual decency,it will also make sense to some virgins but not to some group of ladies who are deep into sexual recklessness. trust me sis,its easy to dump a guy who have not had s.x with you but will be extremely difficult to leave a guy who have had his way with you countless times so i understand you. 130 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by IamD18: 10:01pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
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Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by dingbang(m): 10:05pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Some ladies dont give a Bleep about the sex too... 2 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 10:08pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
LaCruzz: Too much sense made here. Are you sure you are a woman Nice one 5 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 10:13pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Toks2008:You failed to realise that in a bid to sound morally upright, you ended up entangling yourself in the web of immorality you were kicking against. Will dumping men after a year get them married? Is it easy to go from one man to the other in a no sex relationship? Try to be realistic. How do you do no-sex, claim to love the man and in no time, you're dumping him for another? Someone gave me this your advice when I broke up with my ex; my bf came around, been 2yrs now, he's a good guy; hard working, focused, principled, supports my dream, inspires me, but I know we're not ready for marriage. Save the morality message, I'll gladly give him myself and wait than any other man that comes for marriage. Should I now dump him because Toks thinks I'm wasting my time? Heck no! I'm happy where I am. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by izzou(m): 10:16pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
I pity the single lady that will take your advice She'll end up dating 7 guys in 7 years without anything to show for it. Let people define their relationships. The important thing is to live happily ever after. That's what matters most 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
dingbang:Good evening. I recall you wanted to tell me something the other day. Are you still busy? 1 Like |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by AryEmber(f): 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
For once, I actually agree with you. 6 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Toks2008(m): 10:21pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
kimbraa: I think you are trying to make yourself happy here. Do what you like sis..after all it is your life. My advise is for ladies who have not crossed the line. If i have a daughter today who is growing up into a woman this is the advise i will give her. So once again i understand where you are coming from..you cant just break away from a guy who have had you over and over again.. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Toks2008(m): 10:23pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
izzou: I dont expect guys to like this advise anyways so i perfectly understand you. 7 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
I agree. 7 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by izzou(m): 10:29pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Toks2008: How can you advise a lady to dump a guy after a year, simply because he isn't talking about marriage? What do you guys think marriage is? A shopping mall where you can just pick items and drop at will? There are people who have done introductions and still broke up. There are people who their boyfriends have proposed to, and six years down the line, oga never still marry am I'm not dragging your advice with you oh. But I feel so sorry for any single lady that will take it Ten years from today, she'll find out she has dated 15 men and she's still single Let everyone define their relationships. I might be convinced that she's my wife in six months, and you might be convinced she's your wife after two years Marriage no be competition 43 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Cladez(m): 10:30pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
This man just woke up today and decided to type this piece of shit.You don't just jump into marriage like that. A year is not enough besides there are other things to consider (finance,mental aspect and compatibility) if na like that then a lady would date 10 men in 10 years. 6 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 10:30pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Toks2008:You'll be surprised that for 1yr into this relationship, we didn't have canal knowledge of ourselves. Sex wasn't involved. You don't understand shìt! And I'm happy. 6 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by itsmeurLady(f): 10:31pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
This is a nice advice coming from a man! Nice one OP, but the funniest thing is most people won't support this idea, it sounds foolish but it is the best way to do relationships 19 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Toks2008(m): 10:32pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
kimbraa: And after one year you gave him free access and you are now waiting and hoping it will end well. Sis get this here and now..sex can not keep a man with you and a man who wants you will remain with you sex or no sex. 23 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 10:32pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
This yeye op just wants our ladies to keep increasing in bodycounts with this his 1 year dumping rubbish 1 Like |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Toks2008(m): 10:35pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
ikhileomotayo: Are you sure you know the meaning of body count? 7 Likes
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Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 10:36pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Toks2008: No I don't 1 Like |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Toks2008(m): 10:38pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
ikhileomotayo: Good to know you admit. Body count is the number of men a lady has slept with so on the contrary, my advise will reduce the number of body counts of a lady to the barest minimum. 14 Likes |
Re: A Candid Advice For The Young Unmarried Ladies by Nobody: 10:41pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
Toks2008: I was just being sarcastic. Of course I know what body count means. And I was right in my assertion that if they follow your advise of giving up after just 1 year and moving on to another it increases their bodycounts But coming to think of it, don't you think it will sink in if it was a married man giving this advise Toks Baba Much respect bro 4 Likes |
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