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Listen up, men! Fred Amata got married to Agatha. As time went by, she wanted to run a Talk Show called Inside Out. Her husband used his leverage and clout as a popular Nollywood actor to birth the show. He was the director of the show. He also uses his goodwill to bring his celebrity friends to the show. It was a hit back in the days.

Later on, Fred and Agatha got divorced. Two years ago, the veteran opened up about how his sacrifices to his ex-wife's Talk Show ended in vain. He spoke out of pains following their daughter's wedding without his knowledge.

Emeka Ike was already an established actor when he got married to his first wife. She only brought her beauty and virginity to their marriage. The actor sponsored her education. Thanks to his benevolence, she is a graduate today.

After a while, she filed for divorce, accusing the actor of DV. Emeka was granted sole custody of their four children. He released their kids to his ex-wife when he relocated to Germany. Today, he is estranged from his first son. All his sacrifice went to Ovia River.

Frank Edoho got married to Sandra. He also sponsored her education. He set up interior design for her. In order to make her business to be successful, he acquired interior design and photography skills. Skills that he didn't need.

After his wife's business became a hit, Sandra started surrendering her kuntus to Chike. The Rora crooner piped nonsense out of her kuntus. When the news of her infidelity came to light, she labelled the media personality as a broke man who lived off her throughout the duration of their marriage.

Brothers, learn from the life experiences of Fred Amata, Emeka Ike, and Frank Edoho. Stop elevating your spouses. If you married her as a primary school leaver, maintain the status quo.

Women are loyal to their feelings, not to a man's sacrifice.


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Na MUMU dey do "intensional man".

All of them go learn alongside team "my gf or wife is different" I love as nature take dey brutal. He go help you learn.

enemyofprogress:
Listen up, men! Fred Amata got married to Agatha. As time went by, she wanted to run a Talk Show called Inside Out. Her husband used his leverage and clout as a popular Nollywood actor to birth the show. He was the director of the show. He also uses his goodwill to bring his celebrity friends to the show. It was a hit back in the days.

Later on, Fred and Agatha got divorced. Two years ago, the veteran opened up about how his sacrifices to his ex-wife's Talk Show ended in vain. He spoke out of pains following their daughter's wedding without his knowledge.

Emeka Ike was already an established actor when he got married to his first wife. She only brought her beauty and virginity to their marriage. The actor sponsored her education. Thanks to his benevolence, she is a graduate today.

After a while, she filed for divorce, accusing the actor of DV. Emeka was granted sole custody of their four children. He released their kids to his ex-wife when he relocated to Germany. Today, he is estranged from his first son. All his sacrifice went to Ovia River.

Frank Edoho got married to Sandra. He also sponsored her education. He set up interior design for her. In order to make her business to be successful, he acquired interior design and photography skills. Skills that he didn't need.

After his wife's business became a hit, Sandra started surrendering her kuntus to Chike. The Rora crooner piped nonsense out of her kuntus. When the news of her infidelity came to light, she labelled the media personality as a broke man who lived off her throughout the duration of their marriage.

Brothers, learn from the life experiences of Fred Amata, Emeka Ike, and Frank Edoho. Stop elevating your spouses. If you married her as a primary school leaver, maintain the status quo.

Women are loyal to their feelings, not to a man's sacrifice.


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funny but educative to marry tire me I swear maybe I will keep my baby mama and give her another belle of she buy the idea to give me another child I will cancel getting married and face my hustle full-length

There are still good ones out there but it takes time to see through them to know they are not pretending.


That’s why as man make money legally, invest in your future and take your time with women.

Never allow any rush in choice of woman to marry, take your time with them. Only time exposes the mask of pretense.

Enjoy your freedom and happiness till you see the one that inspires you for marriage after God purpose.

Negativity bias is fast eroding our humanity. If you have the means or influence of elevating your spouse and I repeat your spouse, I am not talking about girlfriend or the likes. I see no reason why you can't do such. But you must also continue to elevate or upgrade yourself in the process. 🥱🥱

Elections is in few month! Please let this deepthinking and wisdom you all are suddenly pouring out reflect in your campaign and votes.

Thank you

Proserpina:
Elections is in few month! Please let this deepthinking and wisdom you all are suddenly pouring out reflect in your campaign and votes.

Thank you

Tinubu must go
Tinubu must go
Tinubu must go

Cum4me:
Tinubu must go
Tinubu must go
Tinubu must go

Write in no less than 500 words beyond the surface thinking of Why Tinubu shouldn't be re-elected in 2027.

You focus more on bad news and negativity...


You love using failed celebrity marriages to preach cynicism but conveniently ignore the many Nigerian celebrity marriages that have lasted for decades despite fame, money, beauty, career growth, and public pressure.






Listen up Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva
Married since 1989.


That is over 35 years together. They built businesses together. Raising children together and stayed together through Olu Jacobs’ health challenges.


Joke Silva openly cared for her husband during his battle with dementia instead of abandoning him when things got hard.



Omotola Jalade Ekeinde and Captain Matthew Ekeinde got married in 1996.

Nearly 30 years together. Omotola became one of Africa’s biggest actresses AFTER marriage. Yet the marriage survived fame, wealth and global recognition.


She repeatedly credits mutual trust and support for their longevity. They raised four children together while both built successful careers.



Simi and Adekunle Gold both entered marriage as successful musicians and continued growing afterward. Instead of competing destructively they openly support each other’s careers, collaborate and raise their daughter together while maintaining one of the most respected celebrity marriages in modern Nigerian entertainment.



Richard Mofe-Damijo and Jumobi Adegbesan
Married since 2000. Over two decades together despite RMD remaining one of Nollywood’s biggest stars and sex symbols.


No public scandal circus. No bitterness tour. Just stability and family.



How can I not add Banky w and Adesua Etomi



Both public figures. Successful individually and still together through fertility struggles, health scares, politics and intense online scrutiny.


They openly speak about partnership, therapy, faith and mutual support.



So no “helping your wife succeed” is not some guaranteed path to destruction.



Some marriages fail. Some marriages last.



The determining factor is not whether a woman became educated, successful or financially independent. Human relationships are more complex than that.


A healthy marriage is built on character, compatibility, respect, emotional maturity, communication and shared values. Not on keeping one partner intentionally small out of fear!

Proserpina:
Elections is in few month! Please let this deepthinking and wisdom you all are suddenly pouring out reflect in your campaign and votes.

Thank you

Voting is of no use, all political candidate are basically the same be it tinubu or peter obi.

Peter Obi is far far far different. He is a far lesser evil.

Kaczynski:
Voting is of no use, all political candidate are basically the same be it tinubu or peter obi.

brain54:
You focus more on bad news and negativity...


You love using failed celebrity marriages to preach cynicism but conveniently ignore the many Nigerian celebrity marriages that have lasted for decades despite fame, money, beauty, career growth, and public pressure.






Listen up Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva
Married since 1989.


That is over 35 years together. They built businesses together. Raising children together and stayed together through Olu Jacobs’ health challenges.


Joke Silva openly cared for her husband during his battle with dementia instead of abandoning him when things got hard.



Omotola Jalade Ekeinde and Captain Matthew Ekeinde got married in 1996.

Nearly 30 years together. Omotola became one of Africa’s biggest actresses AFTER marriage. Yet the marriage survived fame, wealth and global recognition.


She repeatedly credits mutual trust and support for their longevity. They raised four children together while both built successful careers.



Simi and Adekunle Gold both entered marriage as successful musicians and continued growing afterward. Instead of competing destructively they openly support each other’s careers, collaborate and raise their daughter together while maintaining one of the most respected celebrity marriages in modern Nigerian entertainment.



Richard Mofe-Damijo and Jumobi Adegbesan
Married since 2000. Over two decades together despite RMD remaining one of Nollywood’s biggest stars and sex symbols.


No public scandal circus. No bitterness tour. Just stability and family.



How can I not add Banky w and Adesua Etomi



Both public figures. Successful individually and still together through fertility struggles, health scares, politics and intense online scrutiny.


They openly speak about partnership, therapy, faith and mutual support.



So no “helping your wife succeed” is not some guaranteed path to destruction.



Some marriages fail. Some marriages last.



The determining factor is not whether a woman became educated, successful or financially independent. Human relationships are more complex than that.


A healthy marriage is built on character, compatibility, respect, emotional maturity, communication and shared values. Not on keeping one partner intentionally small out of fear!

While you're right, please remove Omotola and Simi from that list. Those who know , know

Proserpina:
Write in no less than 500 words beyond the surface thinking of Why Tinubu shouldn't be re-elected in 2027.

no electricity as the incompetent promise he failed.
No Refineries work all the money allocated to get those refineries working was completely looted
Insecurity is the other of the day average Nigerians lives are in danger everyday
They promised 1 dollars to a naira.but they floated the currency and its 1400 Naira to dollar.
Price of foodstuffs are extremely high that the common man cannot eat well anymore.
A lot of young girls are into prostitution because there's no job to pay bills.
Tinubu is the most incompetent president I've ever seen in my life. He took excess loan to found and rigged election for him selfish interest. Tinubu must go
Tinubu must go he doesn't deserve to be a local government chairman talkless of a president.

Cum4me:
no electricity as the incompetent promise he failed.
No Refineries work all the money allocated to get those refineries working was completely looted
Insecurity is the other of the day average Nigerians lives are in danger everyday
They promised 1 dollars to a naira.but they floated the currency and its 1400 Naira to dollar.
Price of foodstuffs are extremely high that the common man cannot eat well anymore.
A lot of young girls are into prostitution because there's no job to pay bills.
Tinubu is the most incompetent president I've ever seen in my life. He took excess loan to found and rigged election for him selfish interest. Tinubu must go
Tinubu must go he doesn't deserve to be a local government chairman talkless of a president.

If una never add women matter una no go feel alright

You try sha.

Proserpina:
If una never add women matter una no go feel alright

You try sha.

the man give me real depression. I no fit buy common bag of rice for my mother as I was doing regularly during PDP regime. A lot I can't explain here. Tinubu is a complete criminal him and supporters are the enemies of Nigeria.

I don’t read rubbish.

kpankpangolo:
I don’t read rubbish.

I love your type.