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| Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Kennitrust(op): 11:46am On May 20 |
Good day my follow Nairalanders. Everyday, life opens a new chapter of life to us. My own chapter had been opened and and it read... "it time to get married. In the church I attended, there I met this girl so mature enough to be taken in as a wife. I approach her for the first time and I started asking her out. Seem she knew my intention, she started asking me about my church life, my family, my business and all that not. To be honest with her, I did my best to answer every question in the language she could understand. She seems not still satisfied with my account, she sent me this message at about 5am. Said until I respond to those questions, she won't have anything to do with me again. I'm truly confused on wether everyone that finds love 💕 really goes through this rigorous question. And more about her life, she spent almost everyday in church after work. She said if I'm truly serious, I should also be as serious as she is in going and participating in all weekly activities in the church. Please help, how do I answer this questions, since it the only options she said can bring us together?
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| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Cum4me(m): 11:53am On May 20 |
Some men are really trying. Imagine me have time for all this nonsense because I want to spend my life savings on you my only benefits is just a child you will born for me. Sometimes some hardly get pregnant. Most ladies will die single if many men are my type. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Sonnobax15(m): 11:56am On May 20 |
![]() Stop wasting your time trying to woo her directly bro. Confront her pastor . If he agrees to you,then,it's finish . Girl wey dey attend every church activity from Monday to Saturday . I know her type ![]() |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Dreal1247: 12:05pm On May 20 |
Of course, the girl wants to be on a safe side. Also, purpose before marriage. She wants to look before she leaps. Woman wants a man who can be a true leader. Her questions are not bad. Many people just jump into relationship without being intentional and purposeful. The only time a woman can effectively ask certain questions is before she gets herself fully committed to a relationship. Some have committed themselves only to discover later that it is a one-chance vehicle that she has boarded. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Kharol1234: 1:27pm On May 20*. Modified: 6:04pm On May 20 |
Person Wer choirmaster they bend now.. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Samantha125(f): 1:30pm On May 20 |
So you also do men?🤭🤭🤭 Cum4me: |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by PapaNnamdi: 1:43pm On May 20 |
Dey mumu yourself, She don Gaslight you to think say na you need marriage, U sef de here de zuzu, Smh |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by pneumaticos(m): 1:45pm On May 20 |
Kennitrust:This is a trained lady...the most important there is your vision for the marriage and your assignment If you can't answer that, you are a fool and if she accepts you like that, she is a big fool |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by alexvic12: 1:46pm On May 20 |
She is absolutely right. I expect every sane and responsible man to answer these questions truthfully. It's just that things have changed; if not, these are the questions that family members on both sides ask and answer to ensure a good match. You cannot want to ask someone for marriage and not tell her your age, qualifications, earnings, vision, and intention. She cannot surrender her life to you if she is unsure of your standing. If you want her, answer. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by tunnyl(m): 2:09pm On May 20 |
Dont marry her. Women that asks those questions she asked are aggressive and impatient women. If you study her very well, her going to church is because she is looking for something from God. Sje has a technical brain. God is just a means to an end for her. Dont make that mistake bro. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Maj196(m): 2:28pm On May 20 |
You are coming off as too desperate. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by favour32(m): 2:34pm On May 20 |
Wetin you dey find ,you go see am las las. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by FortCavazosKnox: 2:35pm On May 20 |
Go and type and submit your Cv, seems you are applying for a job here |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Amsickindahead: 2:35pm On May 20 |
Walai bro this kinda woman will give u serious problem in that marriage.Fasshi her joor |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by DLuciano: 2:46pm On May 20 |
Kennitrust:What's wrong with her humble and sincere questions if truly you are serious. She didn't say bring money, she didn't say if you have a car; she did not ask for gold; she did not ask for a hangout at the eatery, you are already disturbed. Please tell her the truth, don't lie! Are you truly serious? |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Kaido: 2:51pm On May 20*. Modified: 10:14pm On May 20 |
Una gats talk this out face to face. Relationships is a partnership. Know also what she's bringing to the table. Dont try to impress her like you got S on your chest like Clark Kent. Every woman wants a Superman in their lives, but only few women would stand by their man to calm his demons and console the man, after losing wars and battles. You should be the one firing her all these questions. I don't like gold-digging questions Aiyyo my man, don't marry a church girl but a godly woman. She looks like the "My daddy says this or that " kinda lady. Don't reply her via chat. Ask her out for a date. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Kingray10: 3:02pm On May 20 |
She is not serious, if you two can't see and discuss this, then she is not ready to get married. Besides as she is asking these, you should compile your own list of questions for her too.. You are the one doing her a favour by getting married to her. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Kennitrust(op): 3:25pm On May 20 |
pneumaticos:that serious? |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Kaido: 3:34pm On May 20 |
alexvic12:Yes, it is good to get info but not like a gold-digger. If you are a lady, and a man that wants to marry asks you. How much do you earn? How rich is your father? Is he a politician? Hope you have a Masters? abeg, you go like am? |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by glolomoh: 3:48pm On May 20 |
I know someone who who will accurately and convincingly answer all her questions, win her, chop her and close doors. Bro Goke, I hail o ! Someone who changed his from Joshua to Ahmed, attended Arabic schools and everyone was convince he is a Muslim, all because he want to chop one hijab sister at university of Ilorin. He succeeded, graduated from the university and lock up. When the lady found out that he is not originally a Muslim but son of a foremost deacon in CAC, she almost faint. Bro Goke, I hail again. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by J2ff: 4:32pm On May 20 |
Kennitrust:You too draw up your own list of questions and send to her |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by SixSeven: 4:33pm On May 20 |
I hope you know we can tell your name from that message. ![]() O K |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by SixSeven: 4:35pm On May 20 |
glolomoh:That means she did it alone. What the girl is asking, I expect her family to find more. She alone cannot see everything but it's a good place to start from. Let's see how he can respond. Let him also write down what he wants to do for receipts. Repost boxypane:You are right. Women should take note 👇 Your value is in your virginity, believe it or not. Or your purity, you require higher standards than men. Don't let men get into your pants anyhow, men are opportunists, protect yourself. You are not sure of a man's intention until he has you. Education is your best investment. E get whu Character is beauty. Men will eventually get tired of the boobs and ass. They always claim they want peace. Peace comes from feminity not masculinity. The more you act like a man, you make a man take the back seat. Never help a man too much, you will kill his hunting spirit. A woman is a man who doesn't have to be a man. A man is a woman who is not allowed to be a woman. Be careful about the man who you let into your body. Ask yourself, will I like to have a baby like him? Before you make decisions about men, ask another trusted man that doesn't want anything from you. They can separate logic from emotions. A kind man is better than a good man and a good man is better than a bad boy and a bad boy is better than a manipulator. SixSeven:Assume that your fellow woman doesn't have the best interest in you as she always wants your downfall or wants you to be in the same level with her but on the other hand, men are not your best friends Women tend to groupthink and FOMO
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| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by J2ff: 4:35pm On May 20*. Modified: 4:54pm On May 20 |
Samantha125:Ha he never said that lol |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Gotocourt: 4:54pm On May 20 |
Sonnobax15:Aswearugad, beginning piping on the low ![]() |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Gotocourt: 4:56pm On May 20*. Modified: 9:49pm On May 20 |
Naso my present babe worry till I begin using AI give answers🤣😥😭🤣😂😅 |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by funnyDM: 5:18pm On May 20 |
Kennitrust:Since you really have time by your side and she asked you for a written proposal, go to ChatGPT: 1) write what you are in quote. E.g "I am a business man, i am 32 years, and i am responsible. I am not educated but i have a good business i am doing." 2) past the quote on chatgpt and write, write a 2000 words article on the quoted statement, make it look funny and appealling to a church lady. Make the age to be irrelevant. Also make it look like i have a good vision in life and i can sustain any lady i marry. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Tohsynetita1(m): 5:39pm On May 20 |
Kennitrust:it's simple, type it to AI, let AI answer you. |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Elzazzi: 5:39pm On May 20*. Modified: 9:33pm On May 20 |
Kharol1234:You know these things Choirmaster fit Dey blast am better doggy. She don see say the guy na dodoyo. Lol |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by AKWATGOLD1(m): 5:53pm On May 20*. Modified: 8:26am On May 21 |
Please do not allowed any lady adopt church activities to tie you down. Please open your eyes. From the begining she is dictating to you that if you don't involves in church activities there is no conversation Red Flag Kennitrust: |
| Re: Help! My Experience With Church Girl I Wanted To Marry by Icedplane: 6:03pm On May 20 |
You've lost it if you proceed with such person. You'll come back to this post in 3 or 4 years and regret not heading to this advice |
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. If he agrees to you,then,it's finish 
Women tend to groupthink and FOMO