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Getting food for your girlfriend and you met your colleague who also came to buy food for his girlfriend.

Just tell d guy ESPRIT DE CORPS den una go robb mind together.

I come in peace

Potential thief. I agree with the girl.

symbianDON:
it's not about who pays the N500; it's more about honesty and responsibility. It's a big relationship red flag when you have a partner who is a potential thief.

Is the girl clean in this scenario going by your argument? HONESTLY DEMAND THAT, SHE REPORTS HIM or TO PAY THE MONEY. If she indeed an honest girl, but she is more of authoritative than honesty.

So, Why didn't she pay the remaining?

Why didn't she raise alarm in order to force the guy to pay?

Why did she follow the guy back home, with intention of eating from dishonest food?

Or you forget when you harbour criminals, two of you won't be free from long arm of law.

symbianDON:
it's not about who pays the N500; it's more about honesty and responsibility. It's a big relationship red flag when you have a partner who is a potential thief.

May be the guyman was even aware of the mistake but wanted to take advantage.

Eraddray:
As a supportive girlfriend and the moment she advice him to go back and complete the payment...and the guy refused to...she should have return inside and pay it by herself...e no require fight...
The guy also go feel remorse except he's dead inside

To me, that girl is more of red flag than the guy,.......she will be ordering the guy like toy, if they eventually married.

Anyway, it's good for foolish guys, who like treating girlfriend like egg, the same girl that some guys are treating trash.

She could have taken her own 500 naira and paid. Then scold him later. Guess she broke.

Goo0dHardDick:
Avoid broke women Una no go hear.

So why couldn't go back to pay the remaining 500#? A broke doesn't have anything to offer. Instead of asking the guy to go back and pay, why didn't she go back and pay with her own money? Broke women irritates me alot

Is that english is si difficult to understand or you lack comprehension. You didn't see she called his attention to the mistake but the guy doesn't want to pay

What about the lady preparing the meal at home in the first place? Some guys dey try... Both of them ain't serious; such an amount can cook a decent meal to be eaten over a few days at home. Wetin me I sabi sef? I'm just passing by.

wildcatter23:
RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FOR THE WEAK🤦🤦

I went to a restaurant this evening to get food for my girlfriend.

After getting the food and just as I was about to leave, I saw two lovers arguing.

I asked the girl what the issue was, and she explained that they had also come to get food.

Their bill was supposed to be ₦8,300, but the waiter mistakenly charged them ₦7,800, which the guy paid.

As they were about to leave, she noticed the mistake and told her boyfriend to go back and pay the remaining balance, but he refused.

That disagreement eventually led to their breakup.

Is that enough to warrant a breakup?

What do you guys think?

Was the lady loyal to the guy?

Rephrasing the event
You went to get food for your girlfriend, on getting home, she asked how much and you answered, on checking the receipt, she noticed you underpaid, she asked you to go pay the difference as the eatery is a neighborhood eatery, you refused with snide comments, she was furious and the misunderstanding escalated, with history of how you have done something similar.
It happened to you, not to anyone you met, no random stranger go narrate their ordeal with you at that point so you saying you asked them na lie

I no read the story again as soon as I saw those pictures...... guy you no do well o

Why can't she pay the remaining balance?

One of the disadvantages of dating a broke & stingy girl.

wildcatter23:
RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FOR THE WEAK🤦🤦

I went to a restaurant this evening to get food for my girlfriend.

After getting the food and just as I was about to leave, I saw two lovers arguing.

I asked the girl what the issue was, and she explained that they had also come to get food.

Their bill was supposed to be ₦8,300, but the waiter mistakenly charged them ₦7,800, which the guy paid.

As they were about to leave, she noticed the mistake and told her boyfriend to go back and pay the remaining balance, but he refused.

That disagreement eventually led to their breakup.

Is that enough to warrant a breakup?

What do you guys think?

Was the lady loyal to the guy?

If I was the girl I will do the same thing because that is the don't just speak to 500 naira it speaks to several things


A deep rooted sense of dishonesty in the guy is the most frightening

TossTos:
It is not enough for break-up at the moment , she ought to have paid the remaining 500 naira. When they get home they lady knows how to make the guy not to do that again. Only if he refuses the lady can withdraw from the relationship. Who knows it might be the guy's plan ..

Since you don't know the history of their relationship you can't say if it enough or not. We don't have details of their arguments. What if the guy was happy that the waitress made such mistake and he sees it as her luck.

What stops the girl from going in to pay the 500 Naira.
And you your girlfriend nu get leg to go buy her food...thats how simping and pussy worshipping starts.

You're right about the former, the girl should have paid, but for the later, let's no judge yet, they might be living together or on a visit and he stepped out for something else and she called that please, help me get food on ur way back

Sonnobax15:

You just wan increase men hunger this afternoon with those photos

Anyways,i support her . It seems the guy is a Yahoo boy . Cuz na Dem dey see every looseguarding as a win-win to Dem. Imagine dating a man who take pleasure in taking advantage of others mistakes.

So if she pay that 500 naira she will die abi

BigCowHornn:
If I was the girl I will do the same thing because that is the don't just speak to 500 naira it speaks to several things


A deep rooted sense of dishonesty in the guy is the most frightening

She should have pay

The comment I am seeing above is surprising.

Those asking why didn’t she pay the balance are missing the point. She didn’t break up with him because of the money. She broke up with him because of the tendency of a dubious character she is seeing him exhibit. If he can be unfaithful with little, he can be unfaithful in plenty.

She is trying to avoid a scenario where one day she may need to go to the prison to bail out her dubious husband

Chisave:
Is that english is si difficult to understand or you lack comprehension. You didn't see she called his attention to the mistake but the guy doesn't want to pay

As the guy refused to pay, so what stops her from going back to correct the error by paying it with her own Money so they can be justified? Broke women annoys me alot.

The guy paid for the food remaining 500# and yet couldn't pay it even when the guy deliberately refused. so what's the essence she's dating? To be a complete liability and parasite? May I never come across broke women like her. Broke women irritates me alot

wildcatter23:
RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FOR THE WEAK🤦🤦

I went to a restaurant this evening to get food for my girlfriend.

After getting the food and just as I was about to leave, I saw two lovers arguing.

I asked the girl what the issue was, and she explained that they had also come to get food.

Their bill was supposed to be ₦8,300, but the waiter mistakenly charged them ₦7,800, which the guy paid.

As they were about to leave, she noticed the mistake and told her boyfriend to go back and pay the remaining balance, but he refused.

That disagreement eventually led to their breakup.

Is that enough to warrant a breakup?

What do you guys think?

Was the lady loyal to the guy?

The lady was not loyal. She was testing him. And he passed the test — by refusing to be a fool.
The waiter made a mistake in their favor. Any sensible person would keep quiet and leave. She chose to make it an issue. That is not loyalty. That is control.
He saved ₦500. That is not theft. That is a waiter's error. She wanted him to prove his 'good character' by paying extra. He refused. Good for him.
A woman who breaks up with a man over ₦500 was looking for an exit. The ₦500 was just an excuse.If she loved him, she would have said 'thank you for the food' and left. Instead, she chose to fight over a waiter's mistake. She did him a favor by leaving

Sonnobax15:

You just wan increase men hunger this afternoon with those photos

Anyways,i support her . It seems the guy is a Yahoo boy . Cuz na Dem dey see every looseguarding as a win-win to Dem. Imagine dating a man who take pleasure in taking advantage of others mistakes.

Calling a man a 'Yahoo boy' for keeping ₦500 that a waiter mistakenly undercharged him is a reach. A Yahoo boy steals. This man did not steal. He simply did not correct an error in his favor.The waiter made a mistake. The restaurant will survive. The man saved ₦500. That is not fraud. That is life
A man who keeps a waiter's error is not a Yahoo boy. He is a man who understands that the world does not reward unnecessary honesty. The restaurant would not have paid him ₦500 if the waiter had overcharged him. So why should he pay them?

Why the gurl no fit help am pay the 500naira
Omo that one no be relationship at all

Yes! Big yes!

A big red flag detected by the girl.

wildcatter23:
RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FOR THE WEAK🤦🤦

I went to a restaurant this evening to get food for my girlfriend.

After getting the food and just as I was about to leave, I saw two lovers arguing.

I asked the girl what the issue was, and she explained that they had also come to get food.

Their bill was supposed to be ₦8,300, but the waiter mistakenly charged them ₦7,800, which the guy paid.

As they were about to leave, she noticed the mistake and told her boyfriend to go back and pay the remaining balance, but he refused.

That disagreement eventually led to their breakup.

Is that enough to warrant a breakup?

What do you guys think?

Was the lady loyal to the guy?

Agent8706:
The comment I am seeing above is surprising.

Those asking why didn’t she pay the balance are missing the point. She didn’t break up with him because of the money. She broke up with him because of the tendency of a dubious character she is seeing him exhibit. If he can be unfaithful with little, he can be unfaithful in plenty.

She is trying to avoid a scenario where one day she may need to go to the prison to bail out her dubious husband

You never can tell if that #500 was a discount for what they bought, the guy wasn't aware that there's a mistake neither does the waiter, she was just looking for ways to drain the young man financially. If she cared so much why didn't she go back to Make enquiry from the waiter and pay the remaining balance.

I have done that before because of 70 Naira when I was in Nigeria (Maiduguri)

The guy - a very good guy but always underpricing things just to underpay people of their wares especially when they couldn't sell anything and are desperate to get at least transport back home.

On a particular day, we went to Monday market to shop and the incident above happened. I pleaded him to at least add 50 Naira since we know the price of the item but he refused and also forbad me from paying the man the 70 Naira he had cut down.

After begging him and he finally refused, I gave the trader 100 Naira and left him. The guy never called me back and I also didn't.

Honestly, you can't be in my space if you take advantage of people's difficulties, or cheat people. Imagine someone driving a nice car and negotiating with poor hawkers and roadside sellers- like are you okay?

You cheat or deprive people of their dues, I kick you out of my space.

Recently, at the end of Dr. Paul Enenche's program in an African City, a popcorn seller was going up and down shouting 'buy one and get one free', people rushed her and luckily for me, the popcorns were not so many. I stopped her from selling to the awoof-seekers, I paid her for each one and took all.

You are driving a car worth millions and depriving a school child of her dues just because she couldn't sell all before the end of the program - she said the popcorns will spoil if kept overnight.

wildcatter23:
RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FOR THE WEAK🤦🤦

I went to a restaurant this evening to get food for my girlfriend.

After getting the food and just as I was about to leave, I saw two lovers arguing.

I asked the girl what the issue was, and she explained that they had also come to get food.

Their bill was supposed to be ₦8,300, but the waiter mistakenly charged them ₦7,800, which the guy paid.

As they were about to leave, she noticed the mistake and told her boyfriend to go back and pay the remaining balance, but he refused.

That disagreement eventually led to their breakup.

Is that enough to warrant a breakup?

What do you guys think?

Was the lady loyal to the guy?

The way you type is deeply Scary, annoying, worrying and infuriating.
Clicking on the Topic to reading the content, the headline is so very misleading!

Or is this content for your own entertainment or creation?

You are asking question!!?
See the writeup sef..., Written like a ****!
(Nairaland would ban anyhow not knowing one is not trolling or insultive, but just being descriptive)

DestinyNigga:
She should have pay

That is not the issue. The issue is that a guy she is dating refused to be honest


If your girlfriend like to you how will you feel? that you should have paid

If that is the whole truth, I support the girl decision, I hate stealing. The staff will pay for the mistake in some cases.

TossTos:
It is not enough for break-up at the moment , she ought to have paid the remaining 500 naira. When they get home they lady knows how to make the guy not to do that again. Only if he refuses the lady can withdraw from the relationship. Who knows it might be the guy's plan ..

Oga it is a red flag. Such person is not properly brought up, a street boy without any sense of morals, no conscience, they are the type that can use a lady for sacrifice and not blink an eyelid. What will such person even teach their kids?
I have bought something from slot mobile with my kids, found out they undercharged me, we had almost gotten home, I turned back and went to pay the difference. Petrol nko, bought and paid then left, only to notice my account was not debited, the receipt showed failed transaction. On our way back we stopped on the other side of the Expressway and sent the driver acrosd to ask for a POS to make the payment. He infact they said the attendant lady had been crying all day, imaging having to pay 50k when your salary is 30k monthly!