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Poll: Choose

A 28% (85 votes)
B 3% (11 votes)
None Of The Above 61% (183 votes)
I'm Not Ever Getting Married 6% (19 votes)
This poll has ended

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Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by kingthreat(op): 7:03pm On May 20
Let's face it, some men are unfortunate in marriage and will marry insatiable wives that will cheat on them. When that is you fate, there is nothing you can do about it. Neither your good looks or money will have you.
But the queestion here is who would you rather be?
Will you be the one to cry about it like Mr. B or the one to be calm and make your moves to hit her when and where she never expected like Mr. A?

Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Nobody:
Neither of the above — baby mama or surrogacy is the lesser evil. Hustle, make your money, get a beautiful lady with a good genes, have your kids, get a nanny if necessary, and still pay attention to how your child is being raised. If the nanny doesn't follow your principles, you let her go.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by saphiere(f): 7:57pm On May 21
kingthreat:
Let's face it, some men are unfortunate in marriage and will marry insatiable wives that will cheat on them. When that is you fate, there is nothing you can do about it. Neither your good looks or money will have you.
But the queestion here is who would you rather be?
Will you be the one to cry about it like Mr. B or the one to be calm and make your moves to hit her when and where she never expected like Mr. A?
Seun is out of contents. LOL
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Sccarrr(m):
Lool...which kind question be this, op wetin u smoke?
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by OgaRico(m): 7:58pm On May 21
Who are they?


Oops, sorry just two simps.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Kingpele(m): 7:58pm On May 21
None of them ,I want to be my self...but I like Frank style except the fact he held on to malice too much...but quietly leaving unfaithful spouse instead of crying on TV is what a man should be...I can't continue with a cheating wife except I didn't discover it....yes I will forgive a cheating spouse but she will not remain in my house ever again period
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Stephen0mozzy: 7:59pm On May 21
None of them.
Na by force to be unfortunate?

Both of them have poor judgement about women, and they learned the hard way.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by LabStores: 7:59pm On May 21
I think Frank own better small o grin grin grin
At least, he has few experiences and he wasn't so "deep" in ... grin
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by AlabiKILLER2023: 7:59pm On May 21
SpencerForbes:
None of the above — baby mama no surrogacy is the lesser evil. Hustle, make your money, get a beautiful lady with a good genes, have your kids, get a nanny if necessary, and still pay attention to how your child is being raised. If the nanny doesn't follow your principles, you let her go.
Oil dey your head


I prefer been sugar daddy to teenage girls 😉☺️😉
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by omoredia: 8:00pm On May 21
Frank pay me. Malice is effective
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Stephen0mozzy: 8:00pm On May 21
OgaRico:
Who are they?


Oops, sorry just two simps.
Bless you.

Not enough characters.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by LabStores: 8:01pm On May 21
SpencerForbes:
None of the above — baby mama no surrogacy is the lesser evil. Hustle, make your money, get a beautiful lady with a good genes, have your kids, get a nanny if necessary, and still pay attention to how your child is being raised. If the nanny doesn't follow your principles, you let her go.
Really? You make it sound too easy.
You think a woman with beauty, good values, strong morals, and good upbringing will just agree to be reduced to a baby-making arrangement for one random man because he has money?

The same way you’re trying to avoid problems is the same way serious women avoid men who think commitment, loyalty, and family are things you can simply outsource like hiring a nanny.

Good women are not products you pick off a shelf after ‘hustling.’ They also have standards, emotions, principles, and choices.
Will you be comfortable and allow your daughter do such?
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by jaxxy(m): 8:04pm On May 21
Atleast we know one of them was faithful and fully commited to his wife.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by EponObi(f): 8:07pm On May 21
For the men in my family, none!

On a lighter mode: Frank Idoho receiving the "poundo" yam Chike leftover in the middle of the night 🤣

Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Julibet: 8:08pm On May 21
None of the above because the both of them are and were really hurt. You can't avoid hurt but you can reduce the tendency.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by meobizy(m): 8:11pm On May 21
Rubbish thread. Useless forum.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by TimiofAbuja: 8:11pm On May 21
AlabiKILLER2023:
Oil dey your head


I prefer been sugar daddy to teenage girls 😉☺️😉
You be simp...... teenage girlshuh
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Nobody: 8:12pm On May 21
LabStores:
Really? You make it sound too easy.
You think a woman with beauty, good values, strong morals, and good upbringing will just agree to be reduced to a baby-making arrangement for one random man because he has money?

The same way you’re trying to avoid problems is the same way serious women avoid men who think commitment, loyalty, and family are things you can simply outsource like hiring a nanny.

Good women are not products you pick off a shelf after ‘hustling.’ They also have standards, emotions, principles, and choices.
It's very easy but you won't like my amoral plan so there's no point explaining.

For the last question, I won't be choosing my daughter and my job is to train my daughter in ways many gen z wouldn't like and I'll stop at puberty. You can't tell me everyone you know received the same kind of training. Any choice she makes as an adult is clearly hers. Everyone isn't meant to have the same perspective and I can only advice her if she wants. You won't tell me your dad still decides who you talk to in this age?

This is a dog eat dog world, a very amoral world. So don't blame me for taking my shares of the spoils.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by BarrElChapo(m): 8:12pm On May 21
None of them.

Seun Seun Seun
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by MyAmericandream(f): 8:13pm On May 21
jaxxy:
Atleast we know one of them was faithful and fully commited to his wife.
lol both of them were not faithful, with temptation wey full outside una go gree siddon one place.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Eba50: 8:14pm On May 21
None of the above, but edoho go get character problem or ego kind
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by bluefilm:
Frank is the man

He took the disrespect like a Real Gee

The other guy is a SIMPle man

SIMPle men don't deserve any pity from me at all
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by stagger: 8:16pm On May 21
Olorun maje. I can never be any one of them.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by aaa07jk: 8:18pm On May 21
bluefilm:
Frank is the man

He took the disrespect like a gee

The other guy is a SIMPle man

SIMPle men don't deserve any pity from me
Bro Frank appealed(make i no call am beg) to the man sleeping with his wife to please leave his wife alone, so the wife can stop misbehaving
Both of them no try, no one better pass the other sincerely
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by SmartPolician:
I'm particularly worried that this generation of men isn't taking action to punish Chike. Even Cobams Asquo is busy promoting his useless songs on social media.

To the question, I would rather remain myself. However, Frank Edoho married a feminist who believes in the laws of Moses - an eye for an eye, so that's his business.

As for the OAP, I cannot even make that silly mistake of sending my wife abroad, even if I am mad.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by aaa07jk: 8:20pm On May 21
Both of them, their women still good sha.
If God wan deal with u as a man, e go give u wife like Nedu wife.

She said
“I never for once told him I am pregnant for him or the baby belongs to him. He assumed this on his own because we are married.”
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by PulaPower: 8:21pm On May 21
LabStores:
Really? You make it sound too easy.
You think a woman with beauty, good values, strong morals, and good upbringing will just agree to be reduced to a baby-making arrangement for one random man because he has money?

The same way you’re trying to avoid problems is the same way serious women avoid men who think commitment, loyalty, and family are things you can simply outsource like hiring a nanny.

Good women are not products you pick off a shelf after ‘hustling.’ They also have standards, emotions, principles, and choices.
Will you be comfortable and allow your daughter do such?
Dey play

I get them for hand well..

Not a girls are marriage hungry o. Some just wanna dey with a guy and have kids.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by Omoawoke(m): 8:23pm On May 21
Option E - Myself 7 times a week
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by LabStores: 8:24pm On May 21
PulaPower:
Dey play

I get them for hand well..

Not a girls are marriage hungry o. Some just wanna dey with a guy and have kids.
Learn to read between the lines
You think a woman with beauty, good values, strong morals, and good upbringing will just agree to be reduced to a baby-making arrangement for one random man because he has money?
It's only okay if you won't mind your daughter doing it.
Re: Dear Men, Who Would You Rather Be by SmartPolician: 8:25pm On May 21
SpencerForbes:
None of the above — baby mama or surrogacy is the lesser evil. Hustle, make your money, get a beautiful lady with a good genes, have your kids, get a nanny if necessary, and still pay attention to how your child is being raised. If the nanny doesn't follow your principles, you let her go.
Neither of the above

Either and Neither are specifically meant for 2 items or entities, whereas none is used for more than 2 items or entities.
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