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Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by NaijaTushboy(m): 11:11pm On May 15
Your Opinion please
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Olufela30(m): 11:17pm On May 15
Na !! only vice versa cos the husband is the head !!
The wife's work is only in the kitchen n other wifely duties...
When she's nat the one managing the husbands account...
She won't even know I'm giving her anything and if she knows and she wanna fight over it, I'd just ignore her till she understands that "Mama get her own level for my heart" !!

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by garetz: 11:40pm On May 15
No

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by SageMK(m): 11:59pm On May 15
Only if the wife is an oracle.
Or the money belongs to her.

But If it is his own hard earn cash, hell no.

He needs no consultation whatsoever to send money to anyone. The same also applies to the wife. It's only fair.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by ifyalways(f): 12:32am On May 16
Well, if its a marriage were all both spouses do is joint account, joint expenses, joint investment, joint this N that, then i guess yes since its an equal yoke marriage cheesy

On a normal level and for me, Hell NO and vice versa. I make and spend my money anyway i deem fit after fulfilling my financial obligations to the family.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by CreepyBlackpool: 12:43am On May 16
Yes!

A man must consult his wife before giving money to his mother!angry

In fact he must always screenshot his salary alert and send to his wife immediately he gets it!

He must ask for his wife's permission for any and every monetary transaction he wants to do, even if its to buy clothes or drinks for himself.


Onye iberibesad


you must be a weak, feeble minded, spineless, lily-livered pussy worshipper to ask such a question!

you disgust me!lipsrsealed

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by chiommy123(f): 1:21am On May 16
Not bad na. Its partnership remember?

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by IamD18: 4:00am On May 16
chiommy123:
Not bad na. Its partnership remember?
Just shurrup!

You lots are always quick to support shiiiit when you think it suits you.

So you'll be happy if your son you carried for 9 months tell you that he'll need to discuss with his wife before giving you money?

Una go just calm down dey disgrace una self with confidence.

Partnership indeed!!

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by 004gist: 4:29am On May 16
Ask your wife if her son he carried for good 9 months, breastfeed and cared with or without your input now married a wife and before he send her money in the village the wife must approve of it and also know like they both agreed first before the son can send her money.

Imagine the Nonsense and ingredients

Unless the money belongs to your wife.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Mynd44: 5:54am On May 16
This is why it is better to have a joint account where the husband and wife puts in money for the care of the house and family projects. So lets say the husband earns 100k and he puts 60k into the account, he is free to do with his remaining 40k as he wishes.

If the wife earns 200k and puts 100k, the remaining 100k should be hers to spend as she wishes without permission from her husband

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by PETCOKE(f): 5:55am On May 16
Who did your mother consult before deciding not to abort you, but went into a painful labor to birth you?


Who did she consult before giving you food to eat when hungry?

Who did she consult before depriving herself of beautiful clothes and jewelries to clothe you and pay your school fees?


Your mum deserves the best, do what you can to put a smile on her face everyday smiley

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by tydi(m): 5:56am On May 16
Weak generational men do that..

More like asking the egg and chicken which came first..

Your mother and the wife which came first

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by BlacSmit: 5:57am On May 16
This is an insult to his mother.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Pavore9: 5:58am On May 16
Mynd44:
This is why it is better to have a joint account where the husband and wife puts in money for the care of the house and family projects. So lets say the husband earns 100k and he puts 60k into the account, he is free to do with his remaining 40k as he wishes.

If the wife earns 200k and puts 100k, the remaining 100k should be hers to spend as she wishes without permission from her husband

I completely agree with you. One should lose individuality in the name of marriage.
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Temidayo9(m): 5:58am On May 16
Don't just start what you can not sustain in marriage. No 1 rule

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Mayour11(m): 5:59am On May 16
I think this debate is relative. You need to understand your wife and the role of your mother in one's life. I as a person must definitely ensure my wife knows what my mum did in my life. No matter what that woman gets from me, I still believe it's not enough to compensate her.
Once my wife knows that the woman is too great to be ignored, she will even encourage me to do more.
More so, we'll have our children as well, does she wants to be treated that way?

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Barryseal: 5:59am On May 16
A man can tell his wife for information sake, not as an obligation.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by backnbeta(f): 5:59am On May 16
It depends on the relationship between the mum, the wife and the husband! There is a difference between seeking your wife's consent before giving your mum money and just informing her of your plans. Unless you know your mum and your wife don't get along, no point keeping it a secret, especially if you run a joint account or if you guys do things together.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by 7Alexandre: 5:59am On May 16
Stupidity...

Maybe you should also consult your wife before using the toilet...

Onye iberibe...

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Auxtin85(m): 6:00am On May 16
Who did the mother consulted before having the man? So don’t consult anyone before giving your mother anything

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by udemzyudex(m): 6:00am On May 16
Never I repeat never.

Even my mum told me that it is not always right to consult your wife in every plan you have with your own family.

Like helping your mum,sis, brother or any other family members.
There are some decisions you have to make without consulting your wife.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by AntiWailer: 6:01am On May 16
Use wisdom if you want peace.

Come and learn if u can read :

If she is not aware at all she will start helping u assume figures that does not exist.

If she is aware of everything, she might wonder why you are not doing close to that to her own parents too.

So it is simple. On normal and inevitable things like feeding allowance, drugs etc. I will gladly carry her along.

On special projects , like boost her business and other stuffs she has no business with knowing. I give with instruction to my mother not to even let my siblings know.

Forget this shouting Man Man Man , Mother mother mother.
There are times you give your woman money to give your mother that she gave her and she should not let you know.

If you want to live long and u want a happy marriage. You apply wisdom not 'Manhood'

That is why most of their wives are sleeping with colleagues in the office when Daddy at home forming a No nonsense African Man with stupid Ego and this one is ready to use teeth to remove her pants.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Bizzysmitty: 6:01am On May 16
Consult who? My mama first before any other person, period!

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Follygunners: 6:01am On May 16
Consult? Hell no! Inform? Yes... ONLY, if he's taking the money from their joint account...

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by uthlaw(m): 6:01am On May 16
even a mad man won't do that!

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Menance: 6:02am On May 16
No the man is the head and should make decisions about fundings between his mum and family

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by kaen1317: 6:02am On May 16
You can have another wife but not another mother. So answer is NO.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by BabaCommander: 6:03am On May 16
Yes and no depending on circumstance.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by desthan(m): 6:03am On May 16
I would not say it's right or wrong, because every settings differs. Rather I would say it's not "necessary".

A husband can inform his wife when giving money to his mother in law, but His own mother, not cool cool

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by ceeceeco(m): 6:03am On May 16
What kind of rubbish question is this.

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