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ManknowThyself:
My brother don’t be unfortunate with your your assumption about me this morning!!!!!!!

Yes am not married but have more than 10 women between the ages of 25- 32 disturbing me for marriage and I don’t consider anyone good enough to be my wife.

Every man knows exactly what he wants in a woman to be his wife.

Don’t project yourself and fear on others for their respective opinion.

Me just taking my time with women, if I want to marry tomorrow there are always women available to take the special sit of a queen in my kingdom.

I AM KING, AM ONLY PERMITTED TO MARRY A QUEEN THAT WILL RESPECT ME AND MY KINGDOM.

Good, but do you keep your house clean, son.?

Her story doesn't add to it, she must have being doing something that the guy see as a red flag

I also find it so distasteful when a lady leaves the bed undressed and dirty plates in the sink.
The problem is how many of these girls are raised . So many parents are chasing money at the expense of proper upbringing and when these children grow up , they become a nuisance because they can't handle simple household chores.
That been said it doesn't matter how one was raised but on getting to adulthood, its your responsibility to fix whatever mess your upbringing left you with.
No excuses!

He took the right action because cleanliness is very key in a relationship, as an adult you do not need to be reminded to clean a room where you eat and slept.

EmmyMaestro:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7641555232220138773?_r=1&_t=ZS-96ZF2qaqz8E

see your mouth like you are always the one breaking up..how old are you?

He has seen that you are not a wife material...you better go for marriage training and counselling and home training

dominique:
It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.



So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"

Are U okay?
He was going for work, she was at home.
She basically pressed phone.
She was still in bed.
She was to tidy up the bed when she woke up.
She was to dispose the waste from the food he bought for her. Didnt u read ?

marlow1962:
But you were not naturally forgetful when he blocked you, you remembered it and decided to share how shameful you're online.

E be like gaslighting online they give una more fans.

And I'm very sure she will not be naturally forgetful to collect transport money from him

This one dey find engagement for tiktok...gerra of here

That is a good step taken by the man.

A forgetful person is a burden,he should leave is own assignment and keep on reminding you always.

Common sense could not tell her to sit up to a reasonable task m

When your parents and your elder ones were correcting you...you were feeling funky. Reality has set in now, anti face it.

You destroyed the love with your dirty habit. Be a good and responsible person and you may have better luck with the next person.

Blocking you and severing relationship is hereby approved.

EmmyMaestro:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7641555232220138773?_r=1&_t=ZS-96ZF2qaqz8E

Liar and you are still bold to lie tooo

You claim to be forgetful because you are intentional and lazy..

you remember that he loved you everywhere and he still blocked you, that you can still narrate the very thing that happened in your lazy ass quick jump offer relationship.

dominique:
It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.



So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"

Did you just made this comment to stir up gbas gbos?

To the bone of contention, A lady must come over before commitment, now she has come over, and committed worst of mistakes from a lady a man is considering a future with.

A man may have many ladies visiting his apartment, but one cool action of a particular lady will make him commit to forever. This lady should take her L in peace.

israelmao:
He didn't love you in the first place you do.That is just the hard truth.If someone you thought you were so close and loved could go to that extent you are yet to find the true love.

True love kii you right there. Why didn't she forget to take her bath before she left his house? This is a serious red flag that must not be overlooked. In fact, the guy did her a great favour by breaking up with her earlier instead of trying to cope with her silly behaviour and later realised that he needs to go after wasting her time.

No you aren't forgetful. You are a naturally dirty pig who feels entitled because your exes where too blind to see the dirty pig you are. Congratulations to that man. He dodged a bullet and a lifetime of regret.
How can you say you are a woman and you forget to make the bed you rose up from? That's unimaginable.
Unfortunately there are tons of girls like her out there who lack proper upbringing, are unapologetically dirty and feel entitled.
She should go back to her mother and learn cleanliness. She is simply not a wife material.

DrAda:
Sweetheart, you dodged a bullet. Be glad

Or the guy dodged a bullet you mean? I am a woman also but the thruth needs to be told a lady of her age who forgot to trash the dish she used,not even to wash the remaining dishes in the kitchen, made the bed she laid on but didn't forget to use TikTok,and other social media is a red flag this isn't about the gender even if it's a guy I will be angry because I don't tolerate idleness, filthiness and slugishness.

And what is it about reminding her to close the windows and trash the dish after some hours she isn't suffering from dementia (alzheimer)or memory loss is she ?even my 8 year old nephews and nieces knows they shouldn't even be told before they do that!!

Funny I view people who sleeps past the normal waking time 8am above and being obese as being someone with a no future ambition when it isn't the weekend or that they attended a vigil or a professional working shift(Doctors,Nurses,RSC,Police, Military and NCDC coros

If you are truly a forgetful person, why didn't you forget the breakup?

Good women have finished, her kind are the only ones left on the street.

You're funny though. If the story is actually real, then the lady is a pig. So, you're expecting the guy to be the one to pack the leftover food he bought for her when he returns from work? Even to arrange the bed is a problem for her.

She says she's forgetful, which lady in her right senses say such when it comes to cleaning the house? Her type will leave pampers on baby's buttocks for days all in the name of been forgetful. Mheeen! May God have mercy on men.

nairalanda1:
The man too is dirty. He cannot maintain a clean house on his own.

That is the elephant in the room most of you are running away from.

If she was his proper wife, we would have been talking different. Not this one night stand things.

Yes, she be dirty, but the man who invited her into his dirty house is...

mere looking at her physique you will know she is a lazy, slothful, dirty thing just like my friends cousin in the university Idowu she could sleep till 10am in the morning same thing with my neighbour here that guy could sleep till 10am also and very dirty no wonder he isn't married till now so you can see it's not a gender thing fortunately idowu was very clean though!

I can't just stand any member of the 2 genders that sleeps too much,are dirty and lazy a man still on his bed till 10:30 am and won't even brush till 3pm because he hasn't gone out yet when you speak to him his morning breath will be visible,how is he even going to hustle for his daily bread?(that's my male neighbour)same with a lady a mother to be in the future who has to be reminded every hour to close the windows,trash the dishes,lay the bed,sweep the floors when she isn't amnesiac then how is she going to instill those values into her kids?

I take my personal hygiene highly I can't stand an adult who still has morning breath at 3:30pm because he/she hasn't left her bed

koladata:
I did something similar, the lady allowed me to do all the cooking while pressing her phone watching reels all through. After I served her food, a decent portion of the rice fell behind the furniture, she took a quick glance at me to ensure I didn't see it and she just let it slide.

That was the end of the relationship.

You wan before go marry 'as-it-should-be-woman' kwo?

dominique:
It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.

I was waiting for this, though this girl too seems cheap.

EmmyMaestro:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7641555232220138773?_r=1&_t=ZS-96ZF2qaqz8E

You forgot to take out the trash, made the bed and clean the house, but you didn’t forget to request money from him.

Hmmmmm. I don’t have any thing to say.

See how she's busy making excuses. Dirty girl claiming that she has got memory problem

lol..."as it should be" the thing is that i don't even mind cooking for her but if she had ignored that rice because it's in a hidding place, it means she's naturally dirty. rice with stew o

Doyou2019:
You wan before go marry 'as-it-should-be-woman' kwo?

Why don't you take out time to work on yourself? Thank goodness you identified your flaws, then own them and improve on you.
Na until you forget your pikin inside motor before you understand what you are saying doesn't make sense!

EmmyMaestro:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7641555232220138773?_r=1&_t=ZS-96ZF2qaqz8E

nairalanda1:
The above comments are how you know men who are probably

1.Not married
2. Not observing basic rules of hygeine, which is why women run away from them
3. Also, just plane lazeeee

What all of you guys are in essence saying is...men are very dirty by nature, women are very clean by nature. You are also saying that men are helpless babies, and women should be changing their nappies for them

Hembelembe.

You guys, abeg, YES...the woman should have cleaned the place, no problem(especially if she was part of causing the mess..eg dirty dishes). But what if there was no woman in the guys life. Is the man supposed to remain dirty until the next relationship? Abi he go remain dirty.


Men who cannot learn to clean the house and cook, are basically incomplete.

When you guys marry, you will note that your wife sometimes would be in hospital for baby, for operation, sometimes has to go to look after a relative who is sick (yes happened to my mother once who had to go look after my grandmother when she was severely ill, because my mother was the only living daughter of my grandmother, so it could not be helped). Househelp is expensive, so it is YOU the man who will do the cleaning, and the cooking when that happens, just as madam would pick up the slack for you.

Plus is it madam that would be the one that would only teach the boys in the house to clean and cook?

You guys should stop disgracing us men.

Like I said, the woman too should have sorted out the problem. But your comments condeming her are implying men are helpless babies who need a woman to clean up after them. Abeg, make I no laugh.

You must really be one of those simps who pamper ladies to rot,how do u conclude I am a dirty person. So for condemning the lady's action makes me a dirty person. How about a lady who poo in a WC toilet where there is water available to flush but left the poo and went out ,this is the first time they are meeting ooo,so the guy should flush the poo and not give the girl a warning just because he wants to prove he is neat. Abeg comot here

dominique:
It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.



So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"

Excuse you… Did you read properly?
Let’s call a spade a spade. A woman is in the house, slept, ate and dined in his house. He woke up and she was still sleeping, so he should tidy the house while she sleeps.

dominique:
It's so baffling how nobody sees nothing wrong with a man leaving his house dirty. He must have kept the environment dirty in expectation that his girlfriend is coming to clean it up. Total pig! If anybody dodged a bullet, it's the lady. Women! Add value to yourselves so men won't see you as maids to clean up their mess.



So it's only women that are required to clean up their surroundings when they wake up? Men are expected to stink up the whole place till a woman comes in to clean it up? It's very easy to spot a male disguising as female, and some imbe men go don slide into his DM to get to "know him better"

Did you miss that part that said he told her to do it and she must have obliged?.....if she wouldn't do it why didn't she tell him right there?. .