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My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren - Family (2) - Nairaland

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Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Kobojunkie: 8:01pm On May 23
SirCloudControl:
➜Olowo kan larin otoshi mefa grin What is 36% of 100%
? Go back through my comments to you thus far, and when you are ready to answer my questions, let me know. 😒
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Diamond098454(f): 8:02pm On May 23
Haha🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hi guy long time
Dzzzz:
Tufiakwa for this kind woman..She can’t even squeeze 30k from the 150k to give her family..The man knows why he gave her 150k..
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by SirCloudControl: 8:02pm On May 23
Kobojunkie:
? Go back through my comments to you thus far, and when you are ready to answer my questions, let me know. 😒
Forward ever; Backward never
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Dzzzz: 8:08pm On May 23
Diamond098454:
Haha🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hi guy long time
Abi na,How you been?..Chop life ooo make life no chop you..
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Diamond098454(f): 8:09pm On May 23
Smiles smiles smiles but your gender normally said girls from rich homes don't have respect
I normally laugh whenever i hear such statement
APOPTOSIS:
DESIST from marrying from Poor Homes.
Guys be selfish with your decisions just like an average female Gold Digger would do.
Women are smarter. They already know their prototype/IdeaL life partner, meanwhile men marry for Love. Start becoming selfish with your thinking too. It's not bad. Every mother would support her son in this regard.
Why date someone who has nothing to offer?
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Diamond098454(f): 8:15pm On May 23
No money for his sidechick
silibaba:
and the 50k for the man is for transport, polishing of his shoe.

So which one will he use to chao kpomo and trophy?

Some men dont deserve anything good.
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Diamond098454(f): 8:17pm On May 23
Am sweet......... Hahaha hahaha
Dzzzz:
Abi na,How you been?..Chop life ooo make life no chop you..
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Dzzzz: 8:27pm On May 23
Diamond098454:
Am sweet......... Hahaha hahaha
Sweet like candy or Goro😂
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Emmabyte: 8:57pm On May 23
On him self, how did you get to that? Is the man not suppose to save?
kingthreat:
The man is the foolish one here.
Spending only 50k on himself.
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Emmabyte: 8:59pm On May 23
Nonsense woman , work she no get, 150k she no fit manage
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Babangidapikin: 9:08pm On May 23
Let say he acceded to your request and drop the remaining 50k how would he get to work. I think the man should just remove 80k from the 150k and leave 70k for you for upkeep....
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by pocohantas(f):
Wawelexy:
Do you have brothers?

He's taking care of his parents, your siblings should do the same...

You want to kill the young man before his time abi? I'm not against him stretching hands to your parents once a while, but it shouldn't be mandatory, or else there's another good source of income he has aside from the one you mentioned...
Whether or not she has brothers.
If she has siblings and they are adults, they should go find jobs and take care of their parents. I don't understand trying to saddle a husband with her parents allowance.
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Dzzzz: 9:11pm On May 23
Diamond098454:
Am sweet......... Hahaha hahaha
Wetin Dey happen for PH?
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Bukola94(m): 10:24pm On May 23
The man dey try, no savings for himself and no money to enjoy himself. Your husband is a good man, better praise him for what he is doing. He has sacrificed for the family enough
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by tuzle(m): 10:40pm On May 23
All this people that gets their story from twitter, well done
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by MartinCorridon: 10:43pm On May 23
Exactly. I am amused at people panting&ranting grin

Though, since the day I read the story of the woman scammed by her son-in-law that Buhari wanted to marry her..

Learnt NOTHING is impossible or ridiculous grin

YoungBlackRico:
I'll just assume this is ragebait. Not gonna waste my energy here.

Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Counterigbolies: 10:43pm On May 23
kingthreat:
The man is the foolish one here.
Spending only 50k on himself.
the foolish boy will soon die young
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by DONOCSO(m): 10:44pm On May 23
kingthreat:
The man is the foolish one here.
Spending only 50k on himself.
What's left for him is N20k
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by 3kay945(m): 10:44pm On May 23
masterplan303:
So you guys are still getting married to Nigerian women these days…shey Una no they see or learn from the news circulating on every social platforms.
I know one foolishh guy that’s still paying marriage debt after divorce. Avoid naija women! Avoid them like plague..infact marriage is overrated, just give person belle and you’ll be fine
Still paying debt after divorce ke huh grin grin
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by BarrElChapo(m): 10:44pm On May 23
If you weren’t working before getting married then he married a total liability. It is you that owes your parents that allowance not him.

Again if you are not an only child, your siblings should step up too
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by J2ff: 10:46pm On May 23
Bobloco:
https://www.gistreel.com/my-husband-earns-n280k-gives-his-parents-n80k-gives-me-n150k-but-refuses-to-give-my-parents-money-pregnant-woman/
Poverty mindset is a curse. What happened to parents and siblings having investment or business mindset/mentality to support themselves with what they have received in the past from their work. Or did they never work? Smh
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Omoslim26: 10:47pm On May 23
kingthreat:
The man is the foolish one here.
Spending only 50k on himself.
Tɦα𝗍 ⱺ𐓣𝖾 𝗂𝗌 α𝖼𝗍υαᥣᥣ𝗒 ρᥣα𐓣𝗂𐓣𝗀 𝗍ⱺ 𝗄𝗂ᥣᥣ ɦ𝗂ꭑ𝗌𝖾ᥣ𝖿 α𐓣ᑯ 𝖼υ𝗍 ɦ𝗂𝗌 𝗃ⱺυ𝗋𐓣𝖾𝗒 𝗌ɦⱺ𝗋𝗍. grin
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Kattie25: 10:48pm On May 23
The husband nah mumu. My wife can't tell me to do anything for her parents.
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by lagonovo: 10:51pm On May 23
If the guy is the one that asked you not to work then your complaint is understandable, otherwise....... I don't know what to call you but you and your parents have issues.
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Berankis: 10:51pm On May 23
The truth is that men are enslaved with marriage. This is what pushes most men to crimes like stealing, embezzlement, diversion of funds, misappropriation of funds, forgery, scam etc.
The man that works a whole month is only left with 50k at the end of the month from his 280k.
Definitely, the 50k can hardly take him the next 30 days on transportation and feeding. He will have to borrow money from friends or colleagues. Be living from hand to mouth. 280k is meagre in today's living cost.
Daily transportation alone costs thousands of Naira.
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by yemre: 10:52pm On May 23
LordBiden:
No you are wrong.

The #150k should be for feeding and general upkeep of the house which the man will benefit from.
And how does he transports himself to work or fuel his car (if he owns one), how does he save for the rainy day and how does he develops himself.

The man is the most f001ish man I've ever seen
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by lagonovo: 10:52pm On May 23
Frankly she no fit since I will never stop her from working. Which kind nonsense be that?

Kattie25:
The husband nah mumu. My wife can't tell me to do anything for her parents.
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by enemyofprogress: 10:52pm On May 23
Help your parents? Kuku carry knife and slaughter the man now. Go look for work, hen your own money so as to help your parents.
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by enemyofprogress: 10:54pm On May 23
Dzzzz:
Sweet like candy or Goro😂
sweet like alomo bitter
Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by ojilebenedict(m): 10:56pm On May 23
Na true.
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