My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren - Family (4) - Nairaland
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| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Burgerlomo: 12:02am On May 24 |
Madam, what happened to your own money if I may ask?
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| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by faceland: 12:07am On May 24 |
God please have mercy on us men. Pressure everywhere. 🙏🏿 |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by StoryHaven: 12:08am On May 24 |
LordIsaac:The kind entitlement ladies have over their husband 's money is out of this world. Can you imagine the audacity, "I told him to be rotating it" As the Rotator the man com be now. They make their money, they keep it. The man makes his money they must squander it. ![]() She did not even sit down to do the maths of how much come remain for the man to spend on himself. Someone who wakes up daily and rush to work. Facing all the stress and insults from his boss. This world no balance. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by femi4: 12:10am On May 24 |
Bobloco:You too start working. The 150k is for you n your family |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by udeh3(m): 12:10am On May 24 |
Except he has other means of income... He might just be stealing to make up for the extras. Cos clearly, there's nothing left for him |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by VaginaAcademic: 12:41am On May 24 |
Is she not working |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by InvertedHammer: 12:58am On May 24 |
/ What if the man loses his job? N150k turns to N0k. ![]() She is an ingrate. Although I don't see why a married man with a pregnant wife earning meagre N280k/month will still be supporting his parents and siblings. Going by her maths, it doesn't seem like the man is saving anything for maternity and baby. He needs all the money he can save right now. / |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by bentenny(m): 1:03am On May 24*. Modified: 10:36am On May 24 |
Who was taking care of her parents before she married her husband? He is not responsible for his inlaws! He may assist at his own disposal or freewill but certainly not an obligation! |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Ebenezer2021(m): 1:18am On May 24 |
YoungBlackRico:see them spending a whole lot of energy to comment on a fictitious story |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by smallsmall: 1:21am On May 24 |
LordIsaac:That is the "Women of this Generation" for you! ![]() Lazy, and so entitled. Moreover, Does she not have Male siblings (Junior or Senior), just like her Husband, who can do the same thing to her/thier Parents? Must all her family Witches conspire against the growth and prosperity of this long-suffering man? The responsibility of taking care of Parents at Old age, rests with the Children those Parents raised and trained, not on their Inlaws. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by smallsmall: 1:24am On May 24 |
faceland:Please leave God out of it..... Men should borrow sense and have mercy on themselves jawe. Trying to impress a Woman, all one's Life, is a Waste of Life. Take it or leave it. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by dododawa1: 1:34am On May 24 |
See mumu brother If the storyline is true |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Danzuba: 1:41am On May 24 |
masterplan303:Nna, if you like go marry Ghanian, even Mexican lady.... a call for being responsible as a man is a most duty to all men. The best advice for the couple is that they should begin to reason on setting up a business to expand their income window. But the wife must be prudent enough to manage such business resources as her new job since they're just starting their family. But if both families will continue to vulture on the same #280,000 , tendencies of matrimonial family crises is imminent in that marriage. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Originalsly: 2:14am On May 24 |
Hmmm ... how much was the bride price? He is supporting his mother....she should channel the same energy to her brothers. Are they taking care of their mother? I can bet my toe nail that she'll have a problem with any of her brothers who is giving money to their in laws. She'll have a million and one reasons why they shouldn't...but those reasons don't apply to her husband Hypocrites everywhere. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by anonimi: 2:30am On May 24 |
kingthreat:How is he different from tribalistic Nigerians who spend so little on ourselves while politicians steal our taxes and the revenue received on our behalf, instead of employing well paid civil servants to make education free for all children, and water supply available to all households? Can you spot the difference and/or similarities ![]() InvertedHammer:@@@@@ @@@@@@@@ fergie001: |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by goslowgoslow(m): 2:36am On May 24 |
Bobloco:Your husband did not marry you to come and help your parents, they are not his obligation. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by patrickcollins: 2:50am On May 24 |
Javid13:Why not monthly, why once a while his age parents are his responsibility, so after suffering to take care of his children they won't be there for him at his old age, only that if he has siblings he has siblings it should be coordinated. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by comrChris(m): 2:51am On May 24 |
Wait oo, how is the man able to save for rent and other bills with this sharing formula? |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by patrickcollins: 2:52am On May 24 |
Rich4god:why can't that lady work and earn her money, why do some women enjoy being full housewife and still in lack |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Bluearrow: 2:58am On May 24 |
kingthreat:Even that 50k still goes into the family like light bills, health, house rent etc. That 150k will probably be for food, the man will still be the one to pay some bills from the 50k. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by frankson1(m): 3:28am On May 24 |
kingthreat:And you believe this story ![]() Where's the money for bills? |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by frankson1(m): 3:35am On May 24 |
Rich4god:Even tbough this story is fake. He earns. N280,000 Wife gets N150,000 His parents N 80,000 Balance N 50,000 How can he "squeeze out something" from N50,000 ![]() |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Mirasteel: 3:37am On May 24 |
What sort of entitlement mentality is this? why can't you work and give half of your salary to your parents? Honestly this is a red flag and if my wife acts like this then the marriage won't last. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Mirasteel: 3:47am On May 24 |
kingthreat:He's a family man, how is he foolish? |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by Whywhycy: 4:27am On May 24 |
Marriage is between two people coming together as one, so by extension the couple from the day they married themselves has two families and should be treated as such. For the man to give his parents and refuse to give his wife's parents is totally wrong. Yes, he is wrong. What he ought to have done is to divide the 80k into two, one to his parents and the other one to his wife's parents. I ask him this question, what do you call the parents of your wife?. If it's Dad and mom, then you should equally play the role of a son to them. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by PeterObash(m): 4:28am On May 24 |
In this case , i won't blame the guy reasons because ,the parents of the girl might have collected a huge sum of money as a bride price forget future. so the guy might be right |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by correctguy101(m): 4:29am On May 24 |
Sonnobax15:So how much the baba use dey transport go work? Or take buy himself anything? inside the remaining 50k? Abegi.. The story get k-leg or the baba no tell dem his actual earnings which is smart in my own opinion. It's evil and a bad omen for ya woman to know that much. Especially when na werey like this iyawo. Pesin go just die troway... Just give dem a lower figure to avoid stress. Old bachelors like us don't even bother with that. We can't have such problems. |
| Re: My Husband Earns ₦280k, Gives His Parents ₦80k And Me ₦150k, Won’t Help My Paren by anonimi: 4:38am On May 24 |
Originalsly:Na so o. Hypocrites everywhere like our politicians especially. Imagine how obi says what he does not do, yet smart people worship him as lord and saviour. bennybuhari: |
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