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Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Perhaps you look rich but living in poor neighborhood. Be very careful so that you don't become a target.

You don't look welcoming or friendly

Life is too short to always be serious and mean.

Ease off a little, meet people and dine with the devils

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.
Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Nlfpmod

THEM DON HERE TOO MANY THINGS ABOUT YOU. SOME MAYBE NAIRALANDERS . START GOING TO DOMINION CITY CHURCH today.

There is nothing wrong with you...you are just deeply introverted and love minding your business...which is a good thing it will keep trouble far from you .

But on the flip side you will loose some business ideas that would have come from being a bit friendly with people ..nonetheless minding your business is still the best ..na your type Dem dey find for abroad.

Just loosen up abit with wisdom.

It’s obvious you’re unemployed. E reach for people to stare from distance.

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.
Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Nlfpmod

Op, you sure say you no be Ghostt? Lol

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.
Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Nlfpmod

No worry yourself, make kidnappers catch you. Una go be friends

My people imagine a man said people find it hard to approach him. Oga what business will make someone approach a man if not for businesses issues. If you're looking for people to approach you then get a business started. Or you dey expect one baby to come beg you for love you be celebrity una funny for this forum

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.
Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Nlfpmod

Yeah, you’re the problem. I’m facing the same issue too, like someone said up there, it’s because you’re deeply introverted and always minding your business.

It's either you are me or we are identical twins.

I'm a loner, I keep my distance from people and only have few friends. I come out occasionally and try to mingle, still, people complain I'm intimidating. They won't start a conversation until I do so.

Sometimes, people just start beef with me for little to no reason. Especially when they meet me for the first time and barely know me. I think my looks play a part though.

When they finally find out that I'm not such a bad person, they would say " but I thought....." Very Annoying.

Other people just carry me in their mind and keep their distance.

Live your life. Go out and make friends if you can. Do your bit. But try not to please people.

Symptoms of joblessness.

I'm sure you wake up very early in the morning and sleep early

Maybe you look or act proud

Maybe, you look mean and unapproachable or people don’t see you talking to anyone. So, they just assume you’re unfriendly. I get that too, but you could be more friendly if you chose. It’ll be exhausting trying to change since, it’s not your natural way of living

I get the same problem, sometimes I tried being more friendly I realized I regretted cos I found out ppl like to use good hearted ppl and I can't just be bad unless I have good reason too, unlike what the society is turning ppl to now

Join a church or other social gathering

You don't look welcoming or you look timid.

Just loosen up, relax, smile, greet people, enjoy life.

Most of us, we were not raised to be people friendly, hence, the deep introvert trait. My case is similar to yours but it is changing gradually, because I'm working on myself..

Before now, I used to frown subconsciously while walking, listening, sitting, etc, around people. It is like an automatic setting. But now, I'm loosening up bit by bit as I smile more now, gist and make friends with people easily, unlike before..

Being an introvert becomes bad when it controls you, you will lose meaningful friendships, connections/opportunities as a result. Making favour/help difficult...

People looking at you means you're attractive without you knowing. Perhaps you're too serious with life.

Go out there and have fun. Build your confidence level and stop feeling timid with low self esteem

Try smiling at people on first eyes contact and sometimes wave to say hi.
It doesn't hurt, you will notice some people will move closer when you a start with a smile.

This is me you are talking about.

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Firstly, You might have ADHD go and do your research about it. Secondly, you might be one of the chosen ones which means you will have to learn how to enjoy solitude, your aura doesn't like crowd and people but you can have someone that you always want around, thirdly, its might be Asperger. Either way try not to bother about it if it isn't disturbing your daily life and work. Love yourself more and do yourself a lot of pampering and watch what happens. Be deliberate in taking good care of yourself and apperance too. Good luck dear. Don't worry, this world is set to break us but stand like rock and never be moved.

Begin by changing your disposition. Smile often even if you have to force it. When you do, you will naturally attract people to you. No one wants to come close to someone that's not cheerful. The aura you exude determines how people relate with you. Do this and thank me later.

dear learn to give.... the more you give out when in a social gathering or kiost.make people to get close and want to be friend.. it make you friendly and love

I don't even know the kind of advice to give you because we are in the same shoe, I think we need more advice, my two cents

maybe your face look too serious,

There's just only one problem to this. GREETING. You don't use to greet, and it's too bad. Start greeting people from today and see changes

My case is the opposite. People like greeting me. Children and women alike.