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Friends are not good though.

But my advice, don't make it look like pride or arrogance, make it look like easy going.

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

There is nothing wrong with you, your life style just doesn't match with theirs

I have a similar situation like you, infact I am also in my mid 30s without friends and I have been like that forever.

I am a graduate and in school I only had hello hello friend and just one close dude, people knew me in school but none were my friends. We would exchange pleasantries but it ends there.

In my hood where I grow, still just one friend, the others are strangers that greet me and I greet back that's all.

In church and place of work how far how far but it ends there.

I don't receive visitors , I don't go out. I stay at home anyday I am not going to work and it's just me and my family.

I used to feel concerned before but right now I kind of thank God for it.

I have a lovely and peaceful home because not having friends made me bond closer with my wife and kids with my wife being my kind of person with just one friend.

People see both of us and know that anywhere they see me my wife and daughter is always there. It makes me cherish and value my family so much, building memories and closer bonds

Secondly not having friends has saved me from alot of dangers. Like I don't keep late nights, I dont go clubbing, drink or chase after women because the larger the cycle of friends the more the tendencies to always want to do those things and that would expose me to danger or cause friction in my marriage.

Lastly, enjoying my space makes me thrive, I save alot and invest alot. Not so much things suck money from me. From work to house, my routines are quite predictable and I love it.

The one friend I have is a valuable friend that is beneficial and the business partners I have already know my personality and respect that.

So it's a big win for me, I don't regret it and you shouldn't

Goo0dHardDick:
People looking at you means you're attractive without you knowing. Perhaps you're too serious with life.

Go out there and have fun. Build your confidence level and stop feeling timid with low self esteem

you have a good heart...

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Introverts are like that but trust me, you don't need friends. The loss is bigger than the gain. If you want people to come to you, be a womanizer and you will start having friends. Seeing you with women will open that channel but you don't need it. Just make money and everybody will want to come close.

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

No, it's not spiritual. It can be explained rationally.

[ this one is still looking for problem. Much friends= much problem]Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual[/quote]

SirCloudControl:
Perhaps you look rich but living in poor neighborhood. Be very careful so that you don't become a target.

Hmmm
This is deep. You say this like someone with a lot of experience. I'm going thru the same thing. In my own case I have stopped worrying myself. What I have is these jobless men sitting on the junction every minute of the day, drinking and smoking and making noise. If you pass they will watch you carefully so see whether you would greet them. If you get friendly with them they will start taxing you whenever you pass by. The street men and women are just annoying. Eveytime you come out they keep staring at you until you trip and fall out of embarrassment. Every single day!!! I started ignoring all of them. When I'm moving I face my front. I ignore every idiot. What's my own. Make them come beat me. Mtcheewww

Maitunbi:
Hmmm
This is deep. You say this like someone with a lot of experience. I'm going thru the same thing. In my own case I have stopped worrying myself. What I have is these jobless men sitting on the junction every minute of the day, drinking and smoking and making noise. If you pass they will watch you carefully so see whether you would greet them. If you get friendly with them they will start taxing you whenever you pass by. The street men and women are just annoying. Eveytime you come out they keep staring at you until you trip and fall out of embarrassment. Every single day!!! I started ignoring all of them. When I'm moving I face my front. I ignore every idiot. What's my own. Make them come beat me. Mtcheewww

Don't interact with any of them so you don't lose your energy and become like them. Even if they try to great you and talk to you, avoid answering them. Walk away very fast.

Those sort of people don't have any plans for their lives. Be careful, lest you become like them

Daniel058:
THEM DON HERE TOO MANY THINGS ABOUT YOU. SOME MAYBE NAIRALANDERS . START GOING TO DOMINION CITY CHURCH today.

What happens in dominion city Church?

Cum4me:
My people imagine a man said people find it hard to approach him. Oga what business will make someone approach a man if not for businesses issues. If you're looking for people to approach you then get a business started. Or you dey expect one baby to come beg you for love you be celebrity una funny for this forum

I feel like picking this 2by2 beside me for the dude

U don't have problem.
When u start attracting bad people to yourself in the name of friends that when your eyes will be clear.

If u don't have a job get a job.
People business should not be your business.

I don't think that should bother you much.. it's best to keep distance from people to avoid contempt from too much familiarity.

As far as noone is disturbing your movement in the area, you're good.. but then, try dey chyke babes or have where you buy stuffs in the area so you can have friends to chat with once in a while.

I think say U be babe at first then wen I reach the ending I hissed
Dei wait mk woman come toast U
Baba U go die of konji n loneliness

I am like that too
Hardly talk in my compound
I parked in 2months now n I haven't even had a 5mins talk with anybody
But small small how far no go scarce
I dei smile with them
I dei observe fes...but any of the babies Wei do anyhow go collect prick ni
I no dull
I like respect pass anything so I no dei put mouth for weitin no concern me

I think U should start saying hello occasionally to random ppl ooh
Mk U no be like Dracula for area

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Possibly you are not approachable

Be like u ugly.. I no go fit lie for you

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Why don't you want to speak the truth.

You and me know that you have three horns at the back of your head and six fingers on each hand and two sharp tails, and this is why people stare at you and keep away.

Behold, Alhaji of the Mat has the solution.

Approach Alhaji for the cure.

Lo, I have the slippers.

Start greeting people and it will change

Like say u posted ur photos,we for tell u the reason so u can adjust ur looks.
The problem I guess is not from ur stars but in u.

Sabali
The right one will come

I cant shout oo
Fuckin funnyy

Cum4me:
My people imagine a man said people find it hard to approach him. Oga what business will make someone approach a man if not for businesses issues. If you're looking for people to approach you then get a business started. Or you dey expect one baby to come beg you for love you be celebrity una funny for this forum

And dine with the devil? Finish it now....😂 Dine with the devil but with a very long spoon.....l

tolugar:
You don't look welcoming or friendly

Life is too short to always be serious and mean.

Ease off a little, meet people and dine with the devils

Guy, if you really like respect as you said, you wouldn't be thinking of putting your preeq inside any ladies bambam inside a house you just newly packed into and the same compound for that matter. It's like you love see finish kind of treatment. I guess you ain't a gentle guy as you proclaimed earlier in your write up......

donMIG:
I think say U be babe at first then wen I reach the ending I hissed
Dei wait mk woman come toast U
Baba U go die of konji n loneliness

I am like that too
Hardly talk in my compound
I parked in 2months now n I haven't even had a 5mins talk with anybody
But small small how far no go scarce
I dei smile with them
I dei observe fes...but any of the babies Wei do anyhow go collect prick ni
I no dull
I like respect pass anything so I no dei put mouth for weitin no concern me

I think U should start saying hello occasionally to random ppl ooh
Mk U no be like Dracula for area

This sounds verbatim like my narrative. I'm already in my 40s with no friends and it creeps the hell out of me. I just don't even know how to turn this problem around.

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

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You are doing God's work dear.

Shiloh needs people like you to maintain healthy account balance.

/

If you need the social interaction, there are places that will help you to meet more people and make friends such as churches, work place, sports club etc. Be civil and polite. Don't force it otherwise you will be burnt out.

Find and meet your divine maker,The Lord Jesus Christ then you will understand that one with God is majority.

Mel-phleg right there!

Mathewrichard99:
Guy, if you really like respect as you said, you wouldn't be thinking of putting your preeq inside any ladies bambam inside a house you just newly packed into and the same compound for that matter. It's like you love see finish kind of treatment. I guess you ain't a gentle guy as you proclaimed earlier in your write up......

Baba
I no be gentle man my bruh

Who go collect go collect

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

I’m almost like this!
Some people see me as someone with so much pride cos I don’t talk to them ‘first’,. I only have few friends as well. No girlfriend (not bothered).
I just Dey my lane, and mind my business

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Perhaps you need to smile more

Fantazy:
I’m almost like this!
Some people see me as someone with so much pride cos I don’t talk to them ‘first’,. I only have few friends as well. No girlfriend (not bothered).
I just Dey my lane, and mind my business

Pls Dom be angry how old are you IG I at ask