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There is a spike in the rate of failed marriages between spouses and moving on from the failed marriage depends on the psychology of the individual involved.
In moving on to another partner,is the individual involved falling in love again especially after having kids from the previous failed marriage or it is just a marriage of convenience just to make the society feel you are responsible as you are married .
Can one really love again after a failed marriage is a million dollars question.

Of course but it requires some time to heal from the past marriage

helinues:
Of course but it requires some time.to heal from the past marriage

I don't think most really heal from the previous disappointment as they just jump into the next just to pepper their previous marriage or relationship.

guobe:
I don't think most really heal from the previous disappointment as they just jump into the next just to pepper their previous marriage or relationship.

I was talking to someone some days ago, I advised the person to be spiritual, being spiritual dont mean you need to meet one herbalist, pastor or Imam, self knowing, self thought about something's you never paid attention to before.

Marriage dont just collapse overnight, there must have been signs which people don't normally pay attention to.

helinues:
I was talking to someone some days ago, I advised the person to be spiritual, being spiritual dont mean you need to meet one herbalist, pastor or Imam, self knowing, self thought about something's you never paid attention to before.

Marriage dont just collapse overnight, there must have been signs which people don't normally pay attention to.

Most people ignore red flags before getting married as they just want to get married for marriage sake.

The psychology of love after a failed marriage? That’s like asking if a Nigerian can resist a ponzi scheme yeah it’s complicated, but deep down, we all know the answer.

Kaczynski:
The psychology of love after a failed marriage? That’s like asking if a Nigerian can resist a ponzi scheme yeah it’s complicated, but deep down, we all know the answer.

The first cut is the deepest if you know you know.

I'm from a family that doesn't believe in divorce, but rather separation, meaning your spouse can still come back at anytime to claim you back.

I don't know any close family member who has either divorced or been divorced before despite some living separately from their spouses.

Samantha125:
I'm from a family that doesn't believe in divorce, but rather separation, meaning your spouse can still come back at anytime to claim you back.

I don't know any close family member who has either divorced or been divorced before despite some living separately from their spouses.

That is quite rare as divorce these days look normal.

Well, so far my province is ranked to have the lowest divorce rates in the whole of SA, perhaps it's because the vast majority still adhere to traditional customs.

guobe:
That is quite rare as divorce these days look normal.

Samantha125:
Well, so far my province is ranked to have the lowest divorce rates in the whole of SA, perhaps it's because the vast majority still adhere to traditional customs.

Quite interesting, is it the zulu people in SA ?

You guys and your obsession with Zulus...🤦🤦🤦... No, it's not.

guobe:
Quite interesting, is it the zulu people in SA ?

Samantha125:
You guys and your obsession with Zulus...🤦🤦🤦... No, it's not.

Lol ,I love the zulu tradition.
AI search told me it is western cape region.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but your AI lied... Xhosas are based in the Western Cape region, not Zulus.

guobe:
Lol ,I love the zulu tradition.
AI search told me it is western cape region.

guobe:
I don't think most really heal from the previous disappointment as they just jump into the next just to pepper their previous marriage or relationship.

Very true! Most just jump into another marriage or relationship to do a pepper back. Once a man or woman gets to the stage of divorce then it is actually finished..nothing moves them anymore.

guobe:
Most people ignore red flags before getting married as they just want to get married for marriage sake.

It takes time to be healed about anything

Now imagine relationship or marriage break up. You need to give it time before jumping into another one

Samantha125:
Sorry to burst your bubble, but your AI lied... Xhosas are based in the Western Cape region, not Zulus.

I didn't mean zulu, zulu is third in the rate of divorce in SA.

Okay.

guobe:
I didn't mean zulu, zulu is third in the rate of divorce in SA.

Why not? As far as the person knows how to analyse draw games as well as odds. Then we are good to go.🥱🥱

Can one really love again after a failed marriage is a million dollars question.

Yes.

Marriage and pregnancy are two ways many women become tied down in relationships that do not align with their happiness or wellbeing. Many women would be happier most times without marriage, so avoid marriage if you can.

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It's possible

This your question na to ask Google oh because it's somehow

kenn4rill:
This your question na to ask Google oh because it's somehow

Lol