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Before you propose to that woman, go and study her mother carefully.

Not her looks. Not her career. Not how she treats you right now when she is trying to win you. Study her mother.

How does her mother speak to her father? How does she handle conflict?
How does she age?
What is her disposition toward men?
What is her relationship with money?
What is her energy in the home?

That woman you want to marry is watching her mother every day of her life.
She is absorbing those patterns whether
she knows it or not.
What you see in the mother is a preview of what is coming in the marriage.

A woman with a bitter mother will become bitter.
A woman with a disrespectful mother will become disrespectful.
A woman with a strong, dignified mother has a template for strength and dignity.

You are not just marrying her. You are inheriting her upbringing.

Do your homework before you propose.

You've put up a great post here , I keep saying it , if Any lady stays with a man ( married to him) she stayed because of her mother ..

What if the wife is her father's replica both in looks and personality? No be one chance you don enter so?

What if her father is no longer alive?
Chances are that her mother poisoned her father? Stressed her father to death?
What if her mother pretends any time you are around?
Best is to make friends around their neighbourhood, ask questions from their neighbours.
It's a compulsory stage in most cultures.
It's just this generation that meet a woman and marry her even before meeting her parents.

You're not lying in that direction,it is true to a large extent.

I agree with your post 💯%.

A snake begats a snake.
A good woman begats good daughters.

It's genetical, you pass what you have to your daughters, No wayo, no woru-woru.

Them no they use prayer solve am or change the outcome, you go suffer as a man! so open your eyes and find the daughters of a good woman.

Absolutely truth.
Same goes for men

All said is true. But women can pretend. It takes a lot to get to that point

marcusverum:
Before you propose to that woman, go and study her mother carefully.

Not her looks. Not her career. Not how she treats you right now when she is trying to win you. Study her mother.

How does her mother speak to her father? How does she handle conflict?
How does she age?
What is her disposition toward men?
What is her relationship with money?
What is her energy in the home?

That woman you want to marry is watching her mother every day of her life.
She is absorbing those patterns whether
she knows it or not.
What you see in the mother is a preview of what is coming in the marriage.

A woman with a bitter mother will become bitter.
A woman with a disrespectful mother will become disrespectful.
A woman with a strong, dignified mother has a template for strength and dignity.

You are not just marrying her. You are inheriting her upbringing.

Do your homework before you propose.

Her mother don die

Next ..philosopher with fake theory

marcusverum:
Before you propose to that woman, go and study her mother carefully.

Not her looks. Not her career. Not how she treats you right now when she is trying to win you. Study her mother.

How does her mother speak to her father? How does she handle conflict?
How does she age?
What is her disposition toward men?
What is her relationship with money?
What is her energy in the home?

That woman you want to marry is watching her mother every day of her life.
She is absorbing those patterns whether
she knows it or not.
What you see in the mother is a preview of what is coming in the marriage.

A woman with a bitter mother will become bitter.
A woman with a disrespectful mother will become disrespectful.
A woman with a strong, dignified mother has a template for strength and dignity.

You are not just marrying her. You are inheriting her upbringing.

Do your homework before you propose.

Thanks to my mom and sisters

Beware of daughters of single mothers

This is true to a large extent, most time we are product of the family we come from.

Some children especially ladies are opposite of their mother.

Both the mother and the daughter go still pretend and show you pepper 🌶️ later

marcusverum:
Before you propose to that woman, go and study her mother carefully.

Not her looks. Not her career. Not how she treats you right now when she is trying to win you. Study her mother.

How does her mother speak to her father? How does she handle conflict?
How does she age?
What is her disposition toward men?
What is her relationship with money?
What is her energy in the home?

That woman you want to marry is watching her mother every day of her life.
She is absorbing those patterns whether
she knows it or not.
What you see in the mother is a preview of what is coming in the marriage.

A woman with a bitter mother will become bitter.
A woman with a disrespectful mother will become disrespectful.
A woman with a strong, dignified mother has a template for strength and dignity.

You are not just marrying her. You are inheriting her upbringing.

Do your homework before you propose.

This is NOT a blanket rule as character is not genetically inherited trait but what and how we decide to become...

The same can be said to father and son but it's not blanket too...

There are those whose father or mother can be something else, and the son or daughter better off.

Knowledge, religion and exposure plays a important part in this.

You have said it all and I was smart enough to study this pattern and I dodged a heavy bullet.

My ex mother never had a single respect for her husband, I mean the few hours I spent at their house revealed so much because the man was never respected by either his wife or the children, like they couldn't even pretend it sef seeing that they had a prospective in-law around.
From that moment I just knew that was the ending of everything.

Nice post but not 💯 correct

marcusverum:
Before you propose to that woman, go and study her mother carefully.

Not her looks. Not her career. Not how she treats you right now when she is trying to win you. Study her mother.

How does her mother speak to her father? How does she handle conflict?
How does she age?
What is her disposition toward men?
What is her relationship with money?
What is her energy in the home?

That woman you want to marry is watching her mother every day of her life.
She is absorbing those patterns whether
she knows it or not.
What you see in the mother is a preview of what is coming in the marriage.

A woman with a bitter mother will become bitter.
A woman with a disrespectful mother will become disrespectful.
A woman with a strong, dignified mother has a template for strength and dignity.

You are not just marrying her. You are inheriting her upbringing.

Do your homework before you propose.

You’re not far from the truth. I learnt this from my uncle a long time ago.

Calm down

Some women resemble their Dad on character as well.

Hard woman can give birth to calm or quiet girl. Calm woman can also give birth to hard or sturbbon girl.

Some of you don't really think before opening topic and at same time claim to know it all.

@ Op, so you haven't seen arrogant or rude girl while her mom is very nice and calm? A young girl can resemble her Dad on character too.

This mostly happened when the lady in question is a big fan of her mother. Totally in support of her mother's character and attitude

Manipulative mother's will teach her the dirty game. Pretending, juju, setting the agenda, carrying liabilities expenses.
Most Gold digging coaching is taught by mothers📌💯.

marcusverum:
Before you propose to that woman, go and study her mother carefully.

Not her looks. Not her career. Not how she treats you right now when she is trying to win you. Study her mother.

How does her mother speak to her father? How does she handle conflict?
How does she age?
What is her disposition toward men?
What is her relationship with money?
What is her energy in the home?

That woman you want to marry is watching her mother every day of her life.
She is absorbing those patterns whether
she knows it or not.
What you see in the mother is a preview of what is coming in the marriage.

A woman with a bitter mother will become bitter.
A woman with a disrespectful mother will become disrespectful.
A woman with a strong, dignified mother has a template for strength and dignity.

You are not just marrying her. You are inheriting her upbringing.

Do your homework before you propose.

you are 100 percent correct. I learnt the hard.

Yoruba has said it all 👇
"Owu ti iya gbon ni omo hun"

For me, I don't need to go to family or spiritual house to know the character of whoever I'm dealing with.
Just a week of continue relationship with him or her, I will know 75% of his or her character. With 75% knowledge of your character, I will use that one to determine your personality and know if I will be able to be your friend or in relationship with you.

Nobody can pretend for me, infact, character cannot be hiding, if you are observant and emotional intelligent, you can know people characters, through his "emotions", (JOKES, ANGER, HER REACTIONS TO ISSUES, CONSISTENCY IN WHAT SHE IS SAYING) among others.

Using someone mother or father behavior to determine his or daughter character, is not a reliable parameter to determine child's character. I have seen mother which is well behaved and in which daughter is something else and vice versa!

Not entirely true and in some cases yes.

Please be mindful how you generalize on people

Generally True. Many men wished they did that.

So true,and no truer facts has been proven.
Before you marry her, please check her mother's lifestyle and the way she treats or treated her father.
Whatever you do, please don't forget that 99% of the way she treated her father is how you'll be treated or even worse.

Her siblings' relationship with their father is also how your unborn children will be raised to treat you.

Ignore these SIGNS and see UNENDING PREMIUM WONDERS.
Remember,the most significant difference between a well raised lady and a badly raised is SHAME.

This is a stupid conclusion. The mom didn't have basic education but the wife is a medical doctor will she turn out like her mother

Well....Some women may not resemble their mother in term of character .

Some takes after their father character.

You can start your assessment with her mother then evaluate if she has the same tendency as her mother's own.

no true in a situation, the mother can be good and d daughter due to d kind of company she keeps and all might be of different character entirely, this i have witnessed

MEGA4BILLION:
This most happened when the lady in question is a big fan of her mother. Totally in support of her mother's character and attitude

Even when she is not. These traits are traditionally ingrained as a bloodline. If the mother constantly quarrelled the father, tendency is that the daughter will toe that path. Law of unconscious assimilation of what we see everyday is the reason most people don't raise children in a ghetto. That same law works in a girl who is constantly with the mother. Only exception to this rule is a girl who has dedicated her life to Christ and actively following his precepts, not a church goer oo.

Una no go rest for this life of una never carry topic about women.