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You men are yet to get the memo that the current young girls are not into wide age gaps. Only exception is for money. Even that, there is no guarantee they would retire with you. Once they see their mates marrying younger stylish and fit men, while your hairline is already moving backwards, the resentment sets in.

You can marry an 18yo at 45? Why not wait until 45 to pull it off and tell us how it goes.

meobizy:
11 year difference. Shame no catch you. Men your age chase twenty-six to twenty-nine year old women. Sha, you no ready to settle down nor ready to mature.

Na your type they marry old Shege...

And so what about that? Bro, you needed not to argue with her cos that girl dont like you. if you were 50years old and have money, I SWEAR SHE GO GREE FOR YOU. Women only have problem when the guy is broke. And secondly if you are not her kind of man. Bro, forget her and move to the next babe.

meobizy:
11 year difference. Shame no catch you. Men your age chase twenty-six to twenty-nine year old women. Sha, you no ready to settle down nor ready to mature.

So make eh marry 5 years? Make he dey like say na em aunty's eh marry? You go marry na

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 just imagine see 31 years old reasoning

Stephen0mozzy:
I just dey read your own part of the chat, and shame just dey catch me for you. Your own 31yrs get as e be o.

So you dey try convince a 20yr old girl about how you're not old, and you dey talk about how she wan enter menopause? Dey talk how you go fit marry and handle woman when you dey 45yrs?

Wherever you for learn your own toasting from eh, tell them make dem refund your money.

She blocked you because you no sabi game - not age difference.

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

Op I was in your shoe last week, Imagine a girl I wanted to marry, I got her contact from a match making platform, coincidentally, she happens to come from my Village, my clan to be specific, she is 24 by the way. Our chats were going well until she asked me my age, I told her that I am 30, this girl get mind talk say I don old, na once I ended the chat, she later said that it was a joke but I have lost interest already.

ManknowThyself:
You are not old my brother, you are in your prime as she’s!!!!!!!!


Her mate can never provide the luxury life she wants as a wife except those from wealthy homes.

No reason her matter, few months time she will be disturbing for relationship but never give her that opportunity.

Lol... Matter way he don over-reason finish, hence his childish and immature response.

Age is a very sensitive subject to many people, especially those of dating and marriage brackets.

That lady too would be vexed if a far younger person called her OLD.

samsononyilo:
I'm telling this 23yrs old girl that I'm too old for her because I'm 31, she's the one reminding me that the age difference isn't much. Bro leave her alone.

You are letting a 23-year-old decide for you, and you think that makes you the smart one? 😒

Girl wey just dey grow breast we never less finish na where u dey bring grandpa talk dey give. You are a young man with no game

The fact that she made that age statement, shows how in-exposed and immature she is. Girls get matured faster than their male counterparts of the same age.

Wertin you wan chop
No wan make you get sense abi
She still dey respect you
She go soon change am for you now....
Na that time, you go come realize say una no be mate actually.

Better respect yourself and let her be

I am currently 35 and fucking a 24 year old!! And she love me so so much.

Koppaguard:
Op I was in your shoe last week, Imagine a girl I wanted to marry, I got her contact from a match making platform, coincidentally, she happens to come from my Village, my clan to be specific, she is 24 by the way. Our chats were going well until she asked me my age, I told her that I am 30, this girl get mind talk say I don old, na once I ended the chat, she later said that it was a joke but I have lost interest already.

I think there is a serious "Age Sensitivity" going on in this generation, and while I personally find it amusing, I feel it is just kinda weird.

Me I'm 42 but even 20yr old girls flaunt thems3lves around me.
Its all about how u hold urself

Stephen0mozzy:
I just dey read your own part of the chat, and shame just dey catch me for you. Your own 31yrs get as e be o.

So you dey try convince a 20yr old girl about how you're not old, and you dey talk about how she wan enter menopause? Dey talk how you go fit marry and handle woman when you dey 45yrs?

Wherever you for learn your own toasting from eh, tell them make dem refund your money.

She blocked you because you no sabi game - not age difference.

Lwkmd

Age difference is wide, plus you can't spit that real game. And you have the body language of a perv too.

pocohantas:
You men are yet to get the memo that the current young girls are not into wide age gaps. Once they see their mates marrying younger stylish and fit men, while your hairline is already moving backwards, the resentment sets in.

^^^

Kobojunkie:
You are too old for her is what she said. Respect yourself and move on! 😒

Abi oooo

I wonder why he kept pressing on

Simpsons just full everywhere

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

The only issue i see here is that ure double texting,,,always keep ur cool while chating female gender,,Never type more than 1 line...anything more than that ure over explaning,,,The same girl will even data a 45 year old, it depends on how it is handled

Kobojunkie:
Does not seem at all like that to me. By the way, she is right that you are getting older because at your age, your chances of having a child with disability have increased by 2%(recent science has shown it is the man's sperm that begins to degenerate after age 28). 😒

So, if you plan to have kids, you should maybe begin seriously screening serious partners, and not 20-year-olds who are not interested in you. 😒

Where una they do una own research oga sperm degeneration

Lmaoooo. You are old for her. I wont let my 20yr old daughter marry a 31yr old. There is obviously a lot lacking with you that makes you want someone much younger. Its good she blocked you quickly because you even hinted at being polygamous in future.
Its obvious this straight forward and direct woman dont want that future.

Some of you think women dont have a right to choose or decide what they want for their lives because you toast them. Who do you think you are? Move on and gettat! Go and find your mate and prove you are worthy there first. Make sure you inform everyone you toast that you are polygamous then come back and let us know how far.

pocohantas:
You men are yet to get the memo that the current young girls are not into wide age gaps. Only exception is for money. Even that, there is no guarantee they would retire with you. Once they see their mates marrying younger stylish and fit men, while your hairline is already moving backwards, the resentment sets in.

You can marry an 18yo at 45? Why not wait until 45 to pull it off and tell us how it goes.

Lol... You are right, but here is the problem...

How many ladies in that early twenty will have someone within that "sweet age bracket" financially and mentally ready for marriage?!!

We both know the answer to that.

It's so easy and sweet to pose online, but reality stings different, especially in a nation where over 90% of young men will never see financial stability before 30 - 35.

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

Dude, you don't respond to a girl of that age like that.
It's not really about your age but your attitude. She just used age as an excuse.
Also remember, at that age most, most girls nowadays just dey mature into olosho phase of life. They have all the physical attributes, attention from men, but not the wisdom to be a proper woman yet. Boys from 18 years old to men up to 60 years dey toast them.
Olosho phase can last from around 19 to 30 years depending on the woman.

But from the age of 23-25, the wiser ones will have learned from been played by men, with a few abortions in their CV and will start looking out for a guy ready for marriage.

If you are still playing around, continue with 20 year olds. If looking for marriage material, 23 and above. At least 22. Done with NYSC and all.

pocohantas:
You men are yet to get the memo that the current young girls are not into wide age gaps. Only exception is for money. Even that, there is no guarantee they would retire with you. Once they see their mates marrying younger stylish and fit men, while your hairline is already moving backwards, the resentment sets in.

You can marry an 18yo at 45? Why not wait until 45 to pull it off and tell us how it goes.

she is not nigerian girl, she is white from scotland we have been together since lockdown period

gracias124:
she is not nigerian girl, she is white from scotland we have been together since lockdown period

So you were with her as a minor? Lockdown was between 5-6yrs ago which will make her 14-15. You better run far from her and fast before her parents get a hold of you.

My age mate, this your response shocked me o, you don't need to explain anything to her, just move on

gracias124:
she is not nigerian girl, she is white from scotland we have been together since lockdown period

You are kidding? Since she was about 14-years-old? Why are you folks so .... no wonder!😒

You are meant to speak your intentions clearly.
Nobody wants to date 30 plus year old men again. They expect that you should be asking for marriage.

gracias124:
it was an emotional blackmail she has beem telling me to get married and i kept saying no

Get married to her abi to who?

Sabali bro
There is a woman meant for every man

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

You deserve what you got. Cos you lack self respect.