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PinkNature:
60kg @ almost 5’11, you’re technically a walking dry wood.

up your weight to at least 70kg, invest in your style, build confidence and approach multiple girls you’re gonna get some pumpum

u need flog aswear ..

Hustle more, you will be surprise with the numbers of Ladies wanting to befriend you

Tekashi89:
Hey guys, my dating life sulks, I haven't been really lucky with girls ever since my secondary School days. Since I was born I've only dated two girls and that was way back in 2016 and last year in 2025.

I tend to attract more guys, single mothers or older women (very old women tend to like me).
I don't know what's it with me that tends to push away younger girls (note I'm 180cm 60kg) light skin most people say I'm handsome. But I don't know why I can't attract young single girls.

Where ever I go I tend to attract only single mothers and when a young girl even start getting attracted to me I'll later discover that she acts that way to every other guy around so there's nothing special about me.

I'm thinking of going spiritual but I just thought I should post it here first.

So guys I need your advice on this issue pls

It's psychological, push and pull or demand and supply. Tell a lady I am interested in you but I would love that you say no then walk away, she will go after you but if you keep pressing her for a relationship your value drop. Ladies prefer to be fractionated

You get wife for river.... The signs are there for you to see...

bigpriik:
It happens to all guys not just you but they don't talk about it much nothing spiritual about it. when they tell you that gender in complicated you think it's a joke abi?
what you don't know is that by default when you ask a girl out her normal reaction is to start playing hard to get, she will want to prove to you she is not cheap so she will test the hell out of you this is where most guys quit.
I will advice you not to be desperate she is testing your confidence to see if you are man enough to handle pressure, let women play their mind games, keep toasting her for at least 2weeks then pull out if she is not reciprocating,If she has fallen for you she will come back for you.

You are a player.
You know the game.

Tekashi89:
Hey guys, my dating life sulks, I haven't been really lucky with girls ever since my secondary School days. Since I was born I've only dated two girls and that was way back in 2016 and last year in 2025.

I tend to attract more guys, single mothers or older women (very old women tend to like me).
I don't know what's it with me that tends to push away younger girls (note I'm 180cm 60kg) light skin most people say I'm handsome. But I don't know why I can't attract young single girls.

Where ever I go I tend to attract only single mothers and when a young girl even start getting attracted to me I'll later discover that she acts that way to every other guy around so there's nothing special about me.

I'm thinking of going spiritual but I just thought I should post it here first.

So guys I need your advice on this issue pls

Because you are giving off "needy" vibes. Stop looking for relationships until you are ok with yourself, until you know , accept , embrace and live at peace with yourself. Until you dont feel the need to act or change your self or your ways for someone else.

Women are not looking for people who need them to feel ok about themselves.

Focus on your work and on being a decent human being, without having an agenda with every and any woman, or man. The right person, the right friendships will come. Best wishes.

concho:
Bro is about to be ripped

You know their format.

Must you tell her you like her?

Is there nothing else to discuss?

Are you trying to win her with the “liking”?

Go work on your mind. Read a book. Develop interests.

Literally, have a life.

Then discuss that.

Women are not looking for men to like them. They’re looking for men interesting enough to engage them.

You dig?

Tekashi89:
Hey guys, my dating life sulks, I haven't been really lucky with girls ever since my secondary School days. Since I was born I've only dated two girls and that was way back in 2016 and last year in 2025.

I tend to attract more guys, single mothers or older women (very old women tend to like me).
I don't know what's it with me that tends to push away younger girls (note I'm 180cm 60kg) light skin most people say I'm handsome. But I don't know why I can't attract young single girls.

Where ever I go I tend to attract only single mothers and when a young girl even start getting attracted to me I'll later discover that she acts that way to every other guy around so there's nothing special about me.

I'm thinking of going spiritual but I just thought I should post it here first.

So guys I need your advice on this issue pls

you have a spiritual wife, pray about it.

Tekashi89:
Hey guys, my dating life sulks, I haven't been really lucky with girls ever since my secondary School days. Since I was born I've only dated two girls and that was way back in 2016 and last year in 2025.

I tend to attract more guys, single mothers or older women (very old women tend to like me).
I don't know what's it with me that tends to push away younger girls (note I'm 180cm 60kg) light skin most people say I'm handsome. But I don't know why I can't attract young single girls.

Where ever I go I tend to attract only single mothers and when a young girl even start getting attracted to me I'll later discover that she acts that way to every other guy around so there's nothing special about me.

I'm thinking of going spiritual but I just thought I should post it here first.

So guys I need your advice on this issue pls

Be less concerned about whether it is spiritual or not; instead, look out for the physical factor. Even if it is spiritual, there is likely a physical element attached to it, and if you address that physical factor, it is likely the problem will be solved.

Look within yourself; there might be a physical reason that is making you unappealing to ladies or causing them to lose interest. Not everything requires spiritual warfare; some problems just need simple physical adjustments.

There was a time I noticed something strange. Whenever I passed through a market or went there to buy something, whether on foot or in a car, I would feel as though a small stone had hit my forehead, and I would feel sick for a few days afterward. I kept praying, but it didn't stop.

One day, I went out with friends and we stopped by a market. I had forgotten about the issue. It was only after leaving that I realized I had visited the market without experiencing the usual symptoms. After thinking about it deeply, I came to the conclusion that it might be because I had a scarf tied on my head. I tested it again later, and it worked. I also tried a face cap and other head coverings, and the result was the same. Since then, I always cover my head in markets, and the problem stopped.

Some of these things may just be psychological, but they can still have real effects.

doncartel:
There’s a charm I will give you. Just whisper the girl’s name whether it is ‘Beyoncé’ or ‘Cardi B’ or ‘Tiwa’, they will come to you.

Are you serious about this

Khallicopyro:
You get wife for river.... The signs are there for you to see...

How do you mean bro

naijaboy756:
Omor I share same fate ooo... na only knacking, single mum and people wives wan dey close to me oooooo

I have been prophesied to by several persons not to tell a lady I will marry her. I was now wondering if i wont marry. And as soon as i tell a lady about marriage, relationship otilo

Na just temptation them dey carry full my side

God abeg oo

I thought I was the only person experiencing it o single mothers go just dey flock around me but legit babes hmmm

Tekashi89:
Are you serious about this

Ask of Alusi Obeleagu Umana or Eze Fellow at Ezeagu, Enugu state

Tekashi89:
How do you mean bro

Don't you know who you are?