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gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

Well you are an evening newspaper

gracias124:
it was an emotional blackmail she has beem telling me to get married and i kept saying no

oga if you get money marry oooo. time wait for no man

meobizy:
11 year difference. Shame no catch you. Men your age chase twenty-six to twenty-nine year old women. Sha, you no ready to settle down nor ready to mature.

This one needs at least 50 years more to macho and understand life

Evening newspaper abi na spoilt milk how una take dey talk am when e concern women 😆

Move on to the next. I assure you, you'll find someone that wants you.

Leave that girl alone, man. Stop insulting yourself.

meobizy:
11 year difference. Shame no catch you. Men your age chase twenty-six to twenty-nine year old women. Sha, you no ready to settle down nor ready to mature.

I married my wife at 21. Our age difference 13

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

Bro to bro.

She needs to. See as you Dey type sef.
You Dey type jargons

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

Ur lines of arguenent was the main issue here atleast going by the chats. I dont know how u got her num and why but if she gave u then rhats a green light but the age difference isnt significantly much.

I believe if u took a different line of arguement or approach the outcome would be different.

meobizy:
11 year difference. Shame no catch you. Men your age chase twenty-six to twenty-nine year old women. Sha, you no ready to settle down nor ready to mature.

11 years difference is nothing. Even 20 years difference is nothing. 40 years old men do marry 20-23 years old ladies.

In 10 years times, she go don fat full everywhere and will be wondering if she is a mother to the man.

Kobojunkie:
Does not seem at all like that to me. By the way, she is right that you are getting older because at your age, your chances of having a child with disability have increased by 2%(recent science has shown it is the man's sperm that begins to degenerate after age 28). 😒

So, if you plan to have kids, you should maybe begin seriously screening serious partners, and not 20-year-olds who are not interested in you. 😒

This lie again. Well, it's essentially misleading the way you people present it.

Lol @ the typical responses from older women on this thread.

There is nothing else in this world older ( many times single) women despise more than men in their age bracket choosing younger women over them.

OP is kind of a doofus.Hopefully,he brushes the dirt off his shoulders,learns from this experience and moves on.

gracias124:
she is not nigerian girl, she is white from scotland we have been together since lockdown period

Whether white or zimbabwean, it is a shift I have noticed.

Angelfrost:
Lol... You are right, but here is the problem...

How many ladies in that early twenty will have someone within that "sweet age bracket" financially and mentally ready for marriage?!!

We both know the answer to that.

It's so easy and sweet to pose online, but reality stings different, especially in a nation where over 90% of young men will never see financial stability before 30 - 35.

If over 90% of young men will not see financial stability, who are the ones working across organizations? The ones japa'n and the ones in tech? Ghosts? If anything, young people U30 are moving faster than millenials over 30. At least the ones around me. Any man that thinks it is as easy as before to tie a sweet girl down in his 40s should try it and see. It is him reality would sting.

Bro, there is nothing wrong in you trying to marry a 20yrs old lady. Infact the age difference is perfect for u. But all u need to do is package your self well, u don't need to tell her how she will grow old faster than u.

My friend of 40yrs just got married to a lady of 28yrs. Meaning there is 12 years difference between them.
So present your self well to a lady bro. I wish u good luck.

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

You have all the hallmarks of a cradle robber.

Kobojunkie:
You are too old for her is what she said. Respect yourself and move on! 😒

She's crazy, then who's ok for her then. Young boys of under 30 below who many among them are still in their parents house.

Kalulu44:
➜She's crazy, then who's ok for her then. Young boys of under 30 below who many among them are still in their parents house.

What in the world are you rambling about now? She said she does not want you. She no wan do again. How does that make her crazy? 😒

meobizy:
11 year difference. Shame no catch you. Men your age chase twenty-six to twenty-nine year old women. Sha, you no ready to settle down nor ready to mature.

And you think 26-29 women won't look older than him. It's almost impossible to marry your agemate as a man. And that age range you mentioned are same thing as agemates

Stephen0mozzy:
I just dey read your own part of the chat, and shame just dey catch me for you. Your own 31yrs get as e be o.

So you dey try convince a 20yr old girl about how you're not old, and you dey talk about how she wan enter menopause? Dey talk how you go fit marry and handle woman when you dey 45yrs?

Wherever you for learn your own toasting from eh, tell them make dem refund your money.

She blocked you because you no sabi game - not age difference.

Lolz

BigCowHornn:
This one needs at least 50 years more to macho and understand life

meobizy na still small pikin from his or her text. Small children, their reasonings dey tire person. You go teach teach, you go tire.

AfahaAbia:
Lol it seems she does not fancy you. When I was around 28 to 32 years old all the girls I had then were between 19 to 22. They fancied me a lot and I didn't know why. Even when I later got married at 34 the girl I married was 23 years old. So bro I would advise you to go for ladies between 26 to 28. That's your spec.

Ah ah! After you don talk well finish you come still spoil am at the end.
Shebi you say you later marry 23yrs old at 34, why you come dey tell him to look for 26-28 at him 31yrs.
.
You no know say dem go be like aunty to him.

No she actually is calling you broke or poor . When you're rich , even her 18 year old barely legal self will call you Zaddy. Those wenches marry yahoo guys for latest Iphones and designer bags .

tesseract:
Don't say what you don't know. Even 15 years difference is nothing. I know ladies who prefer men who are way older than they are. Its a personal decision.

Apart from personal decision, it's almost the norm.
Joseph Yobo married Adaeze Igwe when she was 20 and Yobo 34.
Yobo is almost 50 now and Adaeze in early 30s, but Adaeze has grown and matured fully that you will think she's in her 40s.

pocohantas:
Whether white ot zimbabwean, it is a shift I have noticed.



If over 90% of young men will not see financial stability, who are the ones working across organizations? The ones japa'n and the ones in tech? Ghosts? If anything, young people U30 are moving faster than millenials over 30. At least the ones around me. Any man that thinks it is as easy as before to tie a sweet girl down in his 40s should try it and see. It is him reality would sting.

Dear Sis, the numbers don't lie...!

Those within the young age brackets earning over 500k a month in Nigeria are shockingly few and far between... Less than 20% actually.

CBN has the records of incomes into accounts na.

Leave social media noise abeg... In Nigeria today, any woman looking for good men making serious money that is legit and still below 30 never ready at all!

I'm not talking about ritualists and fraudsters... Even these ones still no plenty sef.

gracias124:
God forbid. Me chase 29 year old woman?

I so much love that God forbid you just said now.
Don't mind them they want you to look for girls that will look like your aunts when you guys are walking together in the name of you are mates. Don't mind them o, I like your choice

Kalulu44:
Apart from personal decision, it's almost the norm.
Joseph Yobo married Adaeze Igwe when she was 20 and Yobo 34.
Yobo is almost 50 now and Adaeze in early 30s, but Adaeze has grown and matured fully that you will think she's in her 40s.

Thank you my brother. Leave all these narrow minded people.

turawaa:
Go and Make Money
So @40 she will call you baby

Hahahaha, true talk

Stephen0mozzy:
For one, game is about recognizing a lost cause once you see one.

From the conversation OP showed us, he's doing too much talking, while the girl just nitpicks one out of his message to interrogate him, then op goes on a new rant.

Her: You are old

Me: Haha... That's the icing on the cake.

Her: How?

Me: For a man, with age comes experience - that's experience in knowing how to care for you, make you feel loved, and show you pleasure like you've never felt.

Her: You should be married

Me: Have you wondered why I'm spending so muxh time talking with you? Achalugo, I will marry you.

Her: You are not odogwu, you don't have money (Age Topic has changed)

Or

Her: Never o
Me: Never say never 😏

Or

Her: (She blocks me)
Me: (On to the next one)

Hahahaha, baddest of the baddest. I hail o

gracias124:
2%?
I am sure your father had you when he is in his 30s that recent science is sponsored by feminist.

Lolz! I just look that him/her comments just shake my head waka

Op, SMH for you.

cr7lomo:
Who is telling u people all.this crap about disability?? Men impregnate women even at the age of 60 and 70 and the women give birth to very healthy babies as long as the woman is young.... disability and miscarriages come from old worn out eggs... Trump was almost 60 when his wife gave birth to Baron .... Ned Nwoko was 70 when Regina gave him 2 solid boys

Omoh leave he/she cus I don't know which one to refer

Angelfrost:
Dear Sis, the numbers don't lie...!

Those within the young age brackets earning over 500k a month in Nigeria are shockingly few and far between... Less than 20% actually.

CBN has the records of incomes into accounts na.

Leave social media noise abeg... In Nigeria today, any woman looking for good men making serious money that is legit and still below 30 never ready at all!

I'm not talking about ritualists and fraudsters... Even these ones still no plenty sef.

I wonder why you have to take it upon yourself to remind these girls of men with "serious money". Then you will go ahead to complain they marry men for poverty alleviation. You even went a step further to pick a hypothetical salary of 500k. All unprovoked because a young girl doesn't want a 30s man.

This girl never mentioned money. She said he is old (for her). You are the one reminding her of money she didn't ask for. Which wasn't surprising. But there are ladies who want men solely for money. I saw one on another thread. He should go for that one.

BigYash:
Abortion doesn't make girls matured upstairs Oga. Na now I know why the girl dey see you as ancestors..

So wetin abortion come make her be?
Person wey do abortion at 18 don get experience wey a 25-30yrs old woman wey never get belle or born before never get.
Dey there dey deceive yourself

PulaPower:
The way you’re chatting with her self is kinda disgusting. I doubt she’s saying you're old cuz of your age, seems it cuz you no sabi the game which is very obvious..

What’s your own business with she’ll enter Meno. Didn’t she know she’ll enter Meno? You Dey tell her she’ll Age, bla bla bla… Stupid talk..

If it's about the game that the guy didn't play well, then she should be telling him that he's still a kid that doesn't know anything instead of "old". Apart from some mistakes from our guy, the girl did mean and is actually telling him he's old. There's no sugar coating it