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Koppaguard:
Op I was in your shoe last week, Imagine a girl I wanted to marry, I got her contact from a match making platform, coincidentally, she happens to come from my Village, my clan to be specific, she is 24 by the way. Our chats were going well until she asked me my age, I told her that I am 30, this girl get mind talk say I don old, na once I ended the chat, she later said that it was a joke but I have lost interest already.

you too ash abeg take this easy. She was just trying to be jovial.

Kobojunkie:
What in the world are you rambling about now? She said she does not want you. She no wan do again. How does that make her crazy? 😒

Who's the who here madam?

pocohantas:
I wonder why you have to take it upon yourself to remind these girls of men with "serious money". Then you will go ahead to complain they marry men for poverty alleviation. You even went a step further to pick a hypothetical salary of 500k. All unprovoked because a young girl doesn't want a 30s man.

This girl never mentioned money. She said he is old (for her). You are the one reminding her of money she didn't ask for. Which wasn't surprising. But there are ladies who want men solely for money. I saw one on another thread. He should go for that one.

Hahahaha... I was actually talking about a widespread issue, not even this thread.

...And, let's get serious. How many young ladies of today are ready to settle down with low-earning young men?!!

I can tell you authoritatively that most young men earning averagely are not even reasoning marriage, at least not in our Southern better educated and exposed Naija.

Again, don't take my word for it... Enter street ask around.

Angelfrost:
Hahahaha... I was actually talking about a widespread issue, not even this thread.

...And, let's get serious. How many young ladies of today are ready to settle down with low-earning young men?!!

I can tell you authoritatively that most young men earning averagely are not even reasoning marriage, at least not in our Southern better educated and exposed Naija.

Again, don't take my word for it... Enter street ask around.

I don't need to enter street.
Since men know the catch to an older man is the money, you even bait them with money __stop complaining when they ask for this money. Give it to them HAPPILY and keep it moving. Simple.

2mch:
So you were with her as a minor? Lockdown was between 5-6yrs ago which will make her 14-15. You better run far from her and fast before her parents get a hold of you.

and I was 31 that time?

Koppaguard:
Op I was in your shoe last week, Imagine a girl I wanted to marry, I got her contact from a match making platform, coincidentally, she happens to come from my Village, my clan to be specific, she is 24 by the way. Our chats were going well until she asked me my age, I told her that I am 30, this girl get mind talk say I don old, na once I ended the chat, she later said that it was a joke but I have lost interest already.

care to share name of platform, please?

Kobojunkie:
You are too old for her is what she said. Respect yourself and move on! 😒

Abeg make ona leave me for this forum

U are too old u want to put 31 yrs old gbola for 20
Baba

U go far o, after the first msg. No other msg from me, me wey dey snub wetin no nice. Na so I dey respect my age o.

gracias124:
dont say what you dont know, this girl wey u dey call small pikin had an abortion 2years ago.

But from her name and the profile picture, she's got a child and is in a committed relationship.

Unless that is s fake chat and everything about it is fake.

I dated women of more younger age than myself in the last 2 decades. When I was 45yrs I had a gf of 21 years and she's always all over me, even at 48yrs I still has gf of 23yrs presently. My wife and kids lives in Germany and am here to take care of our business. Girls of nowadays don't care about age bracket s especially in Africa. All that mater to them is your personality, money and attractions. But in EU, dating a younger girls of her bracket of age is not only risky but unwise. You can only manipulate them with a chance if you are lucky, But majority of EU girls from 15 to 24 years of age has no maturity sense, relationship values, focus etc. all that matters to them is partying, clubbing, sex, and kinds of life things with their age group.

Kobojunkie:
You are too old for her is what she said. Respect yourself and move on! 😒

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

Go n get money...you will be young.

I used to be old until money arrives

Tenrack:
what would have been your response to her "old" message? I'd like to know how you plan to game her. Cause It would have been lights out for me. No further discussions from my end. I'll tell her no issue.

You said plenty unnecessary things in trying to convince her of age gap. You were not sweet and smooth. It's about mesmerising her. You could have gotten yourself out of favour before the age talk came. Your lines were badly represented. Menopause, talking about second wife and so.

LEXYLOV:
I dated women of more younger age than myself in the last 2 decades. When I was 45yrs I had a gf of 21 years and she's always all over me, even at 48yrs I still has gf of 23yrs presently. My wife and kids lives in Germany and am here to take care of our business. Girls of nowadays don't care about age bracket s especially in Africa. All that mater to them is your personality, money and attractions. But in EU, dating a younger girls of her bracket of age is not only risky but unwise. You can only manipulate them with a chance if you are lucky, But majority of EU girls from 15 to 24 years of age has no maturity sense, relationship values, focus etc. all that matters to them is partying, clubbing, sex, and kinds of life things with their age group.

A 48-year-old man is telling these sorts of stories in the year 2026? WOW!! 😒😒😒

Nairaland is bored. They now make up never-happened stories.

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

You’re not old. You’re just too old for her

Sheffdon:
care to share name of platform, please?

no problem bro, search for primecouple

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

She called you old?

It means two things- either she finds you unattractive or not funded enough


But no worry, keep your hustle and you will see her younger sisters mate sending you dm..

I’m almost same age with you and I have 20 years old girls in my dm begging for attention

I am the one even pushing them off saying I’m too old for them and they are like I look much younger than that and they are okay with me

pocohantas:
You men are yet to get the memo that the current young girls are not into wide age gaps. Only exception is for money. Even that, there is no guarantee they would retire with you. Once they see their mates marrying younger stylish and fit men, while your hairline is already moving backwards, the resentment sets in.

You can marry an 18yo at 45? Why not wait until 45 to pull it off and tell us how it goes.

Hahahah

See this babe…
Lol… I can tell you with 100% certainty you are wrong..

One thing may be wrong with the op, either the girl doesn’t find him attractive or probably see him as broke..

These 20 -25 year old girls aren’t playing at all…
Imagine girls almost 10 years younger than me trying to make friends with my younger sister to get access to me… one or two stealing my number and reaching out directly

And they aren’t even looking for just dating but marriage.. they want to get married … lol

Omoawoke:
Hahahah

See this babe…
Lol… I can tell you with 100% certainty you are wrong.

Marry one and be right.
I would be here.

So oga what's wrong with someone saying you are too old for her?
You are 31 and she's 20. Can't you see the age difference??

Just move on bro!!

gracias124:
and I was 31 that time?

I dont think you fully have the capacity to grasp just how much trouble you can be in if the parents know about you. God has saved you, you better leave that girl alone. As long as you were over 18 when you started dating her, you were committing a crime. You will definitely get prison time if her parents find out about you. And you are black again. You better run as fast as your legs can carry you.

You’re in your prime, I wonder why you’re begging a girl. you reek of low self esteem

ManknowThyself:
You are not old my brother, you are in your prime as she’s!!!!!!!!


Her mate can never provide the luxury life she wants as a wife except those from wealthy homes.

No reason her matter, few months time she will be disturbing for relationship but never give her that opportunity.

Mmm

2mch:
I dont think you fully have the capacity to grasp just how much trouble you can be in if the parents know about you. God has saved you, you better leave that girl alone. As long as you were over 18 when you started dating her, you were committing a crime. You will definitely get prison time if her parents find out about you. And you are black again. You better run as fast as your legs can carry you.

we were friends back then nd she is an orphan

Stephen0mozzy:
For one, game is about recognizing a lost cause once you see one.

From the conversation OP showed us, he's doing too much talking, while the girl just nitpicks one out of his message to interrogate him, then op goes on a new rant.

Her: You are old

Me: Haha... That's the icing on the cake.

Her: How?

Me: For a man, with age comes experience - that's experience in knowing how to care for you, make you feel loved, and show you pleasure like you've never felt.

Her: You should be married

Me: Have you wondered why I'm spending so muxh time talking with you? Achalugo, I will marry you.

Her: You are not odogwu, you don't have money (Age Topic has changed)

Or

Her: Never o
Me: Never say never 😏

Or

Her: (She blocks me)
Me: (On to the next one)

spot on

pocohantas:
Marry one and be right.
I would be here.

Even if these girls see this your post… they will pounce on you not to pour sand sand in their garri…

Wake up to reality

Accept that you are old.
Stop arguing with her and get a lady who accepts and loves for you.
It almost happened to me..in church..they will say youths wait behind..i go dey vex..go.
Oya naa..married people..wait behind..i go vex waka.
Married a bit late..it wasnt easy.was mocked even in my low income job then.
Prayed to God humbly and quietly.
Now am married with lovely looking kids.
Oyibos for UK here dey admire them anytime we go shopping.. .
Mind you..I was just a bit older than my wife.
Oga..leave those little girls.
Go for an understanding partner and believe God for breakthrough.

Omoawoke:
Even if these girls see this your post… they will pounce on you not to pour sand sand in their garri…

Wake up to reality

One of the girl just told him he is old and you are telling me they will pounce on me? Delusion or what?

Kalulu44:
Hahahaha, baddest of the baddest. I hail o

Na that scope wey that Jew man drop you wan dey use to toast those teenage girls for your area abi?

meobizy:
11 year difference. Shame no catch you. Men your age chase twenty-six to twenty-nine year old women. Sha, you no ready to settle down nor ready to mature.

your comment show how old you are ,keep playing till you get to that stage

gracias124:
She blocked me after that convo

Well, I believe you you no do your job well sha😁

Mine was 16 years difference and it has always been a blessing.