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So I dated this lady from Kogi I think she was igbira or so! As at them she was 28yrs of age.
She told me the reason she agreed to date me was because I was much older than her that she doesn't like dating her age mate or guys in her age bracket

One thing I noticed was that this lady she was very bossy, I mean if u miss her call she will be be like why did u miss my call or u chat with her mistakenly delete a test before she views it she will be like why are u always deleting text?

The funny thing was that this lady smokes and clubs like tomorrow no dey but looks very innocent unless she opens up to you!

At some point in the relationship was already getting fed up so I confided in one of my friends who told me that ladies from that region I mean are not homely and are very fetish! That even guys from their region normally does not like marrying their ladies

The character was very bad to the extent that I just started considering ending the relationship cos I never want to be involved with a controlling freak

I wouldn't stereotype a people; albeit, I've had a similar experience.

You dated ONE woman from Kogi State. ONE!!!
How many Kogi women smoke??

ifinger:
So I dated this lady from Kogi I think she was igbira or so! As at them she was 28yrs of age.
She told me the reason she agreed to date me was because I was much older than her that she doesn't like dating her age mate or guys in her age bracket

One thing I noticed was that this lady she was very bossy, I mean if u miss her call she will be be like why did u miss my call or u chat with her mistakenly delete a test before she views it she will be like why are u always deleting text?

The funny thing was that this lady smokes and clubs like tomorrow no dey but looks very innocent unless she opens up to you!

At some point in the relationship was already getting fed up so I confided in one of my friends who told me that ladies from that region I mean are not homely and are very fetish! That even guys from their region normally does not like marrying their ladies

The character was very bad to the extent that I just started considering ending the relationship cos I never want to be involved with a controlling freak

And, The moral of this epistle is?

Men oo

Women oo


Shouty and stubborn, angry and cranky

I have dated one that is wife material, homely and calm oo. She's opposite of all what you stated up there and she's also Ebira "Oyiza".


I think you should move on oo.. that's a RED flag for you already

Dem stubborn for that side, they're very pretty

ifinger:
So I dated this lady from Kogi I think she was igbira or so! As at them she was 28yrs of age.
She told me the reason she agreed to date me was because I was much older than her that she doesn't like dating her age mate or guys in her age bracket

One thing I noticed was that this lady she was very bossy, I mean if u miss her call she will be be like why did u miss my call or u chat with her mistakenly delete a test before she views it she will be like why are u always deleting text?

The funny thing was that this lady smokes and clubs like tomorrow no dey but looks very innocent unless she opens up to you!

At some point in the relationship was already getting fed up so I confided in one of my friends who told me that ladies from that region I mean are not homely and are very fetish! That even guys from their region normally does not like marrying their ladies

The character was very bad to the extent that I just started considering ending the relationship cos I never want to be involved with a controlling freak

Igbira you went but I will add also that you shouldn't mess with Ebira ladies roo especially those from okene,those ones noh get joy,you do anyhow you see anyhow sharp!

I can't say you are lying, because one Ebira woman I came across always talked so high of herself and how where she comes from they don’t mess with her. Whatever that meant, but it was years later I understood why.

Egbira

Alaye run o

Make I no lie you, dis your post, truth dey for inside.
The "only" two ladies from Kogi (Igbira) I had some flings with where something else. They get strong mind and highly fetish.

Guys will just be seeing red flags every,they will still stay there. Stay there o.

tanigororo:
And, The moral of this epistle is?

Don't wife women from Kogi
(Because the chain-smokong woman he dated from Kogi was not wife material )

Just one Ebira lady, u now want to generalized the whole Kogi ladies...

So you can't man up and confront her, but you man up to confined in your friend, wawa sha

marlow1962:
So you can't man up and confront her, but you man up to confined in your friend, wawa sha

Use the brain its an app

Same here, i dated a girl from kogi and she was very bossy and proud. Fetish is understatement.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Make I no lie you, dis your post, truth dey for inside.
The "only" two ladies from Kogi (Igbira) I had some flings with where something else. They get strong mind and highly fetish.

Hmm i don't stereotype sha! But i thought is only ighala women that are like that.
I only dated Benue girl & she was very respectful.

sirwilson:
Just one Ebira lady, u now want to generalized the whole Kogi ladies...

QuinQ:
You dated ONE woman from Kogi State. ONE!!!
How many Kogi women smoke??

What he said is true, their women are very stubborn and bossy.

The one I dated had the same character, the only positive was that her boobiy was very succulent that was why I stayed with her for about 1 year

ifinger:
So I dated this lady from Kogi I think she was igbira or so! As at them she was 28yrs of age.
She told me the reason she agreed to date me was because I was much older than her that she doesn't like dating her age mate or guys in her age bracket

One thing I noticed was that this lady she was very bossy, I mean if u miss her call she will be be like why did u miss my call or u chat with her mistakenly delete a test before she views it she will be like why are u always deleting text?

The funny thing was that this lady smokes and clubs like tomorrow no dey but looks very innocent unless she opens up to you!

At some point in the relationship was already getting fed up so I confided in one of my friends who told me that ladies from that region I mean are not homely and are very fetish! That even guys from their region normally does not like marrying their ladies

The character was very bad to the extent that I just started considering ending the relationship cos I never want to be involved with a controlling freak

You get bad character since you cant date someone from your own region/people

Once they love they are over protective and highly jealous
And you must not cheat

Anguldi:
Dem stubborn for that side, they're very pretty

Very true,I once walked away from one as well, beautiful but a ticking time bomb 💣.

free2ryhme:
You get bad character since you cant date someone from your own region/people

Everywhere just de smell like fish once u open leg

ifinger:
Everywhere just de smell like fish once u open leg

You dey speak from your experience, let us hear more of it

Point of corrections You can't just go ahead and generalised all the Kogi ladies like that, that's disrespectful
No offense

I can relate, my brother run o