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Poll: If she comes back and tells you her mum asked her to go back where she slept last night.

Open door and start living together. 17% (54 votes)
Go and beg her parents. 51% (157 votes)
Introduce her to your wife as second wife. 3% (11 votes)
Send her away immediately. 27% (84 votes)
This poll has ended

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Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Sonofgod1990(m): 9:09pm On Jun 02
I will just fabricate a better lie carry go give her parents
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by bewisemasses: 9:09pm On Jun 02
Everybody knows that's a code for sleep outside the house or beg shamefully to gain entrance.
If u carry her cohabit with her, ur name na sorry.

By d way,
My wife is not Nigerian. She is tired of our TV being perpetually tuned to Nigerian stations, watching political news and shows... 🤣🤣

To a large extent, she picks up one or two things from Nigerian political news on the few occasions she sits with me to watch, before hissing and leaving the living room.

She knows Tinubu and is always saying that no Nigerian news is complete without mentioning Tinubu’s name.

She also knows Peter Obi, and she knows about his usual rhetoric of “from consumption to production”... 🤣🤣🤣 She asked me today what Obi does for a living, and I told her he is a businessman and a multi billionaire.

What she said next is what triggered this post. She said, “Ohh, Obi must own a lot of manufacturing industries, I guess that is where he made his money?”

I started laughing, and she wondered why. I then told her that Obi does not own any manufacturing industry. He made his money by importing goods into the country and selling them, while also being a major shareholder in a bank.

She looked confused and said, “For a wealthy billionaire who is always talking about consumption to production as his campaign slogan, you mean he does not have any manufacturing industry in Nigeria to show people?”

I just started laughing. I said an Obidient friend of mine will be visiting the UK very soon, and I will ask him to explain it to her because I can’t.

Selah!
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Osinachiadinma: 9:20pm On Jun 02
This is an incomplete story. First, hint us on what happened. She cannot just come to my door to tell me that her mother said.... Something must have happened before this time. Thanks.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Mariangeles(f): 9:22pm On Jun 02
kiddaz:
why would I be entangled with a girl still dependent on her parents in the first place undecided
Good for girls with family background. undecided
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Leepeak(m): 9:31pm On Jun 02
grin
Banging kontinue na
Till your mom confirm u are pregnant for me
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Ade2024: 9:34pm On Jun 02
Please my advice to nigeria and nigerians
Please avoid hungry politicians
Please they can do do or die politics
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Hangulsaram: 9:49pm On Jun 02
Diamond098454:
Take her home and ask your wife to prepare special delicacy that your sidechick have arrived
Men and infidelity
Mumu talk, did she slept in his house the previous night? The answer is no because my wife was the one at home.
The instruction said "go back to where you slept last night"
Possible they slept together somewhere else maybe at hotel. So she should find her way to that same hotel not to his matrimonial home.
If he is single and they slept together in his house, then he should stick to their original agreement unless he want to renew the contract. But depends on the age of the girl, if she is full grown adult. But if he went and carry under 19 girl. He must make sure she is safe by doing the needful or return her to her parent by himself to avoid stories that touches the heart, since he is good at taking advantage of young and naive girls.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by WantsandMore: 9:53pm On Jun 02
Samantha125:
I'd gladly welcome her as a second wife, but he better make sure that his funeral policy is up-to-date, because one thing about life is that accidents happen all the time.
come on you are too smart to commit murder over a man ain't you?
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by TheStoriesOfMan: 9:56pm On Jun 02
Samantha125:
I'd gladly welcome her as a second wife, but he better make sure that his funeral policy is up-to-date, because one thing about life is that accidents happen all the time.
Comment saved.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Diamond098454(f): 9:59pm On Jun 02
Okay......

I heard you
Hangulsaram:
Mumu talk, did she slept in his house the previous night? The answer is no because my wife was the one at home.
The instruction said "go back to where you slept last night"
Possible they slept together somewhere else maybe at hotel. So she should find her way to that same hotel not to his matrimonial home.
If he is single and they slept together in his house, then he should stick to their original agreement unless he want to renew the contract. But depends on the age of the girl, if she is full grown adult. But if he went and carry under 19 girl. He must make sure she is safe by doing the needful or return her to her parent by himself to avoid stories that touches the heart, since he is good at taking advantage of young and naive girls.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Samantha125(f): 10:12pm On Jun 02
I never said anything about committing murder, have I?😃😃😃
WantsandMore:
come on you are too smart to commit murder over a man ain't you?
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by MrSly(m): 10:19pm On Jun 02
Diamond098454:
Take her home and ask your wife to prepare special delicacy that your sidechick have arrived
Men and infidelity
The guy wey served you this breakfast sis not even have mercy on you.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by onyinyechi225(f): 10:37pm On Jun 02
Haaa!!!
This is Evil! I can’t believe you guys!.
I can’t believe the second highest voted Option is “Send her away immediately “…
I just can’t 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️
Send her to where abeg huh?
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by DuttyChuks: 11:22pm On Jun 02
You're going back to your mum, and I will escort you to her make you no come die for my bed for a sleepover endorsed in anger by her witchcraft mother grin
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by yarimo(m): 11:49pm On Jun 02
Gotocourt:
Two rounds don sure for the night grin
this is the type of thread you are always good at shining teeth, two rounds ko boxing ring ni
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by essentialone(m): 12:13am On Jun 03
Samantha125:
I'd gladly welcome her as a second wife, but he better make sure that his funeral policy is up-to-date, because one thing about life is that accidents happen all the time.
Smiles. You sef. Samantha what accident wants to happen again? Sup about June 30?
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by MajGenGaniyu: 4:21am On Jun 03
Ikennaford:
My prayer point answered
You be bandit..... Them suppose arrest you.... And na your type go collect vigilante to dey follow your girl child up and Dan.... Why harbor someone's child without the parents consent.... Men are always joking with their lives in jail....
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by dequir: 4:51am On Jun 03
Ade2024:
Please my advice to nigeria and nigerians
Please avoid hungry politicians
Please they can do do or die politics
All polithiefcians are hungry for money, both rich and poor. So your advice should have been: avoid all polithiefcians.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Reverseng: 7:40am On Jun 03
Yes. Truth inspires choice: 'to do', or 'not to do"
It's a superpower in us that we share with others

It's not always black and white. The reason I decided to know the law is so that I can become a good law breaker, with love of course

Samantha125:
I'm married to a fully proud African man... cheesy cheesy cheesy... There's a difference between practicing polygamy and cheating.

A man who intends to practice polygamy would open up to his woman during the early stages of their relationship before tying the knot so that the woman can make a choice to either prepare herself or leave.

You don't just go around cheating and brining a woman in the house out of nowhere.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Ade2024: 8:00am On Jun 03
dequir:
All polithiefcians are hungry for money, both rich and poor. So your advice should have been: avoid all polithiefcians.
Okay
Yar'adua was never an hungry politician
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Ferdinandu(m): 8:03am On Jun 03
Fiscus105:
If a young lady comes back to meet you and tells you, her mom told her, she should go back to where she slept last night.

Open door for her and start cohabitating with her. (Single guys)

Go and meet her parents to apologize.

Take her to your home and introduce her as second wife.(Married men) Only naive young men will see this as a great opportunity

Send her away.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by oyoofong(m): 9:43am On Jun 03
protect her from danger and counsel her to go sort things out with her mom.Not letting her in is very dangerous and unloving!
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by kiddaz: 12:15pm On Jun 03
Mariangeles:
Good for girls with family background. undecided
Yeah it's not what I meant. I have no problems with a girl still with her folks though
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by adecares(f): 12:16pm On Jun 03
It depends on the circumstances surrounding her coming to your place the first time.
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by Gunboat127(m): 5:17pm On Jun 03
Well, a babe still staying with her parents has no business spending the night with me cus if na my kid sis sef I no go like that kind setup...

Until you get your own place,do your all your meetups and things and things in the day time and go back to your parents house and sleep. It shows you still have respect for them...
Re: Single Guys/Married Men, What Will You Do In This Situation?(pic) by femi4: 8:04pm On Jun 03
Fiscus105:
If a young lady comes back to meet you and tells you, her mom told her, she should go back to where she slept last night.

Open door for her and start cohabitating with her. (Single guys)

Go and meet her parents to apologize.

Take her to your home and introduce her as second wife.(Married men)

Send her away.
Dont send her away..if she goes missing, you are the first suspect
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