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Mariangeles:
Without "burden", there's no sense of purpose.
So, what are you living for?

wow. Just wow. Lmao. Men must have sense by force.

Daniluv1:
Not everyone can be as lucky as you bro enjoy it while it lasts bro

Very important. Love how you said it. While it lasts.

gigabyte13:
Oga na broke be my name
I don broke tire.
I sabi go broke
But you no what.....??
Na you know the agreement and arrangements wey dey between you and werrin you carry put for house.

this one na the woman for the house

AntiChristian:
Most women get married when they see something that makes them happy in a man!

What do men enjoy in marriage?

Kini anobi ẹ enjoy in marriage afterall o fẹ underage and overage

Just like religion, marriage na scam

A man spends his hard-earned money to marry a woman, then devotes his entire life to caring for her.😧

Yet society still calls HiM the lucky one...🤔

Should it not be SHE who is considered fortunate to have found a lifelong caretaker?🙄

What a bewildering world we live in😧

Sonofgod1990:
Sex children and nothing more.

I'm even planning to go for a contract marriage. You give me 4 children you go your way, I carry my children. I see women as a burden to mens life

No truer words has been spoken

Fatbam003:
this one na the woman for the house

If according you, na the woman wey l be dey make my marriage and life dey peaceful and progressive
Eeeehn, make e continue like that
Na my home no be your own
Na so Una go dey form kingkong inside marriage, still dey come social media dey cry about woman......!!!!!!!!

There's a lot of confusion in this life.
I've stopped meditating because a lot of questions go unanswered. Wondering why God is withholding a lot of answers from we human. Sometimes, i think the World exists for female folks because as a man, you're used 100% of the time whether you're appreciated or not, rewarded or not. Then your reaction to unpleasant situations is even judged more than what you do, what you offer. Even fellow men make life difficult for themselves in a life where the odds are stacked against them. Cold World.

There is happiness in marriage. Companion, offspring, good food,

Onegai:
Peace, Love, Respect, Wisdom, Shared Values and Stability.

A lot of men don't know what peace looks like so they think a woman who leaves them to do what they feel like is "peace".

A quiet house isn't always peace, sometimes it's "I've made myself a monster so now my wife and kids disappear once I show up and that silence is deafening".

Respect doesn't mean she never challenges you, she'll do so in love.

Wisdom: see, a man, no SEVERAL MEN, have told me that "the day I didn't listen to my wife, what happened na me suffer am". Biblically, your wife is meant to counsel you, good or bad.

Love: someone's marriage packed up and he began missing his kids but didn't want his wife back (he fought for custody). His kids always looked so happy with his wife in her videos she sent him and they seemed happy (in his eyes) when they visited. When he eventually got custody, he realized his wife was the reason they were happy. Even as he hurt his wife, her love surrounded him and the kids and once she was gone, it was gone. Now he's trying to undo what he did.

Stability: knowing your woman can handle things on her own is vital. Knowing there's someone backing you is vital

98% of men don't even get close to Ur list above meaning marriage is a scam to men

Mariangeles:
A home.
Stability.
Continuity in bloodline.
Sense of purpose.
Motivation to succeed.
Growth.

The list goes on.

All that, you can get, if you marry right.

You don't marry when you don't have motivation to succeed. Marriage does not bring growth, if it does then how?
Continuity in bloodline is valid
I think A home too is valid
Sense of purpose also valid.

saintkel:
I am a man....I want to get married soon....I just want a lady who gives me peace....I mean I cant suffer for Tinubu then suffer again at home

Make sure you also give her peace. Women are human, after all. Treat thy neighbor/wife as yourself.

ohosi4real:
Sex and joy of children that what made a marriage

Which sex,.lol,.unless two of you are sitting at home enjoying generational wealth.

You get more sex with a girl as girlfriend than as wife

opera1:
Togetherness, companionship, procrastination and assistance.
Pray together, fight together and win together.

Procreation you mean.

Give a man Peace of mind and see him happy in his marriage.

isio1:
Men, barely enjoy anything in marriage. It is bill, bill and bill. By bill, I mean running the home, school fees, rent, upkeep, i.e generally fend for the family. Don't get me wrong, we should understand that there's a big difference between enjoy and benefits in marriage. Or do you want to classify any assistance from your spouse as enjoyment? NO. In summary, men only get benefits in marriage buh not enjoy in marriage.

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Gwam:
A man spends his hard-earned money to marry a woman, then devotes his entire life to caring for her.😧

Yet society still calls HiM the lucky one...🤔

Should it not be SHE who is considered fortunate to have found a lifelong caretaker?🙄

What a bewildering world we live in😧

Wait up...😂,

Onegai:
Peace, Love, Respect, Wisdom, Shared Values and Stability.

A lot of men don't know what peace looks like so they think a woman who leaves them to do what they feel like is "peace".

A quiet house isn't always peace, sometimes it's "I've made myself a monster so now my wife and kids disappear once I show up and that silence is deafening".

Respect doesn't mean she never challenges you, she'll do so in love.

Wisdom: see, a man, no SEVERAL MEN, have told me that "the day I didn't listen to my wife, what happened na me suffer am". Biblically, your wife is meant to counsel you, good or bad.

Love: someone's marriage packed up and he began missing his kids but didn't want his wife back (he fought for custody). His kids always looked so happy with his wife in her videos she sent him and they seemed happy (in his eyes) when they visited. When he eventually got custody, he realized his wife was the reason they were happy. Even as he hurt his wife, her love surrounded him and the kids and once she was gone, it was gone. Now he's trying to undo what he did.

Stability: knowing your woman can handle things on her own is vital. Knowing there's someone backing you is vital

Complete trash 🗑️

So you mean doesn't have peace in life until a woman came to his life through marriage because she's the prince of peace?

Which one is love? So the man hated himself until you came along? His mother and his family hated him until you were show up? Awon super mario?

Wtf is respect? A man is respected based on his values and worth. Especially if he is rich. And it has absolutely nothing to do with marriage.

Wisdom? Like he was dull and brain dead until you came and give him life and wisdom via marriage?

Shared values and stability? Ok. He should unstable all his life until he married and then became stable? 😂

God abeg oooo

AntiChristian:
Most women get married when they see something that makes them happy in a man!

What do men enjoy in marriage?

Most women marry for convenience

legendarystar:
No truer words has been spoken

sex? Married men have the least sex....... the wives don't give them nothing.. thats why most cheat.

Mariangeles:
Without "burden", there's no sense of purpose.
So, what are you living for?

...i wont blame u cos u dont know what men face on daily basis

t's not about enjoyment; it's about taking responsibility and being responsible.

Lastpharoah33:
Procreation you mean.

Yeah

constant knacking

AntiChristian:
Most women get married when they see something that makes them happy in a man!

What do men enjoy in marriage?

A very good question.

I think the answer to this is truly known when the youngest child has left home to go to their own abode either through marraige or career.

Reason being the presence of children hides the fact that some marriages exists but only physically.

I am not sure about childless couples though, maybe that is different.

Nothing apart from wahala

Tenrack:
wow. Just wow. Lmao. Men must have sense by force.

Yes!

What?
Do you think you can go through life without challenges/problems to solve? You will just go crazy.
Overcoming challenges/solving problems keep you going.
It's the same for everyone.

The more you understand these things, the better you're able to go through life without feeling sorry for yourself.

It is what it is, man.
So, wake up and stop with the victim mentality.

Na who give up lose.

nick50:
...i wont blame u cos u dont know what men face on daily basis

So, what do you want?

If God asked you now, what do you want that I should do for you, what would you say?