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1,3,9 I can work with this...because we all got past and I look oner the physical look

Only number 6, the rest can move.

I can work with 1 and 3 because I prefer an experienced man who has broken a couple of hearts before... Former players always make great husbands, they love hard and are loyal to the core, at least that's what I think.

Then last but not least, number 6, I don't mind engaging in shaboinky sessions everyday...😃😃😃

If you look at it carefully, number 3 is the mother of them all. When your partner has number 3, she already has almost 90% of the others. Let me explain, na only a nonvirgin go get high body count, abortions, children outside wedlock, hugh sex drive, STD etc. So I fear number 3 more than everything there. Jesus wey allow himself to be born by a virgin/fresh woman no know wetin He do abi? If you like allow your children to be conceived from a public playground.

What do I even know sef?

The only ones I can overlook are 3 and 4

Kobicove:
The only ones I can overlook are 3 and 4

Everyone seems to be number 3 but that number 3 is the mother of all the baggages except 2.

Society and the spoilt nature of our youth have conditioned our minds to see nothing wrong in number 3.

What a pity

Godfullsam:
Everyone seems to be number 3 but that number 3 is the mother of all the baggages except 2.

Society and the spoilt nature of our youth have conditioned our minds to see nothing wrong in number 3.

What a pity

Times have changed.

Those days of expecting every young lady to remain a virgin till marriage are over...deal with it!

AntiChristian:
1. High Body Count:
Does the number of past sexual partners truly define a person’s worth or capacity for love and commitment? Should a partner’s sexual history be a barrier to trust and intimacy, or can it be seen as part of their personal journey?

2. Lies:
Honesty is often cited as the foundation of any healthy relationship. But what about lies told out of fear, protection, or insecurity? Can some lies be forgiven if they don’t cause harm, or is complete transparency non-negotiable?

3. Already Deflowered:
In some cultures, virginity before marriage is highly valued, while in others, it is less emphasized. How important is this factor in modern relationships, and should it affect how partners view each other’s past?

4. Had Abortion(s):
Abortion is a deeply personal and often complex decision. Should past abortions be a source of judgment or resentment, or can they be understood and forgiven as part of a person’s life experience?

5. Frigidity - Zero/low sex drive:
Sexual compatibility is important, but how should couples approach differences in sexual desire or responsiveness? Can patience, communication, and understanding help overcome challenges related to low sexual interest?

6. Hypersexuality -High sex drive:
Conversely, a high sex drive can sometimes create tension in relationships. How can couples navigate differences in sexual needs and boundaries without judgment or resentment?

7. Have Kid(s):
Bringing children into a new relationship adds layers of responsibility and complexity. Should having children from previous relationships be seen as baggage, or as a natural part of life that requires acceptance and support?

8. Transferable and Non-Transferable Diseases:
Health history, especially regarding sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or chronic illnesses, can impact relationships. How should partners approach disclosure, acceptance, and care when diseases are involved?

9. Masculine Women and Feminine Men:
Traditional gender roles are evolving, and many women now express traits traditionally seen as masculine—such as assertiveness, independence, and strength—while some men embrace traits considered feminine, like emotional openness and nurturing. Society’s understanding of gender expression is becoming more fluid, recognizing that these traits do not diminish a person’s value or suitability as a partner. Should masculine women and feminine men be viewed as “baggage,” or rather embraced as authentic expressions of individuality that enrich relationships?

10. Financial Debt:
Financial challenges can strain relationships. Should past debts or financial mistakes be forgiven, or do they signal deeper issues about responsibility and trustworthiness?

What do you think?

Your religion founder has at least 3 of those baggages, including lies, hypersexuality and financial debt.

Just give me brezze to sok, I don't care about baggages

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AntiChristian:
1. High Body Count:
Does the number of past sexual partners truly define a person’s worth or capacity for love and commitment? Should a partner’s sexual history be a barrier to trust and intimacy, or can it be seen as part of their personal journey?

2. Lies:
Honesty is often cited as the foundation of any healthy relationship. But what about lies told out of fear, protection, or insecurity? Can some lies be forgiven if they don’t cause harm, or is complete transparency non-negotiable?

3. Already Deflowered:
In some cultures, virginity before marriage is highly valued, while in others, it is less emphasized. How important is this factor in modern relationships, and should it affect how partners view each other’s past?

4. Had Abortion(s):
Abortion is a deeply personal and often complex decision. Should past abortions be a source of judgment or resentment, or can they be understood and forgiven as part of a person’s life experience?

5. Frigidity - Zero/low sex drive:
Sexual compatibility is important, but how should couples approach differences in sexual desire or responsiveness? Can patience, communication, and understanding help overcome challenges related to low sexual interest?

6. Hypersexuality -High sex drive:
Conversely, a high sex drive can sometimes create tension in relationships. How can couples navigate differences in sexual needs and boundaries without judgment or resentment?

7. Have Kid(s):
Bringing children into a new relationship adds layers of responsibility and complexity. Should having children from previous relationships be seen as baggage, or as a natural part of life that requires acceptance and support?

8. Transferable and Non-Transferable Diseases:
Health history, especially regarding sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or chronic illnesses, can impact relationships. How should partners approach disclosure, acceptance, and care when diseases are involved?

9. Masculine Women and Feminine Men:
Traditional gender roles are evolving, and many women now express traits traditionally seen as masculine—such as assertiveness, independence, and strength—while some men embrace traits considered feminine, like emotional openness and nurturing. Society’s understanding of gender expression is becoming more fluid, recognizing that these traits do not diminish a person’s value or suitability as a partner. Should masculine women and feminine men be viewed as “baggage,” or rather embraced as authentic expressions of individuality that enrich relationships?

10. Financial Debt:
Financial challenges can strain relationships. Should past debts or financial mistakes be forgiven, or do they signal deeper issues about responsibility and trustworthiness?

What do you think?

[color=#006600] I can only pair with No.3

As I no carry any of these baggages, make people wey get avoid my life.