₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: RegisterLoginWith GoogleTrendingRecentNew

Stats: 3,326,983 members, 8,428,902 topics. Date: Thursday, 18 June 2026 at 07:53 AM

Toggle theme

How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland ForumNairaland GeneralRomanceHow Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This (26384 Views)

1 2 3 4 Reply (Go Down)

How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Blizzy300(op): 10:33pm On Jun 09
Hey guys I need advise

I'm going through adult life relationships crisis

For the first time in life I'm double dating

First one - Success insanely cute, chocolate, tall with killer slim fit shape, smart, reads alot of books, does not do tiktok understands my jokes intelligent

Redflag: she's very quiet and I have not seen what's she's like when she's angry.

She's really into me

Second one - Mmasi, very fair with good face card, always smiling, a cheerful giver, (the first day we met, she paid the bill)
Gists alot

She has big bunda ( like that type that makes you turn twice)

Sadly She shakes it on Tiktok 😞(not the seductive type) but still.

At first I wanted to run because she was given me 1 word responses but when she saw I drew back she added fire.

That's the period success came in

Now I'm in the middle of this quagmire

I want the two but unfortunately the society frowns at.

What do I do at these point.
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by writetopoka: 11:35pm On Jun 09
Go and hustle, because money make bitches
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by RealityKings1:
I want the two but unfortunately the society frowns at.
Are you after your own happiness or what society will say?

Let's see your ability to manage 2 teams. It's a test.
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by galantjoe(m): 5:05am On Jun 10
Society has seen now that monogamous relationship is not possible. It is not advisable to put all your eggs in a basket

I will advice to keep the both ladies untill when tide changes
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Beeron: 5:56am On Jun 10
Put the two to the test to find out which is the most domesticated and democratic. Those two qualities is what you should watch out for to enable you make the best decision. Not riches or booday
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Blizzy300(op): 9:09am On Jun 10
writetopoka:
Go and hustle, because money make bitches
I'm doing that bro, but what is working for money without making money work for you
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Blizzy300(op): 9:12am On Jun 10
RealityKings1:
Are you after your own happiness or what society will say?

Let's see your availability to manage 2 teams. It's a test.
Bro, in that aspect, I meant the two will not gree to date me at once.

As for me am down for it
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Blizzy300(op): 9:13am On Jun 10
galantjoe:
Society has seen now that monogamous relationship is not possible. It is not advisable to put all your eggs in a basket

I will advice to keep the both ladies untill when tide changes
Thanks man
Just worried I might lose the two in the long run if they find out.

The society should just normalize polygamy
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Blizzy300(op): 9:15am On Jun 10
Beeron:
Put the two to the test to find out which is the most domesticated and democratic. Those two qualities is what you should watch out for to enable you make the best decision. Not riches or booday
More information needed sir

Cause me, I don't know if am democratic or domestic.

I can't figure what I don't know
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Oracleee: 10:52am On Jun 10
Go for the two. Along the line, one will let go
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by kiddaz: 12:07pm On Jun 10
Blizzy300:
Hey guys I need advise

I'm going through adult life relationships crisis

For the first time in life I'm double dating

First one - Success insanely cute, chocolate, tall with killer slim fit shape, smart, reads alot of books, does not do tiktok understands my jokes intelligent

Redflag: she's very quiet and I have not seen what's she's like when she's angry.

She's really into me

Second one - Mmasi, very fair with good face card, always smiling, a cheerful giver, (the first day we met, she paid the bill)
Gists alot

She has big bunda ( like that type that makes you turn twice)

Sadly She shakes it on Tiktok 😞(not the seductive type) but still.

At first I wanted to run because she was given me 1 word responses but when she saw I drew back she added fire.

That's the period success came in

Now I'm in the middle of this quagmire

I want the two but unfortunately the society frowns at.

What do I do at these point.
Keep Success and give me Mmasi ASAP
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Blizzy300(op): 1:41pm On Jun 10
kiddaz:
Keep Success and give me Mmasi ASAP
Badt guy
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Blizzy300(op): 1:42pm On Jun 10
Oracleee:
Go for the two. Along the line, one will let go
Awesome but what if they find out

I will be losing the two
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Oracleee: 1:44pm On Jun 10
Blizzy300:
Awesome but what if they find out

I will be losing the two
And you will find another two.
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by jubrilELsudan: 1:59pm On Jun 10
CHOOSE THE ONE THAT CAN FORK YOU VERY WELL

Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Emeskhalifa(m): 1:59pm On Jun 10
You want the two?

How much is in your bank account if I may ask?

People go use their own hand cause wahala for themselves
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by twilliamx(m): 1:59pm On Jun 10
writetopoka:
Go and hustle, because money make bitches
And bitches make life, one nigga getting jealous and mothefvckers die....
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by okoolori(m): 2:01pm On Jun 10
Blizzy300:
Hey guys I need advise

I'm going through adult life relationships crisis

For the first time in life I'm double dating

First one - Success insanely cute, chocolate, tall with killer slim fit shape, smart, reads alot of books, does not do tiktok understands my jokes intelligent

Redflag: she's very quiet and I have not seen what's she's like when she's angry.

She's really into me

Second one - Mmasi, very fair with good face card, always smiling, a cheerful giver, (the first day we met, she paid the bill)
Gists alot

She has big bunda ( like that type that makes you turn twice)

Sadly She shakes it on Tiktok 😞(not the seductive type) but still.

At first I wanted to run because she was given me 1 word responses but when she saw I drew back she added fire.

That's the period success came in

Now I'm in the middle of this quagmire

I want the two but unfortunately the society frowns at.

What do I do at these point.
As an African man, I'll say you should keep the two... If you have the mentality and the courage too.
Married them if you love them both.
Don't look at what the society will say... Just follow your happiness
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by SmartMaster001: 2:02pm On Jun 10
Go for the one who respects you and gives you peace of mind.
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by package7(m): 2:03pm On Jun 10
"Don't underestimate the power of a small start!"


"Nigerians let's all unite against terror!"
#UniteAgainstTerror!
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by obajoey(m): 2:05pm On Jun 10
inside this bandit issue too, o ga o
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by focus7: 2:08pm On Jun 10
Blizzy300:
Hey guys I need advise

I'm going through adult life relationships crisis

For the first time in life I'm double dating

First one - Success insanely cute, chocolate, tall with killer slim fit shape, smart, reads alot of books, does not do tiktok understands my jokes intelligent

Redflag: she's very quiet and I have not seen what's she's like when she's angry.

She's really into me

Second one - Mmasi, very fair with good face card, always smiling, a cheerful giver, (the first day we met, she paid the bill)
Gists alot

She has big bunda ( like that type that makes you turn twice)

Sadly She shakes it on Tiktok 😞(not the seductive type) but still.

At first I wanted to run because she was given me 1 word responses but when she saw I drew back she added fire.

That's the period success came in

Now I'm in the middle of this quagmire

I want the two but unfortunately the society frowns at.

What do I do at these point.
Go for the second, introverts are difficult to predict, it's safer with expressive person who you can easily resolve matters with, than someone who's capable of killing you but doesn't show it
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Blizzy300(op): 2:08pm On Jun 10
okoolori:
As an African man, I'll say you should keep the two... If you have the mentality and the courage too.
Married them if you love them both.
Don't look at what the society will say... Just follow your happiness
That's what I want too.

But I don't picture the two wanting to be co-wives

Especially success.
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by tritt(m): 2:08pm On Jun 10
Go hustle abeg no dey worry us, cos wetin we dey face for this regime no be child's play.
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Strafudeenwife: 2:08pm On Jun 10
Send their phone numbers let me help you investigate
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Dominionhost(m): 2:08pm On Jun 10
Go for the first one... There are reasons for it

I am coming back
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by McLizbae: 2:09pm On Jun 10
Success seem like my type. Well, I cannot even double date. I just cannot fit! I am too busy and careless for that venture.
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by FitCorper: 2:09pm On Jun 10
I wonder why guys would date ladies who don’t understand jokes. God help you chose sha
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by bigdammyj: 2:10pm On Jun 10
Noted.

I want the two but unfortunately the society frowns at.
Does your pocket smile at it?
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Blizzy300(op): 2:11pm On Jun 10
focus7:
Go for the second, introverts are difficult to predict, it's safer with expressive person who can easily resolve matters with than someone who's capable of killing you but doesn't show it
Bro I nurture that thought daily(I fear people that suppress emotions) , I have intentionally tried to get her upset but to no avail.
In all she's a sweet soul
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by Teeneyo(m): 2:12pm On Jun 10
Las las

Na gen z full dis nairaland..
Re: How Do You Guys Handle Stuffs Like This by tollyboy5(m): 2:12pm On Jun 10
Blizzy300:
Hey guys I need advise

I'm going through adult life relationships crisis

For the first time in life I'm double dating

First one - Success insanely cute, chocolate, tall with killer slim fit shape, smart, reads alot of books, does not do tiktok understands my jokes intelligent

Redflag: she's very quiet and I have not seen what's she's like when she's angry.

She's really into me

Second one - Mmasi, very fair with good face card, always smiling, a cheerful giver, (the first day we met, she paid the bill)
Gists alot

She has big bunda ( like that type that makes you turn twice)

Sadly She shakes it on Tiktok 😞(not the seductive type) but still.

At first I wanted to run because she was given me 1 word responses but when she saw I drew back she added fire.

That's the period success came in

Now I'm in the middle of this quagmire

I want the two but unfortunately the society frowns at.

What do I do at these point.
Me as a member of the society. I’m not frowning at that bro
1 2 3 4 Reply

How Do You Guys Handle This When With WomenLadies Will You Destroy Your Guy's Stuffs Like This Because You Saw Him CheatingLadies Please We Need You Guys To Explain Wat U Mean When U Look @ Us Like This?234

Lady Reveals How Her Lesbian Cousin Got PregnantI Bought My Girlfriend A Phone And This Is What I Get In ReturnMR NAIRALAND INTERVIEW: Ratings , Complain , Decision And Opinion