₦airaland Forum

Sonofgod1990:
But you be g Guy?


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shortgun:
Most married men will gladly take a second wife.
it's not the men who oppose polygamy.It's the first wife who does. Even when she knows that she can't cope with the demands of marriage, she still want exclusive access to their husbands time, attention and resources. She went all to herself and don't want to share with another woman

Authoreety:
your husband owes you love not respect...
You are the one who owes him all the respect

MrPresident1:
No, we will manage until the economic improve, that is what wise people do

But when prosperity returns the house will grow

Naustine:
Nooooo bro...I'm real..I'm evel job searching as we speak
Aza
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Moniepoint
Nwokoma Austine ihechukwu.

If you fit still link me to a job, I'll really appreciate

Samantha125:
Respect should be earned on both sides... Are you telling me that you're disrespectful to your wife?

Sonofgod1990:
Hi my love

Samantha125:
🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

Onegai:
A married man told me last week, that his wife is too religious.

Another told me last year that he respects his wife, but he will make me happy if I give him a chance.

Another told me I reminded him of his younger sister.

One said his wife had put on weight.

Not one had a genuine reason for straying outside of their marital covenant save for Lust, Greed and Discontentment.

Adultery and Infidelity have nothing to do with your spouse.


A lot of divorces I've seen is because one party is being selfish and telling people "I want to be happy!".

Same as the men who were toasting me: temporary pleasure. They didn't even care if I had HIV, was a witch, worked with kidnappers (I had to even ask one if he wasn't afraid).

The solution is to fix what is wrong but Infidelity is easier. And these side chic's don't like you, you're just a walking wallet

franvincoop:
@DeepSight, is this your final answer or should we wait another 8 years of future past for you to change your mind and opinion?

shortgun:
If we'll tell ourselves the truth, one woman can not satisfy the needs of a man.
This is why many of them crack and become frustrated in marriages leading to endless complains and exhaustion.....our fore fathers figured this out long ago.

Even biologically, a woman is naturally wired to take breaks at certain times, while a man remains active 24/7 all year round....That energy will go somewhere else.......

MrPresident1:
Is the economic. When the economic improve, there will be more women in the house

Sonofgod1990:
✅

Godmart21:
brotherly, meerekwa m ihe. M ga-ekele ya nke ukwuu. Thank you

Samantha125:
If you want a polygamous marriage, then you should practice transparency from the onset while you're still dating so that you can easily let her go if she doesn't agree to it, that's what polygamists do.

shortgun:
That's not possible.
The flaw in your argument is that you are seeing marriage like a fixed contract between two people who never change. But In reality, people change, they age, circumstances change and desires change.
It's easy for you to say that in theory, but in real life it doesn't work that way.
When two people start dating in their 20s neither of them knows what their finances, health, responsibilities or outlook on life will be 10 or 20 years later...... nothing ever remains the same

A young, energetic woman in her prime 20s may be able to keep up with the intimacy needs of a man with a high libido while also handling her other responsibilities as a wife. However, as she gets older and takes on the demands of raising children+work, she won't be able to cope anymore... that's when she'll become frustrated, exhausted and bitter.......

If everyone had to disclose every future possibility while dating, nobody would ever get married because you can't even accurately predict the next day not to talk of 10, 20 years in the future.

Samantha125:
Then start being proactive about your future plans to marry a second wife by preparing yourself early and being transparent about it... You can even start advocating for a law that'll enforce polygamy on all men since you claim to be polygamous in nature.

shortgun:
There will be need for advocating that In Nigeria cos customary law already permits a man to marry many wives and such marriages are legally recognized. The same applies to Islamic marriages.
The only system that prohibits polygamy is statutory marriage which includes court marriages and church weddings conducted under the Marriage Act.
Many church weddings are not conducted under the marriage Act, so the men can legally add more wives.

Sonofgod1990:
Were are you from

Godmart21:
I am from Benue and mum is from Imo. I live in Lagos Chief

Sonofgod1990:
Ok

Godmart21:
Thanks Chief, should I push aza. I hope where I'm from did not disqualify me

Sonofgod1990:
Not at all I will do it for you. Remind me by 9pm.

Authoreety:
your husband owes you love not respect...
You are the one who owes him all the respect

Sonofgod1990:
Not at all I will do it for you. Remind me by 9pm.

Samantha125:
So you expect the wife to remain calm after enduring so much disrespect from her husband for the longest time?

GravityDefier:
Can your man effortlessly say that you make him calm and relaxed...?

Sonofgod1990:
✅

Sonofgod1990:
Not at all I will do it for you. Remind me by 9pm.