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Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by binarymachine(m): 6:47am On Jul 15, 2021
You might have sometimes thought of how a man could be the architect of his misfortune. This here, is one of the most potent ways. Many stories are making the rounds how many lawfully married men, bring dangers and calamities to themselves because of one extra marital affair or another.

It has not been unheard of how a man got his body and soul separate on account of running an external affair with another lady. There have been too many homes scattered in pieces as a result of the man of the house going after women apart from his wife.

There are vast records of issues and problems arising from a man’s infidelity to his wife. Instances abound that point to the fact that keeping side chicks are danger signals and suicidal moves.

How do Side Chicks Bring Problems to a Man and His Home? If an index is to be made about how many men has out themselves in jeopardy and have ruined their lives by keeping side chicks, we would all be amazed. This doesn’t just happen abruptly. There are many gradual processes that come together to make this happen. Some of them have been given below.

1. Side Chicks Distract Men From Their Family Responsibilities

It is virtually impossible for a man to give his full attention and concentration to his family when he is keeping a side chick. Obviously, side chicks require time and company too. Thus to impress them, a man will want to give her more preference by spending much time with her. Also, with a side chick around, the man’s focus will be divided between catering for his family and pleasing his side chick. Definitely there will be lapses and deficiencies as the two things require equal amount of attention.

2. Side Chicks Cause Men To Spend More

When you keep a side chick, more avenues to spend money open up. There will be need for upkeep, gifts, outings and other associated expenses. It gets worse if the man is not buoyant enough as he will have to squeeze out his family’s allotment to satisfy that of the side chick. Also, if you get unlucky to be with a materialistic side chick who might use schemes and even blackmail to extort money from you, then you are doomed.

3. Side Chicks Cause Men To Despise Their Wives

Not long after a husband starts keeping a side chick than he will start looking down on his wife as not being adequate or sophisticated enough. Since most side chicks will come with all the flashy stuff, the man will begin placing high demands and expectations on his wife. Once she does not fit into the class of the side chick or does not dress in similar way, the man will start to despise her.

4. Side Chicks Cause Distrust Among Couples

Since the husband is cheating and having affairs, it will come quite easy to him to suspect his wife of doing same. He will become suspicious of every move made by his wife. In like manner, once the wife notices the shady movements of the husband, distrust and accusations will arise. On the whole, all these will sum up to there be a divide and a vacuum in the home which will subsequently break down the home and sever all mutual feelings. It is quite disturbing that moral values are fast vanishing among all spheres and classes in the present society. Very surprising is the fact that even with the barrage of possible dangers and hazards of having extramarital affairs, husbands are still disrespecting themselves and their households by engaging in this degrading act.

However, no matter how rampant this act is, it remains a detestable and dirty practice. Though, even some women and wives happen to be gradually accepting this as a norm and giving approval, it is a heartbreaking thing to do to anyone. It is evident that this issue of side chicks has brought real turbulence to many homes. Thus, it should be discouraged and condemned in its entirety by all.

Source:
https://flipmemes.com/2021/06/30/side-chick-pallava-how-side-chicks-create-problems-for-men/

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by MightySparrow: 6:52am On Jul 15, 2021
How many of the said wives now we're not once side chicks before, ruiners of other people's families. Whatever goes around comes around.

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by jericco1(m): 7:09am On Jul 15, 2021
Most men cannot do without a side chick as long as they have the wherewithal.

It will be like living near a river and washing one's hand with a spittle.


Shame! The men are the architect of their own problems.

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by phorget(m): 7:20am On Jul 15, 2021
Side chick... The worst evil a man can ever bring upon himself.
As a man do not keep a side chick as that will ultimately ruin your family but if at all you feel you want to migrimo then hit and run should be your best option. undecided

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by vickydankal(f): 8:18am On Jul 15, 2021
If only the cheating men can use the money wasted on side chicks to upgrade and maintain their wives.

You see The problem is not the sexiness, dressing, shape or sexual adventure of the wives. The men just want another kind of food even if it is bad.

I believe non of the parties should take the blame when either of them decides to cheat. Cheating is a personal decision.

If you can endure with one woman divorce her than infect her with sti and stds from this gutter girls.


That's my 2 cent.

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by Stupidquestions: 10:06am On Jul 15, 2021
Another selfish one sided argument to demonize men and make women look saint...lol... forgetting that those Sidechicks are also beneficiary of that man's benevolence...
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When will you write how wives create problems for their men in their homes?

Don't you know wives are presently more the cause of men's problem than sidechicks today? Sidechicks are most time a save arm to run to from the shapeless frigid tiger at home.....

Make una reasoning dey balance.

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by slawormiir: 11:10am On Jul 15, 2021
Damnnn niggar
Isoright...

Well-done op

But na man way nor get sense side chick dey loose guard or destroy he home....

As a man you can carry all the runs babe and side chick in the world but don't use it to disturb your wife and children at home

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by Attahiruss: 11:10am On Jul 15, 2021
Mmmmm

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by GIANTPLUSHUB: 11:11am On Jul 15, 2021
Okay naaw! Another bashing thread. Una no dey tire grin

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by SimplyShit: 11:11am On Jul 15, 2021
But side chicks save marriages


Stop vilifying innocent women abeg

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by eedimo(m): 11:11am On Jul 15, 2021
Choice!!!

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by dmbb: 11:11am On Jul 15, 2021
The write up should be how infidelity causes problems among couple. Marital problems is not a one way traffic

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by Amaru101(m): 11:12am On Jul 15, 2021
Side Chicks causes destruction while side (punks AKA MEN) in other couples relationship BRINGS happiness, I mean joy, I mean long life and prosperity. All of una dey mad

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by jbreezy: 11:12am On Jul 15, 2021
Kk

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by sylve11: 11:12am On Jul 15, 2021
Side chicks and wives are both problems of the same thing. sad cool

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by Savedday: 11:12am On Jul 15, 2021
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by prince3009(m): 11:12am On Jul 15, 2021
If you are a true guy man, no side chick will do you anyhow.

One of the rules is not letting them really know your house, secondly... don't use your main line to call them. Always call them with one of your substitute lines which your close family members don't know about.

Third rule, don't get too familiar. Smash like thrice, block her and run. If you can't, feign absense by telling her you travelled to another state for work. She'll eventually give up and move on to find an available Alex who doesn't adhere to these rules.

MOST IMPORTANT RULE: NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO, NEVER TAKE A SELFIE WITH A SIDE CHICK! SHE CAN USE IT AGAINST YOU IN FUTURE!!

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by olaoye15(m): 11:12am On Jul 15, 2021
You are very right up. These said aide chicks are more of a pest in today's Nigeria. Guys, we news need to wise up.

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by GreaterFuture(m): 11:13am On Jul 15, 2021
Man create problem with him hand

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by pretydiva(f): 11:13am On Jul 15, 2021
Say no to side chick if you as a man wanna live long

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by jbreezy: 11:13am On Jul 15, 2021
So na some people's daughter dey bear side chick...chaii!!!

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by Vicintonsh(m): 11:13am On Jul 15, 2021
MightySparrow:
How many of the said wives now we're not once side chicks before, ruiners of other people's families. Whatever goes around comes around.

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by Juicy001: 11:14am On Jul 15, 2021

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by oneda(m): 11:14am On Jul 15, 2021
vickydankal:
If only the cheating men can use the money wasted on side chicks to upgrade and maintain their wives.

You see The problem is not the sexiness, dressing, shape or sexual adventure of the wives. The men just want another kind of food even if it is bad.

I believe non of the parties should take the blame when either of them decides to cheat. Cheating is a personal decision.

If you can endure with one woman divorce her than infect her with sti and stds from this gutter girls.


That's my 2 cent.
You also do not take cognizance of the fact that the wife is to blame sometimes.
So many married men are suffering in their own marriages. They're denied sex by their wives for many flimsy reasons. So many married women feel arrived once they're married. They stop taking care of themselves except they're going out. They ration sex based on their moods, nags the man to oblivion, et cetera. Soon they start looking more like the man's mother instead of his partner.
How many married women try to even work out and stay fit? These are some of the things that attracted the man in the first place and the side chicks know this for sure. The wives know too but they simply don't care.
When I was younger, my mother made sure we eat before leaving the house. So if you bring any food to give me in school I won't eat because I am full.
Wives should simply be their husbands' side chicks and any man who goes further than these is a womanizer.

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by Divoc19(f): 11:14am On Jul 15, 2021
Side chicks ain't that bad. Some men just can't control their sexuality from emotions

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by Drsnives(m): 11:14am On Jul 15, 2021
Wahala for who get side chick

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by OAedimalo: 11:15am On Jul 15, 2021
Wow

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Re: Side Chick Pallava!! How Side Chicks Create Problems For Men by Nobody: 11:15am On Jul 15, 2021
I never like the idea of side chick even though running them take alot of money it still at the end breaks your life in pieces, . but it natural for men to get attracted to women, all is just self control

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