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A no is a No. Once she says stop. Bruv Stop.

DMCA:
what of a case where both of dem were drunk?

If he can prove that he was drunk and of impaired judgement, then he won't have a problem

Ishilove:
If he can prove that he was drunk and of impaired judgement, then he won't have a problem

come let us get drunk together

GloriousGbola:
The words you are looking for are gang rape not knack nonsense comot

Nairaland censored it

DMCA:
what of a case where both of dem were drunk?

The man should never loose guard and get drunk around females, once he inserts himself into her, he is in trouble.

DMCA:
come let us get drunk together

I don't drink.

Ishilove:
I don't drink.

don't worry, just take advantage of me

correctguy101:
Exactly.

The narrative would be different if we switched genders.

Plus, the hell, why should whoever gives in and touch her be penalized? This should be thrown out of any court.

Both were adults and should bear whatever resentment they later have for the action. Not something the lawmakers should be discussing.

If I were presiding over such a case, I would throw all of them out my courtroom.

Exactly or are they claiming is she decide to go on a shooting and killing spree because she is drunk they will still free her, or her drunk freedom ends sexual molestation of others

oluwaseyi0:
Exactly or are they claiming is she decide to go on a shooting and killing spree because she is drunk they will still free her, or her drunk freedom ends sexual molestation of others

Gods, it is entirely a crazy affair. If na Nigerian police station you go report, police go laugh tire and chase everyone out.

After someone go say oyibo geh sense. Wetin be the sense wey dey inside this matter?

A drunk woman touching a man everywhere, she dey search am ni?

Abegi

DMCA:
don't worry, just take advantage of me

Mscheew

pocohantas:
May God grant you all visas to unlearn the nonsense you have normalised in Nigeria. Else you learn hard lessons. Baba Ijeshas.

Count me out of that group Mama Ijesha

Ishilove:
Mscheew

He has given you an open invitation and there is documentary evidence you can use to defend yourself incase sh1t happens

pocohantas:
Shut up. You don't dislike the way your fellow Nigerian men are being arrested for rape in workìng countries? you ignored the topic to start wailing because your problem is never the crime but how to defend your frail masculinity that doesn't withstand global scrutiny. Not even in SA an African country. You will be granted visas to go abroad and show that your masculinity. Say Amen and quit crying.

This one is crying everywhere on my post. If you like, type long posts.

Your fantasy doesn't exist in reality. Get a grip and get used to it.

You never see anything. You'll keep typing long posts.

Say Amen.

Ishilove:
She was intoxicated, therefore incapable of giving consent. It doesn't matter if she offered herself to you. Once she is not of clear and sound mind at the time when she made offer, she is incapable of giving consent and having intercourse with her in that state is taking advantage of her.

You should count yourselves lucky that none of you allowed lust blind your common sense, else you would have made the news for the wrong reasons.

While I agree this is the legal logic, would the same be said if the guy is the drunk one or would it be termed sexual assault or harassment if the drunk lady grops the guy

Tolupage:
While I agree this is the legal logic, would the same be said if the guy is the drunk one or would it be termed sexual assault or harassment if the drunk lady grops the guy

In the balance of physical power, men are considered stronger and in a better position to resist unwanted or unsolicited advances, so women are more favoured in these matters.

TheStoriesOfMan:
This one is crying everywhere on my post. If you like, type long posts.

Your fantasy doesn't exist in reality. Get a grip and get used to it.

You never see anything. You'll keep typing long posts.

Say Amen.

No be you first quote me? You na want to gaslight me to leave you.

Amen, I will keep typing long posts. Now can you say Amen to getting a visa as a supposed good man who is triggered I want sexual offenders to be arrested abroad? 😂😂😂

pocohantas:
No be you first quote me? You na want to gaslight me to leave you.

Amen, I will keep typing long posts. Now can you say Amen to getting a visa as a supposed good man who is triggered I want sexual offenders to be arrested abroad? 😂😂😂

Keep crying. You never see anything..

TheStoriesOfMan:
Keep crying. You never see anything..

I will keep crying. Now say Amen, Mr Goodman. Defender of sexual abuse masculinity. 😂

pocohantas:
I will keep crying. Now say Amen, Mr Goodman. Defender of sexual abuse masculinity. 😂

Have you finished ranting? Abi make I supply you loudspeaker?

TheStoriesOfMan:
Have you finished ranting? Abi make I supply you loudspeaker?

Is this easier than saying Amen? 😂😂

pocohantas:
Is this easier than saying Amen? 😂😂

Ok. You are still ranting. Sorry for interrupting. Please continue.

TheStoriesOfMan:
Ok. You are still ranting. Sorry for interrupting. Please continue.

48hrs later and a good man cannot say Amen. Hahahahaha! 😂

pocohantas:
48hrs later and a good man cannot say Amen. Hahahahaha! 😂

Okay.

Ishilove:
In the balance of physical power, men are considered stronger and in a better position to resist unwanted or unsolicited advances, so women are more favoured in these matters.

The reason and logic from your original post wasn't based on strength but on the fact that the woman is not in complete control of her senses and therefore can't give consent when drink,
I feel the same should be said for men, the logic should extend to all

WantsandMore:
A no is a No. Once she says stop. Bruv Stop.

Whilst you are right, there is a point of no return in coitus.

May God give men the grace to be mindful of the women they interact with in a physical manner. Starting with staying away from one night stand drunk women.

Nice story o. That one confirm say when you dey abroad, even small matter fit turn big if you no careful.

I like how you mention say the Oyinbo lady just drank plenty and start pull guys aside — but the thing wey I admire be say you make good use of patience. Plenty people go just enter bar for UK, do their own thing, and come here talk say "Oyinbo wife" is the new trend now.

The truth be say for UK, every one get their own story before dem even reach destination. No be like here where things simple.

I dey do business wey require travel always — Lagos to Abuja, PH, everywhere — so I know say sometimes the best thing wey you fit do be just to keep your eyes open and your mouth shut. Na wisdom that one.