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“Pay for your food if you won’t follow me home” – Lady recounts awkward date experience.

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing an unpleasant experience she allegedly had with a man she described as her talking stage.

In a viral video shared on TikTok, she revealed that a man she described as her talking stage called her one morning and invited her on a date, saying he had been thinking about her. She accepted the invitation, and they later met up for dinner.

While narrating the incident, she said everything went smoothly at first as they talked, laughed and enjoyed their meal together.

In her words, she said:

“He called me and said, ‘Princess, I would like to take you out on a date.’ We met, chatted and had dinner. Everything was going fine.”

The lady said the situation took a different turn when she informed him that she wanted to leave because it was already getting late.

According to her, the man allegedly insisted that she follow him home after the outing and became angry when she declined.

“He said if I wasn’t going home with him, I should refund the food money and the transport fare. I told him if he couldn’t pay for the bill, he should wash plates for the restaurant,” she recounted.

She claimed she eventually left the venue and made her way home, only to be bombarded with insulting messages from the man afterward.

The story has since generated mixed reactions online, with some social media users supporting the lady’s stance, while others argued that both parties should have communicated their expectations before agreeing to the date.



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I can bet my spoilt earpiece that she knew that the date will end with happy ending but she still went ahead

Unimportant.

These nonsensical distractions aren't what I need now.

Na lack of communication dey cause am.
No be because say u carry woman come eatery. U go knack am that dey. Unless if she be hook up lady.

SHIVA001:
Na lack of communication dey cause am.
No be because say u carry woman come eatery. U go knack am that dey. Unless if she be hook up lady.

All modern ladies are knackable on first date, just have the right price.

Them and shame is far apart.

1. Who is dating all these fat females? I blame 99% of Nairaland. That is if the women are telling the truth to begin with.

2. She’ll call him back soon. Let her emotions settle first.

Communication before commitment na the only thing wey work for dating now. When you no clear expectation from start, everything go turn into drama later. The guy should have tell her wetin the date dey mean before dem even reach the restaurant. But she too should make sure say she no send wrong signal or expect something wey never happen.

EmmyMaestro:
“Pay for your food if you won’t follow me home” – Lady recounts awkward date experience.

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing an unpleasant experience she allegedly had with a man she described as her talking stage.

In a viral video shared on TikTok, she revealed that a man she described as her talking stage called her one morning and invited her on a date, saying he had been thinking about her. She accepted the invitation, and they later met up for dinner.

While narrating the incident, she said everything went smoothly at first as they talked, laughed and enjoyed their meal together.

In her words, she said:

“He called me and said, ‘Princess, I would like to take you out on a date.’ We met, chatted and had dinner. Everything was going fine.”

The lady said the situation took a different turn when she informed him that she wanted to leave because it was already getting late.

According to her, the man allegedly insisted that she follow him home after the outing and became angry when she declined.

“He said if I wasn’t going home with him, I should refund the food money and the transport fare. I told him if he couldn’t pay for the bill, he should wash plates for the restaurant,” she recounted.

She claimed she eventually left the venue and made her way home, only to be bombarded with insulting messages from the man afterward.

The story has since generated mixed reactions online, with some social media users supporting the lady’s stance, while others argued that both parties should have communicated their expectations before agreeing to the date.



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. She is even a bleaching dwarf with an entitlement mentality tueeeh Nigerian girls .

These non-virgins and their audacity is something else. So you wan eat your cake and still see am for your plate. You hardly see virgins come out on social media to rant about rubbish, it's always the ones without virginity(leftover). Come to think of it eeh, immediately una lost virginity, una dey lost sense join?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Some men need to be schooled on how to take care of a woman. Who are the parents breeding these boys of nowadays?

It's not by force that she must follow you home na. The problem with some of this guys is that they assume a lot.

Eat well before going on a date with a man or have some money in ya account as an independent lady.

How can you go to a date on a hungry stomach and expect to reason well?

Nigerian girls and entitled mentality nna 5&6✌️

This is the handwork of zobo the Tiktok comedian

geoworldedu:
This is the handwork of zobo the Tiktok comedian

zobo anyhowness you mean😂

I just cannot watch a video of a woman yapping, doesn't matter the topic

I don't believe this rubbish
My talking stage vex say I no wan carry am go house.

Na she book Uber self.
Na me pay

The girl no rate am

You no cook for house? Na longer-throat dey bring problem for una.

You go gree your brother spend money like that?

Abeg climb bed or pay for your meal, shebi na you dey point everything na 😁

THIEF WANT THIEF, THIEF REFUSED THIEF.

Paying for your food is the honourable thing to do.
A man cannot buy you food without expecting to sleep with you.
It is what it is.
Pay for your food or stay in your house..you will not die.

I paid my bills in every outing with my then fiance,now husband.
Whenever I was low on funds,I decline dates or suggested places I could afford. .

Nothing is free..even your father that's feeding you today expects that you become responsible for him tomorrow.

Finally,

You and your likes are now seeing the effects of transactional relationship abi, make una no disturb us here Jo.

I think guys should learn how to communicate more clearly in other to avoid stories like this. Make it clear to her that after your date she would follow you home. If she refuses leave her alone. Girls are extremely cheap this days, so finding another one wouldn't be a problem.

Na why them dey quick land insidè jail for UK. With their warped mentality.

Omo, when did a first date automatically become a marriage ceremony? 😅

Guys are getting desperate o. Last time I checked, first dates aren't supposed to be pressured. Just do something you're comfortable with, don't overdo things and then expect it to end in sex. If the girl isn't into hookups, all that pressure is pointless.

UnlimitedNG:
Some men need to be schooled on how to take care of a woman. Who are the parents breeding these boys of nowadays?

If lady is to be taken care of, that must be her DAD and Mum.

Who Pays for no work done?
Wanna keep encouraging money for hand back for ground?

You be Wife not a Knife now!!!

spiceadole:
Paying for your food is the honourable thing to do.
A man cannot buy you food without expecting to sleep with you.
It is what it is.
Pay for your food or stay in your house..you will not die.

I paid my bills in every outing with my then fiance,now husband.
Whenever I was low on funds,I decline dates or suggested places I could afford. .

Nothing is free..even your father that's feeding you today expects that you become responsible for him tomorrow.

Ozuor!

We don't do this size here in Upper Mission. If u want eat pig, go Oba market.

Who dey date these baby whales sef?

So you think the guy is running a charity organization?

This lipstick makes this person resemble a male.

pocohantas:
Na why them dey quick land insidè jail for UK. With their warped mentality.

Na wetin dey vex you seff?

SHIVA001:
Na lack of communication dey cause am.
No be because say u carry woman come eatery. U go knack am that dey. Unless if she be hook up lady.

if that is the case make she her self moderate her food order make she no order full cow o.

SHIVA001:
Na lack of communication dey cause am.
No be because say u carry woman come eatery. U go knack am that dey. Unless if she be hook up lady.

That lady you see in the video, no be hook-up?
If you know her price, you will knack her same hour you meet..
90% of ladies..

marlow1962:
All modern ladies are knackable on first date, just have the right price.

Them and shame is far apart.

Oga change your circle o, na hook-up you dey carry wey you think say na regular girls