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"If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi - Family (2) - Nairaland

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Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spiceadole(f): 12:23pm On Jun 26
LordLicifer:
I bet you had sex many times before getting preggas with 3 children. Unless your children were adopted grin una no dey use sense talk sometimes.
Sex is for childbirth.. yes.
After that, what next? Rest!
Sex is not food or oxygen.
I can do without it.. I don born finish
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spencekat(m): 12:32pm On Jun 26
Sex is always needed in marriage, except both parties are on the same page.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spencekat(m): 12:33pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
Sex is for childbirth.. yes.
After that, what next? Rest!
Sex is not food or oxygen.
I can do without it.. I don born finish
Can he do without it?
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Guestmale: 12:34pm On Jun 26
LordIsaac:
They will leave the gospel of salvation and be invading people's privacy!
No no no,it will be difficult to keep your salvation if your partner keeps on denning you your conjugal right.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by udemzyudex(m): 12:34pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
Sex is not my thing.
I'm married with 3 children.
Come and beat me .
Everytime sex this, sex that. As if sex is food and oxygen.
As long as your husband is not complaining, no wam.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Guestmale: 12:37pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
Sex is for childbirth.. yes.
After that, what next? Rest!
Sex is not food or oxygen.
I can do without it.. I don born finish
That is for you but what of your man.
Please have mercy on him.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by INTEGRITYA1(m): 12:53pm On Jun 26
[quote author=spiceadole post=139831011]Sex is not my thing.
I'm married with 3 children.
Come and beat me .
Everytime sex this, sex that. As if sex is food and oxygen.

Sex is not your thing

How did you gave birth to 3 Children without sex?

Yeye dey smell.

She too dey pretend.

I salute your husband, he dey give you hot hot.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spiceadole(f): 12:53pm On Jun 26
gassbee:
as u r denying him sex, are you concerned that he is banging someone else
I'm not concerned. I'm more interested in being alive in good health for myself and children and not what an adult man chooses to do with his genitals.
No matter how much sex men have with their wives, they still sleep with other women.
So no need to stress myself.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spiceadole(f): 12:54pm On Jun 26
[quote author=INTEGRITYA1 post=139836032][/quote]You have a problem with comprehension and that's fine
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by nelsonoba: 12:54pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
The men always go out , no matter how much sex they get from their wives.

So it doesn't matter
That's a bloody lie!! I have been married for 9years and have never cheated! Not even once! And I know several other men like that too. So stop with the lies. If all the men you know are men who always cheat, then something is wrong with the way you choose friends or you may actually be part of the problem. You can't be making male friends from a place like night clubs for example, and then be complaining that all your male friends cheat. Why won't they cheat when you literally got them from questionable places? Now, compare that with a lady who gets her male friends from a genuine church where the pastor and many members practice genuine christianity, even though you will always find a Judas that will still cheat as a supposed-christian, at least 50% or more of the male friends you make from such a circle will NEVER cheat.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Sparkle86: 12:55pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
Sex is not my thing.
I'm married with 3 children.
Come and beat me .
Everytime sex this, sex that. As if sex is food and oxygen.
did you even watch the video to understand the discussion and what the man is talking about. Abi you just see heading, u just write so that u go b first to comment nyama nyama.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by LordLicifer(m): 12:56pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
Sex is for childbirth.. yes.
After that, what next? Rest!
Sex is not food or oxygen.
I can do without it.. I don born finish
For you maybe not for me or other people. Sex is food and oxygen

So because you don born finish you no be human again. You can do without it but some of cannot, So rest!
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spiceadole(f): 12:58pm On Jun 26
TenQ:
Except sex is not ALSO a thing for your husband, then he must be
Sex starved
Miserable and
Under punishment
till death do you part
He is a man.
They always have options.
They say men are polygamous in nature
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by LordIsaac(m): 12:59pm On Jun 26
Guestmale:
No no no,it will be difficult to keep your salvation if your partner keeps on denning you your conjugal right.
These are issues for private counseling, if they ask for it...The pulpit is for salvation messages.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spiceadole(f): 1:00pm On Jun 26
LordLicifer:
For you maybe not for me or other people. Sex is food and oxygen

So because you don born finish you no be human again. You can do without it but some of cannot, So rest!
Lol.
I be human being.
If not for pikin, wetin I wan use sex do?
Men and sex sha... You sound so pained.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by TenQ: 1:02pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
He is a man.
They always have options.
They say men are polygamous in nature
Then be prepared to receiving visitations of Syphilis, Herpes, Gonorrhea and others at short notices!


I guess you are joking.
It is worse if your Husband is not cheating because he fears God
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spiceadole(f): 1:02pm On Jun 26
nelsonoba:
That's a bloody lie!! I have been married for 9years and have never cheated! Not even once! And I know several other men like that too. So stop with the lies. If all the men you know are men who always cheat, then something is wrong with the way you choose friends or you may actually be part of the problem. You can't be making male friends from a place like night clubs for example, and then be complaining that all your male friends cheat. Why won't they cheat when you literally got them from questionable places? Now, compare that with a lady who gets her male friends from a genuine church where the pastor and many members practice genuine christianity, even though you will always find a Judas that will still cheat as a supposed-christian, at least 50% or more of the male friends you make from such a circle will NEVER cheat.
Even your pastor is sleeping with the ladies in your church.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spiceadole(f): 1:05pm On Jun 26
TenQ:
for Then be prepared to receiving visitations of Syphilis, Herpes, Gonorrhea and others at short notices!
I had my 3 children in 4 years.
Since then..no condoms , no sex.
For me,there is no reason to have unprotected sex except for procreation.
I am not a fool.

Women who are having unprotected sex regularly with their husbands are busy treating infections including HIV because these men are still sleeping with other women.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by TenQ: 1:08pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
I had my 3 children in 4 years.
Since then..no condoms , no sex.
For me,there is no reason to have unprotected sex except for procreation.
I am not a fool.

Women who are having unprotected sex regularly with their husbands are busy treating infections including HIV because these men are still sleeping with other women.
Is your husband a Christian who loves God?
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Blessedarethepe(m): 1:13pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
Sex is not my thing.
I'm married with 3 children.
Come and beat me .
Everytime sex this, sex that. As if sex is food and oxygen.
Madam, let him opueh you any time any day o
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by LordLicifer(m): 1:31pm On Jun 26
spiceadole:
Lol.
I be human being.
If not for pikin, wetin I wan use sex do?
Men and sex sha... You sound so pained.
Me pained? Yea keep telling yourself that if it helps you sleep this night. grin it is either you are an old woman or you have health issues hence your hate for sex. It is the man you are married to i feel sorry for or maybe i shouldn't because i guarantee you he is getting sex from somewhere else that is why he is putting up with your selfishness because it is not just about your feeling.

Oh! Now you have turned it to a man thing you are wrong,.so many women likes sex apart from you
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Guestmale: 1:45pm On Jun 26
LordIsaac:
These are issues for private counseling, if they ask for it...The pulpit is for salvation messages.
Pulpit is not only for salvation messages but all the words of God, though a private marital issues can be discussed privately but there are many couples who feels too shy or reserved to bring their marital issues especially sex issues for counseling.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by pswglobal(m): 1:45pm On Jun 26
Getaway here sex Na food
spiceadole:
Sex is not my thing.
I'm married with 3 children.
Come and beat me .
Everytime sex this, sex that. As if sex is food and oxygen.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Guestmale: 1:49pm On Jun 26
nelsonoba:
That's a bloody lie!! I have been married for 9years and have never cheated! Not even once! And I know several other men like that too. So stop with the lies. If all the men you know are men who always cheat, then something is wrong with the way you choose friends or you may actually be part of the problem. You can't be making male friends from a place like night clubs for example, and then be complaining that all your male friends cheat. Why won't they cheat when you literally got them from questionable places? Now, compare that with a lady who gets her male friends from a genuine church where the pastor and many members practice genuine christianity, even though you will always find a Judas that will still cheat as a supposed-christian, at least 50% or more of the male friends you make from such a circle will NEVER cheat.
👍👍👍You just nailed it.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by aswani(m): 3:04pm On Jun 26
UnlimitedNG:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7655270557268659476?_r=1&_t=ZS-97WyHDxXvn7
Which reminds me of this joke about a newly married couple where the man said to the woman:

"I expect my dinner to be at the table at 7pm every day whether I am here or not as I might be out with my friends"

and the woman replied that:
"I would be having sex at 7:30pm every evening whether you are here or not".

The man never missed an evening at home.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by bluejay05: 3:33pm On Jun 26
This morayo lady would be a sex addict, I have been following her program for some time now, she's always taking about sex. Even when the topic has nothing to do with sex, she will always find a way to insert sex into it. I hope her husband will be able to keep up with her sexual need .
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Yvngex(m): 4:04am On Jun 27
spiceadole:
Sex is not my thing.
I'm married with 3 children.
Come and beat me .
Everytime sex this, sex that. As if sex is food and oxygen.
Reality check, your husband dey get enough of it elsewhere but you no fit decode.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by c900: 5:39am On Jun 27
People change due to circumstances like age, stress, sickness, depression, no love, no money etc.
Sex life can be affected. Just adjust as events unfolds.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by spiceadole(f): 6:05am On Jun 27
Yvngex:
Reality check, your husband dey get enough of it elsewhere but you no fit decode.
That's his business.
He will still go outside no matter how much sex he gets at home, so no need for me to stress myself.
They always step out.
Re: "If Sex Isn't Your Thing, You Shouldn't Be Married"--Pastor Akinlabi by Demonic01(m): 7:32am On Jun 27
I'm glad you told her, she think say nah us she dey do. Nah herself she dey do.

The other time, she was trying to sell the idea of premarital sex as if she even married as a virgin.

With the way she is eager to drop feminist opinions, she is a blatant liar. ‼️

Yvngex:
Reality check, your husband dey get enough of it elsewhere but you no fit decode.
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