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If the lady no too invest in the relationship, she will find it easier to move on.

You ve been dating yourself

Pukkalolo:
The day my first girlfriend left me, I thought my world had ended.

After one small argument, she sent the cold text: “I’m no longer interested.”

Just like that. Relationship over… Ah

I was shattered. I couldn't eat. I couldn't sleep. I walked around like a dead man for months.

But do you know what truly destroyed me?

She moved on like I never existed. Like, within days this girl was already posting new guys on her status… smiling, laughing, looking happy and refreshed. While I was there dying in emotional pain.

So I went online to search: “Why do women move on faster than men after a breakup?”

The two answers I found sounded smart:

#1. “She already broke up with you emotionally long before she left you.”

#2. “Women cry freely, talk to friends/family about it, and process their feelings faster.”

I believed that nonsense.

Until life proved it wrong with real experience.

After dealing with more women, I discovered the uncomfortable truth:

She moved on so easily because she never invested anything serious in me.

Especially FINANCIALLY.

Think about it.

If a woman was spending her own money on you… paying for things, investing in your life, giving you financial support…do you think she would bounce back like nothing happened?

Hell No.

She would be in serious pain. She would probably even drag the breakup for months or years, constantly reminding herself, “After all I did for this guy…”

But when she has zero financial investment? She walks away light. Zero losses. Off to the next simp...


Imagine a sinking ship.

The people who panic, fight, cry, and do everything possible to save it are the ones who put their money into it: THE INVESTORS.

The passengers who just bought a ticket? They simply jump into the next available boat with zero sorrow. They lose nothing.

Your relationship is that ship.

If she never invested real money in it… then to her, the relationship is just a cruise. Nice while it lasted. When turbulence comes, she jumps ship easily and boards the next one with fresh excitement.

Be wise brothers…

E get level wey you go reach woman no fit break your heart. At that level, love won't blind you neither would you be deeply attached to any woman because you go get like 5 fine babes wey go dey at your beck and call. It's because babes always have male backups that they easily switch from one relationship to another. Adopt same approach and na dem go dey die for you. Just pray that God blesses your legit hustle. U go discover how cheap dem dey.

Do they actually move on so fast. At least, my women don't move on. Even though make it clear from the start I'm not into dedicated relationship

Another male vs female thread for Nairaland’s “engagement.” Useless platform.

The last fool who texted me “I’m no longer interested in this relationship “ my only reply was no problem 😉. After few days she came begging 🙏 but I have move on already.

Pukkalolo:
The day my first girlfriend left me, I thought my world had ended.

After one small argument, she sent the cold text: “I’m no longer interested.”

Just like that. Relationship over… Ah

I was shattered. I couldn't eat. I couldn't sleep. I walked around like a dead man for months.

But do you know what truly destroyed me?

She moved on like I never existed. Like, within days this girl was already posting new guys on her status… smiling, laughing, looking happy and refreshed. While I was there dying in emotional pain.

So I went online to search: “Why do women move on faster than men after a breakup?”

The two answers I found sounded smart:

#1. “She already broke up with you emotionally long before she left you.”

#2. “Women cry freely, talk to friends/family about it, and process their feelings faster.”

I believed that nonsense.

Until life proved it wrong with real experience.

After dealing with more women, I discovered the uncomfortable truth:

She moved on so easily because she never invested anything serious in me.

Especially FINANCIALLY.

Think about it.

If a woman was spending her own money on you… paying for things, investing in your life, giving you financial support…do you think she would bounce back like nothing happened?

Hell No.

She would be in serious pain. She would probably even drag the breakup for months or years, constantly reminding herself, “After all I did for this guy…”

But when she has zero financial investment? She walks away light. Zero losses. Off to the next simp...


Imagine a sinking ship.

The people who panic, fight, cry, and do everything possible to save it are the ones who put their money into it: THE INVESTORS.

The passengers who just bought a ticket? They simply jump into the next available boat with zero sorrow. They lose nothing.

Your relationship is that ship.

If she never invested real money in it… then to her, the relationship is just a cruise. Nice while it lasted. When turbulence comes, she jumps ship easily and boards the next one with fresh excitement.

Be wise brothers…

The post is correct that a woman with no investment walks away easily. But the deeper truth is,she was never really yours ,because she was never really invested.

A woman who invests her time, her emotions, and her loyalty will mourn your loss even if she never spent a kobo on you. If she walked away without a scratch, she was never truly in it
Watch what she invests Time, emotion, money all matter
Do not be the only one giving If you are the only one investing, you are the one who will hurt
Do not confuse her presence with her investment She can be there without being invested
If she walks away easily, she was never really there Her absence is your clarity

Why would you want any woman to invest in you? Can you not invest in yourself?


I have my own money i don't need any woman investing in me if a woman comes into my life she doesn't have to bring anything with her so that when she breaks up with me (that never happens) or i break up with her she will leave the same way she came. No one gets hurt, she can move on the next day if she wants and as soon as she leaves i will pick up a another woman.

Samantha125:
Why would you want a bitter ex that'll be dragging the breakup for months, if not years?

My husband's ex didn't invest anything financially in his life, but she dragged their breakup for years... I got beaten, poisoned, and even once found myself behind bars because of her, my husband also nearly got into trouble all thanks to her... That lady really properly dealt with us, she taught me a lesson I'll never forget...

The original post is not entirely wrong. But it is incomplete. Financial investment is not the only thing that ties a woman to a man. Emotional investment, ego, pride, and possessiveness can be just as powerful and sometimes more dangerous.

A woman who loves you will fight. A woman who loves you and feels replaced will burn the world down — with or without financial investment.

Threads like this are misogynist.
Even if it were the other way round, about men, it will still be a thread that has prejudice and it kick against it.
Of what use is this topic?
Why push it to fp?
Why give it more publicity?
Let's not pitch men against women or males against females, it's totally unacceptable.
Both need each other to coexist, thrive and flourish

Well, not making financial commitments can often be related to emotional detachment. Not always but yeah..it's a thing.

Pukkalolo:
The day my first girlfriend left me, I thought my world had ended.

After one small argument, she sent the cold text: “I’m no longer interested.”

Just like that. Relationship over… Ah

I was shattered. I couldn't eat. I couldn't sleep. I walked around like a dead man for months.

But do you know what truly destroyed me?

She moved on like I never existed. Like, within days this girl was already posting new guys on her status… smiling, laughing, looking happy and refreshed. While I was there dying in emotional pain.

So I went online to search: “Why do women move on faster than men after a breakup?”

The two answers I found sounded smart:

#1. “She already broke up with you emotionally long before she left you.”

#2. “Women cry freely, talk to friends/family about it, and process their feelings faster.”

I believed that nonsense.

Until life proved it wrong with real experience.

After dealing with more women, I discovered the uncomfortable truth:

She moved on so easily because she never invested anything serious in me.

Especially FINANCIALLY.

Think about it.

If a woman was spending her own money on you… paying for things, investing in your life, giving you financial support…do you think she would bounce back like nothing happened?

Hell No.

She would be in serious pain. She would probably even drag the breakup for months or years, constantly reminding herself, “After all I did for this guy…”

But when she has zero financial investment? She walks away light. Zero losses. Off to the next simp...


Imagine a sinking ship.

The people who panic, fight, cry, and do everything possible to save it are the ones who put their money into it: THE INVESTORS.

The passengers who just bought a ticket? They simply jump into the next available boat with zero sorrow. They lose nothing.

Your relationship is that ship.

If she never invested real money in it… then to her, the relationship is just a cruise. Nice while it lasted. When turbulence comes, she jumps ship easily and boards the next one with fresh excitement.

Be wise brothers…

The reason they move on very fast is because they don't invest what they cannot lose in the relationship.

Women are in relationship for business. They are smart investors. Have you seen a woman that caught a big fish and doesn't do whatever it takes to pin him down and secure her space?

I would advice you enrol to Gehgeh University. Any woman that invest only psy in a relationship will most likely be a clitocurrent woman. Anywhere the bill is, the psy wets.

Samantha125:
Why would you want a bitter ex that'll be dragging the breakup for months, if not years?

My husband's ex didn't invest anything financially in his life, but she dragged their breakup for years... I got beaten, poisoned, and even once found myself behind bars because of her, my husband also nearly got into trouble all thanks to her... That lady really properly dealt with us, she taught me a lesson I'll never forget...

Trust me, had it been life went bad for your husband she be smiling that they broke up.
It's more painful to women when your next is not up to your ex. they keep coming back to take and spread some beautiful legs.

Are you saying that women who didn’t invest money into the relationship never suffer from heartbreak?

Boogyman557:
Real matters right here.. been a while on here..

Been a while

Where have you been bro?

Have missed your messages

Hope you are here to stay now that you are back

She emotionally checked out 6 months before she even uttered the words.
She was already at the exit door and was only looking for a excuse to leave.

The reason why some women move on quickly after a breakup is because, while they are in a relationship, they may have their eyes on another man and call him a male friend. Once the relationship starts to go south, they quickly move on with the male friend they have been calling a friend all this time, and the man is ready to step in. I currently know of a female friend who split up with her husband and immediately started another relationship with someone she had been calling a male friend all this time while she was married.

Pukkalolo... Your reason is valid but I meet broke ladies with manageable income...


How do you task those kinds abeg. I no Sabi task at all. I have this mindset of make see finish no come dey.


Hope you get?

Pukkalolo:
The day my first girlfriend left me, I thought my world had ended.

After one small argument, she sent the cold text: “I’m no longer interested.”

Just like that. Relationship over… Ah

I was shattered. I couldn't eat. I couldn't sleep. I walked around like a dead man for months.

But do you know what truly destroyed me?

She moved on like I never existed. Like, within days this girl was already posting new guys on her status… smiling, laughing, looking happy and refreshed. While I was there dying in emotional pain.

So I went online to search: “Why do women move on faster than men after a breakup?”

The two answers I found sounded smart:

#1. “She already broke up with you emotionally long before she left you.”

#2. “Women cry freely, talk to friends/family about it, and process their feelings faster.”

I believed that nonsense.

Until life proved it wrong with real experience.

After dealing with more women, I discovered the uncomfortable truth:

She moved on so easily because she never invested anything serious in me.

Especially FINANCIALLY.

Think about it.

If a woman was spending her own money on you… paying for things, investing in your life, giving you financial support…do you think she would bounce back like nothing happened?

Hell No.

She would be in serious pain. She would probably even drag the breakup for months or years, constantly reminding herself, “After all I did for this guy…”

But when she has zero financial investment? She walks away light. Zero losses. Off to the next simp...


Imagine a sinking ship.

The people who panic, fight, cry, and do everything possible to save it are the ones who put their money into it: THE INVESTORS.

The passengers who just bought a ticket? They simply jump into the next available boat with zero sorrow. They lose nothing.

Your relationship is that ship.

If she never invested real money in it… then to her, the relationship is just a cruise. Nice while it lasted. When turbulence comes, she jumps ship easily and boards the next one with fresh excitement.

Be wise brothers…

Spot on!

Stay wise

Samantha125:
Why would you want a bitter ex that'll be dragging the breakup for months, if not years?

My husband's ex didn't invest anything financially in his life, but she dragged their breakup for years... I got beaten, poisoned, and even once found myself behind bars because of her, my husband also nearly got into trouble all thanks to her... That lady really properly dealt with us, she taught me a lesson I'll never forget...

I prefer to be the one who gained and let my ex be the bitter one, than to invest financially and let my ex just move on like that

One of the best things I read this week so far
You're correct sir
Even devil self know

Pukkalolo:
The day my first girlfriend left me, I thought my world had ended.

After one small argument, she sent the cold text: “I’m no longer interested.”

Just like that. Relationship over… Ah

I was shattered. I couldn't eat. I couldn't sleep. I walked around like a dead man for months.

But do you know what truly destroyed me?

She moved on like I never existed. Like, within days this girl was already posting new guys on her status… smiling, laughing, looking happy and refreshed. While I was there dying in emotional pain.

So I went online to search: “Why do women move on faster than men after a breakup?”

The two answers I found sounded smart:

#1. “She already broke up with you emotionally long before she left you.”

#2. “Women cry freely, talk to friends/family about it, and process their feelings faster.”

I believed that nonsense.

Until life proved it wrong with real experience.

After dealing with more women, I discovered the uncomfortable truth:

She moved on so easily because she never invested anything serious in me.

Especially FINANCIALLY.

Think about it.

If a woman was spending her own money on you… paying for things, investing in your life, giving you financial support…do you think she would bounce back like nothing happened?

Hell No.

She would be in serious pain. She would probably even drag the breakup for months or years, constantly reminding herself, “After all I did for this guy…”

But when she has zero financial investment? She walks away light. Zero losses. Off to the next simp...


Imagine a sinking ship.

The people who panic, fight, cry, and do everything possible to save it are the ones who put their money into it: THE INVESTORS.

The passengers who just bought a ticket? They simply jump into the next available boat with zero sorrow. They lose nothing.

Your relationship is that ship.

If she never invested real money in it… then to her, the relationship is just a cruise. Nice while it lasted. When turbulence comes, she jumps ship easily and boards the next one with fresh excitement.

Be wise brothers…

Premium peace Be Unto You






Brother may you never die young.

just like joint parnership business or investment where one partner contributed 95% physically, financially, emotionally, psychologically and the other contributes just 5%, if the business had issues it easy for the dormant partner or the partner with the lowest share to quickly move on that is it if applied to majority relationship

Pukkalolo:
The day my first girlfriend left me, I thought my world had ended.

After one small argument, she sent the cold text: “I’m no longer interested.”

Just like that. Relationship over… Ah

I was shattered. I couldn't eat. I couldn't sleep. I walked around like a dead man for months.

But do you know what truly destroyed me?

She moved on like I never existed. Like, within days this girl was already posting new guys on her status… smiling, laughing, looking happy and refreshed. While I was there dying in emotional pain.

So I went online to search: “Why do women move on faster than men after a breakup?”

The two answers I found sounded smart:

#1. “She already broke up with you emotionally long before she left you.”

#2. “Women cry freely, talk to friends/family about it, and process their feelings faster.”

I believed that nonsense.

Until life proved it wrong with real experience.

After dealing with more women, I discovered the uncomfortable truth:

She moved on so easily because she never invested anything serious in me.

Especially FINANCIALLY.

Think about it.

If a woman was spending her own money on you… paying for things, investing in your life, giving you financial support…do you think she would bounce back like nothing happened?

Hell No.

She would be in serious pain. She would probably even drag the breakup for months or years, constantly reminding herself, “After all I did for this guy…”

But when she has zero financial investment? She walks away light. Zero losses. Off to the next simp...


Imagine a sinking ship.

The people who panic, fight, cry, and do everything possible to save it are the ones who put their money into it: THE INVESTORS.

The passengers who just bought a ticket? They simply jump into the next available boat with zero sorrow. They lose nothing.

Your relationship is that ship.

If she never invested real money in it… then to her, the relationship is just a cruise. Nice while it lasted. When turbulence comes, she jumps ship easily and boards the next one with fresh excitement.

Be wise brothers…

They Said “If You Can’t Afford Her, Leave”… So Men Left

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiZhuI4btDA

SmartMaster001:
If the lady no too invest in the relationship, she will find it easier to move on.

Bro why still u haven't sent me those 4 sites till today even after all d messages I kept sending to u??

As a man if you know this simple truth, you'll go far without a heartbreak.

My friends never believed I could reach this stage of life WITHOUT SUFFERING A SINGLE HEARTBREAK

There's one Ubunja's teaching I love so much, he talked about WHERE A MAN'S TREASURE IS, THERE WILL HIS HEART BE. This statement is also found in the Holy Book.

It's so real guys

Samantha125:
Why would you want a bitter ex that'll be dragging the breakup for months, if not years?

My husband's ex didn't invest anything financially in his life, but she dragged their breakup for years... I got beaten, poisoned, and even once found myself behind bars because of her, my husband also nearly got into trouble all thanks to her... That lady really properly dealt with us, she taught me a lesson I'll never forget...

Well fabricated lies.

Samantha125:
Why would you want a bitter ex that'll be dragging the breakup for months, if not years?

My husband's ex didn't invest anything financially in his life, but she dragged their breakup for years... I got beaten, poisoned, and even once found myself behind bars because of her, my husband also nearly got into trouble all thanks to her... That lady really properly dealt with us, she taught me a lesson I'll never forget...

Now,that further explains the mindset of an average SA when dey feel hurt.

To kpai person nor dey hard dem

nowadays yoots and nonsense. If a GIRLFRIEND DUMP YOU, MOVE ON FAST. Dnt allow one GIRL to manipulate, control you.DUMP her and look for next available one