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Pukkalolo:
This is just the pure truth... You wrote well.

When a man blows up and makes serious money, the first thing his brain screams is “I need women.”

But when a woman starts making money, her first thought is, “I no longer need men.”

That’s not a coincidence. That’s female nature on full display.

Look at these billionaire/millionaire wives in the Western world filing for divorce left and right. These women didn’t leave because the man suddenly became ugly or boring. They left because they now have enough of their own money… plus the fat divorce settlement coming… and they’ve concluded: “I can fund my lifestyle without this man.”

The moment a woman starts earning more than you, or meets a man who does, you don’t just become less attractive… You become useless in her eyes, especially if she had no genuine desire for you from the onset.

This is why that popular advice, “Just make money and women will follow you,” is becoming one of the most dangerous lies men are swallowing today.

Because here is the truth…

Society is bending over backwards to push women forward… more scholarships, more corporate favoritism, more social support. In a few years, a huge wave of women will be out-earning the average man. And when that day comes, men will face mass rejection and silent heartbreak at levels we’ve never seen before. Not because women hate men… but because they simply won’t need men anymore.

And it gets worse.

Because right now, the female intimacy gadget industry is exploding. Vibrators, intimacy gadgets, AI-powered realistic d!ldos… women are getting better orgasms from plastic and silicon than most men are giving them in real life.

Many women are quietly choosing toys over dicks.

Soon, a growing number of women will ask themselves: Why tolerate a man’s flaws, ego, and drama when I can have financial independence and sexual satisfaction without him?

My brother, this is the future staring us in the face.

The game is evolving. Most men will cry about it. The dangerous ones will adapt.

Panda7:
I believe introverted dudes hid under the Internet to post trash and conspiracy theories . If you are a real dude you should be able to get a real match offline. Staying indoors with your assumptions won't change the reality. Your physical influence could.

Savingz:
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BEHOLD the beginning of the END ...🔥🔥who no adjust gi collect 🔨=Pukkalolo

This is just the pure truth... You wrote well.

When a man blows up and makes serious money, the first thing his brain screams is “I need women.”

But when a woman starts making money, her first thought is, “I no longer need men.”

That’s not a coincidence. That’s female nature on full display.

Look at these billionaire/millionaire wives in the Western world filing for divorce left and right. These women didn’t leave because the man suddenly became ugly or boring. They left because they now have enough of their own money… plus the fat divorce settlement coming… and they’ve concluded: “I can fund my lifestyle without this man.”

The moment a woman starts earning more than you, or meets a man who does, you don’t just become less attractive… You become useless in her eyes, especially if she had no genuine desire for you from the onset.

This is why that popular advice, “Just make money and women will follow you,” is becoming one of the most dangerous lies men are swallowing today.

Because here is the truth…

[b]Society is bending over backwards to push women forward… more scholarships, more corporate favoritism, more social support. In a few years, a huge wave of women will be out-earning the average man. And when that day comes, men will face mass rejection and silent heartbreak at levels we’ve never seen before. Not because women hate men… but because they simply won’t need men anymore.

And it gets worse.

Because right now, the female intimacy gadget industry is exploding. Vibrators, intimacy gadgets, AI-powered realistic d!ldos… women are getting better orgasms from plastic and silicon than most men are giving them in real life.

Many women are quietly choosing toys over dicks.

Soon, a growing number of women will ask themselves: Why tolerate a man’s flaws, ego, and drama when I can have financial independence and sexual satisfaction without him?

My brother, this is the future staring us in the face.

The game is evolving. Most men will cry about it. The dangerous ones will adapt.

Kipaji:
What is a wise adaption to the current and upcoming situation?

Savingz:
Nothing but the whole truth __=dreamxhaser post=138969187]

You're right to extent.

As for men who are "ugly," I don't think any man is ugly per se. The thing is, a lot of men don’t work on their looks.

Let me give you an instance. I am an average-height guy (Nigerian average) with a face that I would say is within to slightly above average, dark-skinned, and I have a good voice. How do I know? I have had women compliment my facial looks (though a few times), but almost every woman has complimented my voice.

In fact I won’t lie, i used to think i was ugly, women made me realize i am not.

I have friends who are as good-looking or even better than me, and they are way taller. We went to an event where there were a lot of girls. I dressed well, used a good perfume, a wristwatch, and everything. Guess what? All the girls' attention was on me; they were trying hard to get my contact too. My friend, who is 6’4” and handsome, confirmed it and was like, “These girls are into you.” The reason is because I dressed well and automatically look good better.

I also have another friend who is not tall. in fact, he is almost short, but has women tripping over him because he has a good "face card."


In fact, little things like your skin or haircut can make or break your looks. Some things are beyond our control, like height and facial features, but the rest is on you.

Another thing: there was a time I got a good haircut, took a picture, and posted it on my social media. Omo, you should have seen how people were hyping me! That same "me" got a skin cut a few months later, and even I could see the difference, I looked really ugly.

Also, women have specs (preferences). Don’t let anyone lie to you; some like light-skinned guys, some love dark-skinned guys, some love chubby men, some love skinny men (yes, some do), and most love tall men.

It's left for you as a guy to know her spec and know if you should keep pushing or not.


Just look at the Snowfall actor (Damson Idris); the guy is average, but when he dresses and comes out, every girl thinks he is handsome.

So, that money men use to chase women, use it to work on yourself and freshen up. Get a good skincare routine, good clothes that fit you, a good haircut, and many more. I promise you, you will move up the ladder from average to handsome.

Pukkalolo:
After my first painful breakup with my first girlfriend, I made myself a promise:

I'd never use money to win a woman's romantic companionship.
Instead, I'd attract her with the one thing many women deeply crave but rarely say out loud.

What is that one thing?

Let me explain.


First off, understand that money is a form of distraction when it comes to triggering raw genuine attraction in a woman.


I once saw two different videos that explain this perfectly.

In the first video (a scene from a movie clip), some men tried to steal meat from lions using clever DISTRACTIONS. They used their van, noise, and tricks to pull the lions away, then they rushed in to grab the dead antelope. It worked for a moment. But as soon as the lions figured out the tricks the men played, they charged back and chased the men. The men dropped the meat and ran. One wasn’t fast enough. The lion pounced on him.


That is exactly what most men do today. They use money, cars, dinners, trips, and promises as DISTRACTIONS to get sex and companionship. It can work temporarily. She’ll play along.

But the moment she gets her own money or finds a better option…she leaves. In the Western world, she leaves while taking half the man's assets with her and ruining his life in the process.



Now the second video… from a BBC documentary on Kenyan warriors.

These men didn’t use vehicles or tricks. They waited for a pride of lions to make a fresh kill of a buffalo. Then they walked straight toward the lions on foot, calm, bold, confident, showing zero fear. They maintained strong eye contact with the lions while heading towards the lions

As they got closer, the lions began to panic and retreat. Then the men cut off a large piece of fresh meat and walked away calmly and confidently. The lions only returned after the men were gone.



Why did it work? The lions sensed the
Men raw, DANGEROUS MASCULINE ENERGY… These men weren’t begging or tricking the lions with distractions. They were claiming what they wanted with raw dominance and audacity.



Bro… This is the wiser path in 2026 and beyond. As a man, you have to Return to your Raw Masculine Energy

Nature’s default design is simple: Strong masculine energy meets feminine energy and raw attraction happens. Money is secondary. It can amplify things, but it cannot replace the real spark.

Masculine energy is that unapologetic vibe of “I own this situation. I don't give Bleep about what you think.” It shows in. your eye contact, behavior, the way you talk, your decisions, and the way you lead without hesitation.

When a woman feels this energy from a man, her body responds. She gets wetter. She becomes more submissive and drawn to him. Not because he’s rich, but because he feels DANGEROUS in the right way… like the Kenyan hunters the lions respected.



Society, women and women fight hard to suppress this masculine energy. They push men to become nice, simp, safe, understanding providers who use money to impress. Because a man with suppressed masculinity is easier to control, easier to disappoint, and easier to leave when something better appears.

This is why so many men today feel depressed and lost. Their raw natural masculine fire has been buried under layers of female-pleasing and financial performance anxiety.

The wise adaptation is to reset to your core mascot energy..

Money will still matter. But it will come as a bonus, not your only weapon. And when you combine real resources with unstoppable masculine energy, That’s when you become the kind of man women crave and respect.

Pukkalolo:
After my first painful breakup with my first girlfriend, I made myself a promise:

I'd never use money to win a woman's romantic companionship.
Instead, I'd attract her with the one thing many women deeply crave but rarely say out loud.

What is that one thing?

Let me explain.


First off, understand that money is a form of distraction when it comes to triggering raw genuine attraction in a woman.


I once saw two different videos that explain this perfectly.

In the first video (a scene from a movie clip), some men tried to steal meat from lions using clever DISTRACTIONS. They used their van, noise, and tricks to pull the lions away, then they rushed in to grab the dead antelope. It worked for a moment. But as soon as the lions figured out the tricks the men played, they charged back and chased the men. The men dropped the meat and ran. One wasn’t fast enough. The lion pounced on him.


That is exactly what most men do today. They use money, cars, dinners, trips, and promises as DISTRACTIONS to get sex and companionship. It can work temporarily. She’ll play along.

But the moment she gets her own money or finds a better option…she leaves. In the Western world, she leaves while taking half the man's assets with her and ruining his life in the process.



Now the second video… from a BBC documentary on Kenyan warriors.

These men didn’t use vehicles or tricks. They waited for a pride of lions to make a fresh kill of a buffalo. Then they walked straight toward the lions on foot, calm, bold, confident, showing zero fear. They maintained strong eye contact with the lions while heading towards the lions

As they got closer, the lions began to panic and retreat. Then the men cut off a large piece of fresh meat and walked away calmly and confidently. The lions only returned after the men were gone.



Why did it work? The lions sensed the
Men raw, DANGEROUS MASCULINE ENERGY… These men weren’t begging or tricking the lions with distractions. They were claiming what they wanted with raw dominance and audacity.



Bro… This is the wiser path in 2026 and beyond. As a man, you have to Return to your Raw Masculine Energy

Nature’s default design is simple: Strong masculine energy meets feminine energy and raw attraction happens. Money is secondary. It can amplify things, but it cannot replace the real spark.

Masculine energy is that unapologetic vibe of “I own this situation. I don't give Bleep about what you think.” It shows in. your eye contact, behavior, the way you talk, your decisions, and the way you lead without hesitation.

When a woman feels this energy from a man, her body responds. She gets wetter. She becomes more submissive and drawn to him. Not because he’s rich, but because he feels DANGEROUS in the right way… like the Kenyan hunters the lions respected.



Society, women and women fight hard to suppress this masculine energy. They push men to become nice, simp, safe, understanding providers who use money to impress. Because a man with suppressed masculinity is easier to control, easier to disappoint, and easier to leave when something better appears.

This is why so many men today feel depressed and lost. Their raw natural masculine fire has been buried under layers of female-pleasing and financial performance anxiety.

The wise adaptation is to reset to your core mascot energy..

Money will still matter. But it will come as a bonus, not your only weapon. And when you combine real resources with unstoppable masculine energy, That’s when you become the kind of man women crave and respect.

Pukkalolo:
After my first painful breakup with my first girlfriend, I made myself a promise:

I'd never use money to win a woman's romantic companionship.
Instead, I'd attract her with the one thing many women deeply crave but rarely say out loud.

What is that one thing?

Let me explain.


First off, understand that money is a form of distraction when it comes to triggering raw genuine attraction in a woman.


I once saw two different videos that explain this perfectly.

In the first video (a scene from a movie clip), some men tried to steal meat from lions using clever DISTRACTIONS. They used their van, noise, and tricks to pull the lions away, then they rushed in to grab the dead antelope. It worked for a moment. But as soon as the lions figured out the tricks the men played, they charged back and chased the men. The men dropped the meat and ran. One wasn’t fast enough. The lion pounced on him.


That is exactly what most men do today. They use money, cars, dinners, trips, and promises as DISTRACTIONS to get sex and companionship. It can work temporarily. She’ll play along.

But the moment she gets her own money or finds a better option…she leaves. In the Western world, she leaves while taking half the man's assets with her and ruining his life in the process.



Now the second video… from a BBC documentary on Kenyan warriors.

These men didn’t use vehicles or tricks. They waited for a pride of lions to make a fresh kill of a buffalo. Then they walked straight toward the lions on foot, calm, bold, confident, showing zero fear. They maintained strong eye contact with the lions while heading towards the lions

As they got closer, the lions began to panic and retreat. Then the men cut off a large piece of fresh meat and walked away calmly and confidently. The lions only returned after the men were gone.



Why did it work? The lions sensed the
Men raw, DANGEROUS MASCULINE ENERGY… These men weren’t begging or tricking the lions with distractions. They were claiming what they wanted with raw dominance and audacity.



Bro… This is the wiser path in 2026 and beyond. As a man, you have to Return to your Raw Masculine Energy

Nature’s default design is simple: Strong masculine energy meets feminine energy and raw attraction happens. Money is secondary. It can amplify things, but it cannot replace the real spark.

Masculine energy is that unapologetic vibe of “I own this situation. I don't give Bleep about what you think.” It shows in. your eye contact, behavior, the way you talk, your decisions, and the way you lead without hesitation.

When a woman feels this energy from a man, her body responds. She gets wetter. She becomes more submissive and drawn to him. Not because he’s rich, but because he feels DANGEROUS in the right way… like the Kenyan hunters the lions respected.



Society, women and women fight hard to suppress this masculine energy. They push men to become nice, simp, safe, understanding providers who use money to impress. Because a man with suppressed masculinity is easier to control, easier to disappoint, and easier to leave when something better appears.

This is why so many men today feel depressed and lost. Their raw natural masculine fire has been buried under layers of female-pleasing and financial performance anxiety.

The wise adaptation is to reset to your core mascot energy..

Money will still matter. But it will come as a bonus, not your only weapon. And when you combine real resources with unstoppable masculine energy, That’s when you become the kind of man women crave and respect.

Philosopher1979:
The issue with money is that time changes things. I mean someone without money now can have money in 2 years time and so when she has the money of what use are you to her.
The money thing can only work in a society like taliban where women's work and employment, business, educational etc opportunities are limited. As long as women have these opportunities they can out earn men and money will be less needed in getting them.
I mean I wa a teacher and I'm now a lecturer and the girls seem to be doin better in school than the boys.
I even have smart girls I talk to and one is already thinking of working in kpmg
In my mind I wonder what amount of money can get a successful woman. 1 billion dollars or what. I'm academia a lot of lecturers are women. So that income disparity is not much anymore.

Tenrack:
bro where did you learn these abeg. Give me books to read

Pukkalolo:
This is just the pure truth... You wrote well.

When a man blows up and makes serious money, the first thing his brain screams is “I need women.”

But when a woman starts making money, her first thought is, “I no longer need men.”

That’s not a coincidence. That’s female nature on full display.

Look at these billionaire/millionaire wives in the Western world filing for divorce left and right. These women didn’t leave because the man suddenly became ugly or boring. They left because they now have enough of their own money… plus the fat divorce settlement coming… and they’ve concluded: “I can fund my lifestyle without this man.”

The moment a woman starts earning more than you, or meets a man who does, you don’t just become less attractive… You become useless in her eyes, especially if she had no genuine desire for you from the onset.

This is why that popular advice, “Just make money and women will follow you,” is becoming one of the most dangerous lies men are swallowing today.

Because here is the truth…

Society is bending over backwards to push women forward… more scholarships, more corporate favoritism, more social support. In a few years, a huge wave of women will be out-earning the average man. And when that day comes, men will face mass rejection and silent heartbreak at levels we’ve never seen before. Not because women hate men… but because they simply won’t need men anymore.

And it gets worse.

Because right now, the female intimacy gadget industry is exploding. Vibrators, intimacy gadgets, AI-powered realistic d!ldos… women are getting better orgasms from plastic and silicon than most men are giving them in real life.

Many women are quietly choosing toys over dicks.

Soon, a growing number of women will ask themselves: Why tolerate a man’s flaws, ego, and drama when I can have financial independence and sexual satisfaction without him?

My brother, this is the future staring us in the face.

The game is evolving. Most men will cry about it. The dangerous ones will adapt.

Panda7:
This thread irks of pure stupidity and disgust. Looks like js2 boys talking about love.

Martinez39s:
Thank you!

Now that you have concluded this is a thread of pure stupidity and disgust, I hope you will now leave this thread that is beneath your intellectual and maturity level for we redpillers to continue with whatever we are doing, except you are insistent on garnering attention and causing chaos like a child for inexplicable reasons. I hope you will go elsewhere, or create your own thread just like redpillers did.

Remember, your antagonistic attitude will only waste your time and take you nowhere. You are not the first silly clown here, and you won't be the last.

Happy Sunday, bro. Hope all is well.

Martinez39s:
Thank you!

Now that you have concluded this is a thread of pure stupidity and disgust, I hope you will now leave this thread that is beneath your intellectual and maturity level for we redpillers to continue with whatever we are doing, except you are insistent on garnering attention and causing chaos like a child for inexplicable reasons. I hope you will go elsewhere, or create your own thread just like redpillers did.

Remember, your antagonistic attitude will only waste your time and take you nowhere. You are not the first silly clown here, and you won't be the last.

Happy Sunday, bro. Hope all is well.

Savingz:
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Years ago, I saw a thread on Reddit. It was kinda like this thread we are currently on. But this time, it was a female thread. Some 'woke' women among them were teaching the other women 'how to master men, get men to commit, and everything thing related to winning a man's heart and getting him to chase.'

I was captivated by the thread, not necessarily because they were dropping any dope dating wisdom. It was simply because I was surprised to see that women also actually care about trying to master men and win a man's heart.

That was really fascinating to me because I used to think men are the only ones so concerned about mastering the opposite sex. I was shocked to see that women are also damn concerned about getting good with men.

That was my first dating 'awareness' ...then everything else I later learned about women grew from that awareness.

Normally, guys will Google "how to get a girlfriend" or "how to know if she likes me" or how to make her chase me," and so on...

But my style of research changed immediately. I started googling things like, how to get a boyfriend," or "how to know if he really likes me" or how to make him chase me," and so on.

Why?

Because...

There's a proverb that says, "If you want easily conquer your enemy, you need first find out the kind of advice they are getting on how to conquer you."

I was curious to see the kind of dating advise women are getting on how to handle men.


This might sounds paradoxical and counterintuitive: this way, I got better ideas on what actually drive women and how women think.

I came gradually to realize that women actually want to please men, impress men and win men heart...

But most men don't realize this. No wonder the vast majority of advice for men out there is centered on how to impress women: "how to make her laugh," or "how to please her on the bed" or "how to make her think about you" or "how to make her give you sex", or "how to make her attracted to you" or worse, "how to add sexual innuendo and humor in your chat so she will not find you boring," and so on...

The fundamental problem with all the above advise is that it's all still centered on (or related to)'pleasing and impressing women.'

But at the core, women don't want that. Women don't want you to be trying to impress them or please them. Women don't want you to be trying to get them.

Most men don't truly understand that.

This is why many men still failed with women despite everything they've learnt about women. Despite the fact that they've read all the redpill books... Despite the fact that they know all the alpha male rules and bad boy techniques....Despite all these, there's something still lacking in their game with women; there's still a MISSING PIECE. There's still a problem.

The problem is that you are still indirectly or covertly trying to impress the woman. You think you've learned some alpha or 'dominant' move, but you are still trying to pass her shit test and impress her. That's the problem.

Women are suppose to be the ones trying to please you, impress you or give you the pussy.

But, the challenge was, "how do I trigger women emotions and make them eager to want to please me, impress me and naturally want to give me the pussy and go into a relationship with me?"

I knew I won't find this answer anywhere online or offline because most advice out there are indirectly and covertly focused trying to impress women. So I had to depend on my own personal experience.

I started noticing that there are women that seem attracted to me or somehow liked me, but for some unknown reasons, these women still refuse to give me sex or date me. This got me confused. I began wondering, "what am I doing wrong?". "What is the missing piece?"

That was how I accidentally discovered the concept I call "sexual comfortableness."

Here's the big idea I accidentally learnt about sexual comfortability. I realized that when a woman is attracted to you or somewhat interested in you, then that means she's impress with you.

But her being impressed with you isn't enough. She won't give you the pussy just because she impressed with you. She would only give you the pussy if she's sure that YOU are also genuinely impressed with her. Note the key word: genuinely.

This quickly still relate to the fact that women actually want to please men, impress men and win their heart...

She has to be the one trying to please you, but you have to inspire her to do so.

Buiding sexual comfortableness with a woman is about making her feel excited, 'shameless' and safe about the idea of pleasing you, impressing and giving you the pussy.


Since then, my understanding about women changed. Instead of trying to get pussy or try to persuade women to go into a relationship with me...I just focused on building sexual comfortableness. That was when my game with women skyrocketed. The pussy naturally started coming my way.



You've already made one deadly mistake from the beginning.

Here's is the mistake:

You are trying to persuade her to go into a relationship with you.



Look, women know that men are the true gate keepers of commitment(relationship). As a man, your commitment is your POWER.

And women want to please a man, impress him and earn his commitment.

But when you are eager to go into a relationship with her, you are giving her no opportunity to impress you and earn your commitment.

As a result, she'll think you are cheap, weak and have no value and self-respect. So she becomes bored with you because you're no longer a challenge to her.

See, brother. Sadly, I view Marriage or relationship like a Cage. If a woman wants me in that cage, then she better impress me and make it seem enjoyable to me.

To be honest, most women I dated had to persuade me into the idea of going into a serious relationship with them. The relationship was mostly their idea, not mine. I was the prize, or better say, I was the catch. And even when I was in a relationship with them, I was like an egg: very fragile. Meaning, if she doesn't pamper me or treat me carefully, I'm ready to 'break' out of the relationship immedately.

A woman gets zero fulfilment from catching a man that wants to be in a cage.

Great fulfillment and satisfaction comes from catching the man that can immedately run out of the relationship if she doesn't impress him enough or work hard to keep his commitment.

And that's is how it's suppose to be because you own the power of commitment(relationship). The woman should be the one trying to please you and win your commitment.

If you are not a wealthy man or a rich celebrities, most women won't be inspire to try to please you or impress you... UNLESS you create 'sexual comfortableness' in her.


Now, you are thinking, "Since trying to go into a relationship with her is a wrong move, then I guess the right move is to just concentrate on getting the sex first...right?"

No, bro. Again that's another wrong move. Here's why...

Women are the gate keepers of sex.

What does that mean?

This means that, it's the woman that "decides" if you'll get the pussy or not.

Since the woman have to be the one to "agree to" or "decide" if it's time to give you the pussy, then that means you don't really have any power in the interaction. The only way to get the power is to be attention focused and sexually detached.

One key thing I learnt from women's dating advice is that, women are advised to always leverage the power of their most valuable asset (pussy) to control men and get them to do what they want.

A woman’s power comes from how she controls access to her pussy. That means, the very thing that makes her powerful and in control is the fact you are trying to have access to her pussy.

Remember, women actually want to impress men and win their heart...

Being eager to have access to her pussy, is a big sign that you are already impressed with her. But she feels that you are NOT genuinely impressed with her because she has not done anything to impress you yet.

The one thing that makes a man sexually appealing is the fact that he's hard to please. Not impossible to please, but hard to please. Meaning, she has to work harder to impress him and win his full attention (validation).

So when you're eager to have access to her pussy or eager to go into relationship with her, you become easy to please in her eyes. She feels she already has you wrapped around her finger...so she becomes bored with you.

This is why I encourage sexual detachment and not being pussy focused.

If you don't give a shit about her pussy, then she automatically feels powerless around you. She starts questioning her value as a woman. This is a challenge to her ego.

The harder a woman work to please you and impress you, the more fulfilled and happy she is. And she associate that satisfaction and fulfillment to you, and as a result she'll want to be around you to get that dopamine hit (fulfillment).

The purpose of the man is to go out there, conquer the world and create as much value... While the purpose of a woman is the please the man, add unlimited value to him and give him total satisfaction.

Women are suppose to be ones asking "how do I make him laugh?" or "how do I please him on the bed?" or "how do I get him to fall in love with me" Or , "how do I add humor in my chat so he won't think I'm boring," and so on...

The Woman feel more purposeful and fulfilled when she's trying to please the man, and not the other way round.


Miracood2, there's a high chance this lady already wants to please you and impress you but you are not giving her the chance to do so.

With this girl, the idea isn't to persuade her to go into a relationship with you; the idea isn't to try to get the pussy...

The idea is to make her feel 'shameless', excited and safe about the idea of pleasing you, impressing and giving you the pussy. This is what I called building sexual comfortableness.


Yes, you are making efforts to get her but, again that’s where you got it wrong. You are concentrated on trying to get the her instead of "allowing" her try to get you.

The attractive woman doesn't value "male effort" because it is too available. Every man is already trying to please her, impress her and trying to get with her.

But when she encounters a man who can make feel excited, shameless and safe about the idea pleasing him and impressing him and going sexual with him... it's as if she has encounter a pure gold. She will cherish it.

If you want to learn how to build sexual comfortableness with women, click below and purchase a copy of my book...
The ball is in your court.

I just hope you got some wisdom on this post.

Stay blessed.

Panda7:
This thread irks of pure stupidity and disgust. Looks like js2 boys talking about love.

SeverusSnape:
... And you 'foolishly' decided to join the JS2 boys in the thread?. What does that make you?.

Sanu SS2 boy

Kipaji:

abba190: my life revolve around sex, when i get money the first thing i think of is sex, when im broke i watch porn nd jerk off. most of the time i thought, am i the only one or all men are like that? its really disgusting but whenever i try to remove lust from my life i feel empty and purposeless

First of all, I commend you for acknowledging your situation. It is not easy to accept the truth like you did. And you know what? Acknowledging the problem is the first step of solving it.

The majority of men are in your situation.
I think that the reason why you feel empty and purposeless without lust may be that you never envisioned a life that is not driven by the pursuit of sex. A life that is motivated and nurtured by other things. Try to write some existential essay for yourself in which you explore and discuss the meaning of life. My post is one of such essays. I also dropped a few thoughts on my Monk thread.

Besides, I want to mention that sex is not bad. It was meant for men and women to enjoy, relax, bond and procreate. The problem comes in when it cripples you, dominates your mind, and directs your every little move.

Take food for example. Food is amazing. Without food we cannot live. But do you think about food 24/7? Do you make your life about the pursuit of food? Does food dictates your every thought, your every move? Does food determines your life aspiration? As much as we need food to survive, do you think that we were brought on this Earth just to eat food and then die? Clearly no.
Maybe start to see sex a little bit like food. It is a good thing that we can enjoy and procreate with, but ultimately it's not something to tailor our lives around, the same way we don't plan our life around food (and food is more important than sex).

emmaodet:
A woman has Value while a Man has to create Value.

That is why from a baby to old age and then death, the universe has equiped the average woman with what she will use to survive ( emphasis on AVERAGE)
A woman is useful from youth when men will be chasing her to marriageable/family nuturing age all the way down to old age.
Even at old age when you will think a woman should be well spent and finished, she still has the value of rendering services - the children take her abroad to tend to their minors/babies, she clean the house or wash the plates, cook the foods while the couples are away at work.
Even at Old age, her services are still needed.
A broke old man?
Who needs such...not the church, not the street and not even the children.
I mean, what does he have to offer if he has no money?
Bring him abroad? to do what exactly? just to come and be sitting down when there are jobs to atleast do in the house or kids?
He can't/won't cook, won't bath the babies, won't dress for them, can't still give money to support the couples for house rent, so what exactly?

Men, take care of yourself and work towards your old age because it is you and you alone.
I guess it is one of the reasons they die earlier than their wives. Depression in silence with no one to care about it