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Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by nlfpmod(mod): 1:40pm On Jul 05
Dr Joe Abah, OON writes:

Dear Men, if you ask a woman “How are you?” and she answers “I’m not fine”, if you make the “mistake” of asking “Why? What’s wrong?”, it will cost you money.

I am Ezemmuo. I know things.😊
Source

Is this true?

Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Stephen0mozzy:
Oh no no. Girls actually know the kind of guys they "bill" senselessly. For one, if you have hungry girls in your CL, then the problem is you - you need to find girls wey get class - just that girls with class they make some guys fear.

That's why many of them dey date rubbish, and generalize that all girls are bad.

Find a girl that can stimulate, engage and even initiate brain-wracking conversations.

It's okay to ask a person why they're not fine. If you care for someone you'd want to know.

Unless you're her husband or father, you don't have the responsibility of giving her a solution - unless you want to.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Karlman: 1:45pm On Jul 05
Nobody really send anybody these days, everything now na give and take.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Sonnobax15(m): 1:48pm On Jul 05
lipsrsealed

I Sabi their code na. Once I ask banny say--"How are you?". She come get mind reply -"Not fine" angry. Omoh,that's the end of discussion angry. I won't even bother to waste my precious time on chatting you anymore,cuz from that minute,I go just realize say na bandit you be angry. And it's very obvious say you dey after my pocket and also after my life angry

Na why my Blocklist on Whatsapp no dey smile these days be that angry
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Goo0dHardDick: 1:50pm On Jul 05
women know and understand the scope now that men are wiser than before.

Do you know there are more single and lonely girls crying for lack of men to s€x them than men are? I met 7 girls in 2 weeks and they all told me the same stories that they've been lonely and bored.

Do you know that majority of girls don't get guys toasting them on the road? This is why I volunteered myself to be warming the holes between their legs.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by meobizy(m): 1:54pm On Jul 05
Everybody na professional for woman affairs for Nairaland. Who then are the men simping for women in the real world?
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by yarimo(m): 2:11pm On Jul 05
If she responds I am not fine, just tell her I wish you all the best. Change to another topic or just go offline.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Goo0dHardDick: 2:23pm On Jul 05
meobizy:
Everybody na professional for woman affairs for Nairaland. Who then are the men simping for women in the real world?
Truth is, men are becoming wiser nowadays, esp with geh geh teachings back to back.

Go to tiktok and see how men are seriously waking up. Yes, there are still simps, but in a short period of time those simps too will be emancipated
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by meobizy(m): 2:26pm On Jul 05
Internet noise doesn’t result in real life action. See voting results and planned protests for example. Online noise starts and ends on the internet. The same guys “awakening” online are simping for females in their neighbourhood. They only come online to form Bruce Lee.

Goo0dHardDick:
Truth is, men are becoming wiser nowadays, esp with geh geh teachings back to back.

Go to tiktok and see how men are seriously waking up. Yes, there are still simps, but in a short period of time those simps too will be emancipated
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Goo0dHardDick: 2:27pm On Jul 05
meobizy:
Internet noise don’t result to real life action. See voting results and planned protests for example. Online noise starts and ends on the internet. The same guys “awakening” online are simping for females in their neighbourhood. They only come online to form Bruce Lee.
Spits on them.

Simp men will eat dust of the earth 🌎
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by meobizy(m): 2:35pm On Jul 05
See one of them.

https://www.nairaland.com/8703864/why-like-she-keeps-billing#139930200

Goo0dHardDick:
Spits on them.

Simp men will eat dust of the earth 🌎
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by 2special(m): 2:53pm On Jul 05
If she's not fine, advice her to see the doctor
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Suicideboy: 3:17pm On Jul 05
Wahala for who get the kin time, person i will carry go my house

Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Zonefree(m): 3:32pm On Jul 05
If she's not fine, advice her to see a doctor.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Tenrack: 3:40pm On Jul 05
Stephen0mozzy:
Oh no no. Girls actually know the kind of guys they "bill" senselessly. For one, if you have hungry girls in your CL, then the problem is you - you need to find girls wey get class - just that girls with class they make some guys fear.

That's why many of them dey date rubbish, and generalize that all girls are bad.

Find a girl that can stimulate, engage and even initiate brain-wracking conversations.

It's okay to ask a person why they're not fine. If you care for someone you'd want to know. Unless you're her husband or father, you don't have the responsibility of giving her a solution - unless you want to.
your post reeks of insensitivity. Do you know how many bad eggs are there in society? Lmao. Even the one you're currently dating, give it time. Don't blow your trumpet yet. Everything isn't black and white.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Tenrack: 3:41pm On Jul 05
meobizy:
Everybody na professional for woman affairs for Nairaland. Who then are the men simping for women in the real world?
you dey mind dem. Some go dey do as if dem Sabi everything lol.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by HelenaWills(f): 5:09pm On Jul 05
You only attract your type.
Shikena.
Man dey buy me car as birthday gift, na "I'm not fine" e go run from?
You buy, you no buy, I buy times 10 of it.
C'est fini.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Stephen0mozzy: 5:09pm On Jul 05
Tenrack:
your post reeks of insensitivity. Do you know how many bad eggs are there in society? Lmao. Even the one you're currently dating, give it time. Don't blow your trumpet yet. Everything isn't black and white.
I'm so sorry bro. It's so sad that you've only been able to attract bad eggs. But you know what they say. Like terms attract.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by chiiraq802(m): 6:10pm On Jul 05
Me; how are you?

Loot; I'm not fine oooo

Me again; The Lord is your strength.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Tenrack: 6:55pm On Jul 05
Stephen0mozzy:
I'm so sorry bro. It's so sad that you've only been able to attract bad eggs. But you know what they say. Like terms attract.
You're most definitely still teething. Lmao.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Diamond098454(f): 9:06pm On Jul 05
You like women a lot
Stop pretending
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed

I Sabi their code na. Once I ask banny say--"How are you?". She come get mind reply -"Not fine" angry. Omoh,that's the end of discussion angry. I won't even bother to waste my precious time on chatting you anymore,cuz from that minute,I go just realize say na bandit you be angry. And it's very obvious say you dey after my pocket and also after my life angry

Na why my Blocklist on Whatsapp no dey smile these days be that angry
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Diamond098454(f): 9:11pm On Jul 05
A beautiful girl don't have a guy (s) in her life including admirers? Hmmmmm the way you guys talk in this forum hmmmmm
Goo0dHardDick:
women know and understand the scope now that men are wiser than before.

Do you know there are more single and lonely girls crying for lack of men to s€x them than men are? I met 7 girls in 2 weeks and they all told me the same stories that they've been lonely and bored.

Do you know that majority of girls don't get guys toasting them on the road? This is why I volunteered myself to be warming the holes between their legs.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Diamond098454(f): 9:17pm On Jul 05
Good question
meobizy:
Everybody na professional for woman affairs for Nairaland. Who then are the men simping for women in the real world?
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Diamond098454(f):
They are meeting there type that's all
yarimo:
If she responds I am not fine, just tell her I wish you all the best. Change to another topic or just go offline.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Diamond098454(f): 9:22pm On Jul 05
Don't mind them
We know there type
Nairaland noisemakers
meobizy:
Internet noise doesn’t result in real life action. See voting results and planned protests for example. Online noise starts and ends on the internet. The same guys “awakening” online are simping for females in their neighbourhood. They only come online to form Bruce Lee.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by vibbb: 9:30pm On Jul 05
If it's not cooking gas, then it's data subscription.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by RollinTNDA:
Us wey go dey listen to her sad story dey chew chicken.
She go dey hear soundtrack of chicken bones breaking and me saying Eyaaaah every 2 minutes cheesy grin grin grin Shishi she no go see
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by ZUBY77(m): 9:32pm On Jul 05
Women has never been fine.
Even if she says "I am fine" watch out for the follow up, that's when she adds "but"
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by BareFacedLies(m): 9:33pm On Jul 05
No more questions from me after that grin
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Hezzyluv: 9:36pm On Jul 05
If she say, "I'm not fine," my response will be, Na so everywhere dey oooo everybody no just dey fine these days, may God help us. grin
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by olamieseun(m): 9:41pm On Jul 05
My next action is run faster Dan jet
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by vick00(m): 9:41pm On Jul 05
Just Japa straight. Because I have not eaten or other billing will come next if you ask what happened?

Yeye peope
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