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Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... - Romance (4) - Nairaland

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Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Quintuple: 8:44am On Jul 06
I will ask why and after her response, i will say Eyyah and hibernate
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by 190: 8:49am On Jul 06
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed

I Sabi their code na. Once I ask banny say--"How are you?". She come get mind reply -"Not fine" angry. Omoh,that's the end of discussion angry. I won't even bother to waste my precious time on chatting you anymore,cuz from that minute,I go just realize say na bandit you be angry. And it's very obvious say you dey after my pocket and also after my life angry

Na why my Blocklist on Whatsapp no dey smile these days be that angry
[color=RED] ROTFLMFAO! grin grin grin [/color]
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Lovit(m): 8:50am On Jul 06
Stephen0mozzy:
Oh no no. Girls actually know the kind of guys they "bill" senselessly. For one, if you have hungry girls in your CL, then the problem is you - you need to find girls wey get class - just that girls with class they make some guys fear.

That's why many of them dey date rubbish, and generalize that all girls are bad.

Find a girl that can stimulate, engage and even initiate brain-wracking conversations.

It's okay to ask a person why they're not fine. If you care for someone you'd want to know.

Unless you're her husband or father, you don't have the responsibility of giving her a solution - unless you want to.
Those ones will still bill you, they use a different format

All Nigerian girls/women dey bill men steady whether you ask her ''how are you'' or not

Just give what you can afford or know how to ignore some of them sometimes no matter how much they push you to press money

btw, make sure you dey knack am steady as compensation

No go dey press money for girl wey go dey use your head. Press the money if you want but make sure, you're getting something in return
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by 190: 9:02am On Jul 06
Lexusgs430:
When she tells you she is not fine, the best way to deal with the situation is......

You too start by pouring out all your problems (before she starts to download)..... She go see say, problem don jam problem....... 😂🤣
grin grin grin
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Lamasta(m): 9:52am On Jul 06
Stephen0mozzy:
Oh no no. Girls actually know the kind of guys they "bill" senselessly. For one, if you have hungry girls in your CL, then the problem is you - you need to find girls wey get class - just that girls with class they make some guys fear.

That's why many of them dey date rubbish, and generalize that all girls are bad.

Find a girl that can stimulate, engage and even initiate brain-wracking conversations.

It's okay to ask a person why they're not fine. If you care for someone you'd want to know.

Unless you're her husband or father, you don't have the responsibility of giving her a solution - unless you want to.
Be there typing epistle grin
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by 7arrows: 9:55am On Jul 06
Asking an average nigeria babe HOW ARE U IS A MISTAKE. She'll surely say shes not fine and it will cost you money. Ive stopped asking that question long ago. I rather say I guess u r good. That one doesn't demand any response.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by 7arrows: 9:55am On Jul 06
yarimo:
If she responds I am not fine, just tell her I wish you all the best. Change to another topic or just go offline.
Yes o
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Goo0dHardDick: 10:10am On Jul 06
Rupertek:
You met 7 girls in 2 weeks? Do you actually do another work?
E shock you too abi? Understand that not all guys are afraid of staring at women let alone approaching them. I understand your lever cuts whenever you see beautiful girls. My kind sees talking to women as completely normal.

Check out my posts on how to build your Confidence level.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Goo0dHardDick: 10:15am On Jul 06
Mrexcell:
And you foolishly believed them? Oga no go and kill urself oh for nothing those ladies are lieing to u the truth is u can't actually satisfy any of them because women generally are isatiable.
Are you a 🤡?

97% girls don't have guys toasting let them approaching them. The ones on their Dm are not serious. This is exactly why I made the post about calling a girl is more effective.

Which one is satisfying them? U only have fun with girls, smash them and go your way until you need their holes again. Except you meant wasting your money on them which is what I'll never do!

Learn game my bro. Women are crying for lack of men. Alot of guys are afraid of approaching a beautiful hot girl they see on the road. Their levers dey cut and hearts starts beating fast
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Wotowotoman: 10:17am On Jul 06
7arrows:
Asking an average nigeria babe HOW ARE U IS A MISTAKE. She'll surely say shes not fine and it will cost you money. Ive stopped asking that question long ago. I rather say I guess u r good. That one doesn't demand any response.
Ogbeni, if she responds with ‘I’m not good o’ is that not the same as ‘I’m not fine’ ? huh
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Biodun1929(m): 10:38am On Jul 06
That's why I never ask that question. I just say, how u dey.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by sumomoh101: 10:43am On Jul 06
Though not always all the time but in most cases.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Whois(m): 11:23am On Jul 06
You've made matter worst. If she need money to see doctor or to get drugs nko

Zonefree:
If she's not fine, advice her to see a doctor.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Silentgroper(m): 12:32pm On Jul 06
Because they bill me doesn't mean I have to give ..

If you're good at deflecting and whynin, you won't need to drop funds...
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Silentgroper(m): 12:38pm On Jul 06
Btw, I never ask how are you , it is "you good?? .. which she either reply with yes/No ..
And my response is usually "cool"


The thing is don't always start your conversation with "how are you"
.

Just say "what'sup" and say whatever you want to say. .

All those "how are you" have you eaten question no dey end well...
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by bluejay05: 12:44pm On Jul 06
Goo0dHardDick:
women know and understand the scope now that men are wiser than before.

Do you know there are more single and lonely girls crying for lack of men to s€x them than men are? I met 7 girls in 2 weeks and they all told me the same stories that they've been lonely and bored.

Do you know that majority of girls don't get guys toasting them on the road? This is why I volunteered myself to be warming the holes between their legs.
HIV is also warming you body... Good luck to you in you new found business
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Love800(m): 12:50pm On Jul 06
I don't ask questions about how you faring, doing or your general well-being.
I just go into topics.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by 7arrows: 2:11pm On Jul 06
Wotowotoman:
Ogbeni, if she responds with ‘I’m not good o’ is that not the same as ‘I’m not fine’ ? huh
Alaye, its not the Im not good or im not fine that matters. What matters is the folow up. Eg. Make i send my account. Send me credit, send me data. House rent support. Borrow me small thing. Anything for your girl hahahahahha baba e plenty o.
Make I give u task. Call 10 of your female Nigerian friends and ask them how you dey? Be kind enough to Drop their responses here.

Thanks
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Wenonawde(m): 2:38pm On Jul 06
HelenaWills:
You only attract your type.
Shikena.
Man dey buy me car as birthday gift, na "I'm not fine" e go run from?
You buy, you no buy, I buy times 10 of it.
C'est fini.
Na mouth you get !! Which car they buy u ? Who you wan impress here with ur nonsense talk ? Faceless platform u dey brag.
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Wotowotoman: 5:50pm On Jul 06
7arrows:
Alaye, its not the Im not good or im not fine that matters. What matters is the folow up. Eg. Make i send my account. Send me credit, send me data. House rent support. Borrow me small thing. Anything for your girl hahahahahha baba e plenty o.
Make I give u task. Call 10 of your female Nigerian friends and ask them how you dey? Be kind enough to Drop their responses here.

Thanks
Luckily for me, I don’t have brokies as female friends. Thankfully, my female friends all have money. Na them dey even send me message to check if I dey okay. My number one rule in life is to avoid broke babes. Even if the babe too fine and I no fit resist, I go run am with one number wey I dey only use for operation. She no go fit reach me after the mission angry

I wonder wetin you go come talk about Kalulu44 wey dem no Dey even bother to bill. Once he ask them how dem dey, dem go just japa. Igboro ti daru o grin grin
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by yommysure(m): 6:05pm On Jul 06
tfelicityk:
I have asked some women - "How are you doing"? Some responded "I am not fine". I end up telling them to "Make yourself happy no matter the situation".

Few once asked me to give her money. I told her what work have I asked her to do that she is requesting for money from me without respect and dignity.
You’re brutal!!
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by tfelicityk(m): 9:47pm On Jul 06
yommysure:
You’re brutal!!
Alright ooooo
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by GenFunction: 11:20pm On Jul 06
Them no Dey ask Nigerian girl “why”? o
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Sirpc(m): 9:16am On Jul 07
The moment she replied "I am not fine" simply tell here "U will be alright, OK" without asking her what the problem is
Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by 7arrows: 7:31am On Jul 16
Wotowotoman:
Luckily for me, I don’t have brokies as female friends. Thankfully, my female friends all have money. Na them dey even send me message to check if I dey okay. My number one rule in life is to avoid broke babes. Even if the babe too fine and I no fit resist, I go run am with one number wey I dey only use for operation. She no go fit reach me after the mission angry

I wonder wetin you go come talk about Kalulu44 wey dem no Dey even bother to bill. Once he ask them how dem dey, dem go just japa. Igboro ti daru o grin grin
Hahahahah. Omo lucky you. I like ur rule I swear. No broke babes thats a good one to start with.
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