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I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Martdc(op): 9:03pm On Jul 05

We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by rickpat(m): 9:11pm On Jul 05*

You have gone pass the butterfly stage....this is the stage of stability, trust me,if you can past the stage,your relationship becomes very very strong, its good you still find things like her care and all that very important and enjoyable,those will keep you going till the sex rekindle again....

If you end it and get a new girl...at the early stages..the sex will be good but later on you will still get to this stage again...

Pass this stage and you have a way better and comfortable relationship

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by RollinTNDA: 9:21pm On Jul 05*

Na who chop bellyful dey get butterfly for stomach.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by RollinTNDA: 9:21pm On Jul 05

U no hear say dem dey on strike?

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Bankowner: 9:33pm On Jul 05

Your butterflies moved on a long time ago, about time you moved to join them wherever they are. Allow the girl get fresh air and attract new butterflies too.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Sonnobax15(m): 9:50pm On Jul 05

Na so man life suppose be,bro.

There's time to be wasteful and there's time to be focused.

You no know wetin God don do for you so. For a man to master his ability to do without a sexxxx,it simply means you've overcome more than half of your earthly problems already.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Martdc(op): 10:16pm On Jul 05

Things choke for my side right now. Responsibility don full shoulder. Life hard guy….. thinking wan finish man

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by WhiteIverson: 11:59pm On Jul 05

That's what 3 years of sex with the same person can do.

Even if that girl is Rihanna or Beyonce, after 3 years, you will eventually get tired.

Now you see what married people go through, even though they'll deny it.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Suicideboy: 9:12am On Jul 06

Virgin boy.

She don turn you down go cry under your pillow .

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Hungrychicken(m): 9:36am On Jul 06

Hunger don kill the butterflies in your tummy! cry

Tinubu, nice one! embarassed

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by spiceadole(f): 10:40am On Jul 06*

You are enjoying oh.
Send her away and get another girl to cohabit with.
Keep changing them since the ladies don't want to have sense

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by galantjoe(m): 12:11pm On Jul 06

Mr. Man. You need a therapy

Let me quickly give you tips

1. Advice her to wear those cloth you like or you fantasize about. For example I don't like my woman to wear tight if we re to have sxx. Tight often dull my fantasy
2. Advice her to smell good. Let her apply good body spray and rollon
3. Advice her to have good pubic health. For example I don't like seeing pubic hairs in my gal's v. But some people like hairy v.
4. Advice her to say romantic words during romance. Most women use opportunity whenever they re having sxx with their men to demand for one things or other. They will remember all their needs, wants during or after sxx. As for me it make my prrick fall immediately such demands are made.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by kingbee90: 12:17pm On Jul 06

It's either you are depressed or you are turning gayy.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by kiddaz: 12:29pm On Jul 06

She's staying with you, you haven't had sex in 2 whole months and she's okay with it? I no know why you go start wetin you no fit finish. If the sexually frustrated girl go collect wetin no good for outside na same you go dey shout and call her names. I know say country hard but you should not be cohabiting and forming marriage if you can't do what's necessary. Problems will never end so long as you are alive, so getting worked up or frustrated because things aren't going your way right now is baseless. Create time to enjoy, it's a must if you want to live long, even if it's just the two of you indoors doing the things you like to do for fun or just let her go so you can focus on what is more important to you right now. She's probably already spreading for someone close by that you may or may not know undecided

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by tonymyke4life(m): 12:57pm On Jul 06

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by FriendsAndFans(m): 6:00pm On Jul 06

It's either one of you is cheating that's why subconsciously you find each other unappealing or unattractive again.
In order to start bonding again, you have to start kissing each other more often.

Sex can get really tiring and exhausting once you hit 35 and when you or your woman doesn't keep good hygiene.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Amovingman: 6:08pm On Jul 06

I disvirgin my gf but she don't have breast nipples cry

How will she breastfeed my future kids

Kindly help me too please

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by jojothaiv(m): 6:09pm On Jul 06

Abeg help me tell am o.

Butterfly ke when na hot eba full our own stomachs.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by fykes(m): 6:09pm On Jul 06

Omo...no come disturb us with your silly sentiments. Your mates are chasing a better govt and future for the next generation

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by DMCA: 6:09pm On Jul 06

na fly u d feel for stomach now? grin

take a time out.
even ur favorite food, if u chop everyday for a long time, e d come tire u.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by franchasng: 6:09pm On Jul 06

Hope you are not having any suicide thoughts please?

Because whenever a man or woman starts to withdraw from social and general life activities, its a sign of danger.

It's a sign of psychological trauma.

Is everything going fine with your job, business, finances and health?

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by PlayerMeji: 6:09pm On Jul 06

Welcome to married life, my brother!

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Gbadugbakun(m): 6:10pm On Jul 06

Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by dermmy(m): 6:11pm On Jul 06

Can you feel squirrel in your stomach @ op

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Haydens: 6:11pm On Jul 06

Relationship is overrated. It's either polygamy or single then jump from one kitten to another, e no pass that one. Cos tell me why I'll be with one woman for the rest of my life e go tire me na. I go dey see same face everyday.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Omoawoke(m): 6:11pm On Jul 06

I feel there was some bugs in coding during the biology of the human male for reproduction… so that’s why human male easily loses attraction once they have confirmed the coochie instead of having stronger bonds

And at other times, I felt it wasn’t a bug but deliberately done so that the male would be more adventurous to continue to fertilize as many females as possible for the law of selective survival of a specie

@op you are completely normal, whether its a bug or a deliberate act by the creator, Men have been made to hunger for new adventures …

But for sanity sake, it’s not every time we answer to nature, you can discipline your mind and focus on what you have and keep her

Pocohantas what do you think?

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by bluefilm: 6:12pm On Jul 06

Give it some time

It will pass

Attraction always fades

The bigger problem you might have to worry about is not having any interest any more in other girls

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by bluefilm: 6:14pm On Jul 06

But you still want your one woman to never be tired of seeing your face?

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by 12345baba(m): 6:17pm On Jul 06

See wetin cohabiting dey cause. This maga done chop free kpekus come here dey speak smelly English. No marry that girl first, na evil spirit you go end up marry. U do everything a man does, wtf do u think a man does. Amadioha gbajie gi onu there

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Goo0dHardDick: 6:18pm On Jul 06

Happened to me countless times before. Tell her to go back to her family or whoever she was living with before she started staying with you.

U need space from her. Sadly you have emotionally and sexually detached from her already and I doubt if that feelings will ever return. Sometimes I manage how 2 people get married and live forever! Lol, it can never be me!

OP, send her out of your and have fun with other girls. I understand you're feeling like you're a cage in your own house, lol. The girl set don see free house with free food.

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Nnamdipapa(m): 6:19pm On Jul 06

Now, imagine you being married to her and staying with her for the next 10 years

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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Haydens: 6:20pm On Jul 06

"Different women tho" if one keeps on seeing my face she'll get tired. Na why I will be going from their different houses every month so that one won't get tired.

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