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Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Nnamdipapa(m): 8:02pm On Jul 06
SmartyPants:
If you notice he said he has lost desire for other women in general not just his wife.
His wife might have made him lose his desire for other women. It can happen too, until he meets that special woman who matches his energy enough to awaken the sexual lion he thought had died inside.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Nnamdipapa(m): 8:03pm On Jul 06
greypencils:
Sex gets boring in relationships when either or both couples are unambitious. Ambition takes you out, makes you meet people, either you have a business or you are working, you are genuinely busy, you are meeting people and dressing to impress the people you meet. You or your woman cant go on a 4 day trip without her looking delicious as soon as you or her returns. The urge for sex will come.

But in the case of the OP, I bet the woman moved into his place and She does nothing. She doesnt travel, She doesnt work. She is average looking and bland, a proper housewife without the ring, Why wont boredom set in?
I agree, your point could also be a big factor.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by dettolgel: 8:04pm On Jul 06
Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
You don knack her tire your body don calm down abi ? grin
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by engrchykae(m): 8:11pm On Jul 06
You have grown up.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by DextrousD: 8:12pm On Jul 06
Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
Bro.. Jesus is coming soon o.

God does not like sin oooo.

He will forgive you today, if you repent.🙏🏼
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by SeriouslySense(m): 8:22pm On Jul 06
Is sex the only enjayable thing in this world, I can wait to have an animal farm grin, or go for adventures.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Kalulu44: 9:03pm On Jul 06
Better go buy butterfly and swallow to feel it again
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by fredoooooo: 9:11pm On Jul 06
Dem no touch am atall .
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by mirrael68(m): 9:17pm On Jul 06
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Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.


I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
Sex outside marriage will only destroy you.
Even if you marry her, you ll still pay for these months of disobedience. Many problems have entered your life now but you won't know yet.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by mirrael68(m): 9:19pm On Jul 06
Nnamdipapa:
I agree, your point could also be a big factor.
No it's not that.
You are suffering from slavery to sin
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by LIVINGICONREBOR: 9:44pm On Jul 06
At least you don experience wetin married folks dey face.🥱🥱
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Berankis:
Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
Stick with her. Marriage is like that sometimes.
A woman you have been living with for 3years is as good your wife and you are in marriage.
Marriage is more of love than just sexual attractions.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by SonOfWords(m): 9:54pm On Jul 06
RollinTNDA:
Na who chop bellyful dey get butterfly for stomach.
No mind the muntula!

Country dey spoil, the aneemal dey busy dey find butterflies for stomach.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by yinkeys(m):
I put up good advice b..ot deleted it and ba…..nned me
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by MrCaesar: 10:46pm On Jul 06
Sex is a sin. Living with someone you are not married to didn't stop b coming immoral.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Gwam: 11:42pm On Jul 06
That's kayaMata in action bro...
You're in a really dipShit!
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by GuestInfinity: 1:23am On Jul 07
Why do you think you didn't lose interest in her?

I think when there's deep emotional attachment, you don't lose interest in sex with your partner. Is it that for you?

Nackzy:
the only time don't sleep with my woman is when she's menstruating.. it's been like that die years
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Bibi25(f): 1:25am On Jul 07
I won't take any stride at any woman
Apcshit:
What do you mean she doesn't have nipples? Do you mean her breast is small and flat? I have seen that kind of woman before she was flat breasted I couldn't Straff her without getting bored .We broke up 1 month later.She now has kids but I think she used instant formula to feed her because her breasts can't produce milk
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by ashawopikin(m): 1:46am On Jul 07
Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
don't make a mistake of continuing to be with someone you are not sexually attracted to, it doesn't matter how long you've been dating.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by thomas2024: 2:55am On Jul 07
galantjoe:
Mr. Man. You need a therapy

Let me quickly give you tips

1. Advice her to wear those cloth you like or you fantasize about. For example I don't like my woman to wear tight if we re to have sxx. Tight often dull my fantasy
2. Advice her to smell good. Let her apply good body spray and rollon
3. Advice her to have good pubic health. For example I don't like seeing pubic hairs in my gal's v. But some people like hairy v.
4. Advice her to say romantic words during romance. Most women use opportunity whenever they re having sxx with their men to demand for one things or other. They will remember all their needs, wants during or after sxx. As for me it make my prrick fall immediately such demands are made.
Lol😂 Don’t be shy. How old are you before I say what is on my mind?
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by ussv: 3:30am On Jul 07
It`s clear, you don see finish and chop finish. Nothing new, nothing left
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Difrent: 3:41am On Jul 07
Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
Give eachother some space , live separately for a while and see if things will improve
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by gabbytabby: 4:03am On Jul 07
That is why we advise girls against husband benefits with boyfriend. ENO dey end well.

Him dey look for butterflies that often last 3 to 6 months until life starts to happen.

Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Nackzy: 6:16am On Jul 07
GuestInfinity:
Why do you think you didn't lose interest in her?

I think when there's deep emotional attachment, you don't lose interest in sex with your partner. Is it that for you?
there should be deep emotional attachments you both can build that
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Chinny024(f): 6:39am On Jul 07
Living together?👁️👁️👁️
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by lokito: 7:05am On Jul 07
Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
Butterfly feelings will not put food on both of y'all table. The moment she starts working or doing business and making good money, the moment she becomes resourceful and show you levels and ignore you a little while maintaining that care she gives, you will not only feel butterflies in your stomach, even eagles and ostrich feelings will come.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by ukaface(f): 7:29am On Jul 07
Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
what else do you want to do?
LEAVE OGA
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by piecuntie: 7:44am On Jul 07
Here is me ehnn pursuing my hubby away from d tomtom,it has been 12yrs
You don’t love day girl,u only want the free labor she brings,break up with her and get a live in maid
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by 2buffagain(m): 8:03am On Jul 07
Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
Low testosterone. go get your levels checked at a mens clinic. Also stop soapying.
Re: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by Nnamdipapa(m):
mirrael68:
No, it's not that.
You are suffering from slavery to sin
The concept of Sin is not real. It's a made-up religious contraption to make people feel guilty and easy to control. People do not sin; they either break the law or offend each other.
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