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Rules for dating in 2026 for men!

1) If she doesn't reply, never text her again. Silence is her answer.

2) If she shows low interest, forget about her immediately. Stop investing in low-return stocks.

3) If she has a bunch of tattoos and piercings, think twice before approaching. She might be advertising chaos you don't need in your life.

4) If you met her in a club, she's for fun only. Never take her seriously. Club girls usually belong to the streets.

5) If she disrespects you even once, walk away right then. Respect is non-negotiable. No second chances.

6) If she only texts when she needs something, you're an option, not a priority. Leave and never look back.

7) If she hides you from her friends or social media, she's keeping other doors open. Don't stay.

If she ignores you, walk away and delete her number. Done.

9) If she brings drama early, just imagine what marriage with her would look like. Exit fast.

10) If being with her costs you your peace, your money, or your self-respect, she's too expensive. Cut the loss.

Dear KINGS, don’t ignore these signs. These are signs that tells you exactly what you need to know about her, I have been there and the OP is on point.

Lastly, don’t take any girl that always posts too much memes on status and tells you it’s nothing but cruise, NEVER TAKE THEM SERIOUS.

They post things like “if you no fit press money clear“ “craving sharwama and parfait” “Who will sub for me“ “VC anyone” and posting of random guys etc.

Please kindly pay attention to all these signs else you will see wonders and wonders they say shall never end

True all men should pay attention to this

OlaOfLagos:
Dear KINGS, don’t ignore these signs. These are signs that tells you exactly what you need to know about her, I have been there and the OP is on point.

Lastly, don’t take any girl that always posts too much memes on status and tells you it’s nothing but cruise, NEVER TAKE THEM SERIOUS.

They post things like “if you no fit press money clear“ “craving sharwama and parfait” “Who will sub for me“ “VC anyone” and posting of random guys etc.

Please kindly pay attention to all these signs else you will see wonders and wonders they say shall never end

Preach honorable comrade

Anabosee:
True all men should pay attention to this

Increase the volume

The first and only day I entered a club was during my housemanship year.. I was 26.

An aspirant won NMA elections and decided to celebrate in a club.

I was reluctant to go but my friends were all going and encouraged me to.

We got to the club .. the place was so full and noisy. I didn't understand how people enjoyed such environment and even spent money there.

While others were dancing and vibing, I sat there watching them sipping energy drink.

One guy came and started talking to me. Happened that he was a lab scientist in the hospital where I was undergoing housemanship.
We exchanged numbers that night.
He called in the morning and I blocked him.
We saw on few occasions in the hospital but I never wanted to speak to him outside work business.

The guy vex tire..
But I was happy I didn't loose guard

spiceadole:
The first and only day I entered a club was during my housemanship year.. I was 26.

An aspirant won NMA elections and decided to celebrate in a club.

I was reluctant to go but my friends were all going and encouraged me to.

We got to the club .. the place was so full and noisy. I didn't understand how people enjoyed such environment and even spent money there.

While others were dancing and vibing, I sat there watching them sipping energy drink.

One guy came and started talking to me. Happened that he was a lab scientist in the hospital where I was undergoing housemanship.
We exchanged numbers that night.
He called in the morning and I blocked him.
We saw on few occasions in the hospital but I never wanted to speak to him outside work business.

The guy vex tire..
But I was happy I didn't loose guard

Where una (type) dey always hide whenever we're looking for the right ones to marry, huh !?

And before we know, boom! Them don marry una comot from market ! I'm happy for you though . Decency pays.. A lot..

Some of us men don't hate marriage, we just don't want to do it with the wrong women (indecent, liability, misandrist/bitterist, etc)...

spiceadole:
The first and only day I entered a club was during my housemanship year.. I was 26.

An aspirant won NMA elections and decided to celebrate in a club.

I was reluctant to go but my friends were all going and encouraged me to.

We got to the club .. the place was so full and noisy. I didn't understand how people enjoyed such environment and even spent money there.

While others were dancing and vibing, I sat there watching them sipping energy drink.

One guy came and started talking to me. Happened that he was a lab scientist in the hospital where I was undergoing housemanship.
We exchanged numbers that night.
He called in the morning and I blocked him.
We saw on few occasions in the hospital but I never wanted to speak to him outside work business.

The guy vex tire..
But I was happy I didn't loose guard

wish more women today were like you. Many Women today are losing value as the day passes. They have no principles. Anything goes. It's sad. Na men wey carry marriage for head I pity pass. They'll surely end up with rubbish.

YoungLionken:
Where una (type) dey always hide whenever we're looking for the right ones to marry, huh !?

And before we know, boom! Them don marry una comot from market ! I'm happy for you though . Decency pays.. A lot..

Some of us men don't hate marriage, we just don't want to do it with the wrong women (indecent, liability, misandrist/bitterist, etc)...

Hehehehehe..
We dey..
But we are not light skinned.
We don't gallivant around parties ,trying to attract attention.
We do not wear expensive wigs and apply heavy makeups.
We don't have big breasts and big yansh.
We don't wear skimpy outfits.
We don't agree to have sex on (first) dates.
We don't want to cohabit or sleep over in men's houses.
We easily pass by unnoticed.
Many men don't like us.
They say we are "local" and not classy.

That's the difference.

spiceadole:
Hehehehehe..
We dey..
But we are not light skinned.
We don't gallivant around parties ,trying to attract attention.
We do not wear expensive wigs and apply heavy makeups.
We don't have big breasts and big yansh.
We don't wear skimpy outfits.
We don't agree to have sex on (first) dates.
We don't want to cohabit or sleep over in men's houses.
We easily pass by unnoticed.
Many men don't like us.
They say we are "local" and not classy.

That's the difference.

You're right..

However, the opposite of what you mentioned up there is what we men don't want to settle with (we meet those slay queens for sexx/pleasure only). We may desire them for sexx but not for something serious. That's why when sexx tape leaks or a girl dancing naked online, we don't mind streaming and even cheering the girl because we don't care, but let it be our own (sis, partner) and see the red eye and a sad/troubled heart we would give..

Your type you described up there, most are wife materials but too religious and by so doing, superstitious; I once dated one like that but the red flag was "my pastor say, my pastor say". She literally sought approval from her pastor on almost everything. Again, she doesn't believe that anything natural can happen without reading spiritual meaning to it. So, instead of seeing a partner, I saw my mother. I already have my mom, didn't need another woman as my 2nd mom, so I had to let go...

If she is below you in financial or societal status, don't date her. She will not date you if positions are reversed.

YoungLionken:
You're right..

However, the opposite of what you mentioned up there is what we men don't want to settle with (we meet those slay queens for sexx/pleasure only). We may desire them for sexx but not for something serious. That's why when sexx tape leaks or a girl dancing naked online, we don't mind streaming and even cheering the girl because we don't care, but let it be our own (sis, partner) and see the red eye and a sad/troubled heart we would give..

Your type you described up there, most are wife materials but too religious and by so doing, superstitious; I once dated one like that but the red flag was "my pastor say, my pastor say". She literally sought approval from her pastor on almost everything. Again, she doesn't believe that anything natural can happen without reading spiritual meaning to it. So, instead of seeing a partner, I saw my mother. I already have my mom, didn't need another woman as my 2nd mom, so I had to let go...

Well, you have a point.
But speaking for myself, I'm not a religious person.
I stopped attending church when I left home for medical school as a teenager.

My mother is very religious and it irks me.
I swore I will not be like her.
I intentionally didn't have a church wedding. I did traditional and court.
Religion doesn't define me.
Conscience, morality and self esteem do.

Meanwhile, your assertion about "loose" ladies is not completely true.
On the contrary, a lot of these ladies end up marrying great guys and earlier than a lot of their decent counterparts.
Men like sex too much and can go any extent for it,that's why they subconsciously marry bi.tc.hes

A "decent" girlfriend refuses to have premarital sex.The man dumps her and moves to another lady who has no value or discipline over her body.Before you know it, the girl is pregnant and he marries her. It happens all the time.
Tomorrow,he begins to cry about DNA

spiceadole:
Hehehehehe..
We dey..
But we are not light skinned.
We don't gallivant around parties ,trying to attract attention.
We do not wear expensive wigs and apply heavy makeups.
We don't have big breasts and big yansh.
We don't wear skimpy outfits.
We don't agree to have sex on (first) dates.
We don't want to cohabit or sleep over in men's houses.
We easily pass by unnoticed.
Many men don't like us.
They say we are "local" and not classy.

That's the difference.

Who cares about light skin, fck that,,, black melanin and petite for real niqqas like me, would like to see how you look like